<![CDATA[prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her]]>A Chinese national woman had reportedly forced her boyfriend, a local secondary three boy to marry her.


The woman is 26, holds a student pass and is in Singapore to study, while the sec three boy comes from a comfortable background and is an introvert.

The two were introduced to each other at a friend's birthday party and had exchanged phone numbers. Because she sported youthful looks and a babyface, the boy did not suspect that she was in fact 11 years older than him.

Soon after their first meeting, the woman courted the boy aggressively with messages and online chats. The two soon progressed to become a couple.

Three to four months later, the woman initiated sex with the boy. After the two became intimate, she began to pressure him to marry her.

The boy did not know what to do and in the end asked his parents for help.

This case was cited by a counsellor as an example of another tactic used by Chinese national women to snag Singaporean husbands. Besides matchmaking and introductions through friends and relatives, some Chinese national women use student passes to look for husbands in Singapore.

These women, sometimes girls as young as 17, may get pregnant with a Singaporean boyfriend and insist on marriage.

According to the counsellor, some of these women marry to acquire Singaporean citizenship, then use it as a stepping board to go to US or Australia.

Source: Lianhe Wanbao, 5 September 2011. Click here for the Chinese report.

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i really dont know what to say. first the husband now the son, who is gonna be next on the list.
:mad:

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pinky:
Canvas:

How lid dat? Read an article that there are 1 million PRC on our tiny land now.


recently divorce laws changed in china such that whoever bought the matrimonial house will be entitled to it and need not share with the spouse. this lead to many of their women leaving their shores bec they could not get hold of the $$$ from selling the property and many are said to be heading here for better luck :mad:

in SG, you got WC. Woman always wins..

Mebbe that's why they like it here so much.. :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583595https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583595Tue, 13 Sep 2011 02:44:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 02:13:24 GMT]]>

LOLMum:
pinky:

[quote=\"Canvas\"]How lid dat? Read an article that there are 1 million PRC on our tiny land now.


recently divorce laws changed in china such that whoever bought the matrimonial house will be entitled to it and need not share with the spouse. this lead to many of their women leaving their shores bec they could not get hold of the $$$ from selling the property and many are said to be heading here for better luck :mad:

in taiwan, there is a law that allows the spouse to take the third party to court for breaking up the family. we should have this law here. how can the third party get away so easily?
but definitely wont do something so drastic like pouring acid on the third party. look at what happend to the poor guy who has affair with a married woman and was beaten up and had acid pour onto his private area.[/quote]agree, remember the case of the PRC woman who hired gangsters to harass and beat up the wife, burnt their main door, padlock glued and followed her openly to force her to sell the flat and leave the idiot husband? despite numerous calls to the police, no follow up in the papers if the PRC woman was arrested for harassment or not :mad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583547https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583547Tue, 13 Sep 2011 02:13:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:35:37 GMT]]>

pinky:
Canvas:

How lid dat? Read an article that there are 1 million PRC on our tiny land now.


recently divorce laws changed in china such that whoever bought the matrimonial house will be entitled to it and need not share with the spouse. this lead to many of their women leaving their shores bec they could not get hold of the $$$ from selling the property and many are said to be heading here for better luck :mad:

in taiwan, there is a law that allows the spouse to take the third party to court for breaking up the family. we should have this law here. how can the third party get away so easily?

but definitely wont do something so drastic like pouring acid on the third party. look at what happend to the poor guy who has affair with a married woman and was beaten up and had acid pour onto his private area.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583313https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583313Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:35:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:17:32 GMT]]>

Canvas:
How lid dat? Read an article that there are 1 million PRC on our tiny land now.

recently divorce laws changed in china such that whoever bought the matrimonial house will be entitled to it and need not share with the spouse. this lead to many of their women leaving their shores bec they could not get hold of the $$$ from selling the property and many are said to be heading here for better luck :mad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583304https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583304Mon, 12 Sep 2011 14:17:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Mon, 12 Sep 2011 12:33:03 GMT]]>deleted

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583264https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583264Mon, 12 Sep 2011 12:33:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Mon, 12 Sep 2011 12:28:38 GMT]]>initially one pair of PRC legs touch down first, land on SG soil.


after settle down, he / she start to bring down their parents, parents in law one by one …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583254https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583254Mon, 12 Sep 2011 12:28:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Mon, 12 Sep 2011 11:31:57 GMT]]>How lid dat? Read an article that there are 1 million PRC on our tiny land now.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583233https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583233Mon, 12 Sep 2011 11:31:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sun, 11 Sep 2011 00:44:05 GMT]]>Don't think \"sleeping with each other\" happen only at night & in the boy's room. For cases like if it happened in other time of the day & in somewhere, I think parents won't be awared.

Yes, I do think parents should give the girl's parents a call to let them know and if the girl's parent is ok, then must make sure they don't sleep in the same room.

phtthp:
nowadays, some parents very liberal ...

even if they see some Sec 3 or 4 girl or older teenage girl coming to their house to spend a night with their son, they just allow it. They:-

- never even ask the girl 'Can you pls go home and sleep ? Else, your parents will be very worried about you, and it's getting late. '

- never even bother to call up the girls' parents 'Can you please come over to fetch your daughter home to sleep ? She is in my son's house now. I would like your daughter to go home and sleep. '

- never even educate on morals nor discourage their son that pre-marital sex is wrong ... because it can lead to unwanted pregnancies, abortions, lots of problems, controversial issues later on ...

these parents just let their son sleep with any liberal girl.

now come the consequences .... in the event that this liberal girl turn out to be another scheming PRC girl & got pregnant, whose fault is it ? is it just the young boy alone ? No, it's the parents as well. They're asking for trouble! because they already know it, still let this thing happen at their home.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582105https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582105Sun, 11 Sep 2011 00:44:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 18:40:24 GMT]]>nowadays, some parents very liberal …


even if they see some Sec 3 or 4 girl or older teenage girl coming to their house to spend a night with their son, they just allow it. They:-

- never even ask the girl 'Can you pls go home and sleep ? Else, your parents will be very worried about you, and it’s getting late. ‘

- never even bother to call up the girls’ parents 'Can you please come over to fetch your daughter home to sleep ? She is in my son’s house now. I would like your daughter to go home and sleep. '

- never even educate on morals nor discourage their son that pre-marital sex is wrong … because it can lead to unwanted pregnancies, abortions, lots of problems, controversial issues later on …

these parents just let their son sleep with any liberal girl.

now come the consequences … in the event that this liberal girl turn out to be another scheming PRC girl & got pregnant, whose fault is it ? is it just the young boy alone ? No, it’s the parents as well. They’re asking for trouble! because they already know it, still let this thing happen at their home.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582085https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582085Sat, 10 Sep 2011 18:40:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:26:45 GMT]]>maybe she’s lonely.


once a woman pass age 38 entering 40 soon, very hard to find boyfriend get married. Most men prefer younger women.

so find China men …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582033https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/582033Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:26:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 13:01:54 GMT]]>

LOLMum:
it is really awful isnt it?


wife have to make sure that such temptations dont come hubby's way. she has to work, take care of chores, kids, try to get along with everyone in the family, sometimes even got to entertain (depends on hubby's work or lifestyle), make themselves still attractive to hubby............

now have to keep tab on sons..........headache.

should there be baby, how? to keep or not to keep? it is a life............

seldom hear of male foreigners doing same thing to female singaporeans to get pr or whatsoever.
I heard from my friend that her girl friend(quite mature in age, about 40 or so) met a PRC man who is younger than her and married him within a short courtship. After married, the man keep asking her to help him apply citizenship. Not sure if it's true love between them but definitely don't sound like one to me.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581961https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581961Sat, 10 Sep 2011 13:01:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 09:45:41 GMT]]>it is really awful isnt it?


wife have to make sure that such temptations dont come hubby’s way. she has to work, take care of chores, kids, try to get along with everyone in the family, sometimes even got to entertain (depends on hubby’s work or lifestyle), make themselves still attractive to hubby…

now have to keep tab on sons…headache.

should there be baby, how? to keep or not to keep? it is a life…

seldom hear of male foreigners doing same thing to female singaporeans to get pr or whatsoever.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581894https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581894Sat, 10 Sep 2011 09:45:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 09:34:37 GMT]]>

Flowermonaster:
LOLMum, how you know there is a baby? Did I miss out something in the report? If so, then the boy & his parents will have headache now. This is no joke! :scared:
LOLMum:

i pity the baby who is obviously a victim / a tool.

phtthp:
is she pregnant ? if Yes, will use baby as tool to extort some $.

but the boys' parents must be alert, send her for DNA tests, confirm if baby's father is indeed their son.

she's 11 yrs older than the boy. 26 vs. 15 (sec 3).
phtthp:
is the baby's father really this Sec 3 boy ?
no, none of you miss anything. i was reading the pages and felt sad about such things happening and the thought of a baby being involved just add doouble saddness to me and thus the statement. there is no baby involved. :imsorry: should have made it clearer.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581882https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581882Sat, 10 Sep 2011 09:34:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 08:37:27 GMT]]>is the baby’s father really this Sec 3 boy ?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581847https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581847Sat, 10 Sep 2011 08:37:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 08:21:12 GMT]]>LOLMum, how you know there is a baby? Did I miss out something in the report? If so, then the boy & his parents will have headache now. This is no joke! :scared:

LOLMum:
i pity the baby who is obviously a victim / a tool.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581838https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581838Sat, 10 Sep 2011 08:21:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:20:47 GMT]]>is she pregnant ? if Yes, will use baby as tool to extort some $.


but the boys’ parents must be alert, send her for DNA tests, confirm if baby’s father is indeed their son.

she’s 11 yrs older than the boy. 26 vs. 15 (sec 3).

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581808https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581808Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:20:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:09:48 GMT]]>i pity the baby who is obviously a victim / a tool.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581805https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581805Sat, 10 Sep 2011 07:09:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 06:59:45 GMT]]>not just his future alone, but this woman sure create trouble somehow for his poor parents, perhaps sell house (be it HDB flat, or private condo). then get $ ? trouble brew after marriage …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581801https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581801Sat, 10 Sep 2011 06:59:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Sat, 10 Sep 2011 04:46:06 GMT]]>Pity the poor boy, he dug his own grave and now has to lie in it. If he really marries the PRC woman, think his future also gone…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581754https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/581754Sat, 10 Sep 2011 04:46:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Fri, 09 Sep 2011 02:09:50 GMT]]>this is a precious lesson learnt not just to this boy alone.

but to all boys in Upper Secondary, Junior colleges, polytechnic & Universities … beware of PRC girls & young ladies. all kinds of women in this world nowadays.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/580412https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/580412Fri, 09 Sep 2011 02:09:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Fri, 09 Sep 2011 01:38:11 GMT]]>can't help but wonder what happened to the boy now ? must be very traumatised and it may caused long term psychological problem :sad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/580357https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/580357Fri, 09 Sep 2011 01:38:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Thu, 08 Sep 2011 09:41:07 GMT]]>oh, i saw the same article on asiaone today.


http://forums.asiaone.com/showthread.php?t=42613

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/579909https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/579909Thu, 08 Sep 2011 09:41:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Thu, 08 Sep 2011 09:02:05 GMT]]>morale of the story is:-


if you’re a Sec 3 or 4 boy, dun ever make any girl or woman pregnant, even if your male sex hormones are raging. Else pay a high price, pulling along your parents down as well.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/579800https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/579800Thu, 08 Sep 2011 09:02:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to prc woman forced sec 3 bf to marry her on Thu, 08 Sep 2011 08:54:57 GMT]]>some places in china still celebrate wedding for at least 3 to 4 days, same as some towns in europe too.......party like mad ... :siao: :siao: :faint: :faint:

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