<![CDATA[No Problem is problem]]>I have been married for 13 yrs. Time is not on our side.


Wife is always rushing here and there for kids. She is very busy with kids and always scold scold scold husband.

I help out in housework, kids'homework, etc. But, not appreciated. Always kenna scold scold scold. Do women like to scold their husbands?

Now I know why most older men work late in the office.... 😢
They don't want to get scoldings.

Now I understand why old cows like to eat young grass. :love:

:celebrate: Thank you Govt for providing us so many young grass. At least we have somewhere to go.
:?:

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3Boys:
DesertWind:



Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:

Haiz, no need to be envious.......I'm sure you all have wonderful relationships with your other halves too. If you all felt strongly enough to get hitched and have children together, then there is enough of a base to get a great relationship going, just needs some work and compromise....

Wah 3 boys u can man ....... :udaman:


duriz, if i may tweak what u wrote, me thinks that as a result of 3boys loving and happy marriage, that's why it's now, \"oh woolly one, yessir yessir 3 boys full\"

schweppes ...... :hi5: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

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DesertWind:


Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:
Haiz, no need to be envious.......I'm sure you all have wonderful relationships with your other halves too. If you all felt strongly enough to get hitched and have children together, then there is enough of a base to get a great relationship going, just needs some work and compromise....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280795https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280795Fri, 22 Oct 2010 09:53:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 09:44:11 GMT]]>

3Boys:
...we would not take each other for granted. So if I were to boil it down, this last point is probably it. The physical side of our relationship is the best its ever been, communications work well and we have a ton of fun. So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers. 'obfuscated'.....

Wow, so envious! Thanks for sharing, 3boys!
:celebrate:

'obfuscated'...wah piang ooi first time I came across this word...shalom!
:salute:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280788https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280788Fri, 22 Oct 2010 09:44:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 07:43:51 GMT]]>Duriz and Schweppes,


You two are hilarious :lol: :lol:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280657https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280657Fri, 22 Oct 2010 07:43:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 07:43:24 GMT]]>

3Boys:


Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....
3boys,

Read, noted and understood-ded 😄

BTW, where many tend to obfuscate, you on the other hand, have clarified 😉 😉

Many thanks for sharing.

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duriz:
3Boys:

So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.


Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

:celebrate: Congratulations on a successful and rewarding marriage, oh woolly one yessir yessir 3 bags full :celebrate:

No worries, methinks our grasp of English here is pretty good here and we understood you purrrrr-fit-ly.

See I can teh too :rotflmao:

duriz, if i may tweak what u wrote, me thinks that as a result of 3boys loving and happy marriage, that's why it's now, \"oh woolly one, yessir yessir 3 boys full\"

We see the light in what u are writing, 3boys. Thanks for sharing 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280510https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280510Fri, 22 Oct 2010 03:47:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 03:34:09 GMT]]>

3Boys:
So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.


Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....
:celebrate: Congratulations on a successful and rewarding marriage, oh woolly one yessir yessir 3 bags full :celebrate:

No worries, methinks our grasp of English here is pretty good here and we understood you purrrrr-fit-ly.

See I can teh too :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280499https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280499Fri, 22 Oct 2010 03:34:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 03:20:52 GMT]]>

DesertWind:
3Boys:

I very scared to post in this thread.....


Woa...haa...haa..! 3boys scared to post in KSP? :nailbite:

That must be a first! Surely kuddos to us ladies here! :rahrah:

But don't be intimidated by us here, it does not befits your reputation.

So by all means share your teh-ing skills here - we promise not to put you on the rotary board and hold our darts. 😛

I DARE YOU TO!
:cheeky:

Heh heh, have been busy lah!

Someone mentioned that not all couples react the same way to 'teh-ing' and I can only agree. So yes, different strokes for different folks, and I am only sharing about my current state of relationship between DW and myself, which I think its very good. At the least I light up when I see her, we talk a lot, laugh a lot and like to spend time together, and we are passionate in love. That's all I mean to say, and not meant to be taken as gloating, yah?

How do I dissect this? Its been a evolutionary process, and we didn't always get along so famously, but communication has been key. During some periods of our relationship, she had taken the lead in initiating things, and in some periods in had been myself. This thing about love languages was merely an evolution of the growth in communication. Underlying all that, was the determination that we are in this together for life, and that we are no.2 in each others lives (no.1 being God), and that we would not take each other for granted. So if I were to boil it down, this last point is probably it. The physical side of our relationship is the best its ever been, communications work well and we have a ton of fun.

So is it 'teh-ing'? Perhaps, 'cause DW is flexible, responsive and willing to play ball and put my interests first, and I hers.

Obviously circumstances are different in different families. In many ways, I have been blessed, but I do not take that for granted either for circumstances can always change.

Have been rather woolly in this post, not sure if I have clarified or 'obfuscated'.....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280480https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280480Fri, 22 Oct 2010 03:20:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Fri, 22 Oct 2010 02:54:44 GMT]]>

autumnbronze:
Funz:



Haiz. so many issues to resolve.


Hey Funz,

From your postings, you are one strong and determined babe :ugogirl:

Hang in there ...

All the best :hugs: :hugs:

ps: Not sure if you saw my posting of list of counsellors/life coaches for you in the thread under Health. If you are still looking for one, then its on pg 6 😄

Yup, thanks. DH is currently seeing a counsellor. However, he refuse to tell me how each session goes. I have a feeling that he may go for maybe another 1 or 2 session and then stop completely claiming it does not help. Well I hope to be proven wrong. :xedfingers:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280437https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280437Fri, 22 Oct 2010 02:54:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:22:55 GMT]]>

autumnbronze:
I never bothered to step out of my room to say goodbye to my dad when he left for KL. Two days later, he passed away in a fatal hit and run accident there. The feeling of regret really gnaws at me whenever I think about it.

Oh... 😞 we all take our own parents for granted one way or the other autumnbronze!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280033https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280033Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:22:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:19:23 GMT]]>

3Boys:
I very scared to post in this thread.....

Woa...haa...haa..! 3boys scared to post in KSP? :nailbite:

That must be a first! Surely kuddos to us ladies here! :rahrah:

But don't be intimidated by us here, it does not befits your reputation.

So by all means share your teh-ing skills here - we promise not to put you on the rotary board and hold our darts. 😛

I DARE YOU TO!
:cheeky:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280031https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280031Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:19:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:18:16 GMT]]>

Sun_2010:
Now now the air port is a public place so dont go licking n yapping 😉

Now won't that be a sight for sore eyes?
REEL life indeed 😐

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280029https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280029Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:18:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:08:10 GMT]]>

Funz:
I am going to the doorstep of Singapore to greet him. Guess he did get himself a dog afterall. 😉


Haiz. so many issues to resolve.
Now now the air port is a public place so dont go licking n yapping 😉

But seriously jedamum's sharing was kinda eye opener. Not that dh expects me to be there , atleast he hasnt told me, still i feel guilty for not doing it.

Jedamum :salute: to you

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Funz:


Haiz. so many issues to resolve.

Hey Funz,

From your postings, you are one strong and determined babe :ugogirl:

Hang in there ...

All the best :hugs: :hugs:

ps: Not sure if you saw my posting of list of counsellors/life coaches for you in the thread under Health. If you are still looking for one, then its on pg 6 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280010https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/280010Thu, 21 Oct 2010 08:57:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 08:27:03 GMT]]>

buds:

Funz:

And he wants me to show appreciation to him for his effort in coming home to have dinner with us. For this, I just stared bug eyed at him. I am suppose to say thank you for THAT?!?!?!?

I have friends whose husbands never seem to BE at the dinner table at
all... or even be home by the time they go to bed. These friends are 😞
that their husbands are not making effort to come home (cos sometimes
out entertaining with clients or having drinks and supper with friends) &
just be around the family... They say if their husbands do not need to do
the school run in the mornings, the children may never get to see them
at all.

I suppose the appreciation is simply being there.. :hugs: No words needed.
For some things, actions do speak louder than words. 😉

I guess for years I have been in the same position as those friends of yours. When we were first married, I came home to an empty house and go to bed on my own practically every night. When preggy with DD, I would rather roam orchard road till midnight rather then come home to an empty house. That says a lot for one who hates crowd and finds shopping a chore. We quarrelled incessantly about his late nights. I will call and ask him if he will be back for dinner, he will say yes but I will be waiting until as late as 10pm and he is not back. And when I call again he will sound totally harrassed. Eventually in our some of our many quarrels, he said that he feels stressed about this dinner thing. Cos when I call asking him, he does not want to tell me no so he says yes but when he finds himself caught up with whatever engagement he has and when I call he gets defensive and thus lash out at me. Eventually I stopped calling or asking him if he will be home for dinner, I made my own dinner plans.

So, now he wants me to thank him for coming home for dinner... well you can see, never ever gonna happen.

Greeting him at the door? That is more likely to happen. As it is we are heading to the airport later to pick him up. See, above and beyond, I am not waiting for him to come home, I am going to the doorstep of Singapore to greet him. Guess he did get himself a dog afterall. 😉

Haiz. so many issues to resolve.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279977https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279977Thu, 21 Oct 2010 08:27:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 06:11:51 GMT]]>This topic on 'teh-ing' and showing appreciation is getting more and more interesting that I have to log on everyday to read. 😉


Being a SAHM, DH will kiss and hug me and DD before he leaves for work, and also receives kisses and hugs from his '2 girls' who would see him off at the door.

When he comes home in the evening, he never fails to give a loud cheery \"Honey, I'm home!\" unless on days when he has an extremely bad or tired day. DD will usually greet him at the door; for me, it depends what I'm busy with at that moment. 😛

At dinner time, DH always thanks me for the home cooked dinner. And lately, he has been thanking me for \"giving him DD\" :love:

I show my love in more practical ways like replenishing his shampoo and shower gel; getting his work shirts and tie ready in the morning; and leaving him love notes once in a while.

Actually, come to think of it, these gestures of teh-ing and showing appreciation all boils down to the languages of love, which is very important to keep a marriage alive and strong.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279920https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279920Thu, 21 Oct 2010 06:11:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 05:17:06 GMT]]>

buds:
autumnbronze:

I wonder what the thread title should be :?


:idea: The ART of teh-ing 😉 😉

3Boys' tried and tested and (WORKED!) manual. :idea:
\"How to wrap your husband round your pinkies...
and everywhere else that matters..\" :evil:

Ahhhhh yes, yes, much better 😉

buds:
autumnbronze:

Willing to try harder to make DH happier. Because of his understanding, I am able to enjoy the role of being a SAHM ..... :love:

Me too, autumnbronze... me too... :snuggles:

:hugs:
buds:
Quoting jedamum, guess being SAHM we have more energy. :laugh:

Come to think of it, may not be just energy after all the errands and
running around after the children.. their homework.. what nots.. :roll:
.. but more so must have more effort & definitely more heart oso. 😉
Agree, :hi5: and :celebrate:

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Funz:
What is this thing about wifey and children running to the door the welcome you home? Need to fetch you your slippers and pour you a drink as well? That happens in reel family, not real family.

:lol: Actually, no need so dramatic. As in no need to run and fall over. :lol:
Walk to the door can oredi. :lol: I don't fetch slippers for hubs but i do ask
if he wants a drink and will pour for him and sit with him cos usually, in my
case... i try to have the table set for dinner by the time he gets back from
work with piping hot dishes... i have sensed he likes that. 😉 We'll all
eat together as a family and share about our day. 😄 And nooo... mine is
definitely not reel family... though most of the drama was from MIL. :lol:

Things are waaayyyy better now than 10 years ago, that's for sure. I do
have hubs to be grateful to for finally getting us out of there... Being an
extremely filial son, it must've been difficult for him... esp when he hears
of stories of how they're treated at his sibling's place now. Well, every
story has to be taken with a pinch of salt.

Make it pinches of salt in my ILs case. :lol:
Funz:
And he wants me to show appreciation to him for his effort in coming home to have dinner with us. For this, I just stared bug eyed at him. I am suppose to say thank you for THAT?!?!?!?
I have friends whose husbands never seem to BE at the dinner table at
all... or even be home by the time they go to bed. These friends are 😞
that their husbands are not making effort to come home (cos sometimes
out entertaining with clients or having drinks and supper with friends) &
just be around the family... They say if their husbands do not need to do
the school run in the mornings, the children may never get to see them
at all.

I suppose the appreciation is simply being there.. :hugs: No words needed.
For some things, actions do speak louder than words. 😉

Like a loud belch after a meal perhaps... could show how much husbands
enjoyed their dinner? Instead of a thank you... dinner was wonderful? :lol:

For me... i get the BUUUURRRP and the thanks for a delicious dinner & :hugs: too.
It feels good. Feels that my afternoon in the steaming sauna (kitchen) came
to a good welcome home ending for the day... and such appreciative gestures
do motivate me to continue with the routine as much as i can. The plus is he
helps out with the dishes and sometimes we hear him whistling or humming
a tune whilst doing so too.. :lol: DD2 once whispered to me... \"Daddy sure
loves
washing dishes aye mom? :evil: Then, she'd give me that nottie look and nudge. :lol:
He's also sensitive enough to tell me on off days, \"Don't sweat out in the
kitchen today ok? Let's go out have dinner with the girls...\" :love:
jedamum:
i don't fetch slippers for my dh.
but i am expected to go to the door to greet him when he gets home.
earlier days when i did not, it led to much black-faced from my husband.
At least you knew / realized the point of when you were \"expected\" to do so... 😉
jedamum:
after the anger had subsided, dh explained.
You're fortunate your DH takes the time or rather bothers to explain.
Most men i suppose... don't.
jedamum:
.......lots of stress at work, on the way back, all he thinks about is seeing me, so he gets upset when he did not see me at the door. he needs a hug at the door everyday as it is a way of leaving his stress at the doorstep. i realised that a simple gesture from me can ensure that he gets into a good mood for the rest of the evening, so why not?
I agree with this. We talked a lot while in the midst of repairing our marriage
and like your DH, mine shared the same. 😉 I mistook his foul mood
for \"GO AWAY\" or \"Everyone outta my sight and toes!\".... hence the earlier
lack-of-response reaction... so i say... men cannot do codes with us... cos
sometimes we just don't get it... say what you mean and mean what you
say... (when you're not so moody & angry of course...:lol:)... so these days
when he does have a bad day, he does send smses that go like these...
\"Sianz.. havin a bad day at work.....\" 😞 or \"Thinking of you and the girls
right now... how i wish i can be home with you girls.\"

Ahhhh des.... be clear lest you be misunderstood ya noe? :lol:
Aniwaes, he did mention before... that as much as women like to think men
do not listen... we (women) sometimes fail to \"listen\" as well. :roll: I told
him, that doesn't count it. That listening we're \"expected\" to do is actually
to \"read between the lines\".... :roll:

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autumnbronze:
I wonder what the thread title should be :?


:idea: The ART of teh-ing 😉 😉
3Boys' tried and tested and (WORKED!) manual. :idea:
\"How to wrap your husband round your pinkies...
and everywhere else that matters..\" :evil:
autumnbronze:
3boys, you have another potential pupil here ... I'm game to spruce up my teh-ing skills (I'm serious) ....
I wasn't kidding either.. in fact was anxiously waiting.
To the point of shamelessly telling him I WANT U TO SHARE! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Instead of asking politely.. :oops:
autumnbronze:
Willing to try harder to make DH happier. Because of his understanding, I am able to enjoy the role of being a SAHM ..... :love:
Me too, autumnbronze... me too... :snuggles:

Quoting jedamum, guess being SAHM we have more energy. :laugh:

Come to think of it, may not be just energy after all the errands and
running around after the children.. their homework.. what nots.. :roll:
.. but more so must have more effort & definitely more heart oso. 😉

Cher! Cher ah! Where are you? Yoo hoo... 3Boys! :lol:
Or rather Professor Teh... come out come out wherever you are.
Unless you prefer Prof Manja? :idea:

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Funz:
We have a maid. And DD will usually run to the door and greet him and will be telling him a million and one things which will lead to him scolding her, telling her to let him put his stuff down first. His issue is mainly with me. He wants me to drop whatever I am doing and be the one greeting him at the door.

DesertWind:
My son runs to the door each time he hears daddy comes back.
My DDs will always run to the door too. Regardless if it is me or daddy
who returns home. A friend of mine who had her last child a little late
says this... \"My teenage children will just be on the PC or lounging on
the couch glued to the TV... and here comes my accidental son hehee
(she didn't plan to have another one so late)... running to the door &
in between his sloppy kisses and tender hugs, quickly runs through
his day with my husband and i... :lol: ... and almost as quickly ends it
with a... why did you come home so late, i missed you so much...\" :love:

And she says, each and every day, she looks forward to this and her
weary day is forgotten. It puts a smile on her face... gives that warm
fuzzy feeling inside her... and that's what she loves coming home to..

As for the sometimes \"off\" days, hubs does get :frustrated: with the
girls if they are both talking at the same time.. (can't blame them..
they are sometimes excited to tell him stuff they thought would make
him happy and proud of them like mini achievements in school/home
or they were selected for something and sorts). If WE are at the door
and CAN sense the foul mood coming home, this is where we CAN
prevent it from escalating into something worse... for eg, indirectly
taking it out on people in the house... like everything is wrong that
day.

I sometimes tell my girls with non-verbal cues that perhaps daddy had
a bad day at work or he's very tired out or ya know men... just plain
moody on days.. :politebleah: They'd take the cue and proceed back
to their room to give daddy some quiet time to settle back into the
house and i will come into the picture with a hug, kiss & nice cool
drink.

Funz, sometimes we tend to think that HE actually has an issue with me.
Cause after a hard day's work he WAS kinda expecting a feel-good hug
& a nice warm, comforting smile when he goes up to the door... knowing
that he has indeed returned to a HOME... his home. :hugs:

With maids dominating household chores in our homes, it is easy to
forget to tend to our spouses like how our parents did it in the olden
days. My mumsie shared that she was teaching an aunt's maid how
to sew curtains for a couple of weeks.. The maid not only learnt that
but oblivious to mumsie, the maid also observed us as a family..

She told mumsie one day, \"Mum... it is rare these days to see wives
pouring a drink for their husbands when they're home from work. It
is usually us maids who get the drinks for them. I think what you are
doing is very nice, no wonder you have a loving family... My mum
does not do that. Since i worked for her many years ago, she has
not once made a drink for him when he came back nor asked abt
his day at work..\"

Mumsie freaked out and quickly taught the maid what she had to &
told her it is not nice to talk about other people.. & called my aunt to
take her back home. My aunt got wind of it, that she told my mumsie
abt it... got :X for a bit... and then loosened up... and last we heard
was the maid says once in awhile when my aunt was home, she wud
take the trouble to do so.. The maid wud automatically go to the kitchen
to get a drink for uncle but aunt would say, \"No need... today, i will make.\"

While aunt thought, \"The audacity!\" when she first got wind of what the
maid had shared with dunno how many others... she fumed but when
she analyzed how true it was (albeit coming from the observations of
a maid at that!)... she realized it did make some sense. The maid added
that those short welcome home drinks at times escalated into laughter &
lots of sharing between aunt and uncle. The maid has since left after
finishing her contract and aunt did give her a small hongbao as a token
of appreciation for her many years of good work and i guess also the
kaypoh-ing... :lol: ... Revelation comes in mysterious ways, uh? 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279867https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279867Thu, 21 Oct 2010 04:30:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 04:19:45 GMT]]>

buds:

3Boys still yet to share secrets of his DW's \"wrapping\" ways.. :evil:
Other than wrapping legs of course.. :lol:

Good things must share right.. :please:
I wonder what the thread title should be :?

:idea: The ART of teh-ing 😉 😉

3boys, you have another potential pupil here ... I'm game to spruce up my teh-ing skills (I'm serious) ....

Willing to try harder to make DH happier. Because of his understanding, I am able to enjoy the role of being a SAHM ..... :love:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279855https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/279855Thu, 21 Oct 2010 04:19:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to No Problem is problem on Thu, 21 Oct 2010 03:57:42 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
Need some NC16 here...in case there are young kids who login.

B... bb...bbbuut... :idea: ... we dunno yet what 3Boys is gonna share? 😐
May not be NC16 ya know.. 😉 In fact, i think even if it is... i am darn
sure HE can use his powderful England to explain it chastely & objectively. 😉

He is one of the few men (left standing :lol:) in here, surrounded by a
huge colony of ladies and yet he does take the time to drop us hints
and tips on how we can indeed improve the way of life & our
relationship with our spouses.

I for one... am grateful to him for that. 😄

In the long haul when i was feeling kinda down and lost in my marriage,
his words of wisdom did rub off on me in a good positive way.. Many
others too, who have kindly shared their love potions and secrets,
and also the virtual hugs and love... i'm forever grateful. Funny..
how chatting & sharing with you peeps keeps me sane. :lol:

:love:
janet_lee88:
My daughter from K2 told me that when mummy's door is closed, mummy and daddy are doing something...told us that after school one day :shock:
Ya.. can be sleeping or resting oso rite? Just don't look too guilty when
answering such queries from the children. Act cool nia. :preen:

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3Boys:
I very scared to post in this thread.....

😢 I very sad leh.. 😢

Can sign up for private tutelage? :idea:

Just when i was getting excited to know/learn more.. 😞
He shuts out.. Men. 😛

:lol:

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Funz:
Alamak this greeting at the door thing. DH brought it up a few times, complaining that no one welcomes him at the door when he is home. At the peak of my frustration, I told him to get a dog. 😛

LOL

i remembered my hub ever said in the past, \" Whitekie ( my persian cat) is the best, knows how to greet me when i come home.\" 😉 😛

reading this thread, i realise that we both also neber greet each other b4,
as in the past, we went to work together, came home together,
same workplace, so it's weird to greet each other 😉

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