<![CDATA[Leaving children at home unattended]]>I want to know how parents are successful in instilling discipline in their children who is at home after school WITHOUT a caretaker?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/25825/leaving-children-at-home-unattendedRSS for NodeSun, 19 Apr 2026 05:07:38 GMTTue, 13 Sep 2011 02:28:16 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Mon, 03 Oct 2011 09:30:01 GMT]]>i agree with tamarind on leaving the child at a student care centre even if it is only for that short while… or check with a neighbour to see if they can help care for the child while u are way…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/601130https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/601130Mon, 03 Oct 2011 09:30:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Mon, 03 Oct 2011 08:11:42 GMT]]>It really depends on the maturity of the kids.

My neighbour’s boy is able to walk to & fro school by himself & is alone at home by himself since P5. His sec 2 sister usually will arrive home 2-4hr after that. During sch hols, both of them would b home w/o adult & he would usually go out for lunch nearby by himself if his sister is not w him.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/601037https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/601037Mon, 03 Oct 2011 08:11:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:30:44 GMT]]>

Diesel:
I want to know how parents are successful in instilling discipline in their children who is at home after school WITHOUT a caretaker?

I would advise you to put them in a student care center. It is too risky to leave kids unattended at home.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600627https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600627Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:30:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:27:15 GMT]]>

Oppsgal:
peterch:

If I'm not mistaken, it against the law if you leave the children at that age unattended :yikes:


Never heard of such rule :?

It is against the law in the UK to leave a child who is under age 13 unattended at home.

In Singapore, many parents leave their kids unattended at home and I have never heard of them being prosecuted by law. I believe there is no such law in Singapore.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600620https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600620Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:27:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:10:59 GMT]]>Thanks, jiyou223.


I’m still hesitating because without adult supervision, he might just spend his time playing games or dreaming.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600597https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600597Mon, 03 Oct 2011 02:10:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Sun, 02 Oct 2011 14:15:47 GMT]]>

heyhoe:
I'm also tempted to let my P3 DS to stay at home after school. Reason being, he usually stay back after school for CCA etc 4 times a week. He's only left with 2-3 hours which I think is better spent resting at home and doing his homework.


Do you think having security camera will help?
My colleague install CCTV. He has a maid, dd at p4 n ds at u2. It work well for him.
As for ds, he ever home alone for an hour when grandparent went downstairs for a quick errant.
What is the suitable age? By law is what age?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600346https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/600346Sun, 02 Oct 2011 14:15:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Fri, 16 Sep 2011 05:59:02 GMT]]>

Oppsgal:
Diesel:

9 yrs old and 7 yrs old


That will be hard... At this age, I think I don't dare place them at home unattended, unless they are matured and don't play with fire, or climb out of windows.

Heard of the case of a fallen kid. :sad:

Agree. To me 9 yrs is too young to stay home unsupervised and look after a 7 yr old. If they are locked in the house with no keys and no means to get out, fire would be a worry. If keys are given to them, worry is whether they will be 'persuaded' to unlock the door for anyone.

Cameras to monitor the kids are only good for getting an idea whether they have been studying or doing homework but will not be able to prevent bad stuff from happening, eg playing with fire, gas, falling from climbing chairs, etc.

Just my 2 cents worth.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586843https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586843Fri, 16 Sep 2011 05:59:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Fri, 16 Sep 2011 02:27:43 GMT]]>

peterch:
If I'm not mistaken, it against the law if you leave the children at that age unattended :yikes:

Never heard of such rule :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586635https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586635Fri, 16 Sep 2011 02:27:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Thu, 15 Sep 2011 07:17:00 GMT]]>

heyhoe:
I'm also tempted to let my P3 DS to stay at home after school. Reason being, he usually stay back after school for CCA etc 4 times a week. He's only left with 2-3 hours which I think is better spent resting at home and doing his homework.


Do you think having security camera will help?
:peekaboo: Try Mobile LIVECam..you can get it from MI & Singtel only.
Its work for me,..very useful tools,..you can watch wha't happening @ home no matter where u are. I used d camera to view my boy activities. E.g.... Is he at home, Is he doing his homework,.COMPUTER /TV..etc..
Now that he more mature..learn to base on trust..so i'll use d camera once or twice a day.... 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586006https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/586006Thu, 15 Sep 2011 07:17:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Thu, 15 Sep 2011 06:26:10 GMT]]>

Diesel:
AC:

[quote=\"Diesel\"]Yeah...

But I am curious if there are parents who have done it?

😄 M one of them (single mom) & Thank God!....he turns out...a fine boy. M very very proud of him. Very disciplined 😄


How old was he when you left him?[/quote] 😄 9 1/2 yrs old.....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585948https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585948Thu, 15 Sep 2011 06:26:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Thu, 15 Sep 2011 06:21:39 GMT]]>I’m also tempted to let my P3 DS to stay at home after school. Reason being, he usually stay back after school for CCA etc 4 times a week. He’s only left with 2-3 hours which I think is better spent resting at home and doing his homework.


Do you think having security camera will help?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585940https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585940Thu, 15 Sep 2011 06:21:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Thu, 15 Sep 2011 04:54:59 GMT]]>

AC:
Diesel:

Yeah...

But I am curious if there are parents who have done it?

😄 M one of them (single mom) & Thank God!....he turns out...a fine boy. M very very proud of him. Very disciplined 😄


How old was he when you left him?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585850https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585850Thu, 15 Sep 2011 04:54:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Thu, 15 Sep 2011 04:38:07 GMT]]>

Diesel:
Yeah...

But I am curious if there are parents who have done it?
😄 M one of them (single mom) & Thank God!....he turns out...a fine boy. M very very proud of him. Very disciplined 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585831https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/585831Thu, 15 Sep 2011 04:38:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 09:07:23 GMT]]>If I'm not mistaken, it against the law if you leave the children at that age unattended :yikes:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583998https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583998Tue, 13 Sep 2011 09:07:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 09:05:34 GMT]]>Yeah…

But I am curious if there are parents who have done it?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583994https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583994Tue, 13 Sep 2011 09:05:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 08:45:20 GMT]]>

Diesel:
9 yrs old and 7 yrs old

That will be hard... At this age, I think I don't dare place them at home unattended, unless they are matured and don't play with fire, or climb out of windows.

Heard of the case of a fallen kid. :sad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583975https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583975Tue, 13 Sep 2011 08:45:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 03:12:58 GMT]]>9 yrs old and 7 yrs old

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583639https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583639Tue, 13 Sep 2011 03:12:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Leaving children at home unattended on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 03:09:23 GMT]]>perhaps u shd state the age range.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583635https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/583635Tue, 13 Sep 2011 03:09:23 GMT