<![CDATA[Single father..]]>Hi all, new to this forum..


How many single fathers out there? how do you balance your time - kids vs work vs girlfriend

its really tired being a SF..sometimes i just feel like giving up everything n run away from all this..

:gloomy:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/55570/single-fatherRSS for NodeFri, 24 Apr 2026 01:16:12 GMTThu, 09 May 2013 04:10:05 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 19 Aug 2020 08:40:30 GMT]]>It's hard being a single father for sure. I know someone too and he is happier that way, lesser stress and has more freedom. 😉

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1991897https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1991897Wed, 19 Aug 2020 08:40:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Mon, 27 Apr 2020 04:05:03 GMT]]>Being a single father can seem overwhelming. Planning for the future will help you gain a sense of control and make everything feel much more manageable.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1972898https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1972898Mon, 27 Apr 2020 04:05:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Fri, 17 Apr 2020 07:52:35 GMT]]>I think you just need to take a break and take a break from all this. Perhaps you should relax with your girlfriend and spend more time with your children. And then leave the children with your grandmother (for example) and spend time with your girlfriend. That is, I believe that you need to somehow balance the time spent with someone. It’s also important to pay attention to yourself, to be a little lonely.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1971579https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1971579Fri, 17 Apr 2020 07:52:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:35:44 GMT]]>I am the child of a single father. and in my childhood experience I want to say that you should devote proper time to your child. and never choose anyone. 50/50 attention to both the child and the new girl.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1971363https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1971363Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:35:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 08 Apr 2020 05:39:28 GMT]]>I salute all the single parent, taking care of kids is not easy task especially when you are also in charge in providing for them… Just love what you do and be strong!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1970458https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1970458Wed, 08 Apr 2020 05:39:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Sun, 12 Mar 2017 08:47:16 GMT]]>You need some guideline. Read books or do other stuff to get more information. More importantly believe that you ca do it.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1760455https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1760455Sun, 12 Mar 2017 08:47:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:20 GMT]]>Not easy to be a single father.


can you try to get help from your own family?

Best wishes !!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733149https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733149Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:12 GMT]]>Not easy to be a single father.


can you try to get help from your own family?

Best wishes !!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733148https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733148Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:07 GMT]]>Not easy to be a single father.


can you try to get help from your own family?

Best wishes !!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733147https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1733147Mon, 14 Nov 2016 17:10:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Thu, 28 Jul 2016 01:34:50 GMT]]>Hi Parents,



We understand that it is not easy to be a single parent. It can be rather taxing when it comes to trying to strike a balance between work and home. We do observe a trend that child/children of single parent is/are usually more hungry for parent's attention.


It is important to spend at least an hour or two to have a heart-to-heart talk with them to show that you care.

We also do understand that Asians tend to be more conservative and therefore lack of the skill to express their love for the children. What we suggest is a simple hug and saying 'I love you my son/daughter' (and say it only when you mean it) will move the child a lot.


Being a single parent is not easy but you all can do it!

Jia you!

:imanangel:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1704076https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1704076Thu, 28 Jul 2016 01:34:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 25 May 2016 08:07:24 GMT]]>hi SF,


jia you k, I am a single mum (divorced) too. .well. .what I do is, if I need to go out have some we time with BF, I will place my son at my parent place or my son’s dad side. .

usually will work around the time on weekend so quality time is spend with BF . .it’s good to have a understanding partner too. .

well I do have a single parents WhatsApp group. .

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683681https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683681Wed, 25 May 2016 08:07:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 25 May 2016 06:08:06 GMT]]>

FatherMother:
Hi all, new to this forum..


How many single fathers out there? how do you balance your time - kids vs work vs girlfriend

its really tired being a SF..sometimes i just feel like giving up everything n run away from all this..

:gloomy:

Perhaps, you may want to join a support group? It may help you emotionally or get help from them.

Best wishes and be blessed

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683588https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683588Wed, 25 May 2016 06:08:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Wed, 25 May 2016 06:07:45 GMT]]>

FatherMother:
Hi all, new to this forum..


How many single fathers out there? how do you balance your time - kids vs work vs girlfriend

its really tired being a SF..sometimes i just feel like giving up everything n run away from all this..

:gloomy:

Perhaps, you may want to join a support group? It may help you emotionally or get help from them.

Best wishes and be blessed

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683587https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1683587Wed, 25 May 2016 06:07:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Fri, 20 May 2016 14:32:53 GMT]]>Hi All SF


You all can do it! Keep it up!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1682010https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1682010Fri, 20 May 2016 14:32:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Sun, 01 Sep 2013 15:19:58 GMT]]>I'm just like you ... single father with two lovely dd. Running away is an selfish act and wasted the love you have to your children. I understand this journey is tough and lonely but I believe one day you will be able to overcome and swim to a beautiful shore. Treasure the moment you have with your children as much as you can. time flies. 🙂 may be bless you in here

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1087325https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1087325Sun, 01 Sep 2013 15:19:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Sun, 26 May 2013 14:54:45 GMT]]>Hi SF,


You can employ a maid to help you on ur house chores (to lighten ur burden). Look for a gf who is willing to share ur load. It is not easy to find someone who is willing to accept ur kids, that is why i put all my time on work n kid.

You should concentrate on ur kids… once u passed their childhood you gonna missed it.

Your own flesh and blood once in a life time… women u can find anytime… got the hint?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1009939https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1009939Sun, 26 May 2013 14:54:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Thu, 09 May 2013 07:26:11 GMT]]>Hi all, new to this forum…


How many single fathers out there? how do you balance your time - kids vs work vs girlfriend

its really tired being a SF…sometimes i just feel like giving up everything n run away from all this…



***********************************************************
Do not give up as a parent for your children, be it a single parent or not.
Otherwise your children will not have any future. Hang on there and tough times will be over soon.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000289https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000289Thu, 09 May 2013 07:26:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Thu, 09 May 2013 07:08:57 GMT]]>Hi Single Father....welcome to Kiasuparents forum.


Yes, is tough to be a single parent....you are the father and also the mother...

Most important thing in life is to focus what is most important thing in life....

Your children or your girlfriend ?

One day only 24 hours so must plan well...

I am also a Single Mother (Widow)....I know I cannot collapse because my kids need me....

So my main aim is to raise my kids now....

I am looking forward to my kids growing up-another 5-6 years I guess....

Then I am going to concentrate on Buddhism path....

So you must Jia You...Ganbette.....Hang On.... :xedfingers:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000282https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000282Thu, 09 May 2013 07:08:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Single father.. on Thu, 09 May 2013 06:58:43 GMT]]>It’s tough being a single parent whether you are a dad or mum. I have 2 good friends who are SF like you. One with 3 daughters, the other with 2 daughters. I think where it is possible, get some help so you have some breathing space to do things that you like too. As friends, we can only encourage and reassure them that they are doing well. I hope you "jia you" too. Your kids will appreciate your sacrifices and courage for not giving up on them.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000277https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1000277Thu, 09 May 2013 06:58:43 GMT