<![CDATA[Death of Child - leukaemia]]>My boy, age 7, has passed away 3 weeks ago

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When at the age of 4, kkh dr told me that he might have leukaemia
my world had come apart. My mind are blank and I keep on wondering
how such things will happen to my small one. Dr told me that he got
leukaemia (cml) and need to do chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant.
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i walk through the level where all the cancer patient (mostly children) are there, i saw them, really cannot imagine how my son going to be able to go through all these. really heart piercing.
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3 weeks ago, he got chicken pox from his after school care and 2 days later, he suddenly pass away at home. all this come too sudden, and i not well prepare. till now, i still cannot accept the truth that he will be gone forever!!
😢

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/10615/death-of-child-leukaemiaRSS for NodeTue, 05 May 2026 11:21:36 GMTWed, 05 May 2010 04:58:43 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Tue, 11 May 2010 00:51:21 GMT]]>hi aisukurimu1… am really sorry to hear about your loss… not the easiest thing for any parent. my heart goes out to you. pls take good care of yourself…


do not advocate this but if really need some medication to help u sleep pls seek medical advice. the lack of sleep will become a vicious cycle that will drain u both mentally and physically… so do get some rest.

most imptly share your vents or feelings with someone close and have a good cry together… alternatively pls come online here… hopefully we are able to provide some consolation.

warmest regards.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/181953https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/181953Tue, 11 May 2010 00:51:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Mon, 10 May 2010 19:51:13 GMT]]>aisukurimu1, really sorry to hear of your loss.


only time and prayer 🙏 can heal you. Take care of yourself and of didi!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/181905https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/181905Mon, 10 May 2010 19:51:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Sat, 08 May 2010 00:15:42 GMT]]>Be brave there, aisukurimu1. There is still 1 more little ones (didi) needs u…The HOUSE still needs u to be there…


Not only that my eyes get blurred, my heart get shattered too…when i read your post… My deepest condolences…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179977https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179977Sat, 08 May 2010 00:15:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Fri, 07 May 2010 11:35:29 GMT]]>

aisukurimu1:
Really thanks all the msg rec'd

at times, i will tell myself, let him go in peace, don't
cry and cry but my tears will still drop off. since that
day, i think at night, i will have problem going into
sleep. i scare of silent, i need to on radio at night
when i sleep. a bit of noise, i will get frightened.
did sicks, i will shiver.
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of course, i know, will take time one!!
Sorry to hear this, please continue to vent, if the pain will be lesser.

You need to put yourself together for the sake of didi.

I have a friend who used to work in chemical environment, diagnosed with luekemia in 1994, doctor said 2 more years to live. I advised her to leave the job, become vegitarian, take at least 250ml of freshly squeezed red carrot juice day, everyday drink fresh milk and raw honey with empty stomach in the morning. she followed religeously for 2 years, luekemia become 地中海贫血症, doctor also cannot tell why... doctor only studied those commonly known diseases, and everybody is unique, they often cant relate to us the root causes of diseases for sure..

Call it Karma if you could... She is still alive today ...

Just convert your grieves into power of prayer, continue to pray for his well being, imagine that he is happy in heaven, or whatever deva/ buddha realm (depending on your faith) he may be.

I loss my younger brother before, I understand how you feel as a mother...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179576https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179576Fri, 07 May 2010 11:35:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Fri, 07 May 2010 11:13:12 GMT]]>Be strong for his didi …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179564https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179564Fri, 07 May 2010 11:13:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Fri, 07 May 2010 10:29:01 GMT]]>Dear aisukurimu1,


I am sorry to hear this. My eyes are wet with tears…
Be strong…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179544https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179544Fri, 07 May 2010 10:29:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Fri, 07 May 2010 10:10:39 GMT]]>So sorry to hear about your loss.


Its always a tragedy when one so young passes on. Hope you can find some solace and share your burden with family and friends. Be strong for the didi, he must be very sad too.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179521https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179521Fri, 07 May 2010 10:10:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Fri, 07 May 2010 09:04:37 GMT]]>Really thanks all the msg rec’d

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Now, with him gone, the route is veri long
and agony. normally, the hse will fill with so much
noise. noise caused by him and his didi, but now
didi also become veri quiet as his playmate is no
longer around.
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didi keep asking me where is his brother (didi is
4 yrs this yr). my boys use to tell me to buy him
hot wheels toys on his this yr birthday for him, his
sch bag too heavy for him, how he beg me to buy
for him a roller bag when he pri 2, ask me for hp
when he upper primary. but all this will nvr happen
again.
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Of course, i knoe no matter how hard the route is
going to be, we still hv to continue but the wound
is really really veri pain. sometimes, too pain
oredi
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at times, i will tell myself, let him go in peace, don’t
cry and cry but my tears will still drop off. since that
day, i think at night, i will have problem going into
sleep. i scare of silent, i need to on radio at night
when i sleep. a bit of noise, i will get frightened.
did sicks, i will shiver.
.
of course, i know, will take time one!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179423https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/179423Fri, 07 May 2010 09:04:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Thu, 06 May 2010 07:17:31 GMT]]>Very sorry to hear that. You must be very pain now. I had a aunt who's son died in hospital when he was 7 due to meningitis. So I can see how pain you are. Pls walk out the house and do somethings, like talk to people, work, or even be a volenteer worker in the area you fell comfortable etc.


Be strong OK. :hugs:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177982https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177982Thu, 06 May 2010 07:17:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Thu, 06 May 2010 06:42:30 GMT]]>((hugs)) to you aisukurimu1 and be strong, take care of yourself.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177933https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177933Thu, 06 May 2010 06:42:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Thu, 06 May 2010 04:59:36 GMT]]>Child bereavement support Singapore:

http://www.cbss.sg

it is set up by parents who have lost a child. Their experiences can be read online and they have support groups for parents. I hope this can help a little.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177731https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177731Thu, 06 May 2010 04:59:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Thu, 06 May 2010 01:23:02 GMT]]>Hi aisukurimu1, sorry to hear about that, please take care and jia you! You still have a long way to go.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177274https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177274Thu, 06 May 2010 01:23:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Thu, 06 May 2010 01:20:36 GMT]]>My deepest condolences…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177270https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177270Thu, 06 May 2010 01:20:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 15:50:01 GMT]]>i know that seems like there are no words that can help in times of loss of yr loved one but my heart pain with u…

Take care of yourself, we at KSP will be supporting you mentally all the way…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177091https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177091Wed, 05 May 2010 15:50:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 15:40:30 GMT]]>aisukurimu1, I am so very sorry. Please find strength in your friends, your family, and your memories of your dear child. My thoughts are with you.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177084https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177084Wed, 05 May 2010 15:40:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 15:32:56 GMT]]>Dear aisukurimu,


very sorry to hear about your child. Cherish the times you had with your child and learn to let your child go. Take up some hobby, go to work, be strong.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177080https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177080Wed, 05 May 2010 15:32:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 14:56:31 GMT]]>Dear aisukurimu1,

I’m sorry to hear about your loss,
Be strong ok… …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177042https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177042Wed, 05 May 2010 14:56:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 14:39:27 GMT]]>I’m not good at consoling, but my eyes watered when I read this.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177026https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177026Wed, 05 May 2010 14:39:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 14:29:45 GMT]]>Hugs to you, aisikurimu1. This is a pain no parent can bear. It’s brave of you to be able to talk about it. We’re here for you if you need a listening ear of a shoulder to lean on. Do take care.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177019https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177019Wed, 05 May 2010 14:29:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 14:20:07 GMT]]>Hugs to you, aisukurimu1. Take time to grieve over the loss and find the closure you need. Remember that he will always live in your heart…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177007https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/177007Wed, 05 May 2010 14:20:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 13:53:50 GMT]]>Sorry to know yr loss of yr son. Yes, it’s painful and you need time to let it heal. Suggest you let someone stay with you, don’t be alone. you can find someone trusted to talk or post here if you need some supports. Be strong, and take care ok? Hugs to you.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176988https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176988Wed, 05 May 2010 13:53:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 12:04:24 GMT]]>Be strong and live for your loved ones.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176938https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176938Wed, 05 May 2010 12:04:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 11:03:24 GMT]]>Dear Aisukurimu1,


It hurts when a young child is taken away from us. The joy we shared and the regrets that we have not done enough for him will always remain in our hearts. We do not have a chance to see him grow into the fine young man we know he would be.

It is not going to be easy but you have to be strong. Just remember that he is in a better place now and one day you would be reunited.

Regardless of religion, I would like to keep you in my prayer.

Please take care.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176916https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176916Wed, 05 May 2010 11:03:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Death of Child - leukaemia on Wed, 05 May 2010 06:35:40 GMT]]>aisukurimu1



sorry to hear about your loss

if there is anything any of the ks members here can do, let us know, i am sure there will be more than willing hands and willing hearts

i know you have 1001 why why why why … please take care of yourself, be strong, and like many has said, life has to go on …

also know of a friend’s kid who has to endure multiple heart surgery from birth … and my own brother who passed away after a short illness when doctor said no problem … we never have all the answers, but God helps us when we are weak

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176367https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/176367Wed, 05 May 2010 06:35:40 GMT