<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Whut?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2132966\" time=\"1713677188\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/world/middle-east/satellite-imagery-shows-precision-attack-damaged-air-defence-system-at-iranian-base">https://www.straitstimes.com/world/middle-east/satellite-imagery-shows-precision-attack-damaged-air-defence-system-at-iranian-base</a><br />...</blockquote></blockquote>Honestly speaking, it is good that not much damage was done and the Iranians seem placated.  At least the world lives to see another day.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/103636/whut</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 13:56:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/103636.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sun, 21 Apr 2024 12:57:59 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sun, 21 Apr 2024 05:26:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/world/middle-east/satellite-imagery-shows-precision-attack-damaged-air-defence-system-at-iranian-base">https://www.straitstimes.com/world/middle-east/satellite-imagery-shows-precision-attack-damaged-air-defence-system-at-iranian-base</a><br /><br /><br />If you read the article it actually says in essence satellite imagery shows success of Israel's precision strike on Iranian base, by showing no damage anywhere at the base whatsoever.<br /><br />You cannot make it up. So much for MOE's efforts to teach critical thinking.<br /><br />It's one thing for the New York Times to write whatever propagandist drivel they want. It's another thing for our Straits Times to re-publish it. Stop making Singaporeans dumb. :stupid: <br /><br />Oh wait. Our kiddos don't read the ST any more. Just as well. Maybe they are smarter than us after all.  :siam:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132966</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132966</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Apr 2024 05:26:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sun, 07 Apr 2024 01:20:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2132129\" time=\"1712411686\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/jobs/mom-and-police-refute-claims-they-had-asked-migrant-worker-s-employer-to-deport-him">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/jobs/mom-and-police-refute-claims-they-had-asked-migrant-worker-s-employer-to-deport-him</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/migrant-worker-fired-loan-sharks-bangladeshi-sharif-md-uddin-4247646">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/migrant-worker-fired-loan-sharks-bangladeshi-sharif-md-uddin-4247646</a><br /><br />So, MOM and the police did not advise employer to fire him. The officer on duty just told employer that in this situation, the problem will generally go away when employer fires the employee.<br /><br />Okaaay... :slapshead:</blockquote></blockquote>?? So what constitutes \"advice\"?   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132136</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132136</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[ChiefKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Apr 2024 01:20:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sat, 06 Apr 2024 13:54:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/jobs/mom-and-police-refute-claims-they-had-asked-migrant-worker-s-employer-to-deport-him">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/jobs/mom-and-police-refute-claims-they-had-asked-migrant-worker-s-employer-to-deport-him</a><br /><br /><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/migrant-worker-fired-loan-sharks-bangladeshi-sharif-md-uddin-4247646">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/migrant-worker-fired-loan-sharks-bangladeshi-sharif-md-uddin-4247646</a><br /><br />So, MOM and the police did not advise employer to fire him. The officer on duty just told employer that in this situation, the problem will generally go away when employer fires the employee.<br /><br />Okaaay... :slapshead:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132129</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2132129</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2024 13:54:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 19 Jul 2023 05:48:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/wp-s-leon-perera-and-nicole-seah-resign-over-affair">https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/wp-s-leon-perera-and-nicole-seah-resign-over-affair</a><br /><br /><br />I know WP is PAP Lite, but seriously, no need to copycat until like this one.<br /> :rotflmao:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2114092</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2114092</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jul 2023 05:48:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sat, 22 Apr 2023 02:22:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I get what you mean..if the article is all it is..hmm..where got ppl volunteer to pay one  :?</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106132</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106132</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MrsKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2023 02:22:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sat, 22 Apr 2023 02:06:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2106094\" time=\"1682086512\" user_id=\"43981:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />SG is a developing or developed country?</blockquote></blockquote>That is the wrong question.<br /><br />The correct question is what is Singapore's obligations <i>[I]under the Paris Agreement[/I]</i>, not a pissing contest of whether Singapore is a developing or developed country.<br /><br />Oxford University PPE 1st Class Honours should know the difference. Why is he so keen to help Singaporeans spend our money?  Isn't he supposed to be working for Singapore? Doesn't the WP have better things to do?<br /><br />If Singapore is meant to be paying under the Paris Agreement but is not, you think all those other buaya countries out there in the world will keep quiet? :siao:<br /><br />If Leon Perera wants to pay for his ego, he can use his own money. Stop gaslighting Singaporeans. :mad:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106128</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106128</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2023 02:06:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Sat, 22 Apr 2023 01:32:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2106094\" time=\"1682086512\" user_id=\"43981:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />SG is a developing or developed country?</blockquote></blockquote>Developed<br /><a href="https://www.worldbank.org/en/country/singapore/overview">https://www.worldbank.org/en/country/singapore/overview</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106124</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106124</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2023 01:32:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Fri, 21 Apr 2023 14:15:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">SG is a developing or developed country?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106094</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106094</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[MrsKiasu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2023 14:15:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Fri, 21 Apr 2023 11:26:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/singapore-climate-fund-cop27-developing-country-status-grace-fu-leon-perera-3434661">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/singapore-climate-fund-cop27-developing-country-status-grace-fu-leon-perera-3434661</a><br /><br /><br />I think if Leon Perera is so generous he should donate his own money.   :siao:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106087</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2106087</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2023 11:26:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 12 Apr 2023 02:55:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I think maybe Singapore should poach some junior doctors from the UK. :siam: <br /><br /><br />[youtubeId=fdq3BBJ_Oow][/youtubeId]</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2105056</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2105056</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Apr 2023 02:55:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:57:03 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2104029\" time=\"1680498807\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/english-test-new-citizens-pr-application-survey-3368571">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/english-test-new-citizens-pr-application-survey-3368571</a><br /><br />Funny CNA never mentioned what language the survey was conducted in. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /></blockquote></blockquote>I was going to update you when I saw this earlier...  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" />  <br />500 in a survey is not that good a representation, apart from language used in survey. <br />Age 18-69, is it even distribution across?    Even if it was even, if all  were English speakers then?   :scratchhead:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2104034</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2104034</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:57:03 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:13:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/english-test-new-citizens-pr-application-survey-3368571">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/english-test-new-citizens-pr-application-survey-3368571</a><br /><br /><br />Funny CNA never mentioned what language the survey was conducted in. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2104029</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2104029</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:13:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Mon, 20 Mar 2023 09:42:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2099225\" time=\"1677549840\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><a href="https://www.straitstimes.com/sport/sportsg-and-partners-apologise-after-lapse-in-shoe-recycling-project-uncovered">https://www.straitstimes.com/sport/sportsg-and-partners-apologise-after-lapse-in-shoe-recycling-project-uncovered</a><br /><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/singapore-shoe-recycling-sportsg-donated-footwear-exported-sale-3308626">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/singapore-shoe-recycling-sportsg-donated-footwear-exported-sale-3308626</a><br /><br /> :whut: <br />Is this a recycling project or a publicity stunt?<br /><br />Can someone explain again the meaning of \"recycling\"? Re-using perfectly serviceable things is apparently now a \"lapse\"?<br /><br />I think somebody is letting a bunch of foreign media people set the agenda in Singapore.  And if they are local journalists with Reuters, then something is wrong with our education system.<br />  :slapshead:</blockquote></blockquote><br />An update on the shoes recycling fiasco...<br /><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/shoe-recycling-project-sport-singapore-sportsg-tighten-process-chain-3359281">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/shoe-recycling-project-sport-singapore-sportsg-tighten-process-chain-3359281</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2101891</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2101891</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2023 09:42:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 08:15:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>bbbay\" post_id=\"2099438\" time=\"1677656742\" user_id=\"175278:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />No lah, cannot say cheem. It’s our everyday experiences. We just ignore them. Just that if we stop and look closely at people that behave “weirdly”, look without our usual prejudice (which is the difficult for most of us), we can then see mostly it’s all comes down to 2 things: cravings and aversions.</blockquote></blockquote>It's cheem for me la.<br />My 2 things are simpler: Live and let live.    <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099449</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099449</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 08:15:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 07:45:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sushi88\" post_id=\"2099415\" time=\"1677654387\" user_id=\"100857:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I thought we are discussing about mentally unsound people?   :scratchhead: <br />Frankly, I often cannot relate to your thoughts.....too \"cheem\" for me but it's just me.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /> <br />So just write whatever you want.<br />    <br />It's great if you can analyse them with your usual way of thinking ( I can't claim that I can)  and I hope they can benefit from your thoughts.</blockquote></blockquote>No lah, cannot say cheem. It’s our everyday experiences. We just ignore them. Just that if we stop and look closely at people that behave “weirdly”, look without our usual prejudice (which is the difficult for most of us), we can then see mostly it’s all comes down to 2 things: cravings and aversions.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099438</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099438</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bbbay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 07:45:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 07:06:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>bbbay\" post_id=\"2099393\" time=\"1677650938\" user_id=\"175278:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />It can start with ourselves first. others can wait.<br /><br />we may stop craving for excessive response that can worsen the situation. We may stop averting tough decisions that address the situation. <br /><br />As a by product, other people may then benefit too.  :rahrah:</blockquote></blockquote>I thought we are discussing about mentally unsound people?   :scratchhead: <br />Frankly, I often cannot relate to your thoughts.....too \"cheem\" for me but it's just me.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /> <br />So just write whatever you want.<br />    <br />It's great if you can analyse them with your usual way of thinking ( I can't claim that I can)  and I hope they can benefit from your thoughts.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099415</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099415</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 07:06:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 06:08:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sushi88\" post_id=\"2099294\" time=\"1677639879\" user_id=\"100857:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Try preaching that to people who are obsessed with technology or the peeping Toms who are obsessed with peeping and using technology to help them.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><br /><br />The strength of their minds really depend on themselves.  Sometimes people claim that they are born like that, what can you do?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" />  And truly there are people who are born with a mental condition, they need medication to control themselves, it’s beyond them.  <br /><br />Better way is to learn how to look out for yourself since you cannot control others’ behaviour.   Whatever choice people make, they have to accept the consequences themselves.  However, there are some choices made that affect the community and society and that requires a strong set of values to think beyond self if one still has the willpower working in them(ie, not a mental condition).<br />Unfortunately we are in an era not big on values, something that has eroded over time.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" />  life goes on until it goes out of hand and we will know.  :lol:</blockquote></blockquote>It can start with ourselves first. others can wait.<br /><br />we may stop craving for excessive response that can worsen the situation. We may stop averting tough decisions that address the situation. <br /><br />As a by product, other people may then benefit too.  :rahrah:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099393</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099393</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bbbay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 06:08:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 03:05:51 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2099280\" time=\"1677604308\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />NGOs not the same as charities. NGO is doublespeak for Government Funded Organisation.</blockquote></blockquote>Same same but different… <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099295</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099295</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 03:05:51 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Wed, 01 Mar 2023 03:04:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>bbbay\" post_id=\"2099282\" time=\"1677626470\" user_id=\"175278:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Or we can learn to accept there will always be imperfections. The very thinking everything must goes according to one wish itself cause problems. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> Acceptance reduces tensions. Don’t crave for what we <b><b>think should</b></b> happen and don’t avert things we <b><b>think should not</b></b> happen. Because this world is not perfect. Craving is not the same as wanting to improve. Cravings happen when we are “at all cost” (loosely speaking) mentality even when it’s not possible. Averting is not same as solving problems. Averting happens when we don’t accept the facts.<br /><br />It’s take a long time of constant practice of not craving and not averting. But day by day we will get better than yesterday</blockquote></blockquote>Try preaching that to people who are obsessed with technology or the peeping Toms who are obsessed with peeping and using technology to help them.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><br /><br />The strength of their minds really depend on themselves.  Sometimes people claim that they are born like that, what can you do?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" />  And truly there are people who are born with a mental condition, they need medication to control themselves, it’s beyond them.  <br /><br />Better way is to learn how to look out for yourself since you cannot control others’ behaviour.   Whatever choice people make, they have to accept the consequences themselves.  However, there are some choices made that affect the community and society and that requires a strong set of values to think beyond self if one still has the willpower working in them(ie, not a mental condition).<br />Unfortunately we are in an era not big on values, something that has eroded over time.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" />  life goes on until it goes out of hand and we will know.  :lol:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099294</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099294</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 03:04:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:21:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sushi88\" post_id=\"2099249\" time=\"1677565542\" user_id=\"100857:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br /><br />We just need more mental institutions in the long run if we are not careful.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /></blockquote></blockquote>Or we can learn to accept there will always be imperfections. The very thinking everything must goes according to one wish itself cause problems. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> Acceptance reduces tensions. Don’t crave for what we <b><b>think should</b></b> happen and don’t avert things we <b><b>think should not</b></b> happen. Because this world is not perfect. Craving is not the same as wanting to improve. Cravings happen when we are “at all cost” (loosely speaking) mentality even when it’s not possible. Averting is not same as solving problems. Averting happens when we don’t accept the facts.<br /><br />It’s take a long time of constant practice of not craving and not averting. But day by day we will get better than yesterday<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099282</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099282</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bbbay]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:21:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Tue, 28 Feb 2023 17:11:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">NGOs not the same as charities. NGO is doublespeak for Government Funded Organisation.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099280</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099280</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirate]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 17:11:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Tue, 28 Feb 2023 06:25:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2099245\" time=\"1677562729\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />............<br /><br />Many people forget that just because it is supposed to be a charitable project does not mean that the service providers are necessarily doing it as a charity too. Otherwise all the full time employees working in charitable organizations need not be paid a salary either. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br />..................<br />I am more concerned about <span style="\&quot;color:">what kind of mind</span> would even think to put tracking devices into old shoes. Somebody is trying to create a narrative here.<br /><br />I am going to say \"Look! Balloon!\" here.</blockquote></blockquote>For NGOs and their salaries, can read this article's findings to understand SG's NGO's situation, it's definitely not the likes of Mother Teresa..   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /> <br /><a href="https://sg.news.yahoo.com/earning-charity-sector-110017613.html">https://sg.news.yahoo.com/earning-charity-sector-110017613.html</a><br /><br />My answer for \"what kind of mind\"?  Generally \"today's minds\" where technology is so readily available....scammers, peeping toms and all kinds of weird behaviour are driven by available high tech these days.  We use hi tech to solve problems, they also create some new problems.   We are heavily under surveillance wherever we go and in whatever we do these days, believe it or not....I live in a place somewhat like that...it just evolved to be like that.   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" />    It's good if it deters people from doing bad stuff for fear of being caught hence increases safety for others but it is also bad for people who are obsessed with monitoring people and overdo it sometimes.   Where to draw the line?   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" />   :siao: <br /><br />We just need more mental institutions in the long run if we are not careful.  :lol:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099249</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099249</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sushi88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 06:25:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Whut? on Tue, 28 Feb 2023 06:11:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirate\" post_id=\"2099227\" time=\"1677552069\" user_id=\"66252:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />And since Recess at KSP is becoming too quiet nowadays, here's one more.<br /><br /><a href="https://www.channelnewsasia.com/world/covid-19-origins-china-laboratory-leak-us-agency-reports-pandemic-white-house-3307386">https://www.channelnewsasia.com/world/covid-19-origins-china-laboratory-leak-us-agency-reports-pandemic-white-house-3307386</a><br /><br />Back home in the meantime, the Multi-Ministry Task Force has delegated pandemic management to Singapore Power.<br /><br /> :siam:</blockquote></blockquote>I will wait until the Department of Transport declares that Covid-19 comes from China before jumping to conclusion. They are the authoritative figure in viruses and diseases, not some Energy Department.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099248</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2099248</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[floppy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 06:11:57 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>