<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.tremeritus.com/2012/08/24/catholic-high-school-openly-solicits-teachers-day-presents-from-parents/">http://www.tremeritus.com/2012/08/24/catholic-high-school-openly-solicits-teachers-day-presents-from-parents/</a><br /><br /><br />August 24th, 2012 |  Author: Editorial<br /><br />The Catholic High School (CHS) is openly soliciting for “gifts and presents” from the parents of its students, to “touch the teacher’s life”, in its coming Teachers’ Day Celebration.<br /><br />According to the CHS memo which was forwarded to TR Emeritus (TRE) by a parent, the event is organized by CHS Management Committee, CHS Alumni and the Parent Support Group (PSG).<br /><br />The memo wrote that the PSG Exco is appealing to parents who would like to show their heartfelt gratitute to contribute a present to this event, and listed the ’proposed’ presents as ”shopping vouchers, dining vouchers, current digital gadgets or home appliance, tour packages, etc”. <br /><br />Parents are asked to deposit the gifts into a box at the Primary or Secondary School’s General office by 27th August 2012.<br /><br />The memo also listed the contact person for parents with enquiries as Bee Yen (Primary) and Winy Quek (Secondary).<br /><br />Commenting on the memo as a parent, John said:<br /><br />Teachers are well-paid, and have an iron-bowl career in the civil service. Just like politicians, they should not expect showers of material gifts as they are in the public service. It’s an honorable service, nonetheless, and doesn’t need to be compensated lavishly.<br /><br />In my days, I simple gave flowers and candy. What has the school system turned into nowadays? Whose idea is it to disallow the students to give directly? What’s the danger behind that? Is there a 3rd party(event management) involved that is cashing in?<br /><br />Is it just me that is appalled by this idea? Cruises, electronic toys, vouchers, etc? Is Singapore really trying to live up to being the richest city in the world?<br /><br />In a follow-up email from the same parent received just 5 minutes ago, TRE learnt that many parents had complained and that the memo was withdrawn.<br /><br />However, it is not known at this moment in time if the “gift receiving” was also withdrawn or merely the memo was.<br /><br />.<br /><br />Editor’s note: As far as TRE knows, students are not allowed to give presents to a certain specific teacher. By organizing a dinner and dance event and giving the presents away as gifts (say in a lucky draw), then it is not ‘wrong’.<br /><br />------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f613.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--sweat" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":sweat:" alt="😓" />  dont know if this is true.<br /><br /> i think cough drops, card or pens good enough already lah.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/40023/chs-openly-solicits-teachers-day-presents-from-parents</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2026 00:42:13 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/40023.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sat, 01 Sep 2012 09:57:47 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Wed, 05 Sep 2012 04:26:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>concern2:</b><p>[quote=\"Lilac66\"]<br />PS: <span style="\&quot;font-size:">To explain the origin of Singapore Fools..A friend's young child was learning to read signs when he came across the word Pools. But somehow read it as Fools and we had a good laugh over it. Cute :love: !</span></p></blockquote></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!<p></p></blockquote>Was there a long queue outside?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I must admit, I get Fooled once in a while   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" />[/quote]Me too, especially when the pools are exceptionally full.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842231</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842231</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Flowermonaster]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 04:26:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Wed, 05 Sep 2012 03:41:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><p>[quote=\"concern2\"]<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!</p></blockquote></blockquote>Was there a long queue outside?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I must admit, I get Fooled once in a while   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p></blockquote>that means on all other occasions you were not fooled and <span style="\&quot;color:">s</span>truck Toto and 4-D! wow  :congrats:[/quote]I wish <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842192</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842192</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[3Boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 03:41:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:42:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><p>[quote=\"concern2\"]<br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!</p></blockquote></blockquote>Was there a long queue outside?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I must admit, I get Fooled once in a while   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p></blockquote>that means on all other occasions you were not fooled and truck Toto and 4-D! wow  :congrats:[/quote]Haha, that's why the saying that if you \"aren't fooled\", you are already a winner!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842128</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842128</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[concern2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:42:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:26:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>concern2:</b><p>[quote=\"Lilac66\"]<br />PS: <span style="\&quot;font-size:">To explain the origin of Singapore Fools..A friend's young child was learning to read signs when he came across the word Pools. But somehow read it as Fools and we had a good laugh over it. Cute :love: !</span></p></blockquote></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!<p></p></blockquote>Was there a long queue outside?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I must admit, I get Fooled once in a while   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" />[/quote]that means on all other occasions you were not fooled and <span style="\&quot;color:">s</span>truck Toto and 4-D! wow  :congrats:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842102</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842102</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[verykiasu2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:26:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:17:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>concern2:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Lilac66:</b><p><br />PS: <span style="\&quot;font-size:">To explain the origin of Singapore Fools..A friend's young child was learning to read signs when he came across the word Pools. But somehow read it as Fools and we had a good laugh over it. Cute :love: !</span></p></blockquote></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!<p></p></blockquote>Was there a long queue outside?  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I must admit, I get Fooled once in a while   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842087</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/842087</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[3Boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 02:17:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 12:02:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Lilac66:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />PS: <span style="\&quot;font-size:">To explain the origin of Singapore Fools..A friend's young child was learning to read signs when he came across the word Pools. But somehow read it as Fools and we had a good laugh over it. Cute :love: !</span></blockquote></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Singapore Fools!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841814</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841814</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[concern2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2012 12:02:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 08:07:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><p><br />I couldn't pen a better sentence.. so I can only say..  :goodpost:</p></blockquote></blockquote>Hah Hah, got a thumbs up from both limlim and Daddy D in the same thread......must be my lucky day! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p></blockquote>4D? :evil: I can queue. There's a Singapore Fools outlet near my place.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />PS: <span style="\&quot;font-size:">To explain the origin of Singapore Fools..A friend's young child was learning to read signs when he came across the word Pools. But somehow read it as Fools and we had a good laugh over it. Cute :love: !</span><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841692</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841692</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Lilac66]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2012 08:07:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 03:22:18 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><p>But in terms of 'corporate practice', I think it crosses the line of propriety. The schools should police this, in my view.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />I couldn't pen a better sentence.. so I can only say..  :goodpost:<p></p></blockquote>Hah Hah, got a thumbs up from both limlim and Daddy D in the same thread......must be my lucky day! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841500</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841500</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[3Boys]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2012 03:22:18 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Tue, 04 Sep 2012 02:20:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><p>[quote=\"worldangel\"]<br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:<p></p></blockquote>You mean you don't use the red pens????[/quote]just giving compliments to a passionate teacher.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841445</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841445</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[limlim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2012 02:20:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:18:09 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>worldangel:</b><p>Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:<p></p></blockquote><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841143</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841143</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[LOLMum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:18:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:11:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><p>[quote=\"worldangel\"]Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:<p></p></blockquote>You mean you don't use the red pens????[/quote]Of course I do. Only the cards are displayed  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841128</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841128</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[worldangel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:11:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:08:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>worldangel:</b><p>Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:<p></p></blockquote>You mean you don't use the red pens????<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841123</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841123</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phankao]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 14:08:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:58:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>worldangel:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841106</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841106</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[limlim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:58:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:51:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>concern2:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><p><br /><br />I agree with what you are trying to say. There likely is not any misdemeanour intended, perhaps a little bit of over-enthusiasm at worst. Although I would not say that this was 'elitist', it still has the potential to create discomfort in the minds of the less well-off parents and families. <br /><br />My DS came back and asked me if we were putting anything up, and when I said no, he asked why not and proceeded to list out the stuff some of the other parents WERE putting up. The kids talk, this kind of thing preys on the mind and potentially creates a divide between the 'givers' and 'non-givers'. <br /><br />We should not be blind to this and just say 'You want to give, give, you don't want to give, don't give.'<br /><br />In this first place, should teachers even be receiving gifts or gratuities outside of the workplace? How does this square with civil service policies?</p></blockquote></blockquote> :goodpost:  Well said!  Couldn't have expressed better!<p></p></blockquote>plus one.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841099</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841099</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[limlim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:51:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:50:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>limlim:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><p>But in terms of 'corporate practice', I think it crosses the line of propriety. The schools should police this, in my view.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />I couldn't pen a better sentence.. so I can only say..  :goodpost:<p></p></blockquote>I am sure the school has learnt its lesson from this experience as well.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841098</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841098</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[corneyAmber]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:50:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:48:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>3Boys:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">But in terms of 'corporate practice', I think it crosses the line of propriety. The schools should police this, in my view.</blockquote></blockquote><br />I couldn't pen a better sentence.. so I can only say..  :goodpost:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841095</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841095</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[limlim]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:48:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:39:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">for me, just email a note to the teacher (any time of the year), especially if DS has received a praise slip from the teacher</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841081</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841081</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[verykiasu2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:39:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:37:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>worldangel:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></blockquote></blockquote>I read someone mentioned that sometimes the people giving the presents are overly enthusiastic....resulting in such a fiasco.  Teachers expectation is really showing of APPRECIATION of their efforts and passion from the heart, not the gifts.  Another realistic way of showing appreciation is don't give the teachers any problems, especially when they try very hard. (case in point, the haircut incident)<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841079</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841079</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[corneyAmber]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:37:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:31:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>firefly38:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>mamago:</b><p>[quote=\"concern2\"]<br /><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" />   :rotflmao: It's just a material world!  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" />   Some need the love language of 'gifts'  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p></blockquote></blockquote>Even wives look forward to those \"love language of gifts' from husbands... no?<p></p></blockquote>Me too.. me too..    :hi5:[/quote]<br />hee hee, me too.... <span style="\&quot;font-size:">I am ma-te-rial, ma-te-rial, material girl</span><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841073</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841073</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mamago]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:31:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:28:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>worldangel:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></blockquote></blockquote> :salute:  :salute:  :salute:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841069</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841069</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mamago]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:28:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:27:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><p>[quote=\"verykiasu2010\"]<br />do the NYPS teachers still perform for the kids on teachers' day ?</p></blockquote></blockquote>CHS teachers traditionally perform for children's day celebration though<br /><br /><br />Why should trs perform on their own celebration day????<p></p></blockquote>oh no, but yes, you are right! I remembered wrongly the teachers' performance is for children's day, not teachers' day .... :imsorry:[/quote]<br /> :rotflmao:  :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841068</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841068</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mamago]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:27:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:19:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Actually some of the most meaningful gifts from my students are the inexpensive ones. I told them if they really want to give something to me, spend some time sitting down and writing a really sincere note to me. If they really, really need to go into a shop to get something for me, then just get me a red pen or a marker or marker refill will do. <br /><br /><br />I told this to my P6 class last year and they remembered. This year when they came back to visit me, most of them wrote cards with red pens attached to it. The message was so sincere and touching that I teared while reading some of them. <br /><br />Those cards are now displayed at my workplace and will continue to serve as my motivation to educate the future generation for many years to come. It cost almost nothing but to me, is the greatest gift of all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841059</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841059</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[worldangel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:19:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:07:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>phankao:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><p><br />do the NYPS teachers still perform for the kids on teachers' day ?</p></blockquote></blockquote>CHS teachers traditionally perform for children's day celebration though<br /><br /><br />Why should trs perform on their own celebration day????<p></p></blockquote>oh no, but yes, you are right! I remembered wrongly the teachers' performance is for children's day, not teachers' day .... :imsorry:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841042</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/841042</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[verykiasu2010]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 13:07:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to chs openly solicits teachers&#x27; day presents from parents on Mon, 03 Sep 2012 12:06:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>verykiasu2010:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />do the NYPS teachers still perform for the kids on teachers' day ?</blockquote></blockquote>CHS teachers traditionally perform for children's day celebration though<br /><br /><br />Why should trs perform on their own celebration day????<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/840986</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/840986</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phankao]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Sep 2012 12:06:19 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>