<![CDATA[How would you react?]]>How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/14527/how-would-you-reactRSS for NodeSun, 19 Apr 2026 19:48:08 GMTFri, 08 Oct 2010 07:33:37 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Tue, 26 Oct 2010 05:14:03 GMT]]>i will feel angry n disappointed…i understand how u feel cos i experience that too :x

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/282485https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/282485Tue, 26 Oct 2010 05:14:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Mon, 11 Oct 2010 00:13:03 GMT]]>in forums, there can be very different type of answer too…


based on observations. For e.g.

A guy member asks a question, answer "Go and google" <- Short

A girl member asks a question, answer a few pages…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273799https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273799Mon, 11 Oct 2010 00:13:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 23:56:24 GMT]]>It would be more meaningful if the TS can maybe quote what is the question asked?


It really depend on the type of question, for e.g. it is technical based or gossip type of question? these 2 are very different in nature…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273797https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273797Sun, 10 Oct 2010 23:56:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 23:25:52 GMT]]>

DesertWind:
Wah, Chief finally loosening up, no?

After all, he set up \"kiasuparents\" with the tagline \"we not stupid too\". So surely he should be capable of such \"ah pek\" talk!
Oh... I certainly have a few loose screws in me. I hear them rattling everytime I sit down at the computer to ksp.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273790https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273790Sun, 10 Oct 2010 23:25:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 21:07:07 GMT]]>:lol: :lol:


everything you did, you must have done better than her so maybe she is in a really competitive mood, trying to catch up and overtake you.

:lol: :lol:

but to do so in your presence, goodness, her eq is really low. no wonder she cant catch up with you.

:lol:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273780https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273780Sun, 10 Oct 2010 21:07:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 18:20:12 GMT]]>Well if she’s so curt to me, then she can forget about me sharing things with her! Fair.


Just do the same back to her when you have the chance.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273774https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273774Sun, 10 Oct 2010 18:20:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:35:07 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu:
I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

Wah, Chief finally loosening up, no?
After all, he set up \"kiasuparents\" with the tagline \"we not stupid too\". So surely he should be capable of such \"ah pek\" talk!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273544https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273544Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:35:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:31:34 GMT]]>For me, if I were you, I will feel really offended! C'mon, same question I ask got short reply. Another friend ask got full decent reply? I will then really consider why this \"friend\" is like that and what is the difference between you and the other person who got fully reply? If you manage to figure out, well & good. If not, never mind but has this type of incidence happen before? If so, next time don't bother asking this \"friend\" lor, can always ask another person!


Sometimes you never know what the other person may be thinking when they react like that. It could be she does not want to \"educate\" you preferring to keep the information to herself. Or she may just want to show the other person she knows the answer for whatever reason....

:celebrate:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273539https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273539Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:31:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Sat, 09 Oct 2010 01:12:09 GMT]]>My hub’s group of friends, got one of their wife is like that.

If person A ask her, she give short reply.
If I ask her, she will tell me more.

Person A got offended and asked me why she tell me so much more but never tell her.
All my hubs told her was, "My wife is professional sweet talker. She is trained to sweet talk ppl to give info. How you think she manage to milk so much info from her students that even parents don’t know about? Don’t feel bad. You want to learn, you can ask her to teach you."

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273164https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273164Sat, 09 Oct 2010 01:12:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 23:29:26 GMT]]>or could it be that u were asking the question at the wrong time? ppl hv moods…sometimes I juz feel I want to hv some quiet time and will only give a short and quick reply…


however if this happens to u all the time, most probably she doesn’t want to share info with u…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273147https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273147Fri, 08 Oct 2010 23:29:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 16:11:58 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu:
KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?


I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

Wat u talking boss :shock:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

good one Chief :nunchuk:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273103https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273103Fri, 08 Oct 2010 16:11:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 14:46:04 GMT]]>

KoalaMummy:
How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

if the 'other friend' is a closer friend to that friend, then i probably brush it off that she is not comfy talking to me.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273060https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273060Fri, 08 Oct 2010 14:46:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 13:25:11 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu:
KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?


I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

I honestly cannot imagine myself hearing or seeing you say that in person. :faint:

You not scared later peeper \"really\" see you no up arh? 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273032https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273032Fri, 08 Oct 2010 13:25:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:56:22 GMT]]>:?


I think 2 different persons will not have identical answer, short answer or long answer 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273028https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273028Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:56:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:36:53 GMT]]>why bother about what your \"friend\" say :roll:

We got other things to worry about 😉

Your friend can say whatever she want, but u decide what u prefer to hear 😎

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273016https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/273016Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:36:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 10:50:37 GMT]]>

KoalaMummy:
How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272971https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272971Fri, 08 Oct 2010 10:50:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 08:39:00 GMT]]>

KoalaMummy:
Imp75:

what kind of question and what kind of answer are you expecting?

If you don't feel satisfied by the answer and still feel baffled, then probe more to get your answer?

it doesn't matter what question. what i m puzzled is why a person can give 2 different answer/account to the same question.

does it mean that she prefers to the person to you? if you were there at the scene, how would you react to it? walk away or listen anyway.

Actually a lot boils down to the question asked. It could be:

1. that person think you already have the answers, so nonid to say so much;

2. that person think you are not keen on her answer, so again, nonid to say so much;

3. that person prefer the other person, so didn't say much to you.

Although since you are around the whole time, if she was showing favour, then shouldn't she have directed the other fella away before giving her the whole load? :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272866https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272866Fri, 08 Oct 2010 08:39:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 08:36:32 GMT]]>

KoalaMummy:
it doesn't matter what question. what i m puzzled is why a person can give 2 different answer/account to the same question.


does it mean that she prefers to the person to you? if you were there at the scene, how would you react to it? walk away or listen anyway.
If the other person is someone higher in the hierarchy than your friend, then your friend is probably polishing apple.

If the other person is asking about personal issue, then, perhaps your friend prefers to talk to the other person?

Just stay and listen, if you are interested, and clarify with your friend thereafter. If you are not bothered with how your friend feels, just walk away.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272864https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272864Fri, 08 Oct 2010 08:36:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:48:31 GMT]]>

Imp75:
what kind of question and what kind of answer are you expecting?

If you don't feel satisfied by the answer and still feel baffled, then probe more to get your answer?
it doesn't matter what question. what i m puzzled is why a person can give 2 different answer/account to the same question.

does it mean that she prefers to the person to you? if you were there at the scene, how would you react to it? walk away or listen anyway.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272820https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272820Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:48:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:38:37 GMT]]>what kind of question and what kind of answer are you expecting?

If you don’t feel satisfied by the answer and still feel baffled, then probe more to get your answer?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272811https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272811Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:38:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How would you react? on Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:35:22 GMT]]>Forget her as a friend.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272808https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/272808Fri, 08 Oct 2010 07:35:22 GMT