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]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/5628/jurong-s-parent-lip-laiRSS for NodeSun, 26 Apr 2026 00:05:47 GMTMon, 21 Sep 2009 13:42:16 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:41:23 GMT]]>I had an encounter, where i was waiting for my girls to

come out from their cubicles & in came this foreigner
lady who after seeing the queue to the cubicles simply
told her toddler boy to urinate in the sink (wash basin).

Yuck!

Unable or mebbe dunno where exactly to aim, the
toddler actually pee-d at full speed ahead into the
wash basin, around the tap area and some spattered
on the mirrors as well. Can you imagine the reflex action
of jet-spray water against hard wall? Yup.. the spatters
kena everyone nearby as well. Wah liao man..

Super inconsiderate.

When i saw her undress her toddler... i already gestured
to her not to do it. I told her that she could go in right
after one of my girls were done. I even hollered to my
girls to hurry up a bit inside cos there was a long queue.

She muttered something in her melodious lingo and just
seemed to be going right ahead. So i took the cue &
moved AWAY from the crime scene.

What cue you may ask.. It was the cue that clearly said
:- I am gonna do it anyway... :roll:

Not to mention, everyone in there was pissed and made
a ruckus in there. She just kept shouting back that there
was no way her toddler could've waited... So, it's like a
case of bo-pian lor.

Needless to say, we did not wash our hands there.

Thankfully there was a common washing area outside
the toilet areas with full load of soap in the soap
dispensers.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59405https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59405Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:41:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:17:30 GMT]]>

EstherTan:

Agree with Chief here. Perhaps it's easier for people to point fingers at others. Remember that BIG hoohaa businessmen in China who said that Singaporean businessmen (doing business in China) were rude etcetc?
yes, Singaporeans abroad have to learn how to be sensitive and polite as well, but that has nothing to do with this issue.

They are in our land and we have every right to criticise behaviour not correct.

Just like other people can do whatever they wish in their own home, i have no right to criticise, but when they are in MY house, i have every right to criticise behaviour i cannot tolerate.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59399https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59399Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:17:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:15:20 GMT]]>

tamarind:

Where I live, in the HDB heartland, I do see dog poops once in a while, and I do see Singaporeans allowing their dogs to pee anywhere.

I have lived in HDB flats all my life, and encountered urine in public lifts so many times. There are definitely many Singaporeans who urine in public too.

So long as the foreigners are not doing something that is hurting other people, then I think they deserve some respect and tolerance for not being used to our way of life.

The kids are usually taken care by their grandparents from mainland China. These elderly from China have lived their entire life in China. What they are doing is perfectly normal in their own country. Sometimes they do things without knowing that it is very annoying to us. But it is very difficult for the elderly to learn a new way of life.

I think we should have more understanding and tolerance towards them.

Do not assume that Singapore is always going to do well economically. One day most of us may need to pack our bags and work in other countries too. Singaporeans may also be considered backward and inferior in other first world countries.
yes, some Singaporeans are equally capable of disgusting public behaviour. They do not deserve my respect either.

I'm willing to try to tolerate, but \"respect\" is a very big word, and it has to be earned, not given.

What has economics or wealth go to do with this? If i ever have to work in someone else's land, i will have to bend my ways to suit theirs, no question about that. Do many of our new immigrants/migrant workers bother doing that? I'm sure there are some exceptions, but your guess is as good as mine when it comes to some of them, or i even daresay, a large majority.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59397https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59397Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:15:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:12:09 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu:
Singapore is multi-ethnic and dominated by Chinese because our fore-fathers packed up and came down here to set up their roots. It is easy for us, being native-born, to forget that if the original occupants of Singapore were not as open as they were in accepting our ancestors, we may still be living in China today.

what makes u think the original inhabitants welcomed our forefathers? The original ethnic malay inhabitants have always viewed chinese immigrants with disdain and caution, as can be seen by ethnic riots that erupted much later, from the bottling up of sentiment over time. Even today, this is sometimes true, that's why terrorists and religious/racial problems still exist in our region/community today.

Our forefathers are different from these new immigrants. These new immigrants (or many of them) obviously have no wish to integrate into our community or change their ways for us. They see China as the \"emerging superpower\" and have no wish to bend their ways for us. Our forefathers learnt malay/english, wore sarong at home (my grandfather and even my dad still do it) and thoroughly did their best to integrate, because they see Singapore as home.

Do they have the idea of \"do as the Romans when in Rome\"? Obviously not, because they are the \"superpower\" mah, why do as the Romans when u can \"conquer\" them with your money and influence as a \"superpower\"?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59395https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59395Fri, 25 Sep 2009 07:12:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:44:25 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu:
But we must also educate them on our own ways of life, if they are not already conscious of it. I concur with the wisdom of the words \"When in Rome, do as the Romans do.\". As visitors to another country, we have to be conscious and sensitive to the customs of the natives. It is, after all, THEIR country we are visiting, and they have every right to remain comfortable in their way of life without having to tolerate how we live ours. They have already been generous in extending a welcome to us to visit and stay with them. This is just fundamental human courtesy.

Agree with Chief here. Perhaps it's easier for people to point fingers at others. Remember that BIG hoohaa businessmen in China who said that Singaporean businessmen (doing business in China) were rude etcetc?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59358https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59358Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:44:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Fri, 25 Sep 2009 01:21:44 GMT]]>Singapore is multi-ethnic and dominated by Chinese because our fore-fathers packed up and came down here to set up their roots. It is easy for us, being native-born, to forget that if the original occupants of Singapore were not as open as they were in accepting our ancestors, we may still be living in China today. The recent surge in Chinese immigrants to Singapore is but part of the natural economic flows… when China becomes an undisputed superpower in the next decade, THEY will be the ones that will complain when foreigners want to get into their country to get a slice of their prosperity.


As hosts to foreigners in our country, we should welcome them and try to understand why they do the things they do.

But we must also educate them on our own ways of life, if they are not already conscious of it. I concur with the wisdom of the words "When in Rome, do as the Romans do.". As visitors to another country, we have to be conscious and sensitive to the customs of the natives. It is, after all, THEIR country we are visiting, and they have every right to remain comfortable in their way of life without having to tolerate how we live ours. They have already been generous in extending a welcome to us to visit and stay with them. This is just fundamental human courtesy.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59323https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59323Fri, 25 Sep 2009 01:21:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:40:30 GMT]]>

skunk:
tamarind:

we should just respect them,


I don't know about you, but for me, respect has to be earned, not given simply because they're another human being. To me, a human being is no different from any other animal, until he/she has shown that he/she is worthy of being a higher entity.

My dog doesn't pee anywhere it likes, maybe it deserves more respect than some humans? Wait till u see these adults peeing in public LOL

Where I live, in the HDB heartland, I do see dog poops once in a while, and I do see Singaporeans allowing their dogs to pee anywhere.

I have lived in HDB flats all my life, and encountered urine in public lifts so many times. There are definitely many Singaporeans who urine in public too.

So long as the foreigners are not doing something that is hurting other people, then I think they deserve some respect and tolerance for not being used to our way of life.

The kids are usually taken care by their grandparents from mainland China. These elderly from China have lived their entire life in China. What they are doing is perfectly normal in their own country. Sometimes they do things without knowing that it is very annoying to us. But it is very difficult for the elderly to learn a new way of life.

I think we should have more understanding and tolerance towards them.

Do not assume that Singapore is always going to do well economically. One day most of us may need to pack our bags and work in other countries too. Singaporeans may also be considered backward and inferior in other first world countries.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59297https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59297Thu, 24 Sep 2009 23:40:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:18:38 GMT]]>

sashimi:
Well.... no wonder somebody up there said something recently about slowing down the flow of immigrants coming into this country. :roll:

the day Singaporeans have more than 2 kids, is the day we can pack them into ships and send them back to where they came from.

I've nothing against immigrants n foreign workers who bother integrating and respecting our society, but if I could, I would rather a Singapore run and owned by true-blue Singaporeans.

At least the money earned by our own labourers remains in the country. These people earn our money and ship it back to their own lands. We would be better off without them.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59292https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59292Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:18:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:15:10 GMT]]>

tamarind:
we should just respect them,

I don't know about you, but for me, respect has to be earned, not given simply because they're another human being. To me, a human being is no different from any other animal, until he/she has shown that he/she is worthy of being a higher entity.

My dog doesn't pee anywhere it likes, maybe it deserves more respect than some humans? Wait till u see these adults peeing in public LOL

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59291https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59291Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:15:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:16:38 GMT]]>I don’t think we should turn a blind eye to these acts. It took us more than 1 generation to eradicate the bad habit of spitting, littering and queue jumping.


We seem to be going back to square 1…more and more cases of littering…not just foreigners but students too! We don’t need another bad habit introduced here…kids urine all over the place coz it’s convenient??

Soon we’ll see their mummies going to the neighbourhood in pyjamas! That was an issue brought up in the run-up to the beijing olympics…to educate their people not to go about in pjs, spit and urinate…

Please…please…please…we need a pleasant environment that’s liveable! Not a place overrun by people who treat public property as they would their home. If they’ve no respect for their home, at least show some consideration to shared living places.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59227https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59227Thu, 24 Sep 2009 13:16:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 12:34:43 GMT]]>

tamarind:

I think it is their way of life in mainland China. So long as it does not affect us adversely, we should just respect them, and close 2 eyes if necessary.
But it does affect us adversely! I feel that they should \"do as the Romans do\", so if we don't spit, urinate and etc in public, they should follow likewise. However, I don't care what they do in private.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59223https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59223Thu, 24 Sep 2009 12:34:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 09:49:37 GMT]]>Well.... no wonder somebody up there said something recently about slowing down the flow of immigrants coming into this country. :roll:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59196https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59196Thu, 24 Sep 2009 09:49:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Thu, 24 Sep 2009 09:17:14 GMT]]>My next door neighbour is a Chinese National (mommy) married to a Malaysian(daddy).


The mommy’s parents came from China to help look after her baby boy, now 3 years old. He never wears diapers since birth. I have seen him urine anywhere in their own home. They just throw a towel and wipe. Once he came over to my home and urine on the floor too.

So they not only do it in public, they do it at home too.

I think it is their way of life in mainland China. So long as it does not affect us adversely, we should just respect them, and close 2 eyes if necessary.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59186https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/59186Thu, 24 Sep 2009 09:17:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Wed, 23 Sep 2009 00:10:37 GMT]]>In the area where I reside, unfortunately this is a common sight. Once I raise hell when a 4 or 5 yo boy peed down the slide in the playground. His mother was very upset when I shouted at him for his action and a friend whom the mother was talking to joined in and told me off for scolding the child and its nothing and why am I shouting like a lunatic. I told them that its a playground fro goodness sack and how they like it when their child had to slide down on someone else's pee. Their reply was that its just pee and the rain will wash it off, etc.


I was upset enough to call town council and even HDB. Still I see children pee on the playground area where they play. Its not that I intentionally pass by the playground it just that its on the side of the block where ite enroute to bus-stop/NTUC/ATM, etc... I also smell pee everyday in the common area like lift lobby, corners of the block, behind carpark, etc.

PLEEEAAASSSEEE 🙏 don't stone me for saying the next sentence :siam: , but I do stay in a area where there lots of Chinese nationals and its mostly their children who commit the acts......

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58879https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58879Wed, 23 Sep 2009 00:10:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Tue, 22 Sep 2009 07:40:01 GMT]]>perhaps if they are brought to court for indecent exposure in public places would achieve the effect of 杀一警百?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58793https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58793Tue, 22 Sep 2009 07:40:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:16:52 GMT]]>

jedamum:
OMG!

the stomper is a pervert who stepped forward to take a clearer pic instead of leading the lady to the toilet or hand her a plastic bag.

i didn't read the stomp comments, but did bystanders stop the lady and direct her to the toilet? will sending pic to stomp educate the china lady? :roll:
Hope the below comment answer ur thoughts
Xun Ya:
Last month when we are at the mall food court having lunch. A china lady bring her grand daughter and pee on the floor. Before she can do it, my hubby shouted at her but she simply ignore and the little girl just pass urine there.

Afterwhich they just put 2 pieces of tissue paper to cover the urine.

I'm speechless too.
I have 2x personal experiences with regard to public hygience.... but somehow or other, either our frequencies does not match, or my chinese totally sucks.... they are oblivious to my presence and carry on with their business.

maybe the stomper did intervene, but keeping silence does not equate to no action. At least he/she put forward the acts with evidence.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58757https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58757Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:16:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Tue, 22 Sep 2009 02:09:21 GMT]]>OMG! :roll: Why can't she take the child to the toilet? Imagine the cleaner who has to empty the trash bin.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58679https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58679Tue, 22 Sep 2009 02:09:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Tue, 22 Sep 2009 00:33:52 GMT]]>Last month when we are at the mall food court having lunch. A china lady bring her grand daughter and pee on the floor. Before she can do it, my hubby shouted at her but she simply ignore and the little girl just pass urine there.


Afterwhich they just put 2 pieces of tissue paper to cover the urine.

I’m speechless too.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58663https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58663Tue, 22 Sep 2009 00:33:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:05:01 GMT]]>OMG!

the stomper is a pervert who stepped forward to take a clearer pic instead of leading the lady to the toilet or hand her a plastic bag.

i didn't read the stomp comments, but did bystanders stop the lady and direct her to the toilet? will sending pic to stomp educate the china lady? :roll:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58656https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58656Mon, 21 Sep 2009 17:05:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:52:24 GMT]]>I am speechless!!!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58638https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58638Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:52:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Jurong's parent....lip lai on Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:14:01 GMT]]>

FMz:
anyone know her?...

OMG :roll:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58632https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/58632Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:14:01 GMT