millan:

joconde:

Hi millan,


Was your son already anti-social during primary sch days? perhaps he couldn't adapt to the new sch environment, thus becomes evasive and unsociable ? Perhaps you can find out from his teacher how he's coping at sch.

Since he likes books so much, you can create opportunity for him to socialise more by visiting the library together as a family outing, then suggest going for a meal or movie after that, etc ... can even ask friends, his old classmates or cousins out together, visit bookstores, book fairs, etc.

He always said he dun require friend, tho he does have 1 or 2 closer friend in pri school.

When he is Sec 1, he is really lone ranger.. you might think he may be quiet and reserved. Truth is he is very outspoken, as a result, he makes weird remarks abt pple. Teacher said he even poke fun at pple is his written work..

He can socialise , a matter whether he want anot. He always think he can survive by himself but very weary that pple will attack him and so always is in defencsive mode....

Really worried that he becomes that kind of ellite. With IQ no EQ.

millan:

joconde:

Hi millan,


Was your son already anti-social during primary sch days? perhaps he couldn't adapt to the new sch environment, thus becomes evasive and unsociable ? Perhaps you can find out from his teacher how he's coping at sch.

Since he likes books so much, you can create opportunity for him to socialise more by visiting the library together as a family outing, then suggest going for a meal or movie after that, etc ... can even ask friends, his old classmates or cousins out together, visit bookstores, book fairs, etc.

He always said he dun require friend, tho he does have 1 or 2 closer friend in pri school.

When he is Sec 1, he is really lone ranger.. you might think he may be quiet and reserved. Truth is he is very outspoken, as a result, he makes weird remarks abt pple. Teacher said he even poke fun at pple is his written work..

He can socialise , a matter whether he want anot. He always think he can survive by himself but very weary that pple will attack him and so always is in defencsive mode....

Really worried that he becomes that kind of ellite. With IQ no EQ.

joconde:

Hi millan,


Was your son already anti-social during primary sch days? perhaps he couldn't adapt to the new sch environment, thus becomes evasive and unsociable ? Perhaps you can find out from his teacher how he's coping at sch.

Since he likes books so much, you can create opportunity for him to socialise more by visiting the library together as a family outing, then suggest going for a meal or movie after that, etc ... can even ask friends, his old classmates or cousins out together, visit bookstores, book fairs, etc.

xxjustakidxx:

millan:

[quote=\"xxjustakidxx\"]This is actually what is called \"no-life\" in our lingo LOL.


I used to be like that (okay i hated books, but i always studied and believed socializing was useless), but erm once he enters secondary school (if he's still in pri), he would have to socialize because of the large number of projects etc. Improves with time.

He is now in Sec 1, which he is still carrying on like this and still not socialising.. that is where my concern is. He rather do on his own, claiming that team members are not efficient..

millan:

xxjustakidxx:

This is actually what is called \"no-life\" in our lingo LOL.


I used to be like that (okay i hated books, but i always studied and believed socializing was useless), but erm once he enters secondary school (if he's still in pri), he would have to socialize because of the large number of projects etc. Improves with time.

He is now in Sec 1, which he is still carrying on like this and still not socialising.. that is where my concern is. He rather do on his own, claiming that team members are not efficient..

xxjustakidxx:

This is actually what is called \"no-life\" in our lingo LOL.


I used to be like that (okay i hated books, but i always studied and believed socializing was useless), but erm once he enters secondary school (if he's still in pri), he would have to socialize because of the large number of projects etc. Improves with time.

millan:

Hi all,


Any experience that your kid is reading too many books. My son will carry few books wherever he goes. he will read when he has nothing to do.

Even when eating or doing big businesses he will also read.

In class, if he has finished he work, he will take out his book. There are times that the teacher will confiscate his book as he read english books in Chinese class.

He complained that I refrain him from going library too much and reading too much.

But the fact is I find his book becomes his world. he locked himself in the books and reluctant to mix with friends. and this is very unhealhy...

Any advice? :?: