<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Birth Control Methods]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I just read about this from another forum about birth control and I wonder if mothers here are using them. This is a copy and paste from one of the forummers' comment:<br /><br />[quote]Just be aware that many contraceptives do NOT prevent Conception but are actually \"abortifacients\"... as in, you get fertilized, embryo grows and embeds in the uterus wall, then aborts. True!! The IUD is the worst of them all... babies grow around this metal coil and just get mashed basically, like growing around a potato masher.  Not great for those that somehow survive long enough for the IUD to be pulled out...I'm sure that would have some effect on them phsically, mentally, intellectually. <br /><br />And the mini-pill, any anything progesterone only actually work this way, the same way as the morning after...baby is conceived, but the environment in the womb becomes hostile and unfavourable to the continuing embryo, the wall sheds it's lining (like a period) and sheds the baby.<br /><br />I learned all this after I took the morning after pill on the assuredness by the doctor that it prevented CONCEPTION. That's how I lost my eldest child...july 19th 1993, conceived june 23rd 93.  The doctor's idea of conception was not mine (which was fertilization, the sperm meeting the egg)...hers was a continuing embedded embryo.  Why didnt she make that clear?? I'd have just happily had a baby if I knew I was going to impregnate and then abort!!!!<br /><br />I'll NEVER get over it, and years later I'm still ANGRY.[/quote]For me, I am currently using IUD as I went through C-section for both my pregnancies. So I had to go through birth control. I have not been told by my gynae about such thing. He just said simply that there is only a 1% chance of pregnancy and I simply assume that 99% chance the egg will not be fertilised. <br /><br />But from the quoted comment above, it seems untrue.<br /><br />Does anyone know anything about this?</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/1244/birth-control-methods</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2026 05:07:43 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/1244.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 09:26:56 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Thu, 21 Jul 2011 15:33:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Sun_2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>buds:</b><p>Abstinence? :yikes:<br /><br /><br />No way! <br /><br />Especially for me! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br /><br />I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:<br /><br />I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.<br />If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:<br />Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:<br /><br />So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.<br />Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:</p></blockquote></blockquote>Aha , now we know the secret of your emoticon filled happy posts  :evil:<br /><br /> But seriously, Abstinence as a solution  :roll: <br /><br />reminds me of what one wise man told me rgding temptations<br />\"If you resist , it will persist\"<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" /><p></p></blockquote>Now u know.. :evil:<br /><br />Aaahhh how apt! :idea:<br /><br />If buds_hubs resist, I will persist! :rotflmao:<br />Thank u oh wise man for thy wise words. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><br /><br />Hubs says it's my own doing really with our #3...<br />Why you ask? For one, I didn't guard my fort <br />well enough.. Two, he claims I was gripping<br />him too tight he couldn't escape. :roll: <br />Neither could the troops withdraw in time.<br /><br />Rubber? <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61b.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--stuck_out_tongue" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":P" alt="😛" /><br />But still can consider.. :roll:<br /><br />Abstinence? :siao:<br />I won't consider. <br /><br />Plus, I dowanna go obedient wives club.<br /><br />And no.. Withdrawal is never safe.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/501447</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/501447</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[buds]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 15:33:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Thu, 21 Jul 2011 15:23:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Anyone try withdrawal method? is it safe if hubby "control himself"  ?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/501434</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/501434</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flyfree]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 15:23:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Mon, 18 Jul 2011 14:12:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>winth:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi, I just read about this from another forum about birth control and I wonder if mothers here are using them. This is a copy and paste from one of the forummers' comment:<br /><br />[quote]Just be aware that many contraceptives do NOT prevent Conception but are actually \"abortifacients\"... as in, you get fertilized, embryo grows and embeds in the uterus wall, then aborts. True!! The IUD is the worst of them all... babies grow around this metal coil and just get mashed basically, like growing around a potato masher.  Not great for those that somehow survive long enough for the IUD to be pulled out...I'm sure that would have some effect on them phsically, mentally, intellectually. <br /><br />And the mini-pill, any anything progesterone only actually work this way, the same way as the morning after...baby is conceived, but the environment in the womb becomes hostile and unfavourable to the continuing embryo, the wall sheds it's lining (like a period) and sheds the baby.<br /><br />I learned all this after I took the morning after pill on the assuredness by the doctor that it prevented CONCEPTION. That's how I lost my eldest child...july 19th 1993, conceived june 23rd 93.  The doctor's idea of conception was not mine (which was fertilization, the sperm meeting the egg)...hers was a continuing embedded embryo.  Why didnt she make that clear?? I'd have just happily had a baby if I knew I was going to impregnate and then abort!!!!<br /><br />I'll NEVER get over it, and years later I'm still ANGRY.</blockquote></blockquote>For me, I am currently using IUD as I went through C-section for both my pregnancies. So I had to go through birth control. I have not been told by my gynae about such thing. He just said simply that there is only a 1% chance of pregnancy and I simply assume that 99% chance the egg will not be fertilised. <br /><br />But from the quoted comment above, it seems untrue.<br /><br />Does anyone know anything about this?[/quote]<br />I kena UTI after using IUD, and is an on-going infection. It keeps relapsing. My advise to you is, stop using it before it does further harm to your body. The feeling is really unbearable! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f622.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--cry" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":cry:" alt="😢" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494815</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494815</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[GoEasy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 14:12:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Mon, 18 Jul 2011 08:24:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>buds:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Abstinence? :yikes:<br /><br /><br />No way! <br /><br />Especially for me! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br /><br />I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:<br /><br />I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.<br />If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:<br />Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:<br /><br />So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.<br />Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:</blockquote></blockquote>Aha , now we know the secret of your emoticon filled happy posts  :evil:<br /><br /> But seriously, Abstinence as a solution  :roll: <br /><br />reminds me of what one wise man told me rgding temptations<br />\"If you resist , it will persist\"<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494249</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494249</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sun_2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 08:24:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Mon, 18 Jul 2011 07:49:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>buds:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Abstinence? :yikes:<br /><br /><br />No way! <br /><br />Especially for me! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br /><br />I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:<br /><br />I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.<br />If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:<br />Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:<br /><br />So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.<br />Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:</blockquote></blockquote>wahhaha, buds, you're so funny! :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494193</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/494193</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tigger88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 07:49:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Sat, 16 Jul 2011 01:08:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>buds:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Abstinence? :yikes:<br /><br /><br />No way! <br /><br />Especially for me! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br /><br />I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:<br /><br />I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.<br />If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:<br />Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:<br /><br />So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.<br />Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:</blockquote></blockquote> :rotflmao:  :rotflmao: <br />buds .... U Really Cracks me Up!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/492034</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/492034</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 01:08:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:04:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Abstinence? :yikes:<br /><br /><br />No way! <br /><br />Especially for me! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><br /><br />I'd go hair-wire like dis! :frustrated:<br /><br />I need my regular release of orgasms to stay happy-go-gila.<br />If not, it'd just be downsized to gila (crazy)... :siao:<br />Now... nobody likes a crazy momma do they? :evil:<br /><br />So final answer is cannot be done, nuh-uh.. no go.<br />Then again, that's just me talkin'... :rotflmao:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491802</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491802</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[buds]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:04:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 15 Jul 2011 16:31:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Dear mothers, could abstinence be the best solution if don’t use ligation? can it be done?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491744</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491744</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flyfree]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2011 16:31:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 15 Jul 2011 16:14:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>tanlengleng:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>ZacK:</b><p><br />Anyway bet durex and okamoto... I would go for the latter cos they are touted to be \"next to nothing\". Anyway just a personal preference  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f60e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--sunglasses" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="8)" alt="😎" /></p></blockquote></blockquote>Hubby says okamoto seems to be smaller &amp; tighter then durex,<br />any man can advise on this?<br />He says it's uncomfortable for him...<p></p></blockquote><br />Yup, Okamoto seem too tight for me, Durex much comfortable. The safest way is \"don't do it\" : p<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491710</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/491710</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[flyfree]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2011 16:14:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Tue, 28 Jun 2011 14:19:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>kwokwc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Hahaha, me too. used to go by counting days. But miscount, so dd3. ds1 and dd2 are 2 yrs apart. While dd3 is 6 yrs younger than dd2. But after giving birth to dd3, I went for ligation. <br /><br />But my gynea told me, ligation is not 100% sure. Out of 1 million, 1 can still get pregnant after ligate. That can happen when the tube joins back again.  :lol:</blockquote></blockquote>Ha Ha .... Sista ....<br />We Go For Same Procedure .... And Economy of Scale Too!  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" />  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />My Gynae told me Firm-ly, Ligation is .... the Most Reliable Method.<br /><br />I Think, Maybe Got One in a Multi-Million Chance that such a Long Length of the tube can Grow to Join Back Again ....<br />And Alignment Must be \"Zun\" (Accurate) ....<br />And Opening of Tube Must Meet open-ended ....<br />And Even if ALL Above High Precision Growth Occurs (if it Ever! Hee-Hee ....), Pray Hard that No Lobang occurs Along the Joint ....<br />Else Later .... Egg Rolling Along the Tube FALL out, HOW?<br />(Imagine - Like Bowling Ball Fall into Longkang -----&gt; No Strike -lor!)<br />Ha Ha ....<br /><br />So, Scientifically (I Luan-Luan-sian-One!) .... <br />Statistically (I Luan-Luan-Tikam-One) .... <br />Probability of Tube Join Back = 1/Infinity ---------&gt; Zero -la!<br /> :laugh:  :laugh:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460644</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460644</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 14:19:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Tue, 28 Jun 2011 14:09:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Mum1113:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Funx3:</b><p><br />Ha Ha ....<br />Mum1113, My Gynae Got Rid of the Ugly keloids for me the Same time as my CS Too ....<br />* High Five*</p></blockquote></blockquote>Co-incidentally we can do one more  :hi5: ....mine also 3 x CS !  :dancing:<p></p></blockquote>Really????!!!!<br />We Must HAve Gone to the Same School ....<br />of .... 3 is Enuf!<br /> :laugh:  :laugh:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460636</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460636</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 14:09:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Tue, 28 Jun 2011 10:50:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Funx3:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Mum1113:</b><p>[quote=\"cwc\"]<br />I thot would be at same location....but I saw it at different place and asked the gynae, THEN he told me that my first CS didn't heal well, so he could not cut at the same place.    My 2 deliveries were only 18mths apart plus I have poor skin and healing which I knew all along, so no choice lah.    That's why I dare not go for 3rd liao.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Your gynae did not discuss or rather inform you the cut at a different location ? Strange as mine informed as, previous scar formed keloid as a result of poor skin (dont know if you have this ?)....so my gynae removed the keloids at the same of the cut, then the heal is pretty good, I must say<p></p></blockquote>Ha Ha ....<br />Mum1113, My Gynae Got Rid of the Ugly keloids for me the Same time as my CS Too ....<br />* High Five*[/quote]Co-incidentally we can do one more  :hi5: ....mine also 3 x CS !  :dancing:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460472</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460472</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mum1113]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 10:50:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Tue, 28 Jun 2011 10:30:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Luvkid:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><p>I also dare not try ligation nor using control methods, can only go by counting dates.......hope dun be suay :sick:<br /><br /><br />Oops....me not supposed to be in this thread, just was curious &amp; saw interesting stuff....so kapo kapo  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> <br />cwc,<br /><br />me also kaypo to chance upon this thread. I am like u too, days counting... But 人算不如天算.... That's how we have DS3. For 10 over years from dating,cohabitng,marrying DH,we have been using SAFE days... BUT realised it is not safe at all when i found out i was conceived. We usually have sex once a month,and that is 1-2 days after my menses. My menses has been very punctual every month. Come to think of it, DS3 is really fated to be ours. 一击就中，中4D 都没那么准.... He just meant to be ours lah.....<p></p></blockquote>Hahaha, me too. used to go by counting days. But miscount, so dd3. ds1 and dd2 are 2 yrs apart. While dd3 is 6 yrs younger than dd2. But after giving birth to dd3, I went for ligation. <br /><br />But my gynea told me, ligation is not 100% sure. Out of 1 million, 1 can still get pregnant after ligate. That can happen when the tube joins back again.  :lol:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460462</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/460462</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kwokwc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 10:30:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Sun, 26 Jun 2011 07:00:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span style="\&quot;color:">I do not trust my husband. Wahaha that's why I prefer to be in control. </span></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/456676</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/456676</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[krazy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2011 07:00:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 18:06:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I also dare not try ligation nor using control methods, can only go by counting dates.......hope dun be suay :sick:<br /><br /><br />Oops....me not supposed to be in this thread, just was curious &amp; saw interesting stuff....so kapo kapo  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></blockquote></blockquote> <br />cwc,<br /><br />me also kaypo to chance upon this thread. I am like u too, days counting... But 人算不如天算.... That's how we have DS3. For 10 over years from dating,cohabitng,marrying DH,we have been using SAFE days... BUT realised it is not safe at all when i found out i was conceived. We usually have sex once a month,and that is 1-2 days after my menses. My menses has been very punctual every month. Come to think of it, DS3 is really fated to be ours. 一击就中，中4D 都没那么准.... He just meant to be ours lah.....<br /><br />I am also in a dilemma now. <br /><br />Need sex at least once a month,yet no ligation, no IUD,no pills on me. Reason: Too costly and worried of the side effects. Isn't it more costly to bring up 1 more life?? :roll: <br /><br />DH to use condom?? Ruin the HIGH mood when he need to \"wear\" it. I will sian into half....<br /><br />Now DS3 is only 3 months, I have no ready mood for sex, DH lagi worst, never asks from me, always  :snooze:  :snooze:  :snooze: <br /><br />Yes lah, so far after full month, we still fulfill once a month, using SAFE days together with withdrawal method (Both not reliable at all) but the following month always  :xedfingers:  :xedfingers: <br />DH :nailbite: when i told him last week menses should be reporting but didn't turn up. And he  :imcool: when menses reported on the next day....<br /><br />Aiyah, me also kaypoh on this site lah... :siam:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/455693</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/455693</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Luvkid]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 18:06:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 10:45:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>tigger88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">The way you say it...sounds scary leh...cut big hole?? faint!</blockquote></blockquote><br />Aiyoh ....<br />ALL CS = Big Hole -ma!<br />Else How to Take out the Babies?<br /> :evil:  :evil: <br /><br />My SCAR .... Should be At Least .... 7\" Long ....<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" />  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/455263</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/455263</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 10:45:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 05:45:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">The way you say it…sounds scary leh…cut big hole?? faint!</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454804</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454804</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tigger88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 05:45:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 05:11:30 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>tigger88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Funx3, you mean your gynae do ligation for you for free?</blockquote></blockquote><br />Got it done together with my 3rd CS ....<br />Not Sure 100% Free ....<br />Think got charges for Lab fees ....<br />Receive Some Lab-Report that says, confirm specimens are 2 fallopian tubes, or something like that ....<br /><br />Think since Already Cut Big Hole already, very easy to reach in to Snip-Snip the fallopian tubes .... so maybe No extra Charge ....<br /> :evil:  :evil:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454745</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454745</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 05:11:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 03:09:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Funx3, you mean your gynae do ligation for you for free?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454543</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454543</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tigger88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 03:09:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Fri, 24 Jun 2011 02:21:06 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>buds:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Is the keloid removal considered an aesthetics procedure?</blockquote></blockquote><br />Guess If it's done separately, it will be.<br /><br />For My Case, I Go for 3-in-1 ....<br />CS + Ligation + Keloid Removal ....<br />Since ALL done in One operation ....<br />Think the Gynae did Not charge me for the Last 2 (Rider?) ....<br /> :evil:  :evil:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454451</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454451</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 02:21:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Thu, 23 Jun 2011 18:04:09 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Mum1113:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><p><br />I thot would be at same location....but I saw it at different place and asked the gynae, THEN he told me that my first CS didn't heal well, so he could not cut at the same place.    My 2 deliveries were only 18mths apart plus I have poor skin and healing which I knew all along, so no choice lah.    That's why I dare not go for 3rd liao.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Your gynae did not discuss or rather inform you the cut at a different location ? Strange as mine informed as, previous scar formed keloid as a result of poor skin (dont know if you have this ?)....so my gynae removed the keloids at the same of the cut, then the heal is pretty good, I must say<p></p></blockquote>Was wondering what exactly is keloid  :oops:   Just googled and saw the images. <br />No, I dun have keloid.....so I think my scarring is more internal than external.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454275</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454275</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BeContented]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 18:04:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Thu, 23 Jun 2011 17:51:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Is the keloid removal considered an aesthetics procedure?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454273</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/454273</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[buds]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 17:51:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Thu, 23 Jun 2011 01:47:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Mum1113:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><p><br />I thot would be at same location....but I saw it at different place and asked the gynae, THEN he told me that my first CS didn't heal well, so he could not cut at the same place.    My 2 deliveries were only 18mths apart plus I have poor skin and healing which I knew all along, so no choice lah.    That's why I dare not go for 3rd liao.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Your gynae did not discuss or rather inform you the cut at a different location ? Strange as mine informed as, previous scar formed keloid as a result of poor skin (dont know if you have this ?)....so my gynae removed the keloids at the same of the cut, then the heal is pretty good, I must say<p></p></blockquote>Ha Ha ....<br />Mum1113, My Gynae Got Rid of the Ugly keloids for me the Same time as my CS Too ....<br />* High Five*<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/453467</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/453467</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funx3]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jun 2011 01:47:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Birth Control Methods on Sat, 18 Jun 2011 14:28:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Wow, yours so nice.........my gynae dun talk much kind :(, dun like to explain too.   </blockquote></blockquote>Actually my first gynae (a male) is like yours too, quiet and a man of few words. If I asked him a little more, than not happy liddat. Anyhow, still stick to him for my 1st 2 preganancies.<br />Decided to change to a female gynae when come to my 3rd pregnancy, and tats where I found her a very detail, very gentle gynae. She tells me each step she is taking, all in my bests and my baby's best of benefit.<br /><br /><blockquote><b>cwc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">.....so it's OVER, the end, Close shop.   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></blockquote></blockquote>That is the SAFEST of all  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/449940</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/449940</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mum1113]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 14:28:14 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>