Need an advice on office relationship matters
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OK, good. What is buaya by the way? I think I no S'porean, a lot of words, I don't know.
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Flowermonaster:
Sorry for not being clear, my 精神出轨 is referring to people you really know like what valvestate is experiencing now & not those movie stars or singers that are out of your reach. This type is very dangerous. Lust is different, it normally don't last.[/quote]Flower, something just occurred to me. Say for ladies, when they see a guy like a super hero at work, everything also can do well, very capable, everything the hubby is not, so the ladies become very crushing on such a guy, is this considered 精神出轨? I have seen ladies really very 偶 this kind of man until willing to throw themselves at such a man whether the ladies are married or not or the man is married or not, so is this considered 精神出轨? :scratchhead:ksi:
[quote=\"Flowermonaster\"]Being unfaithful is not acceptable but which is worst - spiritually or physically? I always believe that if someone 精神出轨, it's 99.9% goner.
Actually it is true that 精神出轨, it already signals a serious problem. How about the case where a guy watches a movie and fantasizes with the movie actress? That is also 精神出轨.....
Perhaps if we layer the 精神 into 2 parts, usually such 精神出轨 is driven by lust, i.e. not really loving the person.... So I think there is still hope. Having said this, men being men, lust can also rule everything!!! That's what a friend shared with me when her now ex-hub was lured away by lust for a younger girl.... *sigh* -
Mychildren:
OK, good. What is buaya by the way? I think I no S'porean, a lot of words, I don't know.
Your hubby never tells you?
Buaya is Malay word for flirting.
:siam:
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What’s the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?
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Ok understand no flirting. Talk nicely & sweetly to ladies, is it flirting too? I'll not be too sweet to guys now so don't worry or do I need to talk in a harsh way to the opposite gender? :scratchhead:
My DH not locally made so ask him also no answer. -
Mychildren:
What's the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?
Yes admire. They will offer to do things for the guy or offer to accompany the guy to any place. -
ksi:
Do what sort of things like buying coffee or tea or packet meals for the guy? Accompany to what kind of places then?Mychildren:
What's the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?
Yes admire. They will offer to do things for the guy or offer to accompany the guy to any place.
I cannot give right advise/opinion without c..ing whole picture so do provide examples, can? -
Mychildren:
Offer to accompany any place is like a call girl already.ksi:
[quote=\"Mychildren\"]What's the definition of crush first? I mean how do u define it? Is it admire? How they throw, can give examples?
Yes admire. They will offer to do things for the guy or offer to accompany the guy to any place.[/quote]aiya as colleagues la... why you must think 歪歪, 真是不正歪。 :roll:
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i’ve heard of 6 cases of office romance with PRCs n i’m really hating it…
the worst case was that the dh hooked with a PRC secretary and in the end preggie… the dw finally triggered the last straw and left the dh w/o kids… fyi, she has 3 sons with the dh and has abandon them totally… looking at the dw’s actions, u know how much she suffer… where on earth will mum dun want own child!! the dh must be too much so the dw is now taking revenge… see how to PRC is going to take care of total 4 kids…!! -
My office has many of such affairs going on too. Most married though. My ex-company also the same. 65 years old boss got involved with 50 years old admin woman. Now this company also the same. Married men involved with married woman. So common…don’t know what to say anymore. when the accounts girl ignore him, the man got so upset and keep playing love songs in the office. He even stand near the window looking out at ECP. YES, my office is in Tanjong Pagar!! I thought he was going to jump down.
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