About Puberty - Boys

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Sat, 30 Apr 2022 08:29:00 GMT

bhanrobert99 — Sat, 30 Apr 2022 08:29:00 GMT

I can be open minded but things like wet dream I can’t explain much. Anyone can advise?

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 26 May 2021 08:13:26 GMT

shisan — Wed, 26 May 2021 08:13:26 GMT

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Don’t worry so much lah, start early doesnt mean will end early. The whole process takes several years anyway. And there’s still the potential growth spurt.

Just continue to give him space (and privacy haha) and be there for him. My boy has some pimples too, not full blown acne yet but have to nag to use facial wash.[/quote]

I try, i try... this mom has talent for worrying. Just want the kids to be well and normal. Too much problems in the house as it is already.

I bought facial wash, he literally squeezes on his palms, lather, touch his face and considered done. He even asks if there is a face/body/hair/teeth wash in one because too confusing when all separate.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 26 May 2021 06:00:09 GMT

coast — Wed, 26 May 2021 06:00:09 GMT

Help Your Child Cope With Puberty and Self-esteem

https://www.healthhub.sg/live-healthy/957/help-your-child-cope-with-puberty-and-self-esteem

All the best.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 26 May 2021 03:07:00 GMT

zac's mum — Wed, 26 May 2021 03:07:00 GMT

Don’t worry so much lah, start early doesnt mean will end early. The whole process takes several years anyway. And there’s still the potential growth spurt.

Just continue to give him space (and privacy haha) and be there for him. My boy has some pimples too, not full blown acne yet but have to nag to use facial wash.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 26 May 2021 02:53:08 GMT

shisan — Wed, 26 May 2021 02:53:08 GMT

According to the book, my son might still be a tad early. This fine pubic hair is happening now, while his private part has grown since last year i think… he doesn’t let me see, he screams “PRIVACY!!” So yah, i wouldn’t know when it started. He has small white head, tiny pimples on his cheeks, this happens occasionally. I didn’t have acne so I don’t know what age this starts. I just hope it isn’t gonna hasten the puberty process and because of that, end early… so he ends up a short and stunted adult…

And of course I miss the kiddo stage la, I know I’ll dread teenage stage

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Tue, 25 May 2021 12:01:43 GMT

zac's mum — Tue, 25 May 2021 12:01:43 GMT

It’s only considered early if it starts before 10 yo. Ask his dad when he started his. This book says generally the sons will start roughly 9 months younger than their dads.

Worth buying and reading up. For your son too.

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Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Tue, 25 May 2021 11:35:21 GMT

shisan — Tue, 25 May 2021 11:35:21 GMT

Actually this peach fuzz above his lips already there since last year. I have always been a little concerned over it but doctor never say anything. My husband went to check, he say the pubic hair is not the rough curly type. Just fine hair but longer than usual. Is that the start? He is still skinny… just taller. The voice change and muscles, roughly how fast? Not even P6… and only 1.49m tall I’m wondering how much more he can grow only …

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Tue, 25 May 2021 04:12:49 GMT

mindscape — Tue, 25 May 2021 04:12:49 GMT

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Can I ask on the physical aspect of puberty? My boy just turned 11 a month back. He has a peach fuzz moustache and he says he has short pubic hair starting to sprout. Also some pimples on his cheeks. Is this too early?

For me I find it early but, you need not to worry as it is normal. Next thing will happen is his voice begins to change as muscles get larger.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Sat, 22 May 2021 09:53:31 GMT

shisan — Sat, 22 May 2021 09:53:31 GMT

Can I ask on the physical aspect of puberty? My boy just turned 11 a month back. He has a peach fuzz moustache and he says he has short pubic hair starting to sprout. Also some pimples on his cheeks. Is this too early?

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 29 Apr 2021 21:14:49 GMT

Vashli — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 21:14:49 GMT

Actually, I find it hard since masturbating is part of human nature. Maybe, we just need to be open to our kid about it and explain to him the pros and cons of masturbating. Also, don’t let him watch porn. Always check his computer.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 22 Apr 2021 03:17:29 GMT

Vashli — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 03:17:29 GMT

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Hi, do you have any good recommendation to a shaving starter kit for youth btwn 14-16? Also, can share if your boys trim/ shave their armpit hair?

My teen just turned 13 and he is very inquisitive with the hairs that is growing in this puberty period. He even asked me if he could trim those that is in his private part. I said soon. Did your teens shave theirs too at this age?

Your thoughts pls. thanks!

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Fri, 02 Apr 2021 08:21:33 GMT

Iambearchua — Fri, 02 Apr 2021 08:21:33 GMT

I think it is normal that we tend to be worried and anxious but it is perfectly normal to feel this way.

My tots is to be their QnA cos it is better to answer their questions then them going to google for answers.

Be as open as we can so that they feel comfortable to share

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 07 Jan 2021 14:35:50 GMT

Vashli — Thu, 07 Jan 2021 14:35:50 GMT

Our kids need our guidance. As the grow, our control level varies. During their adolescence, we, as parents, must supervise them in a balanced way - not to lax, not to strict. We should often talk to them, especially about sex. We should educate them in a way that they see sex with respect, especially as they become teenagers - a critical part of growing.

Proper discipline and upbringing would set them apart.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 30 Dec 2020 16:24:33 GMT

mindscape — Wed, 30 Dec 2020 16:24:33 GMT

Communicating with our boys is the best way to let them understand things that they are experiencing and will experience during their adolescence. Puberty stage is critical especially that our boys will begin to have urge/s. Media will harm our kids if we wont take charge.

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:30:56 GMT

kukladolly — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:30:56 GMT

I believe that you need to talk with him only with a psychologist. and in general this is a natural process in a child

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Mon, 03 Feb 2020 06:01:51 GMT

foodandflights — Mon, 03 Feb 2020 06:01:51 GMT

It helps to know about the changes that puberty causes before they happen

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 16 Jan 2020 02:50:14 GMT

foodandflights — Thu, 16 Jan 2020 02:50:14 GMT

guide him along the way and be honest with his thoughts

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 31 Jan 2019 05:22:56 GMT

sagittaurius — Thu, 31 Jan 2019 05:22:56 GMT

Hello my 11 year old old just let me sign consent form for the sexuality education in school. They doing to start the topic in term 2. I wonder what does the school really teach? And is it better for the dad to explain rather then mum like me. I can be open minded but things like wet dream I can’t explain much. Anyone can advise?

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 17 Jan 2019 03:17:48 GMT

CalvinS — Thu, 17 Jan 2019 03:17:48 GMT

Puberty can cause you to have lots of different feelings and emotions. Talk to people you trust, including your parents who have been through this before. This can help you cope with the changes you are experiencing. Stay away from alcohol, drugs and tobacco. All of these can harm your body and are addictive. A friendly reminder from a dad

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Sat, 21 Jul 2012 08:17:31 GMT

Ichigokun — Sat, 21 Jul 2012 08:17:31 GMT

Flowermonaster:
Ichigokun:
@Flowermonaster;

Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

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Hi Ichigokun, it's actually not very healthy to do that but I am not going to nag because I am guilty of that too. :oops:

Sometimes in the morning when my parents keep asking me to wake up to go to school. I'm really tired and they keep nagging. So I go into the toilet to sit on the toilet bowl and sleep for another 5-10 minutes. XD

Of course sleeping on the toilet bowl isn't as comfortable as sleeping on the bed lah... but... just sleep lor. LOL

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 12 Jul 2012 12:10:23 GMT

Flowermonaster — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 12:10:23 GMT

Ichigokun:
@Flowermonaster;

Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

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Hi Ichigokun, it's actually not very healthy to do that but I am not going to nag because I am guilty of that too. :oops:

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:56:40 GMT

Ichigokun — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:56:40 GMT

@Flowermonaster;

Yahlor. I sometimes get bored in the toilet so I take something inside to do while taking a crap.

E.g: Facebooking/Reading etc.

Sometimes if I haven't finished my homework then I have the sudden urge to take a crap, I take the homework then go crap while doing it. LOL.

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Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:51:16 GMT

Flowermonaster — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:51:16 GMT

Ichigokun:
Sushiqueen:
Hi Parents

Can share about your DS puberty ... how did you handle him and help him through during ... I just found out my DS 13 had started to masturbate :oops:
Spending so much time in the toliet ... :censored:
Exam period can revise halfway then disappear and stay in the toliet for ages !
I am in a mixed up feeling ... sign not my baby DS anymore not the pure sweet pie like before ...
Can you share share here... :nailbite: can tell me more so that I can be more understanding or tolerants ... :nailbite:
Sure is masturbate or not? Don't jump to conclusions if you haven't walked into the toilet and saw him doing that.

Maybe he's just having constipation recently that's why he's in the toilet for so long :X

My DS also spent long time in toilet. He will read book/papers while doing his \"business\". :frustrated:
So may be your DS studying hard while doing his \"business\"?

Reply to About Puberty - Boys on Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:40:19 GMT

Ichigokun — Thu, 12 Jul 2012 11:40:19 GMT

Sushiqueen:
Hi Parents

Can share about your DS puberty ... how did you handle him and help him through during ... I just found out my DS 13 had started to masturbate :oops:
Spending so much time in the toliet ... :censored:
Exam period can revise halfway then disappear and stay in the toliet for ages !
I am in a mixed up feeling ... sign not my baby DS anymore not the pure sweet pie like before ...
Can you share share here... :nailbite: can tell me more so that I can be more understanding or tolerants ... :nailbite:

Sure is masturbate or not? Don't jump to conclusions if you haven't walked into the toilet and saw him doing that.

Maybe he's just having constipation recently that's why he's in the toilet for so long :X