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http://www.straitstimes.com/breaking-news/singapore/story/pastor-charged-having-sex-15-year-old-church-member-20130114

An assistant pastor of a church was charged on Monday with having sex with a 15-year-old student.

The 45-year-old married man, who faces three charges, allegedly had sex with the girl, a church member, at a park near Bartley MRT station between end September and early October 2011.

He is also accused of committing an obscene act with a child by holding onto the girl's hand to rub him. This allegedly took place at the park during the same period.

The third charge is of making the girl perform oral sex on him at the church premises sometime in mid-October 2011.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/49468/pastor-charged-w-having-sex-with-15-year-old-church-memberRSS for NodeThu, 23 Apr 2026 22:29:51 GMTMon, 14 Jan 2013 07:18:43 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Thu, 17 Jan 2013 12:27:39 GMT]]>Not surprising, many hypocrite around, hear and see too many, many people doing things for their own interest and benefits.


WeiHan:
Gooby:


Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:

comparing between religious leaders and political leaders, I have no tolerance for religious leaders erring of such offence.

Wolf in sheep's skin preying on young girls, pure evilness.

There are so many such so-called religious leaders nowaday.

Whichever religion is the more IN religion of the day, they will try to make their way in there and make a fortune out of it. Religion nowaday is almost like businesses and people with shady characters crowd the holy scene. It will lead to a general decline. Scandals are what drive people out.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/940480https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/940480Thu, 17 Jan 2013 12:27:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Thu, 17 Jan 2013 04:36:06 GMT]]>

FQW:
I've lost count of the number of scandals we witnessed in recent years. Starting from those charity debacles, and now the almost-nvr-ending sex scandals.


What happened to our squeaky clean image?
Really sad with the declining moral values. Haizz..新加坡的社会风气日渐败坏... :sad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/940086https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/940086Thu, 17 Jan 2013 04:36:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Thu, 17 Jan 2013 02:57:12 GMT]]>Long ago, in Sunday school, we were constantly reminded to pray for our leaders ie anyone in position of power to influence. Reason being, the higher you are the bigger the temptation.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939984https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939984Thu, 17 Jan 2013 02:57:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Thu, 17 Jan 2013 02:43:46 GMT]]>

Gooby:


Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:
comparing between religious leaders and political leaders, I have no tolerance for religious leaders erring of such offence.

Wolf in sheep's skin preying on young girls, pure evilness.[/quote]

There are so many such so-called religious leaders nowaday.

Whichever religion is the more IN religion of the day, they will try to make their way in there and make a fortune out of it. Religion nowaday is almost like businesses and people with shady characters crowd the holy scene. It will lead to a general decline. Scandals are what drive people out.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939973https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939973Thu, 17 Jan 2013 02:43:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 10:15:49 GMT]]>

concern2:
Sun_2010:

[quote=\"concern2\"] Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:

haha concern2, you better :siam: before someone :torchme:

In all seriousness, I am not divine to forgive . When man of God voilates the very trust of the people he is supposed to preach to and sanctity of the holy place he should protect, it is under no circumstances a small offence. I doubt the members of his church will either.
:gloomy:

Other than the law, does the church have their way of dealing with such offences?[/quote]I believe the law will be most appropriate

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939478https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939478Wed, 16 Jan 2013 10:15:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 07:15:35 GMT]]>Hi mummies, I have a p4 DD also, it has been a lot of cases involved minor ,its makes me really worry. How do I put it in words and explain all these to my DD to teach her to protect herself?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939339https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939339Wed, 16 Jan 2013 07:15:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 07:04:36 GMT]]>

Sun_2010:
concern2:

Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:

haha concern2, you better :siam: before someone :torchme:

In all seriousness, I am not divine to forgive . When man of God voilates the very trust of the people he is supposed to preach to and sanctity of the holy place he should protect, it is under no circumstances a small offence. I doubt the members of his church will either.
:gloomy:

Other than the law, does the church have their way of dealing with such offences?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939332https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939332Wed, 16 Jan 2013 07:04:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:19:12 GMT]]>

Nebbermind:
GLORYmum:

Outrageous!! Anyone know which church?


U gonna burn the church?


By looking at it From above ? :pokeeye:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939290https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939290Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:19:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:17:58 GMT]]>

concern2:
Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:
haha concern2, you better :siam: before someone :torchme:

In all seriousness, I am not divine to forgive . When man of God voilates the very trust of the people he is supposed to preach to and sanctity of the holy place he should protect, it is under no circumstances a small offence. I doubt the members of his church will either.
:gloomy:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939286https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939286Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:17:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:02:08 GMT]]>

concern2:
phtthp:

[quote=\"Lilac66\"]worst fact is that one of the acts was committed in the church premises..a sacred place. :mad:


if he cannot abstain from lust of the flesh, he should not become a pastor in the first case. If he cannot exercise self control restraint over his sexual urge, it'll control his mind.

Worse, this act was performed right in the church premises itself - a holy, sacred place. And to a young underaged 15 year old girl some more.

Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:[/quote]comparing between religious leaders and political leaders, I have no tolerance for religious leaders erring of such offence.

Wolf in sheep's skin preying on young girls, pure evilness.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939268https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939268Wed, 16 Jan 2013 06:02:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 04:21:21 GMT]]>

phtthp:
Lilac66:

worst fact is that one of the acts was committed in the church premises..a sacred place. :mad:


if he cannot abstain from lust of the flesh, he should not become a pastor in the first case. If he cannot exercise self control restraint over his sexual urge, it'll control his mind.

Worse, this act was performed right in the church premises itself - a holy, sacred place. And to a young underaged 15 year old girl some more.

Pastor is only human - and humans errrr! :siam:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939171https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939171Wed, 16 Jan 2013 04:21:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Wed, 16 Jan 2013 03:46:31 GMT]]>

Lilac66:
worst fact is that one of the acts was committed in the church premises..a sacred place. :mad:

if he cannot abstain from lust of the flesh, he should not become a pastor in the first case. If he cannot exercise self control restraint over his sexual urge, it'll control his mind.

Worse, this act was performed right in the church premises itself - a holy, sacred place. And to a young underaged 15 year old girl some more.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939139https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/939139Wed, 16 Jan 2013 03:46:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:54:21 GMT]]>I’ve lost count of the number of scandals we witnessed in recent years. Starting from those charity debacles, and now the almost-nvr-ending sex scandals.


What happened to our squeaky clean image?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938835https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938835Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:54:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:49:04 GMT]]>

GLORYmum:
Outrageous!! Anyone know which church?

U gonna burn the church?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938830https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938830Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:49:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:46:41 GMT]]>

tinkfirst:
Punish the predators severely to protect our innocent children. Is chemical castration allowed in Singapore?

I support this. Predators should be punished heavily so that people will think twice before violating minors.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938829https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938829Tue, 15 Jan 2013 15:46:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:26:33 GMT]]>

Lilac66:
worst fact is that one of the acts was committed in the church premises..a sacred place. :mad:

profane forbidden fruit was more exciting to that so-called pastor.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938213https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938213Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:26:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:12:27 GMT]]>worst fact is that one of the acts was committed in the church premises..a sacred place. :mad:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938197https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938197Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:12:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:10:50 GMT]]>Punish the predators severely to protect our innocent children. Is chemical castration allowed in Singapore?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938194https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938194Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:10:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:08:22 GMT]]>

GLORYmum:
Outrageous!! Anyone know which church?

won't say one lah. scared we angry at church rather than the one black sheep in that church.

generally apart from victim, the church people and esp its leaders would be more angry than us for sure. coz of negative impression of church and christianity this would ignite.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938192https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938192Tue, 15 Jan 2013 02:08:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:57:53 GMT]]>Outrageous!! Anyone know which church?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938183https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938183Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:57:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:52:18 GMT]]>

ngl2010:
What is happening? Why recently so many cases involving a minor? :mad: :mad: :mad:

outraged! teachers, religious leaders, doctors etc - they just don't cross that line as it makes the crime against a minor even more heinous as we have expectations of trust and moral authority in those professions!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938178https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938178Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:52:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:00:21 GMT]]>2012 saw a number of cases related to sex, and 2013 has seen one before half of Jan is up. One wonders whether society norm is changing…


I worry for DD who is now in P4.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938133https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/938133Tue, 15 Jan 2013 01:00:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Pastor charged w/ having sex with 15-year-old church member on Mon, 14 Jan 2013 13:21:18 GMT]]>What is happening? Why recently so many cases involving a minor? :mad: :mad: :mad:

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