<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">A bit like asking whether food or water is more important. Reading through a different thread, really sent a shudder down my spine. God forbid that I fail so badly in my marriage that we should seek a separation. <br /><br /><br />DW and I have vowed that no matter how KSParents we be, we will always set aside fixed time for each other every week. Go out for dinner, watch a movie, romance each other and have ‘together’ time very regularly. In the busyness of work and child-minding, its all too easy to take each other for granted, and then slowly drift apart. If the bond is strong and there is intimacy, many obstacles can be overcome.<br /><br />My posit is that a strong marriage begets a strong family, and if there were a conflict between spouse-time and kid-time, spouse time usually comes out ahead.<br /><br />Your thoughts?</p>
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]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/0</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/0</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[markdis]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2024 08:43:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 12 Nov 2012 02:06:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>buds:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><p>Recently I find my hubby attention seeking...post PSLE syndrome :rotflmao: <br /><br />Since exams are over, spouse gets attention.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Janet_lee88.... define \"attention seeking\"... :evil:<p></p></blockquote>Haha same here. I think got seasons. exams seasons = kids are priority, non exams seasons = husband get priority It quite hard to say who come first.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/896605</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/896605</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Raemuumy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2012 02:06:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Thu, 08 Nov 2012 03:55:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Recently I find my hubby attention seeking...post PSLE syndrome :rotflmao: <br /><br />Since exams are over, spouse gets attention.</blockquote></blockquote>Janet_lee88.... define \"attention seeking\"... :evil:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/894340</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/894340</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[buds]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2012 03:55:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Thu, 08 Nov 2012 03:38:52 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Recently I find my hubby attention seeking...post PSLE syndrome :rotflmao: <br /><br />Since exams are over, spouse gets attention.</blockquote></blockquote> :goodpost:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/894321</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/894321</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[orlandospito30]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2012 03:38:52 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Tue, 30 Oct 2012 05:25:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Recently I find my hubby attention seeking...post PSLE syndrome :rotflmao: <br /><br />Since exams are over, spouse gets attention.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/886655</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/886655</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 05:25:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 03:19:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">For me DH wants my opinion because he is partially colour blind. Haha. Leave him alone and he will come back with neon green thinking that it is basic green or grey or bright purple but think it is blue.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876658</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876658</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 03:19:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:23:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Lilac66:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p>When hubby need new shirts or pants, I would tag along so that I could give my comments. Funny, in this aspect he is like a little boy. He says he feels better if I say,\"ok, nice...\" before he buys. Oh yes, shoes too. But for socks and underwear, I leave him alone to shop.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />So now I see... it's similar for most men it seems. They can make big decisions, but when it comes to shirts and pants, still like a little boy boy. Needs our assurance they look good in them. My DH will beam with pride when I say he looks good in certain shirts.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote> :rotflmao: That's so true...I thought they do not like us wives to be their 2nd moms :scratchhead: Hubby's shoe sole came off while we were shopping. I was at kids dept (as usual) and he called me...'Urgent! Where are you?' He told me to go the shoes dept immed bcos he needs to buy a pair of shoes :roll:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876605</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876605</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:23:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:22:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Lilac66:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p>When hubby need new shirts or pants, I would tag along so that I could give my comments. Funny, in this aspect he is like a little boy. He says he feels better if I say,\"ok, nice...\" before he buys. Oh yes, shoes too. But for socks and underwear, I leave him alone to shop.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />So now I see... it's similar for most men it seems. They can make big decisions, but when it comes to shirts and pants, still like a little boy boy. Needs our assurance they look good in them. My DH will beam with pride when I say he looks good in certain shirts.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote>Yup, I think u sum it all. Men - they can make big decisions but shirts and pants? Hmmmm.....  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> <br /><br />I used to help my hubby to tuck in his business shirt, put on the cuff links and tie - think Korean drama  :rotflmao: he was also beaming, so happy and loved wor...<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876601</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876601</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:22:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:18:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">When hubby need new shirts or pants, I would tag along so that I could give my comments. Funny, in this aspect he is like a little boy. He says he feels better if I say,\"ok, nice...\" before he buys. Oh yes, shoes too. But for socks and underwear, I leave him alone to shop.</blockquote></blockquote><br />So now I see... it's similar for most men it seems. They can make big decisions, but when it comes to shirts and pants, still like a little boy boy. Needs our assurance they look good in them. My DH will beam with pride when I say he looks good in certain shirts.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876596</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876596</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Lilac66]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 02:18:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 01:10:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">When hubby need new shirts or pants, I would tag along so that I could give my comments. Funny, in this aspect he is like a little boy. He says he feels better if I say,\"ok, nice...\" before he buys. Oh yes, shoes too. But for socks and underwear, I leave him alone to shop.</blockquote></blockquote><br />I shop for all of them. But where shoes are concerned, I usually ask hubby/son. My hubby seems to be enjoying another wave of youth...he likes 'young' colours. So recent purchases seem to be XL version of my son's.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876535</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876535</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 01:10:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Mon, 15 Oct 2012 00:29:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Nebbermind:</b><p>[quote=\"Imami\"] <br /><br />  :hi5: I am not alone.... I think \"limpy\" is the word.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yes...that's it!  Although mostly use to insult some part of the male anatomy <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> not puny? Hmm... Which is worse - limpy or puny?  :idea: next debate topic - which is worse - limpy or puny?[/quote]Think those mommies who have vast experience with the various sizes and built can share with others in the notti corner <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876502</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876502</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Nebbermind]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 00:29:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:47:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Nebbermind:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p> <br /><br />  :hi5: I am not alone.... I think \"limpy\" is the word.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yes...that's it!  Although mostly use to insult some part of the male anatomy <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> not puny? Hmm... Which is worse - limpy or puny?  :idea: next debate topic - which is worse - limpy or puny?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876421</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876421</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:47:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:43:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"> <br /><br />  :hi5: I am not alone.... I think \"limpy\" is the word.</blockquote></blockquote>Yes...that's it!  Although mostly use to insult some part of the male anatomy <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876419</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876419</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Nebbermind]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:43:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:30:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">When hubby need new shirts or pants, I would tag along so that I could give my comments. Funny, in this aspect he is like a little boy. He says he feels better if I say,"ok, nice…" before he buys. Oh yes, shoes too. But for socks and underwear, I leave him alone to shop.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876411</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876411</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:30:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:18:36 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">On occasions when hubby and I go out without kids, he told me, ‘NO Popular or children’s dept.’ We will go to the gents dept to see his stuff like shirts, socks. Marital relationship is very impt…not when kids have grown up and left the nest.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876398</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876398</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:18:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 13:58:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>SBKS:</b><p>[quote=\"Imami\"]When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...<br /><br />First forward to today, my choice is still the same.</p></blockquote></blockquote>hi, thank god that both of you are fine. the whole family is fine.<br />for me, i prep myself and decided for the above scenario. my DW. with my DW ard, we can then decide to have another one or not to.<br />to me and my perspective is, child can adopt, wife cant. sorry in advance if i offended anyone.<p></p></blockquote>Thank you  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> <br />I think what you say is most logical - to choose the spouse. back then, in the delivery room, I was no longer sane. After not sleeping for more than 40 hours, inclusives of 24 hours of labour, how sane can I be? When I told my hubby \"our child must live\", I was not being brave. It was more like a reflex. I couldn't explain. There was no fear, no sadness etc.after striving for so long, I just wanted to complete the task (bringing my child to the world).<br /><br />But now, with my brain functioning, I find it hard to choose my hubby over my child.[/quote]<br />after having my kids ard us, I also difficult to choose now.  :frustrated: <br /><br />lets just hope it will not happen to any of us.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876386</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876386</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[SBKS]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 13:58:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:29:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>autumnbronze:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p>When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...<br /><br /><br />First forward to today, my choice is still the same.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Dear Imami,<br /><br /> :hugs:  :hugs:<p></p></blockquote>  :hugs: no worries, it's over! I always tell people the second time (if any) won't be the same! And if it is the same, the only changes I would make are<br />1. to prep my hubby to be strong to hold the fort. He would have two little ones to manage.<br />2. To prep my number 1 to be strong for papa and number 2.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876191</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876191</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:29:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:21:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...<br /><br /><br />First forward to today, my choice is still the same.</blockquote></blockquote>Dear Imami,<br /><br /> :hugs:  :hugs:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876187</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876187</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[autumnbronze]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:21:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:16:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>firefly38:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p>[quote=\"Nebbermind\"]<br /><br />Yes, cannot have no-body hair, ie, damp n floppy looking.  Try not to wear oversized t-shirt n knitted Bermudas...seen too many mommies outside dressed like that...even some maids dress better. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> <br />:rotflmao:  :rotflmao: I mis-read nb's post - instead of \"cannot have no-body hair\", I read \"cannot have Body hair\". Then I started wondering - who is having damp and flopping looking body hair?! :rotflmao:<p></p></blockquote>I thot he meant \"no body hair\", as in.. no armpit hair, perhaps.. Then I read \"damp &amp; floppy looking\"  :scratchhead:  ... Till Imami you explained..  :rotflmao:  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" />[/quote]  :hi5: I am not alone.... I think \"limpy\" is the word.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876183</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876183</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 04:16:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 03:03:33 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Nebbermind:</b><p><br /><br />Yes, cannot have no-body hair, ie, damp n floppy looking.  Try not to wear oversized t-shirt n knitted Bermudas...seen too many mommies outside dressed like that...even some maids dress better. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> <br />:rotflmao:  :rotflmao: I mis-read nb's post - instead of \"cannot have no-body hair\", I read \"cannot have Body hair\". Then I started wondering - who is having damp and flopping looking body hair?! :rotflmao:<p></p></blockquote>I thot he meant \"no body hair\", as in.. no armpit hair, perhaps.. Then I read \"damp &amp; floppy looking\"  :scratchhead:  ... Till Imami you explained..  :rotflmao:  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876161</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876161</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[iFirefly]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 03:03:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 03:01:09 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>schweppes:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><p>Couples would have entered another stage of marriage...past that tinkle-tinkle spicy newly-married romance. With present stage with school-going kids, I do deposit them at parents' place for a break from them. <br /><br />Sometimes, I get hubby to apply leave to spend time together shopping...looking at our stuff. <b><b>NO children dept.</b></b><br /></p></blockquote></blockquote>Uh... and that includes NO going to Popular bookstore too!!   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f986.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--duck" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":duck:" alt="🦆" />  :siam: <br /><br /><img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876160</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876160</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 03:01:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 02:39:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>peapot:</b><p>[quote=\"Imami\"]When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...<br /><br /><br />First forward to today, my choice is still the same.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Wow! Didn't know you had to go through this. Luckily all ends well. I thought these days science is so advanced that labour seems almost prob free. Guess I was wrong.<p></p></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" />[/quote]Count your blessings - all safe &amp; sound  :love:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876148</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876148</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[BeContented]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 02:39:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 00:36:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>peapot:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><p>When I was in the delivery room, hubby was made to choose - wife or baby and I was made to choose - baby or me. That was one of the very few occasions my hubby wept. Strangely, I didn't. I told him, no matter what happen, our child must live. So well...<br /><br /><br />First forward to today, my choice is still the same.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Wow! Didn't know you had to go through this. Luckily all ends well. I thought these days science is so advanced that labour seems almost prob free. Guess I was wrong.<p></p></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876111</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876111</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 00:36:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Spouse or Kids? Which comes first? on Sun, 14 Oct 2012 00:35:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Nebbermind:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>schweppes:</b><p>[quote=\"3Boys\"]<br /><br />Definitely agrees out the smile part. Ladies, you dun need a bombshell figure, a pleasant friendly attitude and taking a little care of appearances does wonders.</p></blockquote></blockquote>That plus a good hair cut (need not be expensive) and lipstick... and no grotty and holey t-shirts. Unless holey in the right places. haha <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote>Yes, cannot have no-body hair, ie, damp n floppy looking.  Try not to wear oversized t-shirt n knitted Bermudas...seen too many mommies outside dressed like that...even some maids dress better. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" />[/quote] :rotflmao:  :rotflmao: I mis-read nb's post - instead of \"cannot have no-body hair\", I read \"cannot have Body hair\". Then I started wondering - who is having damp and flopping looking body hair?! :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876110</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/876110</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 00:35:26 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>