<![CDATA[female friends]]>我们女人绝对不要把姊妹淘介绍给男朋友或丈夫，尤其不能将姊妹淘带进‘两人世界’。网路上许多女人都哭诉，小三原来是自己要好的姊妹淘，因为太熟了，充分了解男人的喜恶，更利于横刀夺爱。”


男人发现其他女人居然也爱上他，会一时把持不住才犯了“天下男人都会犯的错”。

sometimes the 3rd party could by your girlfriend.

i would prefer not to get my hubby involved in my female friends' matters and i also dont want him to get involved in any matters his female friends (his own circle of friends) have.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/28941/female-friendsRSS for NodeTue, 28 Apr 2026 05:59:29 GMTThu, 01 Dec 2011 02:36:25 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Fri, 16 Dec 2011 03:16:17 GMT]]>

Imp75:
We all talk about man straying here, how about woman straying? It's pretty common nowadays especially since woman is now equally or even more financially stable than man.


I also do agree some man, after a certain age, might become uncle-looking like how man usually would brand woman as aunties too. In my place, at the swimming pool, I can still see mothers well-maintained in sexy bikinis however I have not seen a middle-aged well-kept looking man yet!
Woman are definitely putting more effort to look good these days....maybe due to more foreign competition?? But of course, looking good gives one more self-confidence too. 😄

A few of DH's friends/colleagues fall into the middle-aged well-kept looking man.....they dress well and exercise a lot. Well, some are very proper....but some, I really wouldn't want DH to mix too much with.......

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/664222https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/664222Fri, 16 Dec 2011 03:16:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Fri, 16 Dec 2011 01:15:29 GMT]]>We all talk about man straying here, how about woman straying? It’s pretty common nowadays especially since woman is now equally or even more financially stable than man.


I also do agree some man, after a certain age, might become uncle-looking like how man usually would brand woman as aunties too. In my place, at the swimming pool, I can still see mothers well-maintained in sexy bikinis however I have not seen a middle-aged well-kept looking man yet!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/664094https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/664094Fri, 16 Dec 2011 01:15:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 15 Dec 2011 15:07:59 GMT]]>so anyone has experience of bf/gf/dh/dw being snatched away by a close friend?


sometimes your close friend might also be in love with you chosen one and decide to cut in and take the chosen one for her/himself.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/663910https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/663910Thu, 15 Dec 2011 15:07:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 09:04:40 GMT]]>

verykiasu2010:
BeContented:

[quote=\"kiddo\"]

Woman peak at 20-30
Man peak at 40-60
How do you synchronise this.... :evil:
man enjoy all the way : 0-30 still maturing , 40-60 peak
Told DH he look better with streak of white hair,
me have to dye to look neat :faint:

Aiyoh. This explains why man like to do 'synchronization' in their peak.
So try to marry older man. Too late for me, DH same age.
So again I'm in danger zone :nailbite: 😆

so you are suggesting an age gap of 10 to 40 years .... husband is older than her father, father-in-law younger than himself, perhaps his primary school bully victim .... :rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote] :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
this remind me of the 扬振宁's 2nd marriage...(when married, husband 82, wife: 28, age gap more than 50yrs)

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662451https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662451Wed, 14 Dec 2011 09:04:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 08:56:49 GMT]]>

BeContented:
kiddo:



Woman peak at 20-30
Man peak at 40-60
How do you synchronise this.... :evil:
man enjoy all the way : 0-30 still maturing , 40-60 peak
Told DH he look better with streak of white hair,
me have to dye to look neat :faint:

Aiyoh. This explains why man like to do 'synchronization' in their peak.
So try to marry older man. Too late for me, DH same age.
So again I'm in danger zone :nailbite: 😆

so you are suggesting an age gap of 10 to 40 years .... husband is older than her father, father-in-law younger than himself, perhaps his primary school bully victim .... :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662439https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662439Wed, 14 Dec 2011 08:56:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 07:55:36 GMT]]>

kiddo:


Woman peak at 20-30
Man peak at 40-60
How do you synchronise this.... :evil:
man enjoy all the way : 0-30 still maturing , 40-60 peak
Told DH he look better with streak of white hair,
me have to dye to look neat :faint:
Aiyoh. This explains why man like to do 'synchronization' in their peak.
So try to marry older man. Too late for me, DH same age.
So again I'm in danger zone :nailbite: 😆

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662378https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662378Wed, 14 Dec 2011 07:55:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 06:56:33 GMT]]>

kiddo:


Woman peak at 20-30
Man peak at 40-60
How do you synchronise this.... :evil:
man enjoy all the way : 0-30 still maturing , 40-60 peak
Told DH he look better with streak of white hair,
me have to dye to look neat :faint:

so better to marry a man who is much older than self? :? :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662313https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662313Wed, 14 Dec 2011 06:56:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 05:44:44 GMT]]>

kiddo:


....... Man peak at 40-60 ....:
I'm at my peak :boogie: :rahrah:

:idea: do you mean waistline? :yikes: :sad:

😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662212https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662212Wed, 14 Dec 2011 05:44:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Wed, 14 Dec 2011 04:40:56 GMT]]>

BeContented:
tankee:

[quote=\"BeContented\"]Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict. 🤷

Meaning you are still young & beautiful right? :evil: 😉

Ha. Perhaps Was 15yrs ago. Unfortunately, I'm starting my downhill ride & my kids pass 10yo liao. But I do find DH getting more 'charming' by the year, that's why this topic attracted 😆[/quote]Woman peak at 20-30
Man peak at 40-60
How do you synchronise this.... :evil:
man enjoy all the way : 0-30 still maturing , 40-60 peak
Told DH he look better with streak of white hair,
me have to dye to look neat :faint:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662132https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/662132Wed, 14 Dec 2011 04:40:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:34:43 GMT]]>

tankee:
BeContented:

Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict. 🤷

Meaning you are still young & beautiful right? :evil: 😉

Ha. Perhaps Was 15yrs ago. Unfortunately, I'm starting my downhill ride & my kids pass 10yo liao. But I do find DH getting more 'charming' by the year, that's why this topic attracted 😆

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658209https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658209Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:34:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:08:55 GMT]]>

BeContented:
Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict. 🤷
Meaning you are still young & beautiful right? :evil: 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658194https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658194Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:08:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 11:07:30 GMT]]>Agree. Quite unfair.


Sometimes I think.....while the wife is young & beautiful & have young kids, it make no sense to fool around. Stake too high.
But when wife ages, kids independent, man got money & younger woman starts showing interest, that's the real 'test'........something none of us can really predict. 🤷

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658159https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658159Thu, 08 Dec 2011 11:07:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 09:39:32 GMT]]>

BeContented:
peapot:

Ha...this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has \"self-discipline\".


😉 Dun worry, I know it's just general thing & I also know eventually it's the guy who has to be responsible for his own action. Just that I belong to the 'high risk' category. Too bad woman can't really do it as we age faster.... & dun think young man are interested in ah-Mahs 😆

They may not be interested in ah-mahs but they are interested in aunties 😆

I think this applies more to those men who did not have an oppurtunity to be play around not those who chose not to.

Anyway unfair that women get hot flushes for menopause while men get to flirt with hot babes during their \"menopause\" :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658112https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658112Thu, 08 Dec 2011 09:39:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 09:32:57 GMT]]>

peapot:
Ha...this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has \"self-discipline\".

😉 Dun worry, I know it's just general thing & I also know eventually it's the guy who has to be responsible for his own action. Just that I belong to the 'high risk' category. Too bad woman can't really do it as we age faster.... & dun think young man are interested in ah-Mahs 😆

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658106https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658106Thu, 08 Dec 2011 09:32:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 08:22:27 GMT]]>Ha…this remark is pretty general. It still depend on the guy himself whether he has "self-discipline".

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658037https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/658037Thu, 08 Dec 2011 08:22:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:27:24 GMT]]>

peapot:
Insider, strangely a guy friend told me the same thing. Like you, he said guys who never had fun before he marries will tend to stray. Incidentally my ex-boss is such man. He was really decent, don't smoke or drink, don't gamble. Go home straight after work and then IT happen. Guess the wife was pretty heart broken at age 65.

Alamak :yikes: now I worry. My hubby also no smoke, come home every day after work, only drink & gamble occasionally with close friends, AND I'm his first girlfriend & we started dating quite young...... :nailbite: 😓

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/657888https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/657888Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:27:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:40:52 GMT]]>Insider, strangely a guy friend told me the same thing. Like you, he said guys who never had fun before he marries will tend to stray. Incidentally my ex-boss is such man. He was really decent, don’t smoke or drink, don’t gamble. Go home straight after work and then IT happen. Guess the wife was pretty heart broken at age 65.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/657860https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/657860Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:40:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:44:24 GMT]]>

Cotton Armour:
http://signsheischeating.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/signs_of_cheating3.jpg\">

:hi5:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656687https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656687Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:44:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:42:24 GMT]]>Looking at the relative’s situation and with soooo much support from the aunties for the man, I really wonder…if this were to happen to their own family, would they have reacted differently? Wonder if I should start a poll on this straying thing.


If ever one of the spouse has lost interest/no longer agree/able to engage in ‘that’ activity, do you think it’s fair to allow the partner to find another outlet?

And if you are not agreeable to the spouse looking outside for relief but discovered that he/she has done so…would you kick up a fuss and come to some compromise/agreement or would you try to ignore & act blur so that the family can stay intact.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656683https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656683Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:42:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 11:38:56 GMT]]>

peapot:
I don't believe one's look can hold back a straying husband. At 65, my ex-boss wife still look great but so what? The husband still look elsewhere. I think the wife is mad because she feels that man at that age should be enjoying retirement and grandchildren not having affair. This should only happen when u are young.

Hi peapot, I think you should rewrite it as \"This should not have happened even if one is young.\" (Not meant to offend) 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656503https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656503Tue, 06 Dec 2011 11:38:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 10:44:41 GMT]]>I don’t believe one’s look can hold back a straying husband. At 65, my ex-boss wife still look great but so what? The husband still look elsewhere. I think the wife is mad because she feels that man at that age should be enjoying retirement and grandchildren not having affair. This should only happen when u are young.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656454https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656454Tue, 06 Dec 2011 10:44:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 07:17:59 GMT]]>http://signsheischeating.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/signs_of_cheating3.jpg\">

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656236https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656236Tue, 06 Dec 2011 07:17:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 06:00:58 GMT]]>Somehow I feel that women are usually more critical of their own gender.


As for men being visual, and the need to maintain oneself. I :offtopic: here hor. I cannot help but notice that there are a lot more better looking women then men around. I was at the pool one weekend and there was a party going on. I noticed that all the women there, though having given birth and all still look rather good and DH was enjoying some eye candy. While I was hoping to catch some male eye candy as well, I was only rewarded with one balding pot bellied fella after another. Even among my friends, I dare say that the wives are all better maintained then the husbands.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656168https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656168Tue, 06 Dec 2011 06:00:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to female friends on Tue, 06 Dec 2011 05:39:14 GMT]]>

Imp75:
I think Man are visual animals, so spend some time look after yourself, make yourself look good, chances of man straying might be lower?

Ha, curious....u man or woman?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656150https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/656150Tue, 06 Dec 2011 05:39:14 GMT