<![CDATA[Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home?]]>Dear all,


Is it "safe" to let maid be alone at home with hubby?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/24206/will-you-allow-your-maid-to-be-alone-with-hubby-at-homeRSS for NodeMon, 27 Apr 2026 05:51:08 GMTFri, 22 Jul 2011 15:18:30 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Thu, 01 Sep 2011 05:44:33 GMT]]>

b2b3m4:
omgmum,

I know eaxactly what u mean!!!! So in the end i sent all my maids away and went maidless....
So, now I am the MDM and the MAID.
Sighz...............
hahahaha!!! I'm also the mdm and the maid now. 🙂

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/572109https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/572109Thu, 01 Sep 2011 05:44:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Wed, 31 Aug 2011 03:04:03 GMT]]>omgmum,

I know eaxactly what u mean!!! So in the end i sent all my maids away and went maidless…
So, now I am the MDM and the MAID.
Sighz…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/570625https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/570625Wed, 31 Aug 2011 03:04:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:13:41 GMT]]>bzmum22, yeah, actually my maid is the mam cos she dares to show face and bang things! Anyway, she’s my ex-maid cos she decided she didn’t want to work for me anymore.


I’m the sort who will do things myself just to get them done faster. But I think I must get rid of this bad habit.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/569769https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/569769Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:13:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:48:30 GMT]]>

omgmum:
bzmum22:

[quote=\"omgmum\"]
Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

omgmum,
why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:[/quote]My maid can match clothes OK but I prefer to choose for my boys myself so if I want her to help get them ready, I will out their clothes out on the bed then she can get them dressed while I get myself ready.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/568413https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/568413Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:48:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Sun, 28 Aug 2011 04:17:05 GMT]]>my hubby is superb uncomfortable with a maid around.when I was working, he went to his parent’s place even though it was his off day.

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omgmum:
bzmum22:

[quote=\"omgmum\"]
Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

omgmum,
why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:[/quote]Aiya, you just ask her to change if she dresses your girl weird lor. They will eventually get the message. I dun let my maid change until we all hv changed. No reason why I shld be changing my kids while she takes her own sweet time to dress up lor...who is the Mdm here?
As for kids, I teach them how to match clothes. If they chooses pieces that clashes, I'll just tell them it doesnt match.

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bzmum22:
omgmum:


Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

omgmum,
why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

Because my maid lets my girl wear the weirdest, mismatched clothes out. Considering that she really dresses up, I would have expected her to know a thing or two about colour coordination. My girl wants to choose her own clothes now and the maid will seriously just let her wear prints with floral, and not in a chic, Boho way. :yikes:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/567265https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/567265Fri, 26 Aug 2011 19:06:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Fri, 26 Aug 2011 10:44:52 GMT]]>

omgmum:

Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!
omgmum,
why are you getting ready your girl when you can get your maid to do it?
Then you can spend time dolling yourself u lah 😄 .

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/567037https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/567037Fri, 26 Aug 2011 10:44:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Thu, 25 Aug 2011 02:34:33 GMT]]>I told my maid not to talk to my hubby and vice verse unless instruction from hubby directly to her. I am very strict with rules and regulation that I set out for my maid. But sometime I found that my maid like to wash my hubby underwear and treat my hubby very polite and gently 😞

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/564816https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/564816Thu, 25 Aug 2011 02:34:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Tue, 16 Aug 2011 08:29:19 GMT]]>

b2b3m4:

Imagine, my maid's hair all tied up nicely like air stewardess and mdm all dishevelled trying to hold on to the kids while maid takes her own sweet time in the toilet.

So the issue here is not whether hb can be trusted but more of hb worried that maid will turn around and scream, \"molest\"!
Same here! When we go out, my maid will change into v nice clothes while I would just grab whatever's washed and ironed because I have to get ready my girl too!

Agree that it's not an issue of trust. (Though for my part, I have to admit that there's a wee bit of insecurity over my lokness. 😓 ) It's an issue of removing temptations so that there's no room for accusations.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/550592https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/550592Tue, 16 Aug 2011 08:29:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Mon, 15 Aug 2011 04:46:04 GMT]]>

omgmum:

I totally agree with you! I catch my maid smiling at my husband, and also looking at me in a \"I think I'm better (looking/ endowed/ etc etc)\".

When I chose her from the biodata, she looked so innocent cos she was dressed in a maid's uniform. When she came, her pants were so tight that every time she bent down to do the chores, I would be staring at her bums and her VPL. And one of her pants had the word \"beautiful\" across her butt! When she went to the carpark to wash the cars, she definitely made a lot of men happy!

Compared to her, I definitely look very lok!
Talk abt lok, I am definitely the same. When we were out with the kids, my maid will need to go to the toilet every half n hr. Regardless, the toilets were located in shopping malls or yucky market. And a few times, i caught her doing her hair in front of the mirror in these public toilet. Imagine, my maid's hair all tied up nicely like air stewardess and mdm all dishevelled trying to hold on to the kids while maid takes her own sweet time in the toilet.
I was so mad. I had a stern talk with her regarding her toilet habits and even asked if she needed to see her dr. She claimed that was her habit and she MUST go toilet very often. And i haven't even talked abt her using up more than 2-3 rolls of toilet paper per day. Not that i am so stingy to the point of limiting the usage of toilet paper but one person using up 2-3 ROLLS a day was ridiculous.

AS to whether there is trust between hb and me. Defnitely bcos there was trust that is why i knew abt all these \"small actions\" and hb was getting all uncomfortable.
But I was pretty mean and asked if he will consider our maid....... And he gave me the disgusted look and tell me, \" I have better ones in my office.\"
So the issue here is not whether hb can be trusted but more of hb worried that maid will turn around and scream, \"molest\"!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/546960https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/546960Mon, 15 Aug 2011 04:46:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Sat, 13 Aug 2011 14:33:56 GMT]]>

peapot:
Wa! How to check maid's stats when all the biodata are fakes. They even fake their own age! From photos we also can't really tell.


I know of someone who caught her husband in bed with the maid. The wife just simply close the door and walk out of the house. This was when their marriage were already on the rocks and the husband is always fooling around outside.
:yikes: :yikes: :yikes:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/544219https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/544219Sat, 13 Aug 2011 14:33:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Sat, 13 Aug 2011 14:00:17 GMT]]>Wa! How to check maid’s stats when all the biodata are fakes. They even fake their own age! From photos we also can’t really tell.


I know of someone who caught her husband in bed with the maid. The wife just simply close the door and walk out of the house. This was when their marriage were already on the rocks and the husband is always fooling around outside.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/544152https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/544152Sat, 13 Aug 2011 14:00:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Tue, 09 Aug 2011 07:43:45 GMT]]>don’t hire a maid if you don’t trust your hubby…

or set some house rule for them…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/535305https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/535305Tue, 09 Aug 2011 07:43:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Sat, 06 Aug 2011 01:53:54 GMT]]>:yikes:

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b2b3m4:
Nebbermind:

b2b3m4


your hubby a very attractive man?

Dunno leh, 2 eyes, 1 mouth and 1 nose lor.... See so many years liao, i can't say attractive.

But i do always have this feeling that the maid aspire to be the mdm of the household. Something along the line of, \"I dun see why i am not better than you\"

I totally agree with you! I catch my maid smiling at my husband, and also looking at me in a \"I think I'm better (looking/ endowed/ etc etc)\".

When I chose her from the biodata, she looked so innocent cos she was dressed in a maid's uniform. When she came, her pants were so tight that every time she bent down to do the chores, I would be staring at her bums and her VPL. And one of her pants had the word \"beautiful\" across her butt! When she went to the carpark to wash the cars, she definitely made a lot of men happy!

Compared to her, I definitely look very lok!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/528102https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/528102Thu, 04 Aug 2011 09:30:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Thu, 04 Aug 2011 02:40:44 GMT]]>I’m sometimes home alone with my maid when my mother is out and DS is in school. I stay in another room - my office - doing my stuff. Maid is always outside in the living room or kitchen doing whatever that she’s doing.


Sometimes when we need to be out "together" she would walk some distance from me and in MRT she would sit elsewhere. Others would not have guess we knew each other.

For this… I’m thankful!

I guess if you can’t trust your hubby then I don’t know what to say. Don’t hire maid lor… beauty is in the eye of the beholder so who’s to say if one is attractive to whom?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/527012https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/527012Thu, 04 Aug 2011 02:40:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:51:52 GMT]]>

buds:
So rule of thumb during maid selection are vital stats! :idea:


Preferably one that doesn't have bigger than mam' of the house? :rotflmao:
Since men ARE after all what they always term.. err... visual creatures. :rubhands:

This is serious since I'm considering getting a helper.. :nailbite:
Emm... buds, I think nobody can be bigger than your avatar's. :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522271https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522271Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:51:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:50:39 GMT]]>

b2b3m4:
I used to have maids and bcos of many bad encounters, i decided to do away with it. Due to my nature of work, there are many times that hb will be home tog with my kids and maid.

When I am not around, hb made these observations.

1. Maid like to wear V neck and bend in front of him
2. Extra nice and gentle
3. Come very close to him

The final encounter.... maid stayed in a room with kid's diapers and all. Hb needed to change DD diaper. Room was closed, hb asked maid to open door so he can take the diaper. Door opened, hb didn't see maid.
Reversed his step, asked loudly where is maid. Maid answered she was behind the door. Asked why she hiding there. Maid said she was naked!!!!
:yikes: What's she up to??!??

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522264https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522264Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:50:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:45:52 GMT]]>A 2011 NDP presentation...complete with MAIDS (whom u will not allow alone with hubby!!)


[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YD5RLNQiTIQ][/youtube]

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522240https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/522240Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:45:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Mon, 01 Aug 2011 09:00:19 GMT]]>

buds:
Since men ARE after all what they always term.. err... visual creatures. :rubhands:
no lah....just curious creatures..... 😆

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/520865https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/520865Mon, 01 Aug 2011 09:00:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Mon, 01 Aug 2011 08:59:04 GMT]]>

KSP:
so hub can't even take MC and rest at home ??? best not to have maid......

I can imagine her maid offering to give Sir a head massage...and ended up dunno where else!!! :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/520860https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/520860Mon, 01 Aug 2011 08:59:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Will you allow your maid to be alone with hubby at home? on Mon, 01 Aug 2011 08:11:32 GMT]]>

cwc:
buds:

So rule of thumb during maid selection are vital stats! :idea:


Preferably one that doesn't have bigger than mam' of the house? :rotflmao:
Since men ARE after all what they always term.. err... visual creatures. :rubhands:

This is serious since I'm considering getting a helper.. :nailbite:

Ha ha....interesting. So in your opinion, which ranks top.....face, age or size :evil:
Going by size.....I would almost forever be threatened........


To the sentence in bold... :rotflmao:

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cwc:

Ha ha....interesting. So in your opinion, which ranks top.....face, age or size :evil:
Going by size.....I would almost forever be threatened........
I know what u mean. I admit, I am the flat bean pole.

My SIL used to have this really hardworking maid but was really short. U see how she do housework, really heart thumping. She stood on a stool to fry her fish, a ladder to wipe cupboards and hang laundry. And when u see how she try to bring in Sir's golf clubs, i always feel she's going to be crashed anytime.
My SIL initially really wanted to send her away looking at how scrawny she was. But a good thing they perserve and the maid work for them a long time.

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