<![CDATA[Maid charged with having sex with minor]]>May 12, 2010

Maid accused of sex with boy
By Elena Chong
AN INDONESIAN maid was hauled to court on Wednesday for having sex with her employer’s 12-year-old son.

The 27-year-old is alleged to have caused the boy, with his consent, to penetrate his private parts into her mouth at the HDB unit in the east on Dec 25 last year.

She is also accused of causing the boy to have sex with her sometime at end-June and mid-December last year. The fourth charge under the Children and Young Persons Act states that she committed an obscene act with a child by engaging in sex and oral sex with him between end-June and Dec 25.

The court has ordered the name of the victim to be withheld or anything that will lead to his identification.

If convicted of the sexual penetration of a minor under 16, she can be jailed for up to 10 years and fined on each charge. The maximum penalty for the CYPA charge is a fine of up to $5,000 and/or a jail term of up to two years.

The short and bespectacled domestic worker was offered bail of $20,000. Her passport was impounded. She will appear in court again on May 19.


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verykiasu2010:
hquek:



Didn't think of STDs, but imagine if the maid got pregnant....I have no answers already.

like that become grand parent liao .... (ok, no joking matter)

I did ask a friend that question, and she also stumped.

Abort - very cruel.

Don't abort - also very cruel. I don't think anyone will accept such a DIL...that one is really DIL from hell.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196160https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196160Wed, 26 May 2010 09:10:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 09:05:34 GMT]]>Hi

Everyones seems to be talking about 'maids tis maid that' !! M wondering any of your kids ever ask you about tis issues?? Do you have difficulity explaining to them? :? I really don't understand why the media must go into details??????necessary meh??
:frustrated: Only give parent more work to do :x

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196154https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196154Wed, 26 May 2010 09:05:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 08:52:39 GMT]]>

hquek:


Didn't think of STDs, but imagine if the maid got pregnant....I have no answers already.
like that become grand parent liao .... (ok, no joking matter)

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196125https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196125Wed, 26 May 2010 08:52:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 08:50:35 GMT]]>

MdmKS:
dimsum:

[quote=\"HyperKiasu\"]are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary.... better not

Mine are unmarried indo maids (mid and late 20s). I think one who's married with her own kids will not commit such acts.

What about home tutor? Are they just as dangerous?[/quote]equally risky !

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196120https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196120Wed, 26 May 2010 08:50:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 08:49:36 GMT]]>

MdmKS:
dimsum:

[quote=\"HyperKiasu\"]are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary.... better not

Mine are unmarried indo maids (mid and late 20s). I think one who's married with her own kids will not commit such acts.

What about home tutor? Are they just as dangerous?[/quote]

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196114https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196114Wed, 26 May 2010 08:49:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 08:49:11 GMT]]>

dimsum:
HyperKiasu:

are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary.... better not

Mine are unmarried indo maids (mid and late 20s). I think one who's married with her own kids will not commit such acts.

Definitely not true. Some maids may abuse younger kids in revenge against employer admonitions.

Anyway, I heard of story where the maid hide in Master bedroom to watch blue films her friend pass to her whilst family is away. She was engaged to be taking care of a young boy. I think those types also scary...I don't want to intrude on pp's privacy, but if my kids' safety is compromised, forget it.

And another story where the maid will sneak into employer's son's room at night...he was teenage I believe. Luckily the mum caught her and sent her back before anything happen.

Didn't think of STDs, but imagine if the maid got pregnant....I have no answers already.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196112https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196112Wed, 26 May 2010 08:49:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 26 May 2010 08:44:05 GMT]]>

dimsum:
HyperKiasu:

are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary.... better not

Mine are unmarried indo maids (mid and late 20s). I think one who's married with her own kids will not commit such acts.

What about home tutor? Are they just as dangerous?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196108https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/196108Wed, 26 May 2010 08:44:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Sun, 16 May 2010 01:48:59 GMT]]>totally agree, even with 'good' maid, there's no guarantee that they don't change over time and do something that you will regret. I have 2 young boys and I think I will :stupid: if this happens to my boys...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186478https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186478Sun, 16 May 2010 01:48:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Sat, 15 May 2010 23:09:25 GMT]]>oh no, sad to say MAIDS CAN'T BE TRUSTED......(My own opinion)Can see there will be shadows left behind for that boy......



some of us can get a very very good maid, but do hear cases of very very bad maid.....And this has been a hindering of getting a maid. Till now, i would still to prefer ALL by myself.....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186464https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186464Sat, 15 May 2010 23:09:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Sat, 15 May 2010 17:01:14 GMT]]>Maid charged with having sex with minor


05:55 AM May 13, 2010

A 27-year-old maid has been charged with four counts of engaging in sexual activities with her employer’s 12-year-old son.

She cannot be named to protect the boy’s identity.

The Indonesian committed the alleged crime in an HDB flat between June and Dec 25 last year.

She has been remanded as she could not post the $20,000 bail. Her case will be heard again next Wednesday.

The woman can be jailed up to 10 years and fined if found guilty.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186440https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/186440Sat, 15 May 2010 17:01:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 11:30:28 GMT]]>

HyperKiasu:
atrecord:

[quote=\"dimsum\"]Do you remember many years back, newspapers reported that a family was planning to migrate and had to do health checkup. The parents were shocked to discover that their 2 sons was tested HIV positive. They contracted Aids from the maid!


what, serious? i missed this, but it's really shocking...

how did the maid become infected in the first place? Don't they have any check-up before they come here?

perhaps they were infected after they came here....[/quote]Ya, maids need to do pre-employment check up. But I suppose this one got it after arrival.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184999https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184999Thu, 13 May 2010 11:30:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 05:04:11 GMT]]>

Donkey Kong:
How about Myanmar maids? Are they more decent than Indo/Philiipine? :?

but can Myanmar maid speak eng? :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184596https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184596Thu, 13 May 2010 05:04:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 04:50:10 GMT]]>How about Myanmar maids? Are they more decent than Indo/Philiipine? :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184584https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184584Thu, 13 May 2010 04:50:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 02:46:18 GMT]]>

atrecord:
dimsum:

Do you remember many years back, newspapers reported that a family was planning to migrate and had to do health checkup. The parents were shocked to discover that their 2 sons was tested HIV positive. They contracted Aids from the maid!


what, serious? i missed this, but it's really shocking...

how did the maid become infected in the first place? Don't they have any check-up before they come here?

perhaps they were infected after they came here....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184365https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184365Thu, 13 May 2010 02:46:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 01:19:02 GMT]]>One way to overcome this is never hire maid to look after kids. My maid is strictly for housework only since my kid was born. That is also a reason why my child is independent because she grew up as if there is no maid.


These stories are too scary.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184219https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184219Thu, 13 May 2010 01:19:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Thu, 13 May 2010 01:02:45 GMT]]>

dimsum:
Do you remember many years back, newspapers reported that a family was planning to migrate and had to do health checkup. The parents were shocked to discover that their 2 sons was tested HIV positive. They contracted Aids from the maid!

what, serious? i missed this, but it's really shocking...

how did the maid become infected in the first place? Don't they have any check-up before they come here?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184210https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/184210Thu, 13 May 2010 01:02:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 14:07:30 GMT]]>

HyperKiasu:
are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary.... better not
Mine are unmarried indo maids (mid and late 20s). I think one who's married with her own kids will not commit such acts.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183737https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183737Wed, 12 May 2010 14:07:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 13:36:01 GMT]]>

dimsum:

I am not keen to engage a maid again after reading this latest piece of news. I also suspect my ex-maids played with my DS's penis. Once, I caught one kissing him on the lips (and the way she kissed him made me feel really uncomfortable). But my DH thinks I am being overparanoid and imagining things. No no, better be safe than sorry.
ya ya, better be safe than sorry....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183708https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183708Wed, 12 May 2010 13:36:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 13:34:15 GMT]]>are those young maid (20s or early 30) or old maid (over 40)?


I am considering a 4th maid, but after reading this thread, so scary… better not

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183706https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183706Wed, 12 May 2010 13:34:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 11:04:36 GMT]]>

hquek:
er, already heard sometime back from my mum about maids who play with little boys' \"birdie\", or put their finger in little girls' parts. Talking about few years old type.


End up the kids over-sexualised and cannot help but keep touching their privates.

And also heard story where the maid slipped into a teenage boy's room at night.....the mother got rid of the maid immediately....dry wood, fierce fire....dangerous.
I am not keen to engage a maid again after reading this latest piece of news. I also suspect my ex-maids played with my DS's penis. Once, I caught one kissing him on the lips (and the way she kissed him made me feel really uncomfortable). But my DH thinks I am being overparanoid and imagining things. No no, better be safe than sorry.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183618https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183618Wed, 12 May 2010 11:04:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 10:54:52 GMT]]>Do you remember many years back, newspapers reported that a family was planning to migrate and had to do health checkup. The parents were shocked to discover that their 2 sons was tested HIV positive. They contracted Aids from the maid!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183616https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183616Wed, 12 May 2010 10:54:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 07:08:15 GMT]]>

atrecord:
Looks like another reason why more pple might not want maids...

no maid since ... 6-7 years.

on the other hand, I think it's a question of chance. most maids are right.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183353https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183353Wed, 12 May 2010 07:08:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 06:45:16 GMT]]>er, already heard sometime back from my mum about maids who play with little boys’ "birdie", or put their finger in little girls’ parts. Talking about few years old type.


End up the kids over-sexualised and cannot help but keep touching their privates.

And also heard story where the maid slipped into a teenage boy’s room at night…the mother got rid of the maid immediately…dry wood, fierce fire…dangerous.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183317https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183317Wed, 12 May 2010 06:45:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Maid charged with having sex with minor on Wed, 12 May 2010 06:13:25 GMT]]>Wow! The boy only 12 year old :!:


Heard a few incidents of Philipina maids ‘happening’ with employers’ kiddos but Indo also got to jar gar now… …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183293https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/183293Wed, 12 May 2010 06:13:25 GMT