<![CDATA[Mummy AccountsGirl]]>hi all....i m new here.

i m a divorcee with a 5yr old son... life is tough for me. at times i just want to end my life :stupid:

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AccountsGirl:

47k includes the interest over the yearsssss.....
HDB suck pple s blood!!!!
i think you must have also taken the AHG when you got your first flat....if not, 50% amount to 47k is a lot! Accrued interest at 5% per annum is also a lot! :shock:
might as well get resale; but resale need COV....
maybe you can try to see if your relatives can rent you a room at lower rate?

i read somewhere that for those couples who booked a new flat and applied for AHG, if they go separate ways before taking the keys, not only do they need to forfeit the 5% downpayment (using CPF), they also need to return HDB the AHG in CASH! :shock:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51117https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51117Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:15:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:06:47 GMT]]>

AccountsGirl:

47k includes the interest over the yearsssss.....
HDB suck pple s blood!!!!
:scared: :scared: :scared:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51115https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51115Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:06:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:53:35 GMT]]>

jedamum:
AccountsGirl:


during these 2 years i have been renting rooms, that takes up most of my take home pay. i hv been seeing MP like 17times to get their help to write to HDB to offer me a roof, like rental house, or allow me to buy small flat direct from HDB without paying levy 47K, but was rejected.

i think your income must have been above the http://www.hdb.gov.sg/fi10/fi10202p.nsf/WPDis/Renting%20A%20Flat%20Directly%20From%20HDBPolicies%20-%20Public%20Rental%20Scheme?OpenDocument&SubMenu=Policies so HDB rejects your appeal to rent you a flat; the 'gross' salary excludes bonus and overtime, have you reported the correct figure?

47k levy?? is that already 50% of the resale levy?
\"A divorced couple undergoing the resale of part-share of their matrimonial flat (bought direct from HDB or from the open market with CPF housing grant) will each be required to pay an equal share of the resale levy, subject to the prevailing policy.\"



47k includes the interest over the yearsssss.....
HDB suck pple s blood!!!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51110https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51110Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:53:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:48:11 GMT]]>

AccountsGirl:

during these 2 years i have been renting rooms, that takes up most of my take home pay. i hv been seeing MP like 17times to get their help to write to HDB to offer me a roof, like rental house, or allow me to buy small flat direct from HDB without paying levy 47K, but was rejected.
i think your income must have been above the http://www.hdb.gov.sg/fi10/fi10202p.nsf/WPDis/Renting%20A%20Flat%20Directly%20From%20HDBPolicies%20-%20Public%20Rental%20Scheme?OpenDocument&SubMenu=Policies so HDB rejects your appeal to rent you a flat; the 'gross' salary excludes bonus and overtime, have you reported the correct figure?

47k levy?? is that already 50% of the resale levy?
\"A divorced couple undergoing the resale of part-share of their matrimonial flat (bought direct from HDB or from the open market with CPF housing grant) will each be required to pay an equal share of the resale levy, subject to the prevailing policy.\"

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51108https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51108Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:48:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Sat, 15 Aug 2009 04:37:51 GMT]]>Been down that road (I mean abut rental woes). Forget about getting help from MPs and HDB. Just a waste of time.

Are you renting a room in a condo? A Master bedroom in HDB would set you back at around $500 to $700 depending on whether it comes furnished or not. A common room would be around $400 to $600.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51063https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51063Sat, 15 Aug 2009 04:37:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Sat, 15 Aug 2009 00:31:41 GMT]]>My nephew rents a room in Telok Blangah area for $500 ($600 if want to use aircon).


A neighbour here in Bishan rented out her room for $550.

$800 is really way too much!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51020https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/51020Sat, 15 Aug 2009 00:31:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:24:05 GMT]]>

AccountsGirl:

... landlord nows a day charging $800 a room, its day light robbery to me!! AHhhhhhhhhh............. :stupid:
$800/mth?! That's exp.

Mebbe u can try to get the room that is not really near to town area? Hmm... got to consider whether it is near to your office and your boy's sch then...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50997https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50997Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:24:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:03:27 GMT]]>Wow, that’s hefty awrite!


It’s hard moving around
all over the place. Better
to have a fixed place to
stay reali… Can understand
it MUST be rather depressing
for you. It is also a waste of
finances with all the renting.

Which area you renting?
Mebbe i can get for you
lobang for cheaper rental…
Got a humble few contacts
me-self… Hang in there, girl.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50991https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50991Fri, 14 Aug 2009 16:03:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:13:07 GMT]]>

buds:
Life may not necessarily be better after divorce.

Yes, the attachment is no longer there but there
will be a mountain of other issues to attend to,
apart from financial issues.

Accountsgirl... my heart is with you.
Take care.

thanks for all the concerns and care...

during these 2 years i have been renting rooms, that takes up most of my take home pay. i hv been seeing MP like 17times to get their help to write to HDB to offer me a roof, like rental house, or allow me to buy small flat direct from HDB without paying levy 47K, but was rejected.

i remember our PM Mr Lee, ever said ...all singaporean have shelter... but not me!

i am sporean but the goverment can;t help me. can i go to malaysia or thailand for help??? our MPs can't help me, seems like they have no power to get HDB bend a little on thier policy.

not to break the rules, but bend just little. maybe they want to see me put up tentage at the beach or voideck then only they clasify my case as GENUINE DESPERATE for a place!!!

how long more i need to rent room? landlord nows a day charging $800 a room, its day light robbery to me!! AHhhhhhhhhh............. :stupid:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50949https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50949Fri, 14 Aug 2009 11:13:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:30:23 GMT]]>Life may not necessarily be better after divorce.

Yes, the attachment is no longer there but there
will be a mountain of other issues to attend to,
apart from financial issues.

Accountsgirl… my heart is with you.
Take care.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50707https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50707Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:30:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:19:15 GMT]]>Hi AccountsGirl,


Upon deciding to divorce, life shd have to be better. Look, head and work forward to have a better life for you and your son. Divorce is not the end of the world. Countless women have been divorced and worked out a better life than before.

You can make it too. Slowly take one step at a time. Cheers…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50693https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50693Fri, 14 Aug 2009 02:19:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 01:52:56 GMT]]>Hiya AccountsGirl, don’t despair. Its not the end of the world, you are still alive and you hv your son with you.

Can sense your anguish and fustrations, so if you are comfortable, just voice them here.
Fellow forumers are friendly and helpful bunch, will be able to offer advices and suggestions to the best of our knowledge.

Take care…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50679https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50679Fri, 14 Aug 2009 01:52:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Fri, 14 Aug 2009 01:06:46 GMT]]>:welcome:


I suppose you dont really want to suicide right else you would not have enter KSP forum and post here 🙂

When you mean homeless, do you actually carry your laptop around and use the internet without a place to stay and sleep?

If you need any advise, do post your concern.
Take care.

:roll: :roll: 😉 😉 :roll: :roll:

:welcome:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50649https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50649Fri, 14 Aug 2009 01:06:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:33:06 GMT]]>

AccountsGirl:
hi all....i m new here.

i m a divorcee with a 5yr old son... life is tough for me. at times i just want to end my life :stupid:
Dear AccountsGirl, welcome to KiasuParents.com! I can only imagine how difficult things are for you now... not sure if I can do better if I am in your position, but what I know is that if you have a child, your life is not just about yourself anymore. Your child deserves that best you can give to him - because he is YOUR child. Put yourself in his shoes and try to imagine what his life would be without you, then ask yourself - are you better off now in your current situation than him without you, a child without a mother AND a father?

Did you read http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/content/feisty-princess? There is much I have learnt about living from this story.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50588https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50588Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:33:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:53:18 GMT]]>

amylqf:
What happened? Don't worry, things will get better.


We will cheer you, support you at least provide you with listening ears.

only a divorcee would understand, its tough being alone whatmore i and my boy are left homeless.

men are like XXXX, easily give up on marriage. never think of the consequences we women have to dealt with...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50547https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50547Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:53:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:49:26 GMT]]>What happened? Don’t worry, things will get better.


We will cheer you, support you at least provide you with listening ears.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50545https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50545Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:49:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Mummy AccountsGirl on Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:41:24 GMT]]>hi all

i am a divorcee with a 5yrs old son.
life is tough for me, at times i just want to end my life :stupid:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50542https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/50542Thu, 13 Aug 2009 13:41:24 GMT