<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hi all!<br /><br /><br />May i have your guidelines for simple dish to be cooked on weekdays?  i am a full time working mum with the elder DS gg to primary school and yonger DS gg to childcare, may i know, for those in the same situation as me, how do you cope ? can cope?  :scared:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/46791/ftwm-need-your-guide</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 02:20:57 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/46791.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Tue, 04 Dec 2012 09:55:47 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 08:20:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Your DD will feel very fortunate!! Haha.. weekends I also go over to my mom's place for dinner... lol.. so she has to cook for like more than 10 people share coz my siblings and their spouse also.. haha.. ahyo next time we will be like them  :yikes: <br /><br /><br />But i think if she don't appreciate she will fuss over your cooking. If she doesn't means she like it. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /><br /><br />Chicken I don't give her coz of the injection the chicken received, so I will buy black chicken or the chicken fed with cordyceps. But not cheap the food =.=\" <br /><br />Your DD is picky with which food?</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143766</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143766</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[missyqiqi]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2013 08:20:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 08:09:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>missyqiqi:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Dora1:</b><p>[quote=\"missyqiqi\"]I'm a FTWM, i cook almost every day except for weekends when I'm meeting my parents. I agree sometimes i feel quite tired but when I see my girl finish up her food, i feel happy about it. <br /><br /><br />I always have fish every day for her dinner. But my style of cooking is very light,coz my daughter is still young (2yrs old) So it may not taste so good for my hubby's family coz they are paranakan so quite \"zhong kou wei\", but I told my hubby have to finish up what I have cook. Coz nobody in the house eat will eat left overs so can't possible throw it away.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yup understand what you mean by being super tired. My DD is 7 this year, I've been doing this for 7 years!<br />Actually there is no need to cook fish everyday for your DD. She should be exposed to a variety of food to have a balanced nutrition. Besides, there are studies that show that young children should not have fish more than 3 times a week, especially those deep sea fishes like cod and salmon and mackerel. This is because our seas are very polluted and these deep sea fishes accumulate mercury in them. So try to vary her diet. She is 2 already, should be able to eat other food. Can also give her tofu and eggs, easily digestible as well.<p></p></blockquote><br />Yah i do give her other food also haha.. not only fish. Fish is just one of the dish i cook every day. Coz i don't ket her eat chicken so mainly her source of meat is from fish. I cook varieties still, which also includes those boiled soup. <br />Most of the dishes I cooked, I put them in an album and share with my friends&gt;  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/qiqi.low/media_set?set=a.10150407522040453.620064.671260452&amp;type=3">https://www.facebook.com/qiqi.low/media_set?set=a.10150407522040453.620064.671260452&amp;type=3</a><br /><br />Really admire you cooking for 7yrs!! I think your girl really will appreciate your effort! How long you plan to countinue to cook for her?[/quote]Haha I think I'll need to cook for her till she gets married bah.. quite a number of my friends still go back to their mum's place to have dinner everyday, so it actually get worse cos now have to cook for son in law plus grandchildren  :razz: <br />But my DD is super picky so I am not sure if she appreciates me rushing home everyday to cook for her cos she has to eat what I cook, but outside at least she can choose what she wants to eat  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f937.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--shrug" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":shrug:" alt="🤷" /> <br /><br />Should try to expand on her food selection. Can let her try eating chicken, pork etc. Cos initially I also didn't give my DD, and she refused to eat these meat for the longest time cos she was not used to the texture! But since your girl seem to be a food lover, don't think she will have th same issue as me.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143756</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143756</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dora1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2013 08:09:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 07:53:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">For my girl breakfast I realise that she don’t really like to eat pancakes, so I will do mantou (mini bun), egg cup cakes or those cereals with dried berriers/fruits. She likes them a lot coz she loves food and also I think is more tasty than normal cereal.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143737</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143737</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[missyqiqi]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2013 07:53:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 12 Nov 2013 07:51:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Dora1:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>missyqiqi:</b><p>I'm a FTWM, i cook almost every day except for weekends when I'm meeting my parents. I agree sometimes i feel quite tired but when I see my girl finish up her food, i feel happy about it. <br /><br /><br />I always have fish every day for her dinner. But my style of cooking is very light,coz my daughter is still young (2yrs old) So it may not taste so good for my hubby's family coz they are paranakan so quite \"zhong kou wei\", but I told my hubby have to finish up what I have cook. Coz nobody in the house eat will eat left overs so can't possible throw it away.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yup understand what you mean by being super tired. My DD is 7 this year, I've been doing this for 7 years!<br />Actually there is no need to cook fish everyday for your DD. She should be exposed to a variety of food to have a balanced nutrition. Besides, there are studies that show that young children should not have fish more than 3 times a week, especially those deep sea fishes like cod and salmon and mackerel. This is because our seas are very polluted and these deep sea fishes accumulate mercury in them. So try to vary her diet. She is 2 already, should be able to eat other food. Can also give her tofu and eggs, easily digestible as well.<p></p></blockquote><br />Yah i do give her other food also haha.. not only fish. Fish is just one of the dish i cook every day. Coz i don't ket her eat chicken so mainly her source of meat is from fish. I cook varieties still, which also includes those boiled soup. <br />Most of the dishes I cooked, I put them in an album and share with my friends&gt;  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/qiqi.low/media_set?set=a.10150407522040453.620064.671260452&amp;type=3">https://www.facebook.com/qiqi.low/media_set?set=a.10150407522040453.620064.671260452&amp;type=3</a><br /><br />Really admire you cooking for 7yrs!! I think your girl really will appreciate your effort! How long you plan to countinue to cook for her?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143732</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1143732</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[missyqiqi]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2013 07:51:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 05:25:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>jetsetter:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />my preschooler boy loves Four Leaves hotdog minis as well.  No point feeding adult size buns to him, cos he drinks milo or fresh milk too.</blockquote></blockquote>jetsetter, u didn't know.... My kid seems to be built with a continental car engine. He would gladly wolf down a full size bun if I let him!  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /> Minis or full size, he would be most happy to down them with a cup of Milo.<br /><br />On those mornings when he has four leaves' minis, he would take 3 before setting off for childcare. At cc, he has his second round of breakkie. Good appetite!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139273</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139273</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 05:25:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 03:40:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This is what I feed my DC every morning before school<br /><br /><br />Bread with ham (hubby bought ham from NTUC finest). I just need to cook for a short while or can steam them.<br />Bread with Nutella <br />Bread with cheese<br />Biscuit with milo<br />Ready made chicken or pork bao (hong guan brand) from ntuc. Just need to steam them before serving<br /><br />That's all <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /><br /><br />No need to fuss over the breakfast becoz they will get to buy their food during recess which is normally 9.30am<br /><br />Not necessary to give them too much for breakfast</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139129</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139129</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Piscesmum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 03:40:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 03:18:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Dekora:</b><p>Hi have u tried giving your kids those mini buns from four leaves? Small enough and I noticed these buns are quite well liked by kids instead of slice of plain bread with spread</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />Oh that's one of my kid's fav - the mini wassants and ham roll. And he eats up to 15 per week as supper or pre-dinner snack. I like them too. Moist and not too sweet (for the wassants). But I find the ham roll a bit too salty for children, Can keep up to two days. I personally don't find the buns any different after 2 days but I keep them to myself and let my kid eat the fresh one's.<p></p></blockquote><br />my preschooler boy loves Four Leaves hotdog minis as well.  No point feeding adult size buns to him, cos he drinks milo or fresh milk too.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139098</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139098</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jetsetter]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 03:18:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 02:25:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Imami:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Dora1:</b><p><br />I stay in Jurong, so I buy from the factories direct. Cod Fish , saba and deshelled prawns I buy from Song Fishery. They now have an outlet in Jurong Point 2 (same row as Old Town coffee).</p></blockquote></blockquote>hello dora1, is the prices and quality the same at Song fishery hq and jp2?<p></p></blockquote>I dun think there's a significant difference in prices, not that I can detect. Quality wise it's the same for the frozen ones that I buy. They also sell fresh fish, but I never buy fr the JP2 branch before so can't comment. But jp2 branch is a lot more convenient cos the factory only opens office hours, excep for pre CNY season.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139023</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1139023</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dora1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 02:25:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:50:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Dekora:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi have u tried giving your kids those mini buns from four leaves? Small enough and I noticed these buns are quite well liked by kids instead of slice of plain bread with spread</blockquote></blockquote><br />Oh that's one of my kid's fav - the mini wassants and ham roll. And he eats up to 15 per week as supper or pre-dinner snack. I like them too. Moist and not too sweet (for the wassants). But I find the ham roll a bit too salty for children, Can keep up to two days. I personally don't find the buns any different after 2 days but I keep them to myself and let my kid eat the fresh one's.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138971</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138971</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:50:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:46:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>micollh:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">another q: what type of breakfast you guys prepare for your primary going kids.. as 630am is soo early to eat anything heavy right? bread .. cannot everyday bread right..can advise? as our time is so short (prepare to go work).. cant do much..</blockquote></blockquote><br />Hubby and I grew up having bread as breakfast for the past 30 or so years. Our kid will follow the same pattern with a little change - he shall get chk sandwich, tuna sandwich, fried egg sandwich, half boiled eggs with bread, together with buttered bread.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138964</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138964</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:46:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:42:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Dora1:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I stay in Jurong, so I buy from the factories direct. Cod Fish , saba and deshelled prawns I buy from Song Fishery. They now have an outlet in Jurong Point 2 (same row as Old Town coffee).</blockquote></blockquote>hello dora1, is the prices and quality the same at Song fishery hq and jp2?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138958</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138958</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Imami]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 01:42:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Wed, 06 Nov 2013 00:00:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi have u tried giving your kids those mini buns from four leaves? Small enough and I noticed these buns are quite well liked by kids instead of slice of plain bread with spread</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138895</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138895</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dekora]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Nov 2013 00:00:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 09:58:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>jjxy mum:</b><p>[quote=\"micollh\"]another q: what type of breakfast you guys prepare for your primary going kids.. as 630am is soo early to eat anything heavy right? bread .. cannot everyday bread right..can advise? as our time is so short (prepare to go work).. cant do much..</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />ds has been eating oats(with sugar)for &gt;1year, dd eats white bread(with peanut butter or kaya).<p></p></blockquote>My family eats bread for breakfast almost every day. Sometimes we may have cereals, cake or pancakes (weekends only!). When my kids have to eat early before school, they have 1 slice of bread with kaya/peanut butter/ cheese etc plus milk, which is enough to keep them going till recess. Why do you not want your kids to eat bread every day? If you are concerned about nutrition, make sure it's wholemeal or fruit bread, not plain white.[/quote]Thank u simkhoo <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /> she doesn't like oats, she called it \"baby porridge\" .<br />We did try to get others bread, but she doesn't like, and may take double the time to finish it. Before this, they always had cereal, but they complaint that they will have stomachache after drinking milk in the morning.<br />I only able to prepare other food during weekend.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138652</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138652</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jjxy mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 09:58:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 08:11:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>missyqiqi:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I'm a FTWM, i cook almost every day except for weekends when I'm meeting my parents. I agree sometimes i feel quite tired but when I see my girl finish up her food, i feel happy about it. <br /><br /><br />I always have fish every day for her dinner. But my style of cooking is very light,coz my daughter is still young (2yrs old) So it may not taste so good for my hubby's family coz they are paranakan so quite \"zhong kou wei\", but I told my hubby have to finish up what I have cook. Coz nobody in the house eat will eat left overs so can't possible throw it away.</blockquote></blockquote>Yup understand what you mean by being super tired. My DD is 7 this year, I've been doing this for 7 years!<br />Actually there is no need to cook fish everyday for your DD. She should be exposed to a variety of food to have a balanced nutrition. Besides, there are studies that show that young children should not have fish more than 3 times a week, especially those deep sea fishes like cod and salmon and mackerel. This is because our seas are very polluted and these deep sea fishes accumulate mercury in them. So try to vary her diet. She is 2 already, should be able to eat other food. Can also give her tofu and eggs, easily digestible as well.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138559</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138559</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dora1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 08:11:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 07:15:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>jjxy mum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>micollh:</b><p>another q: what type of breakfast you guys prepare for your primary going kids.. as 630am is soo early to eat anything heavy right? bread .. cannot everyday bread right..can advise? as our time is so short (prepare to go work).. cant do much..</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />ds has been eating oats(with sugar)for &gt;1year, dd eats white bread(with peanut butter or kaya).<p></p></blockquote>My family eats bread for breakfast almost every day. Sometimes we may have cereals, cake or pancakes (weekends only!). When my kids have to eat early before school, they have 1 slice of bread with kaya/peanut butter/ cheese etc plus milk, which is enough to keep them going till recess. Why do you not want your kids to eat bread every day? If you are concerned about nutrition, make sure it's wholemeal or fruit bread, not plain white.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138505</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138505</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 07:15:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 07:02:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Dora1:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Jetsetter<br /><br />The place that I get my shabu shabu and prime ribs from <a href="http://www.mmmm.com.sg/Scripts/default.asp">http://www.mmmm.com.sg/Scripts/default.asp</a>. Can have the prime cuts of pork and beef as well. I go to their factory outlet because it's near my house, and it's also cheaper there. But they have retail outlets as well for your convenience. But I don't get my spare ribs (cook soup type) from them cos there is a \"porky\" taste.</blockquote></blockquote>OK, Novena has a branch. Good, I'll check it out this weekend. Kum siah!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138489</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138489</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jetsetter]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 07:02:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:53:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>jetsetter:</b><p>Both my DH and DS hv been \"pampered\" by my Canto MIL's \"live fish\" cooking, so I'm forced to maintain the same level of freshness on weekends <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" />  </p></blockquote></blockquote><br />We have to live with the family we have! I guess if you can't 'train' them to be more flexible in their likes and dislikes, then you have to make the best of it. I made it clear to my husband (and later my kids) that when I cook, they just eat. If they don't like something, I won't cook it again, but I won't necessarily go to a lot of hassle to cook something the way they like. That's what restaurants are for. That's how I've coped anyway.<p></p></blockquote><br />Both get some education (or lecture) from me from time to time. I hear u when u said u froze your food for 6 mths in the UK. When we were overseas, we also did that for selected imported food like Alaskan cod and US beef steak and patties bought from the local wholesaler.  We also stocked up lots of frozen dimsum, deep-frozen fishball/dumplings imported from HK.  Life was simpler without my MIL! But u know what? now that we're back, my DH changed his attitude towards makan.  In the past, it was more like 'give &amp; take' since it was so hard to get local fare and good quality food. But now, everything must be freshly cooked, including take-outs.  For instance, he will never buy econ rice displayed for hours if we must eat out.  It must be freshly fried on the spot like zi char hor fun and fried rice.  sigh!  what a fussy DH!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138487</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138487</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jetsetter]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:53:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:53:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I’m a FTWM, i cook almost every day except for weekends when I’m meeting my parents. I agree sometimes i feel quite tired but when I see my girl finish up her food, i feel happy about it. <br /><br /><br />I always have fish every day for her dinner. But my style of cooking is very light,coz my daughter is still young (2yrs old) So it may not taste so good for my hubby’s family coz they are paranakan so quite "zhong kou wei", but I told my hubby have to finish up what I have cook. Coz nobody in the house eat will eat left overs so can’t possible throw it away.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138484</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138484</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[missyqiqi]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:53:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:12:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>jetsetter:</b><p>Both my DH and DS hv been \"pampered\" by my Canto MIL's \"live fish\" cooking, so I'm forced to maintain the same level of freshness on weekends <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61e.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--disappointed" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":(" alt="😞" />  </p></blockquote></blockquote><br />We have to live with the family we have! I guess if you can't 'train' them to be more flexible in their likes and dislikes, then you have to make the best of it. I made it clear to my husband (and later my kids) that when I cook, they just eat. If they don't like something, I won't cook it again, but I won't necessarily go to a lot of hassle to cook something the way they like. That's what restaurants are for. That's how I've coped anyway.<p></p></blockquote>Hi*5 Slmkhoo That's what I tell hubby and girl also. I won't do deep fried stuff at home cos I hate cleaning the kitchen. Want to eat deep fried stuff go out and eat. Don't like what I cook, then go out and eat lor, better still. DD is still very picky but she will still eat the dinners I cook. Hubby is easier, his criteria is must have soup. Other stuff he is not particular. So I can still survive all these years being a FTWM and one woman show cos hubby travels or OT frequently. My motto \"Got food to eat very good liao le!\" <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138446</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138446</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dora1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:12:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:07:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Jetsetter<br /><br /><br />The place that I get my shabu shabu and prime ribs from <a href="http://www.mmmm.com.sg/Scripts/default.asp">http://www.mmmm.com.sg/Scripts/default.asp</a>. Can have the prime cuts of pork and beef as well. I go to their factory outlet because it's near my house, and it's also cheaper there. But they have retail outlets as well for your convenience. But I don't get my spare ribs (cook soup type) from them cos there is a \"porky\" taste.<br />I normally just go there once every 3-4 months and stock up.<br /><br />Sorry never tried the delivery service for Song fishery and mmmm cos they are very near my house so I always go there with a big thermal bag <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />And yah, generall frozen fish cannot be used for steaming. Except for cod fish. But can use for others like grill or pan fry.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138440</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138440</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Dora1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 06:07:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 05:15:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>micollh:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">another q: what type of breakfast you guys prepare for your primary going kids.. as 630am is soo early to eat anything heavy right? bread .. cannot everyday bread right..can advise? as our time is so short (prepare to go work).. cant do much..</blockquote></blockquote><br />ds has been eating oats(with sugar)for &gt;1year, dd eats white bread(with peanut butter or kaya).<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138401</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138401</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jjxy mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 05:15:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:50:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Sandwiches, cereal, hard boiled eggs, yoghurt, cakes, buns, baos. <br /><br /><br />Since it is so early, mine gotta eat by 6am cos the bus picks them up between 6.15-6.30am, I don’t expect them to eat that much.<br /><br />They get to eat at recess so I am not worried that they will go hungry.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138339</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138339</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Funz]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:50:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:39:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">another q: what type of breakfast you guys prepare for your primary going kids… as 630am is soo early to eat anything heavy right? bread … cannot everyday bread right…can advise? as our time is so short (prepare to go work)… cant do much…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138332</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138332</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[micollh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:39:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to FTWM-NEED YOUR GUIDE on Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:37:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">is the fish from song(if order online and deliver to our doorstep) will still be fresh ?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138330</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1138330</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[micollh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2013 03:37:40 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>