<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Relationships]]></title><description><![CDATA[Strong families start with strong relationships. This is a space to talk about marriage, in-laws, and the ups and downs of family life while raising children.]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/category/36</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2026 22:08:33 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/category/36.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2026 05:05:19 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Young mothers in Singapore]]></title><description><![CDATA[I just read it and I get what you mean!
This is why I prefer to read NYT — very personal stories too, but the angle is clear.
I had my first kid at 29, so not young at all, in comparison! But that feeling of not being prepared is universal…
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The friendship happened because of timing — we lived on a floor with 3 other young families, kids were all under 10, and we left our doors open every day. I think the first icebreaker was me helping my gf to contact other moms with spare breastmilk via the SG Motherhood forum! Then we just got close after that.
At the time, we always popped in and out of one another’s homes to have coffee and let the kids play with one another. I was wfh but freelance at the time, so I had more energy to devote for all of this, including the clean up afterwards!
All the families moved out after 5 years and our new neighbourhood has more of the bingo/retirement vibe haha. We’re comfortable with most neighbours and trust the family next door, but nothing like lift landing xmas parties, having a communal foosball table, or any of the other stuff from our previous neighbourhood
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Shared this on my stories yesterday!
In my own family, relationships are not perfect, but our ethos is to never trouble others. My husband’s family is more of “let’s share our troubles and joys”… but as an observer, what I see is that people are more often weighed down by one another, than lifted up.
My husband’s aunt visited us two weeks ago. She’s almost 60, and she remarked that she felt she had aged so much over the last 10 years. And yes, many things happened on their side. From bigger problems like financial irresponsibility, to daily communication habits that stir negativity more often than foster closeness.
For me, I keep myself very busy and try to avoid “hasslers” as best as I can! It can be very challenging to hold boundaries, especially in close-knit Asian families.
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@sharonkhoo @rinsider
Wondering how you both define “sparks?”
I think physical chemistry/attraction is essential when you first meet someone and want to date them.

“Sparks” - physical attraction, but also just the excitement in spending time with the person? As you said, like the early years of courtship and marriage.
My take is that it’s unrealistic (and emotionally exhausting!) to experience that all the time through a long marriage. But the occasional spark is good (maybe essential) in a long marriage? Expectations of how this will look like and feel like should change over the years; if not, there is bound to be disappointment. It would be sad (I feel) if there is no longer that joy when we meet after a day apart, or that interest in hearing what the other is currently working on, feeling deeply or concerned about etc. And there’s great joy in being able to share memories, build on shared experiences, share jokes, etc. My kids sometimes complain that we read each others’ minds, and they can’t follow our thought processes because they aren’t verbalised!
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/111866/over-familiarity-vs-needs</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/111866/over-familiarity-vs-needs</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 20:47:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Curfews and such!]]></title><description><![CDATA[@rinsider said in Curfews and such!:

@sharonkhoo that’s cool that they know how to inform and update! Back in my time, I never let my parents know where I was and they didn’t bother 

They’re girls! My parents were even stricter with me - I had a “nightfall” curfew (unless I had arranged to be sent home by a trusted friend’s parent or stayed over with a trusted friend - trusted by my parents!) until I went to university! I studied in the UK, so it wasn’t feasible for them to control me then - even email hadn’t been invented yet! My parents were less strict with my brother, and I might have been if with sons if I had any.
Anyway, we regard informing the rest of the family as a gesture of courtesy and consideration, and with WA now, there is really no reason not to inform. All of us keep the rest informed if we are doing something outside our regular schedule, or we’re going to be back later than expected.
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I’m Anisah, an undergraduate from the Singapore Institute of Technology (SIT). My team and I are conducting a study to better understand the experiences of siblings to individuals with special needs.
If you are a parent to a child with special needs and have other children who are 18 years or older, we would be truly grateful if you could help us by sharing our survey with them: https://tinyurl.com/sibquestionnaire
Your support will make a meaningful difference, as it will help us learn more about how siblings’ health and well-being are shaped by their unique experiences.
Thank you so much for considering, and for helping us give a voice to siblings’ perspectives!
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/111143/seeking-parents-help-share-our-survey-with-siblings-of-children-with-special-needs</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/111143/seeking-parents-help-share-our-survey-with-siblings-of-children-with-special-needs</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[nisahhani]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2025 09:03:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Helping Parents Connect Better with Their Kids — Would Love Your Input]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hi! We’re Delson Kim and Marcus Toh from Singapore Management University, and we’re working on a project close to our hearts — something gentle and playful to help parents feel more connected with their kids in everyday moments.
We’ve put together a short survey to learn from parents of primary school children aged 7 to 12— what connection looks like, when kids open up, and what feels natural (or not).
If you’re a parent, we’d be so grateful if you could take just take a moment to share your experience. Your answers will directly shape what we’re building.
[https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeRLNplgWaJFLp-SbrDeR6Cryt3cfT4L7EiX82Ri_NdXcM-fA/viewform?usp=sharing&amp;ouid=116083845136501953418]
Thank you so much!
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/110504/helping-parents-connect-better-with-their-kids-would-love-your-input</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/110504/helping-parents-connect-better-with-their-kids-would-love-your-input</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Delsonnn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 08:28:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Navigating Parenting Challenges with Asperger&#x27;s Syndrome]]></title><description><![CDATA[@waqar3214 said in Navigating Parenting Challenges with Asperger's Syndrome:

Navigating Parenting Challenges with Asperger’s Syndrome
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waqar3214
20 Sept 2024, 17:41
Supporting Kids with Asperger’s: Effective Strategies and Resources
As parents, we often face unique challenges when raising children with Asperger’s Syndrome. It’s important to foster their social skills and emotional well-being while ensuring they feel understood and supported.
Communication is Key: Engaging in consistent, open conversations at home can reinforce the skills they learn in therapy. Collaborating with psychologists to establish clear social boundaries can provide a structured environment for your child to thrive.
For additional support, consider exploring resources like Seattle Hypnotherapy Services to help your child with emotional regulation and self-empowerment. These approaches can be valuable in complementing traditional therapies.
If you’re looking to expand your own skills to better support your child, Professional Hypnotherapy Training Courses  can provide valuable insights into effective communication and coping strategies.

Thank you for sharing these insights! Raising children with Asperger’s Syndrome definitely comes with unique challenges, but your emphasis on communication and structured support is spot-on. I especially appreciate the focus on collaboration with psychologists and creating a consistent environment—it really helps children feel secure while developing social skills.
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]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105131/kids-with-asperger</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105131/kids-with-asperger</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaser23]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2024 03:26:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Should or should not adopt?]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105075/should-or-should-not-adopt</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105075/should-or-should-not-adopt</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2024 08:05:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Kindly seeking parent participants for a psychological study]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105066/kindly-seeking-parent-participants-for-a-psychological-study</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/105066/kindly-seeking-parent-participants-for-a-psychological-study</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2024 08:28:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parental Matchmaking Network]]></title><description><![CDATA[A networking and sharing online session for parents who want to play a proactive role in their adult single child life partner journey Friday 8 Mar 8pmhttps://matchmakers.sg/index.php?option=com_community&amp;view=events&amp;task=viewevent&amp;eventid=1&amp;Itemid=124]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104836/parental-matchmaking-network</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104836/parental-matchmaking-network</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tennis_dad]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 07:44:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[25th anniversary ideas]]></title><description><![CDATA[@lee_yl said in 25th anniversary ideas:

Oh wow, very nice and interesting idea! Thank you!

I agree, that seems like a really enjoyable and unique way to celebrate!  That kind of family vacation adds even more significance to the milestone.
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104821/25th-anniversary-ideas</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104821/25th-anniversary-ideas</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Zack690]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2024 01:14:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Marital house issues]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104593/marital-house-issues</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104593/marital-house-issues</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2023 15:08:35 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Niece wants us to buy her KPOP concert ticket overseas]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104436/niece-wants-us-to-buy-her-kpop-concert-ticket-overseas</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104436/niece-wants-us-to-buy-her-kpop-concert-ticket-overseas</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Oct 2023 13:27:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anxiety - daughter going to stay at university hall]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104032/anxiety-daughter-going-to-stay-at-university-hall</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104032/anxiety-daughter-going-to-stay-at-university-hall</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2023 08:44:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parents whose child is in NS...]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104016/parents-whose-child-is-in-ns</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104016/parents-whose-child-is-in-ns</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2023 15:47:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do you have a good relationships with your parents or parent-in-laws?]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104015/do-you-have-a-good-relationships-with-your-parents-or-parent-in-laws</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/104015/do-you-have-a-good-relationships-with-your-parents-or-parent-in-laws</guid><pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2023 15:39:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[CNY 2023]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/103399/cny-2023</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/103399/cny-2023</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2022 09:17:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Strained Relationship with parents]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/102037/strained-relationship-with-parents</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/102037/strained-relationship-with-parents</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2022 23:09:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do u request for cheaper tuition rate now that is HBL for tuition centre during heighten phase 2?]]></title><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/99590/do-u-request-for-cheaper-tuition-rate-now-that-is-hbl-for-tuition-centre-during-heighten-phase-2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/99590/do-u-request-for-cheaper-tuition-rate-now-that-is-hbl-for-tuition-centre-during-heighten-phase-2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2021 09:13:18 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>