<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[If you have a child in lower primary]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Dear parents,<br /><br />I just stumbled on to this forum!<br />My apologies if I seem to intrude.<br />What I will post from today are just my opinion and nothing more!<br />Probably i'll find time to try to post some things that may be of use to some of you.<br />Just disregard if you are not interested.<br /><br />Here goes.<br /><br />If you child has just gone to p1 from 2011, you may want to take note of some of the following.<br />1. P1 and P2 are foundation years for your child, so it is imperative that you pay close attention to your darlings' progress by checking their work and ensure that they are in keeping with the teachers' instructions. Things like formation of letters, drawing lines, etc<br /><br />2. Don't make your child miserable by using force, thus killing his interest in school. Once he fights you by refusing to go to school, you are in trouble. All children start by loving to go to school. Unless something happens, he is most likely to remain happy going. It's his chance to be with children his own age.<br /><br />3. Don't take his complaints lightly. If you have to, communicate with his form teacher every opportunity you get. Don't wait until the teacher calls you before you take action.<br /><br />4. Be interested in what your child is doing thereby encouraging him to want to do better. Reward(praise) for good work or if he makes some form of improvement but don't make promises you can't keep! Don't over indulge otherwise it becomes meaningless.<br /><br />5 Be in control of your temper when you teach him or you'll get nowhere. You'll only get yourself frustated.<br /><br />6. If your child gets lost in the lower primary, he'll get lost even further in P4 onwards and he gets discouraged and thinks he is stupid. There is no such thing as a stupid child, he is just slower but once everybody convinces him that he is, he'll believe it himself!<br /><br />Sorry if I sound long winded but if my rubbish is well accepted, I shall continue to post further comments. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/18702/if-you-have-a-child-in-lower-primary</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 10:51:57 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/18702.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 13:28:14 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Tue, 06 Nov 2012 01:22:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Daniel Sim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Dear parents,<br /><br />I just stumbled on to this forum!<br />My apologies if I seem to intrude.<br />What I will post from today are just my opinion and nothing more!<br />Probably i'll find time to try to post some things that may be of use to some of you.<br />Just disregard if you are not interested.<br /><br />Here goes.<br /><br />If you child has just gone to p1 from 2011, you may want to take note of some of the following.<br />1. P1 and P2 are foundation years for your child, so it is imperative that you pay close attention to your darlings' progress by checking their work and ensure that they are in keeping with the teachers' instructions. Things like formation of letters, drawing lines, etc<br /><br />2. Don't make your child miserable by using force, thus killing his interest in school. Once he fights you by refusing to go to school, you are in trouble. All children start by loving to go to school. Unless something happens, he is most likely to remain happy going. It's his chance to be with children his own age.<br /><br />3. Don't take his complaints lightly. If you have to, communicate with his form teacher every opportunity you get. Don't wait until the teacher calls you before you take action.<br /><br />4. Be interested in what your child is doing thereby encouraging him to want to do better. Reward(praise) for good work or if he makes some form of improvement but don't make promises you can't keep! Don't over indulge otherwise it becomes meaningless.<br /><br />5 Be in control of your temper when you teach him or you'll get nowhere. You'll only get yourself frustated.<br /><br />6. If your child gets lost in the lower primary, he'll get lost even further in P4 onwards and he gets discouraged and thinks he is stupid. There is no such thing as a stupid child, he is just slower but once everybody convinces him that he is, he'll believe it himself!<br /><br />Sorry if I sound long winded but if my rubbish is well accepted, I shall continue to post further comments. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote> :goodpost:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/892274</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/892274</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ran1977]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2012 01:22:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Sun, 04 Nov 2012 16:59:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for the reminders... I think very often when I'm guiding my daughter, she picks up on my anxiety when she is unable to do something, and ends up being anxious herself  :yikes: <br /><br /><br />Must mentally remind myself to Keep Calm and Cheer Her On!  :rahrah: <br /><br />Thanks again! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/891254</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/891254</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[xsara]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Nov 2012 16:59:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 09:23:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Daniel Sim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Dear parents,<br /><br />I just stumbled on to this forum!<br />My apologies if I seem to intrude.<br />What I will post from today are just my opinion and nothing more!<br />Probably i'll find time to try to post some things that may be of use to some of you.<br />Just disregard if you are not interested.<br /><br />Here goes.<br /><br />If you child has just gone to p1 from 2011, you may want to take note of some of the following.<br />1. P1 and P2 are foundation years for your child, so it is imperative that you pay close attention to your darlings' progress by checking their work and ensure that they are in keeping with the teachers' instructions. Things like formation of letters, drawing lines, etc<br /><br />2. Don't make your child miserable by using force, thus killing his interest in school. Once he fights you by refusing to go to school, you are in trouble. All children start by loving to go to school. Unless something happens, he is most likely to remain happy going. It's his chance to be with children his own age.<br /><br />3. Don't take his complaints lightly. If you have to, communicate with his form teacher every opportunity you get. Don't wait until the teacher calls you before you take action.<br /><br />4. Be interested in what your child is doing thereby encouraging him to want to do better. Reward(praise) for good work or if he makes some form of improvement but don't make promises you can't keep! Don't over indulge otherwise it becomes meaningless.<br /><br />5 Be in control of your temper when you teach him or you'll get nowhere. You'll only get yourself frustated.<br /><br />6. If your child gets lost in the lower primary, he'll get lost even further in P4 onwards and he gets discouraged and thinks he is stupid. There is no such thing as a stupid child, he is just slower but once everybody convinces him that he is, he'll believe it himself!<br /><br />Sorry if I sound long winded but if my rubbish is well accepted, I shall continue to post further comments. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote> :goodpost: Very practical tips<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369370</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369370</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Yong HL]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 09:23:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 08:59:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Thanks for the reminder…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369350</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369350</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[chanpy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 08:59:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 08:35:31 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Thank you for sharing.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369337</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369337</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[plum-cake]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 08:35:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 07:08:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>:goodpost:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369275</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369275</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[LOLMum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 07:08:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 06:04:30 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Daniel Sim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Sorry if I sound long winded but if my rubbish is well accepted, I shall continue to post further comments. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /></blockquote></blockquote><br />All sharings are welcome here. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><br /><br />As long as we all get along and agree to disagree. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f60e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--sunglasses" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="8)" alt="😎" /><br /><br />However, let's get to noe ya better and the best way is to<br />introduce yourself at the Newbies section. For your easy<br />access, i've included the link to go right there for ya.<br />Click this blue link to go there... yes... now! :lol:<br /><br />&gt; <a href="http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewforum.php?f=28">http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewforum.php?f=28</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369247</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369247</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[buds]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 06:04:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 05:49:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>:thankyou: for the post.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369236</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369236</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BlurBee]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 05:49:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Mon, 28 Feb 2011 04:31:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>:oops: <br /><br /><br />Good advice! Now I need to rethink my working schedule for my children's future sake!</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369165</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/369165</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[smallbelly]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 04:31:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to If you have a child in lower primary on Tue, 25 Jan 2011 23:59:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Daniel Sim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Dear parents,<br /><br />I just stumbled on to this forum!<br />My apologies if I seem to intrude.<br /><span style="\&quot;color:">No worries...your advice is valuable and I agree with you. </span><br /><br />If you child has just gone to p1 from 2011, you may want to take note of some of the following.<br />1. P1 and P2 are foundation years for your child, so it is imperative that you pay close attention to your darlings' progress by checking their work and ensure that they are in keeping with the teachers' instructions. Things like formation of letters, drawing lines, etc<br /><span style="\&quot;color:">Couldn't agree more with you. Don't make the mistake of ignoring the chid at P1/2 thinking that you can build up foundation later...but don't over-do it. </span><br /><br />2. Don't make your child miserable by using force, thus killing his interest in school. Once he fights you by refusing to go to school, you are in trouble. All children start by loving to go to school. Unless something happens, he is most likely to remain happy going. It's his chance to be with children his own age.<br /><span style="\&quot;color:">I talk to my daughter everyday, esp now that she is in P1...to find out what is happening. Encourage the child to speak up and inform the teacher if her classmate has taken her pencil forcefully or bullied her. </span><br /><br />3. Don't take his complaints lightly. If you have to, communicate with his form teacher every opportunity you get. Don't wait until the teacher calls you before you take action.<br /><br />4. Be interested in what your child is doing thereby encouraging him to want to do better. Reward(praise) for good work or if he makes some form of improvement but don't make promises you can't keep! Don't over indulge otherwise it becomes meaningless.<br /><br />5 Be in control of your temper when you teach him or you'll get nowhere. You'll only get yourself frustated.<br /><span style="\&quot;color:">Encourage, motivate to get the child going...praise is very effective.</span><br /><br />6. If your child gets lost in the lower primary, he'll get lost even further in P4 onwards and he gets discouraged and thinks he is stupid. There is no such thing as a stupid child, he is just slower but once everybody convinces him that he is, he'll believe it himself!<br /></blockquote></blockquote><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/345536</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/345536</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 23:59:39 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>