<![CDATA[All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible.........]]>[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqVYUzHc5L8][/youtube]


everyone simply don't help..what goes wrong with this world?? :mad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/26969/all-the-simply-cant-be-bother-pedestrians-terribleRSS for NodeSat, 25 Apr 2026 01:52:50 GMTMon, 17 Oct 2011 02:12:44 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 10 Nov 2011 02:25:37 GMT]]>

BeContented:
concern2:

Ok, I've found it. Here it is:


http://www.snotr.com/video/5821/Bystander_Effect_-_people_watch_girl_being_abducted


Thanks Concern2, a very good video to show how the bystander effect is making this world scary.....and it seems to be worsening.

And seriously, must always remind myself, never judge 'a book by it's cover'. The 2 man seems such unlikely people to bother but yet, see how they move in swiftly in times of crisis, was very moved. Their actions are really commendable. :salute:

thanks for the video, concern2 ~
indeed gives food for thought..

am touched by the two guys who tried to do something! they got good strategy too hehe.. spread out and then close in from both sides.. very impressed.. 😃

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/631531https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/631531Thu, 10 Nov 2011 02:25:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 10 Nov 2011 02:01:58 GMT]]>

concern2:
Ok, I've found it. Here it is:


http://www.snotr.com/video/5821/Bystander_Effect_-_people_watch_girl_being_abducted

Thanks Concern2, a very good video to show how the bystander effect is making this world scary.....and it seems to be worsening.

And seriously, must always remind myself, never judge 'a book by it's cover'. The 2 man seems such unlikely people to bother but yet, see how they move in swiftly in times of crisis, was very moved. Their actions are really commendable. :salute:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/631488https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/631488Thu, 10 Nov 2011 02:01:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:15:27 GMT]]>Victim's relatives harass helpers


By Yang Yijun
China Daily/Asia News Network
Wednesday, Nov 09, 2011

SHANGHAI - Two waiters, who went to the aid of an old woman who was injured in a hit-and-run accident, ended up being threatened by the woman's relatives.

The incident is being seen as the latest example of good Samaritans being wrongly treated after helping the victims of traffic accidents.

More than 40 relatives and fellow villagers of a woman, who died after being hit by a car outside a restaurant on Oct 31, angrily besieged the waiters accusing them of being responsible for her death.

\"The waiters of the restaurant must have witnessed the accident, as it happened near the entrance to the restaurant. They should have called the police at once,\" said one of the woman's relatives. \"The doctors told us that she might have survived if she was sent to the hospital earlier.\" He denied they had attacked waiters.

\"We were angry, but the talk was peaceful. We didn't fight with the waiters or damage anything in the restaurant,\" he said. However, Li Xiaofeng, one of the waiters at Tianyuan Restaurant in Cangnan county of Wenzhou, Zhejiang province, said the mob was very scary.\"They held me and said they would bring a coffin to the restaurant,\" he said.

Li said he found the woman lying near the restaurant's entrance on his return to work after lunch and he summoned the restaurant's cashier Cheng Xiaoyan and they checked the woman's condition together.\"We found that she was unconscious and there was blood at the back of her head. We immediately called the police,\" Li said.

\"After the police arrived, we had to wait about 30 minutes for the ambulance,\" he added. Li said he felt very depressed after the confrontation with woman's relatives.

\"I called the police out of good intentions, but in the end I was abused by the victim's relatives.\"The relatives even accused the restaurant workers were linked with the driver. Fortunately, the driver, who drove off after hitting the woman, turned himself in to police on Nov 3, proving the waiters' innocence.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/630695https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/630695Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:15:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Wed, 02 Nov 2011 03:51:23 GMT]]>Ok, I've found it. Here it is:


http://www.snotr.com/video/5821/Bystander_Effect_-_people_watch_girl_being_abducted

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/625075https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/625075Wed, 02 Nov 2011 03:51:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Mon, 31 Oct 2011 02:25:22 GMT]]>

concern2:
Hey guys, I simply have to post this. Every parents should watch this. There is something called the \"bystander mentality\". It could happen anywhere, and what people should do when witnessing such a situation.


http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=18169719519100
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]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/622767https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/622767Mon, 31 Oct 2011 02:25:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Mon, 31 Oct 2011 01:02:24 GMT]]>Hey guys, I simply have to post this. Every parents should watch this. There is something called the \"bystander mentality\". It could happen anywhere, and what people should do when witnessing such a situation.


http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=18169719519100

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/622679https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/622679Mon, 31 Oct 2011 01:02:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 27 Oct 2011 03:01:16 GMT]]>:mad: ... :rant: ... :nunchuk:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620302https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620302Thu, 27 Oct 2011 03:01:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 27 Oct 2011 02:39:00 GMT]]>Sick…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620281https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620281Thu, 27 Oct 2011 02:39:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 27 Oct 2011 02:32:30 GMT]]>a few more cases happened after her death, not because no one helps but the vehicle went over the kids again to make sure he/she is dead but this time, the drivers are stopped by the crowd... :yikes:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620274https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/620274Thu, 27 Oct 2011 02:32:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Sun, 23 Oct 2011 07:51:30 GMT]]>RIP Yue Yue , you bring the people you left behind to their conscience…


you will be happy then in a better place
where you dont use money
to buy a life …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/617078https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/617078Sun, 23 Oct 2011 07:51:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 14:34:51 GMT]]>RIP…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/616377https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/616377Fri, 21 Oct 2011 14:34:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 09:23:38 GMT]]>Rest in peace Yue Yue

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/616200https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/616200Fri, 21 Oct 2011 09:23:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 05:43:54 GMT]]>RIP little Yue Yue... u can roam anywhere freely in heaven... there are no cars ard... 🙏

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615981https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615981Fri, 21 Oct 2011 05:43:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Fri, 21 Oct 2011 04:27:27 GMT]]>[quote]AFP

Friday, Oct 21, 2011

BEIJING - A Chinese toddler who was ignored by 18 passers-by as she lay critically injured in the street after being run over by two vehicles has died, the hospital treating her said Friday.

Surveillance camera footage of people walking past the two-year-old girl, nicknamed Yue Yue, as she lay bleeding and unconscious sparked a wave of condemnation and soul-searching on China’s hugely popular social networking sites.

A rubbish collector who finally moved the girl to the side of the street in the southern Chinese city of Foshan was hailed as a national hero, but the incident also led many online commentators to question the state of Chinese morality.

“Yue Yue died of systemic organ failure,” a spokesman from the hospital treating her told AFP, adding that no expense had been spared to try to save the girl, whose parents are migrant workers.

Doctors had earlier said Yue Yue, who had been in a coma since the October 13 incident, was unlikely to survive.

The death of Yue Yue was one of the most popular topics on China’s weibos – microblogging sites similar to Twitter – on Friday as people expressed sorrow and anger over the incident.

“Farewell to little Yue Yue. There are no cars in heaven,” wrote one microblogger on Sina’s weibo.

“Yue Yue was consumed for a week by the fake kindness of netizens... All the wishes are fake and only the 18 passers-by are real. Farewell, and do not be born in China in your next life,” another weibo user wrote.

Police have detained the drivers of both vehicles involved in the incident. [/quote]rip.....................

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=207914945948666

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615898https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615898Fri, 21 Oct 2011 04:27:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:14:33 GMT]]>Hi deminc,

Your comments are very sensible. However, note that there are also big problems with tainted food in China, big problems with the high speed rail, and pollution.

I advice parents who wish to bring kids to China to avoid big cities and avoid crowds as much as possible. I brought my kids to Lijiang and Shangrila in June this year, and I do recommend these two places for fresh air and a relaxing holiday, just make sure you avoid peak periods.

deminc:
I would like to go to China again and I will bring my children along when they are older. It's a complex place, no doubt about it. One should be watchful, or get a trusted guide, but I disagree that this incident shows it to be a terrible place. If it's so terrible, there will not be an uproar in the first place. Rather the incident would have been treated as commonplace and no one would bother to report it. I believe there is societal pressure from poverty and the law is weak and fickle. As an outsider, I will not judge the 18 people.

I read the news article to my children. I highlighted what the victim's mother said - that she refused to be disappointed by society. That is very commendable.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615100https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615100Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:14:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:11:01 GMT]]>

pinky:
some accused the mother of being negligent because if there was no accident, their country will not be ridiculed by the rest of the world :siao:

referring to the China mainlanders there

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615093https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615093Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:11:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:05:13 GMT]]>Please do not blame the mother. No mother wish this to happen to her baby.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615089https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615089Thu, 20 Oct 2011 06:05:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 05:52:39 GMT]]>some accused the mother of being negligent because if there was no accident, their country will not be ridiculed by the rest of the world :siao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615067https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/615067Thu, 20 Oct 2011 05:52:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:34:52 GMT]]>

Intermezzo:
this case is just totally unbelievable, but what makes me absolutely speechless is that now they are actually arguing about whether the old rubbish collector lady was doing it to get PUBLICITY... :faint:

:mad: :rant:

The old lady deserves to be respected and honored! :salute:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614980https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614980Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:34:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:23:25 GMT]]>the dad was busy with customers in his shop and the kid just walked out of it.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614968https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614968Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:23:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:11:04 GMT]]>

tankee:
Back to the topic


what the hell the toddler's parents are doing?

Letting a 2 year old wonder off on her own onto a road?

And for so long?
it was reported that the mother was gathering in the laundry and the girl wandered off from her

it happens to parents in supermarkets too !

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614959https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614959Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:11:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 03:59:34 GMT]]>Back to the topic


what the hell the toddler’s parents are doing?

Letting a 2 year old wonder off on her own onto a road?

And for so long?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614940https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614940Thu, 20 Oct 2011 03:59:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 01:13:16 GMT]]>It’s the mentality of most of these prc. They are very suspicious of anyone doing some good deeds. So in china, if you see someone drop a wallet, don’t pick up for him or he may bash you up for trying to steal his wallet.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614749https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614749Thu, 20 Oct 2011 01:13:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to All the simply cant be bother pedestrians! terrible......... on Thu, 20 Oct 2011 00:59:04 GMT]]>this case is just totally unbelievable, but what makes me absolutely speechless is that now they are actually arguing about whether the old rubbish collector lady was doing it to get PUBLICITY... :faint:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614736https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/614736Thu, 20 Oct 2011 00:59:04 GMT