<![CDATA[We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh]]>

Harlequin:
An elite is an elite, elitism though seem like born out of the word elite, but I would say it's not..... it's out of ignorance and insecurity, greed and selfishness..... which all mankind has a tinge of.
:goodpost:

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SAHM_TAN:


LOL.

Have you make any inroad on the amendments to P2A?
mebbe soon.........

waiting for someone to write to ST quoting ESM.. :evil:

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3Boys:
Mawar:

Don't bash me please but hor, look at the alumni priority registration. That's a good example of elitism. It's inherited birth right that excludes many.


I wanted soooooo much to say this.........

But it's the same people, whilst protecting such a 'birthright' and 'entitlement', who castigate others who do the same in other areas.

LOL.

Have you make any inroad on the amendments to P2A?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1063002https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1063002Wed, 07 Aug 2013 01:20:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh on Wed, 07 Aug 2013 01:18:54 GMT]]>Thank you Mawar

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1063001https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1063001Wed, 07 Aug 2013 01:18:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh on Tue, 06 Aug 2013 13:15:40 GMT]]>In my office, everyone deserve a fair chance… but of course there will always be some with sweeter smiles and some that’ll give bigger X’mas presents etc… Truth to be told, I enjoy working with the sweeties, courteous, warm and the considerates; but no, they will still have to prove themselves, on the job front… Go smile to the mega clients, go get their mega accounts and I will give the appraisal accordingly.


On the side, if I am looking for a lunch kaki once in a while when I have no business luncheon, I will invite the sweeties… simply because I enjoy their company more… but if I were to throw a party at home, everyone is invited.

I subscribe to the good old virtue of "来说是非者，就是是非人"… so, most of the sweeties in my office know my style, no use to smear others, I got eyes to see… I am quite stubborn in this field, I believe what I see/observe, not what I hear.




Editing…; just to add: haiz, it’s not about how "big" the Christmas (or other) presents they give (I will return in due, with presents) … It’s about how good you are, with the job… I, (we) want the result, and, that’s all…and, that’s all!

This is not an editing about clarifying myself… this is… It, (sigh. The Reality.)

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Mawar:
Don't bash me please but hor, look at the alumni priority registration. That's a good example of elitism. It's inherited birth right that excludes many.

I wanted soooooo much to say this.........

But it's the same people, whilst protecting such a 'birthright' and 'entitlement', who castigate others who do the same in other areas.

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concern2:
concern2:

[quote=\"KSP\"]
is the mother (@1:18) in the video HL or elitism?

\"You know she's going to the US to study, and she's going to have a very bright future. Can you promise her that...future?\"

Hm, HL and elitism.

SAHM_TAN:
I see it as neither, more like the mindset of most parents which is good education = good future = good life = happiness.

To determine if she's HL or elitism, need to watch more of the character's performance.
That's true. But there is message beyond - Singapore Education not good enough - she's going to US 😂[/quote]Maybe grades not good enough for Singapore unis?

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Sun_2010:
SAHM_TAN:

[quote=\"Sun_2010\"]To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉

You will have to include carbon filter in N95, for the fumes.

Ahhh, the elites :frustrated:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:[/quote]It's abt having the proper equipment to do the job right.

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SAHM_TAN:
Sun_2010:

To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉

You will have to include carbon filter in N95, for the fumes.


Yet another nice one! :rotflmao:

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SAHM_TAN:
Sun_2010:

To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉

You will have to include carbon filter in N95, for the fumes.

Ahhh, the elites :frustrated:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

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ChiefKiasu:
buds:

Why u used specifically egoiste?

No \"elitist\" fragrance yet back some 15yrs ago?

I don't actually recall leh. I think it was very heavily marketed at that time and Mrs CKS thought the model was very \"man\". She bought it, not me. I must have smelt bad to her then... 😉

Aah, mebbe..

So she was hoping you'd transform from the sweaty 'boy' to ego 'man'..

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Sun_2010:
To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉
You will have to include carbon filter in N95, for the fumes.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062382https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062382Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:45:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh on Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:43:34 GMT]]>

concern2:
SAHM_TAN:

[quote=\"concern2\"]
SAHM_TAN, I suspect it'll continue to stay in the same \"cool, dark\" part of my drawer for another 10 years, or until DD starts experimenting with my stuff. Oops, :offtopic:

Aiyoh, if your dd is going to experiment then better throw lah, give her \"fresh\" perfume to experiment 😉

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:[/quote] :rotflmao: :faint:

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buds:
Why u used specifically egoiste?

No \"elitist\" fragrance yet back some 15yrs ago?
I don't actually recall leh. I think it was very heavily marketed at that time and Mrs CKS thought the model was very \"man\". She bought it, not me. I must have smelt bad to her then... 😉

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Sun_2010:
Mawar:

[quote=\"concern2\"]

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Spritz toilets after use.

Height of Elitism :faint:[/quote] :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Use Chanel No.19 as toilet flush - ultimate!

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ChiefKiasu:
concern2:

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:


:offtopic:

Who knows? Keep it for another 10 years and maybe it will cure nicely like some old \"fragrant\" wine. My Egoiste has definitely turned a shade darker than I remembered. I don't dare to open it at all :razz:

Why u used specifically egoiste?
No \"elitist\" fragrance yet back some 15yrs ago?

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buds:
Sun_2010:

To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉

:rotflmao:

Another good laugh today! :please:

Nice one, Sun_2010. :imcool:

:rotflmao:

what am I going to do w/o you gals :grphug:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062373https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062373Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:38:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh on Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:37:26 GMT]]>

Sun_2010:
To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉
:rotflmao:

Another good laugh today! :please:

Nice one, Sun_2010. :imcool:

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Mawar:
concern2:

[quote=\"SAHM_TAN\"]

Aiyoh, if your dd is going to experiment then better throw lah, give her \"fresh\" perfume to experiment 😉

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Spritz toilets after use.[/quote]Height of Elitism :faint:

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concern2:
SAHM_TAN:

[quote=\"concern2\"]
SAHM_TAN, I suspect it'll continue to stay in the same \"cool, dark\" part of my drawer for another 10 years, or until DD starts experimenting with my stuff. Oops, :offtopic:

Aiyoh, if your dd is going to experiment then better throw lah, give her \"fresh\" perfume to experiment 😉

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:[/quote]:rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062367https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1062367Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:35:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to We need to guard against elitism: ESM Goh on Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:34:32 GMT]]>To link it back to the topic


KSP, Buds, Welcome to the the non-elite club. Let us guard against the elite N19 with our non-elite N95s.

They all spray elitism everywhere, but Our N95s will filter it all out .
😉

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concern2:
THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:


:offtopic:
Who knows? Keep it for another 10 years and maybe it will cure nicely like some old \"fragrant\" wine. My Egoiste has definitely turned a shade darker than I remembered. I don't dare to open it at all :razz:

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concern2:
SAHM_TAN:

[quote=\"concern2\"]
SAHM_TAN, I suspect it'll continue to stay in the same \"cool, dark\" part of my drawer for another 10 years, or until DD starts experimenting with my stuff. Oops, :offtopic:

Aiyoh, if your dd is going to experiment then better throw lah, give her \"fresh\" perfume to experiment 😉

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:[/quote] :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Spritz toilets after use.

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SAHM_TAN:
concern2:


SAHM_TAN, I suspect it'll continue to stay in the same \"cool, dark\" part of my drawer for another 10 years, or until DD starts experimenting with my stuff. Oops, :offtopic:

Aiyoh, if your dd is going to experiment then better throw lah, give her \"fresh\" perfume to experiment 😉

THROW?! :yikes: Away the only thing 'elistist item' I can ever SMELL? 😆 I'd wish I could drink it!! :rotflmao:

:offtopic:

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