<![CDATA[don't really know how to talk to wife]]>hi all;


I just want to express that I don’t really know how to express my irritation and displeasure at my wife

I’ve tried before to tell her about things that annoy/upset me - e.g. criticizing the way I do things, driving, etc, how she gets on the computer and does not speak to me, little issues from long ago, the way she talks like I am one of her staff, etc.

she just argues her way out with her ridiculous logic exercises and I am left fuming. I have sort of given up somewhat.

I sometimes get so peeved that I hit the wall in frustration when nobody’s around

Compared to some of the others, I don’t think I have a lot of problem. Family life is harmonious (in general), no affairs, no quarrels, no PIL conflicts (she gets along better with my parents than me). I feel like I should be the luckiest man in the world.

But I’m so constantly angry from time to time. And sometimes I like it.

And that sort of scares me.

Like maybe one day I will not suppress my anger anymore. I may end up hitting my wife.

And that will be the end of my marriage.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/51683/don-t-really-know-how-to-talk-to-wifeRSS for NodeSat, 18 Apr 2026 20:43:16 GMTFri, 22 Feb 2013 16:03:37 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 14:28:00 GMT]]>Oh yes, little bro will be wide awake :rotflmao:

How to talk? Brains melted already.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975645https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975645Tue, 26 Mar 2013 14:28:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 13:47:59 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
vinegar:

i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.


Easy. Dress skimpy and walk around him. Go sit on his lap :evil:

No la, this will get his attention but I still won't get to talk. If I do what u suggest, I not just get his attention, I would also get his little bro's attention and I think the little bro's will want to talk to me instead.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975620https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975620Tue, 26 Mar 2013 13:47:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 13:20:27 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
sleepy:

[quote=\"TheAnswer\"]My DH told me that all guys think about naughty stuff when they are too free.


Actually women can be 好色 too :evil:

Seems like u r talking about me :evil:[/quote]seems like u r talking abt me too 😆 I am also very 好色,but only towards my dh....

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975599https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975599Tue, 26 Mar 2013 13:20:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 12:07:19 GMT]]>

sleepy:
TheAnswer:

My DH told me that all guys think about naughty stuff when they are too free.


Actually women can be 好色 too :evil:

Seems like u r talking about me :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975557https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975557Tue, 26 Mar 2013 12:07:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:53:45 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
My DH told me that all guys think about naughty stuff when they are too free.

Actually women can be 好色 too :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975554https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975554Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:53:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:52:30 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
My young spy is also a reporter...she is capable of calling my mum quietly to tell her what goes on.

My kids 嘴巴很紧 :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975552https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975552Tue, 26 Mar 2013 11:52:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:55:46 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
My young spy is also a reporter...she is capable of calling my mum quietly to tell her what goes on.


Men's brains are really naughty...either they are stressed with work or they think of :censored: stuff.
So our kids must help keep DH busy. No time then cannot think of such things.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975432https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975432Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:55:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:53:58 GMT]]>

vinegar:
My dh's legs will break if i sit on his laps...My dh is very skinny.


very long ago,i wore bikini top n asked him can wear like that go swimming?I could still remember his awkward face....
I do not have any bikini. I wasn't allowed to buy any.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975431https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975431Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:53:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:28:12 GMT]]>My dh’s legs will break if i sit on his laps…My dh is very skinny.


very long ago,i wore bikini top n asked him can wear like that go swimming?I could still remember his awkward face…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975402https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975402Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:28:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:21:46 GMT]]>My young spy is also a reporter...she is capable of calling my mum quietly to tell her what goes on.


Men's brains are really naughty...either they are stressed with work or they think of :censored: stuff.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975389https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975389Tue, 26 Mar 2013 07:21:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:22:50 GMT]]>My DH told me that all guys think about naughty stuff when they are too free.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975358https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975358Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:22:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:21:22 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
Jennifer:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]Sit on their laps and they only think of THAT :faint:


:rotflmao:

How to sit on his lap??? I have 2 mischievous fellas at home.
If I do that, they will tell everyone and I have to dig a hole to hide my face if I have to attend PTMs...younger girl is one New Paper reporter.[/quote]You have a spy. Behave :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975357https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975357Tue, 26 Mar 2013 06:21:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:56:02 GMT]]>

Jennifer:
janet_lee88:

Sit on their laps and they only think of THAT :faint:


:rotflmao:

How to sit on his lap??? I have 2 mischievous fellas at home.
If I do that, they will tell everyone and I have to dig a hole to hide my face if I have to attend PTMs...younger girl is one New Paper reporter.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975319https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975319Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:56:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:33:28 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
Sit on their laps and they only think of THAT :faint:

:rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975312https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975312Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:33:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:26:07 GMT]]>Men are weird creatures...they don't seem to have hormones that allow them to think. Talk to them and their defences are raised...make a comment and they find we complain. Sit on their laps and they only think of THAT :faint:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975308https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975308Tue, 26 Mar 2013 04:26:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 02:48:16 GMT]]>

janet_lee88:
TheAnswer:

[quote=\"vinegar\"]i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.


Easy. Dress skimpy and walk around him. Go sit on his lap :evil:

if he plays games or watch tv and claims to be listening, i would stand in front of the tv. aiyoh...sitting on his lap will lead to something else...you will not get his attention to LISTEN.[/quote]Ya. Can't talk seriously if I do that because he will say I anti-climax 😆
The above suggestion was meant to be a joke! :siam:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975256https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975256Tue, 26 Mar 2013 02:48:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 02:25:01 GMT]]>You gals are all so funny leh.


When it comes to money talk, all men will sit up and listen attentively, 101% attention given willingly 😂

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975242https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975242Tue, 26 Mar 2013 02:25:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 01:44:16 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
vinegar:

i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.


Easy. Dress skimpy and walk around him. Go sit on his lap :evil:

if he plays games or watch tv and claims to be listening, i would stand in front of the tv. aiyoh...sitting on his lap will lead to something else...you will not get his attention to LISTEN.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975213https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975213Tue, 26 Mar 2013 01:44:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:52:39 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
vinegar:

i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.


Easy. Dress skimpy and walk around him. Go sit on his lap :evil:

doesn't work after 10yrs of marriage le...he sees until sianz oredi....:evil:

if it works,will end up on bed :censored: ,instead of discussion le...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975175https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975175Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:52:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:01:12 GMT]]>

vinegar:
i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.

Easy. Dress skimpy and walk around him. Go sit on his lap :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975165https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975165Tue, 26 Mar 2013 00:01:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Mon, 25 Mar 2013 23:56:55 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
janet_lee88:

Mine here is a YES man...or should I say YES son to his mother. So he is naturally a favorite...but I know for sure, he doesn't know what she says.

He can drive even when the kids are arguing...that's how good he is.

These men are definitely from same factory...they spoil the kids and the market. When we wives make it straight, all hell breaks loose.
When kids are not well, I am fussy about their diet. He gets on my nerves by saying, eat KFC.

My DH isn't a yes son. Thank goodness. He scolds my in laws when they misbehave ie. refuse to eat medicine or proper meals or delay going for treatment.

But my DH is a yes dad. Yes to go out every weekend. I work they enjoy. DS does not need to do any work during weekends --> approved by his dad
Say yes to Fastfood, yes to gadgets, yes to sleep late.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975164https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975164Mon, 25 Mar 2013 23:56:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Mon, 25 Mar 2013 23:55:57 GMT]]>If my DH invites me to talk while he showers, I'm afraid something naughty might happen :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975163https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975163Mon, 25 Mar 2013 23:55:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Mon, 25 Mar 2013 18:09:07 GMT]]>i find it hard to get my dh attn when i talk.He is either reading newspaper,watching tv or surfing internets.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975138https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975138Mon, 25 Mar 2013 18:09:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to don't really know how to talk to wife on Mon, 25 Mar 2013 16:32:15 GMT]]>This happened twice—


I asked to speak to him, not urgent but important… you know what he did? not once, but twice! You want to talk? Ok, He "invited" me to our bathroom, to sit on the edge of the bathtub while he is taking his shower in the shower cubicle… TO TALK!!

Men!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975123https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/975123Mon, 25 Mar 2013 16:32:15 GMT