<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi all,<br /><br /><br />Happy Chinese New Year!<br /><br />I have 2 boys  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/1868/2boys-hello-i-m-new-here</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2026 05:00:54 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/1868.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:53:31 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 11 Feb 2009 09:15:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>w_li79:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">hihi....<br /><br /><br />I have 3 boys...It is nt neccessary that the middle will be neglected.<br /></blockquote></blockquote>hi w_li79,<br />read from your newbie thread that your middle kid is one of the younger twins.<br />so actually that doesn't really count, right?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br />welcome to KSP too.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f60e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--sunglasses" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="8)" alt="😎" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/16439</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/16439</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 09:15:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 11 Feb 2009 08:11:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>hihi....<br /><br /><br />I have 3 boys...It is nt neccessary that the middle will be neglected.<br /><br />My MIL kept saying that mi &amp; HB dote on the middle rather than the eldest &amp; yougest which is true...maybe bcoz he is more cute &amp; obedient  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/16434</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/16434</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[w_li79]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 08:11:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:38:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Mami_Jazz:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />isn't this applies to all scenario ..let it be a boy or birl, attention &amp; protectiveness will always go the the youngest  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></blockquote></blockquote>Yes. But it won't be too obvious if you only have 2 kids as each parent can focus on one. If you have 3, the middle child tends to be neglected. 4 may be ok, cos the middle 2 kids have company.<br />JMHO.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15892</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15892</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:38:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:33:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">The middle child isn’t matured enough to control rough play and I can see him being told off a couple of times by both the parents and the elder bro. Guess that’s part of being a middle child too. The parents may be right to control the little boy’s behaviour, but hopefully the little boy won’t think that it is wholly due to the little sister.<br /><br /><br />Ya lo, that day just chat with a parent,  she did mention that if one family have 3 children,  the middle one will be get lesser concern by the parents,  as mother will prefer the younger one and the father might prefer the elder one.  So the poor one is in the middle. <br /><br />Nowadays children very clever, they also scare that their "position" will be affected… when they need your concern, they will do a lot of funny things to attract your attention. Then we will be headache liao, so better think twice twice.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15890</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15890</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Addoil]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:33:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:25:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>jedamum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Addoil:</b><p><br />anyway this will be the whole life commitment, better think twice.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yes. Whether we do get another ninja turtle or a princess, it will impact our other 2 kids. The other day, i saw a family with 3 kids. The elder 2 boys are around the same age gap as my boys (i think, from their size and mannerism). The younger boy is pretty active (like my ds2). And their youngest is a princess. Obviously daddies love their princesses and hence the protectiveness. The middle child isn't matured enough to control rough play and I can see him being told off a couple of times by both the parents and the elder bro. Guess that's part of being a middle child too. The parents may be right to control the little boy's behaviour, but hopefully the little boy won't think that it is wholly due to the little sister.<p></p></blockquote>isn't this applies to all scenario ..let it be a boy or birl, attention &amp; protectiveness will always go the the youngest  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15886</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15886</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mami_Jazz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:25:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:06:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Addoil:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />anyway this will be the whole life commitment, better think twice.</blockquote></blockquote>Yes. Whether we do get another ninja turtle or a princess, it will impact our other 2 kids. The other day, i saw a family with 3 kids. The elder 2 boys are around the same age gap as my boys (i think, from their size and mannerism). The younger boy is pretty active (like my ds2). And their youngest is a princess. Obviously daddies love their princesses and hence the protectiveness. The middle child isn't matured enough to control rough play and I can see him being told off a couple of times by both the parents and the elder bro. Guess that's part of being a middle child too. The parents may be right to control the little boy's behaviour, but hopefully the little boy won't think that it is wholly due to the little sister.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15881</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15881</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 06:06:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 05 Feb 2009 04:52:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><i><i>I told them i prefer to be my husband's only princess. </i></i><br /><br /><br />what a good answer <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /> <br /><br />We need guts to try, if later get one more ninja turtles , will be fainted  :!: anyway this will be the whole life commitment, better think twice.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15870</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15870</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Addoil]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 04:52:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 04 Feb 2009 17:06:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I also have 2 boys ('05 &amp; '07). And the two of them are really different!<br /><br />No guts to try for 3rd one… hehe</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15847</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15847</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[westbb]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 17:06:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:57:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Wooo 2boys club !!! :lol:<br /><br /><br />My boys are 3yo(2005) &amp; 6yo(2002)   :love:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15844</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15844</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mami_Jazz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:57:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 04 Feb 2009 13:48:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Addoil:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I think this is the frequent question that the ppl surrounding you will ask. :roll:</blockquote></blockquote><br />I told them i prefer to be my husband's only princess.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15842</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15842</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 13:48:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:48:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>hihi..<br /><br /><br />yes..even my hubby interested to try for the 3rd one...but scared ended with 3 ninja turtles  :stupid:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15839</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15839</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mom2boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:48:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Wed, 04 Feb 2009 06:29:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi ! mummies with 2 boys<br /><br /><br />Me also same with you all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /> any planning to have a liitle girl?  I think this is the frequent question that the ppl surrounding you will ask. :roll:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15802</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15802</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Addoil]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 06:29:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:23:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>welcome 2boys,<br /><br /><br />i've 2boys too...one K1 and the other 16mths  :lol:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15246</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15246</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mom2boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:23:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Fri, 30 Jan 2009 01:42:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>2boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />One is 3 years old </blockquote></blockquote>3 yo means 2006 right? started PreN?<br />my ds2 is 3 this year too...by right...but he is only 26mth old.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15238</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15238</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 01:42:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Fri, 30 Jan 2009 01:33:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi,<br /><br /><br />Thanks for the warm welcome.<br /><br />One is 3 years old and the other one is 1.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15236</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15236</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[2boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 01:33:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:58:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi 2boys, welcome and happy CNY! How old is your boys? I have a boy and a girl.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15173</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15173</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phantom]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:58:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to 2boys: Hello! I&#x27;m new here on Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:57:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Happy Chinese New Year!<br /><br /><br />I have 2 boys too  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /><br /><br />Welcome to KSP.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f60e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--sunglasses" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="8)" alt="😎" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15172</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/15172</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jedamum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:57:16 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>