<![CDATA[Parenting Books]]>Original Title: Books for How to be a Good Mummy / Daddy


Hi All,

Just want to know is there any daddy / mummy search and read those books regarding \"parenting\" ?

I do, but my friends said I am super kiasu... is that so? :roll:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/5984/parenting-booksRSS for NodeSat, 09 May 2026 03:35:30 GMTMon, 12 Oct 2009 07:17:06 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Sat, 22 May 2010 10:12:09 GMT]]>I’ve read "Children Are From Heaven" by John Gray. It’s quite informative. The author doesn’t believe in spanking children, but rather using time-outs and positive reinforcements. Quite insightful.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/191784https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/191784Sat, 22 May 2010 10:12:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 11 May 2010 06:38:49 GMT]]>Hi kids_r_innocent,


I think my DH ordered the book thru Borders. You can call them first to check. If not available, they can order for you.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182410https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182410Tue, 11 May 2010 06:38:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 11 May 2010 06:34:08 GMT]]>

minnie2004:
I found the following parenting books useful:


2) P.E.T. Parent Effectiveness Training (recommended by one of my super kiasu friend who attends all sorts of parenting seminars)

Hi minnie2004,

I am interested in buying the book tat u have recommended (item 2). Can i find out from u where can i get it. TIA. 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182406https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182406Tue, 11 May 2010 06:34:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 11 May 2010 06:27:46 GMT]]>i do find parenting books to be helpful at times, but it put me to sleep when reading it unlike fiction books…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182401https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182401Tue, 11 May 2010 06:27:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 11 May 2010 01:34:12 GMT]]>i love parenting books too.

although sometimes very logical, but day-to-day we just miss many things we take for granted.
its good to have a reminder/guide. some books very insightful too.
reading up is a way of improving mah 😃

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182023https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/182023Tue, 11 May 2010 01:34:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Sun, 25 Apr 2010 10:24:21 GMT]]>yea all! i have tonnes of parenting books too..kinda of a junkie. i agree like many of the replies that it is fine and RESPONSIBLE to read up and gain perspectives on parenting especially for SAHM....and daddies...


anyways, i got a book that i totally love call perfect parenting...in soft copy..i can share if anyone want it..but pls respect copyright rules okay...drop me a note if you want lynne.yeow@gmail.com

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/166970https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/166970Sun, 25 Apr 2010 10:24:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Thu, 15 Apr 2010 15:24:33 GMT]]>Cool Mum, Super Dad by Jamilah Samian


Excerpt from book

"When More is Better

The more you tell your child "I love you",

The more you notice the good things that your child does and compliment him for it,

The more you really listen to your child,

The more individual, uninterrupted time you spend with him on things that he wants to do with you,

And the more genuine interest you show in what he does…

The more special he feels,

The fonder he grows of you,

The warmer and more endearing your relationship is with him,

now and in the future.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/161418https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/161418Thu, 15 Apr 2010 15:24:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:54:13 GMT]]>I found the following parenting books useful:


1) the "What to expect" series
2) P.E.T. Parent Effectiveness Training (recommended by one of my super kiasu friend who attends all sorts of parenting seminars)
3) Rasing Boys - Great for moms with little boys

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117108https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117108Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:54:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:05:23 GMT]]>hi blessedone, sounds similar to the experience of a number of us. You can check out the discussion over here:

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=6129

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117084https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117084Tue, 02 Feb 2010 10:05:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 02 Feb 2010 09:16:48 GMT]]>I have a 2 yrs old child very active.recently she is getting into my nerves.when i scolded her she wud smile and think it was a game.when i asked her to stop doing someting,she wud continued.if she throw things on the floor,i asked her to picked up,she wud picked up and throw on the table with a huh sound.I don't like to scold or beat her all the time.I hope it is not affecting her now.i hope parents with the same experiences pls advise me on how to discipline my child.tq. 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117056https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/117056Tue, 02 Feb 2010 09:16:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 07 Dec 2009 06:02:57 GMT]]>I believe there is a lot in books that we can learn from … like this book. There are lots of inspirations that I can draw upon, and a lot of times … not so much on the technique but just giving the tired soul the lift.


Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/86278https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/86278Mon, 07 Dec 2009 06:02:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:29:30 GMT]]>//Editor's note: Topic selected for http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/content/learning-parenting-through-books.


Here are my thoughts and tips on Parenting Literature:

1. It is good to read up before your first child arrives, and during the first few years you will find them a useful reference.

2. Read a variety of subjects. Some important ones include nutrition, growth, sleep issues and illnesses.

3. IMPORTANT: Books are no substitute for real experience.

4. IMPORTANT: Eventually you will start to realize not everything you read in books works. What this means is that you have to start applying selectively - some methods authors recommend may not work for your child. Understand that no two children are alike. Different children respond differently to different methods.

Absorb major points but be prepared to dig elsewhere for specifics.

5. Supplement what you read with what you learn in real experience, as well as other sources of information, including from relatives, friends and of course, the internet.

6. You will likely find discussion more educational than non-interactive sources of information (like books).

7. Bear in mind that a lot of parenting literature in books are written by non-Asians. You will soon realize that a lot of what they say doesn't really make sense in an Asian family.

8. Note in particular the western diet. These books will inadvertently be \"converting\" you and your child to a western diet, which in some nutritional circles, is not a good thing, because the western diet is sometimes alien to Asians. This is subjective though.

9. The same applies to what you read on the internet.

10. For first-time parents: there is this phenomenon where some things in the entire experience of parenting are only known to those who have experienced it. For some reason, there is always some parenting wisdom out there which is never captured in books. You may read a hundred books and webpages and never find the answer to your problem, but the moment you ask someone (a real person), the answer appears immediately.

Point is: if all else (ie. books) fail, ask around.

In conclusion - books are an important foundation for parents, but nothing beats talking to fellow parents. 🙂

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/73378https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/73378Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:29:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:24:24 GMT]]>"The five love languages of your family" by Gary Chapman, is very enlightening…I learnt alot from it. It talks about knowing our children/spouse’s love language, and how we can express them…


The five love languages are:
1. Physical touch
2. Words of affirmation
3. Quality time
4. Gifts
5. Acts of service

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/72781https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/72781Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:24:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:13:48 GMT]]>I read quite a few....doesn't make a better parent, I think :lol: because saying/writing is easier than doing ?


but I like books and I like to read them...so :oops:

these are the ones I have and recommend :
1. The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness: Five Steps to Help Kids Create and Sustain Lifelong Joy
2. Raising Boys: Why Boys Are Different - and How to Help Them Become Happy and Well-Balanced Men
3. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/72773https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/72773Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:13:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 13 Oct 2009 23:44:54 GMT]]>I meant to say share good books on parenting. Anyone to recommend?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64523https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64523Tue, 13 Oct 2009 23:44:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Tue, 13 Oct 2009 01:53:47 GMT]]>I don't read parenting books. My main parenting tips come from oberservations of how other parents treat their kids, solve their kids problems, how teachers teach and treat the class students (from what my girl had reported to me everyday) and through kiasuparents forum. I also have a very supporting hubby, we would discuss problems, solutions, role playing and strategies to apply on our girl's issues. 😄


Sometimes, I feel that parenting is more difficult to handle than office politics ! haha ! 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64253https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64253Tue, 13 Oct 2009 01:53:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 13:01:05 GMT]]>Chief, mebbe can alter title to : Parenting Books? 😐

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64141https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64141Mon, 12 Oct 2009 13:01:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:54:43 GMT]]>Yes, can share good on parenting pls?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64137https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64137Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:54:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:42:29 GMT]]>

fussyMummy:
Hi All,


Just want to know is there any daddy / mummy search and read those books regarding \"parenting\" ?

I do, but my friends said I am super kiasu... is that so? :roll:
no lah, not super kiasu lah...I read those too...must read other wise I totally clueless about lots of things leh... may be we can start shaing our books...may be one day can have book swap :idea:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64132https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64132Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:42:29 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:06:28 GMT]]>

ks2me:
Kiasu Empress Dowager? :siam:

Wah seh!! :!:

:rotflmao:

Niwae, you said it all in a nutshell ks2me.
I couldn't have said it better. :salute:

I agree with all you've mentioned! :celebrate:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64117https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64117Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:06:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:34:30 GMT]]>

buds:
😐 Kiasu queen?

Kiasu Empress Dowager? :siam:

Anyway, nothing kiasu about wanting to be effective parents. To be conscious and conscientious cannot go very wrong.
No doubt at the end of the day, parenting is indeed trial and error as each child is different, the development milestones are vastly different too but still good to know some broad theories.....

Btw, kiasuparents forum has a wealth of knowledge on kids raising and you get all the best KS tips here, not kidding hor. 😄

Personally I only read \"What to expect in the first year\" in a book form(that was a gift), all the rest via Internet, reason being parenting tips also move with times, can expire or new knowledge added... For example, how to deal with H1N1...this is latest and greatest....how to find in books? :lol:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64103https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64103Mon, 12 Oct 2009 11:34:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:56:10 GMT]]>

fussyMummy:
Hi All,


Just want to know is there any daddy / mummy search and read those books regarding \"parenting\" ?

I do, but my friends said I am super kiasu... is that so? :roll:
I hoard loads of parenting books and teaching children books
till TODAY! So your answer to the 1st question is YES, YES, YES! 😉

Your friends, are they married?
Got kids? 😐

buds got a whole closet-ful of
em' goodies... good for any
time of the day reference and
ideas... on top of the wealth on
the internet. 😉

So, like how Michael Jackson wud
have said/sang it... You are not
aloooone... buds is here with you..

Uhm... wait a minute... :idea: If you
are already termed super kiasu, then
what does that make me? 😐 Kiasu queen?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64080https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64080Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:56:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:03:30 GMT]]>Nothing's wrong . . I read them too, especially on long flights. How else do you improve ?? 😄

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64051https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64051Mon, 12 Oct 2009 10:03:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Parenting Books on Mon, 12 Oct 2009 09:36:23 GMT]]>

fussyMummy:
Hi All,


Just want to know is there any daddy / mummy search and read those books regarding \"parenting\" ?

I do, but my friends said I am super kiasu... is that so? :roll:
Nope, you are not super kiasu. It's called 'acquisition of parenting knowledge' before venturing into the 'unknown - your child'.

I don't read parenting books lar, most are acquired via website and articles. The parenting books kinda bore me so I prefer to go through Internet for summarised articles and research papers.

Your friends are singles or newly married with no children yet izzit? They dunno what is called 'die' only until they've reached that stage. I have loads of friends who dunno what I was doing then until they've experienced it themselves. So, if they dun understand your frequency and what you're preparing for, just be geared up for laughing session when it's their turn lor. :lol: (kidding la, just try to tell them lor, if they still dun understand, just take it easy but don't doubt yourself)

Up till now, DH and I are still sharing articles (from various sources) on how to be good spouses and good parents.

Don't be discouraged for pre-preparing for the future. You will be rewarded in multiple folds later.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64034https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/64034Mon, 12 Oct 2009 09:36:23 GMT