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POA Teacher:
My suspicions: could they have changed her mind and decided they want her back?

Since you find that she's not a good worker, let them have her 😄
I hope so. Then can get rid of the maid without offending anyone.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/64496/ex-employer-coming-over-to-visit-maidRSS for NodeSat, 25 Apr 2026 11:49:10 GMTSun, 10 Nov 2013 16:16:19 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sun, 10 Nov 2013 02:30:28 GMT]]>However there is one thing I don’t like about transfer maid is she shares with the ex employer our family things like the type of food we eat, our occupation, kids character. I heard from my relative that the ex employer even knew what brand of milk I drink.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142231https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142231Sun, 10 Nov 2013 02:30:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sun, 10 Nov 2013 02:26:20 GMT]]>My maid is also a transfer maid and also linked up by a relative. The ex employer has never ever said that she wants to visit my maid. They meet outside during my maid’s off day.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142230https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142230Sun, 10 Nov 2013 02:26:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sun, 10 Nov 2013 02:20:28 GMT]]>My suspicions: could they have changed her mind and decided they want her back?

Since you find that she's not a good worker, let them have her 😄

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Love iPad:
The ex employer is a young couple. She was employed to look after their sick dad but decided to send him to a old folks home instead so this maid was not needed. At that time, I was looking for a maid so another relative link us up.


dont bother, young couple probably treat her as a friend and nthng better to do so perhaps just keeping in touch but the maid may get distracted and may think differently. May even get ambitious.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142169https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142169Sat, 09 Nov 2013 19:44:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 14:02:47 GMT]]>The ex employer is a young couple. She was employed to look after their sick dad but decided to send him to a old folks home instead so this maid was not needed. At that time, I was looking for a maid so another relative link us up.

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Love iPad:
She is a transfer maid from a distant relative who have never visit me. I receive a call from this relative wanting to visit her to give her a bday present. Her bday is in early September and she only work for this relative 2 months only. After she was transfer to me, I realize she is not good in her job and don't follow instruction, so not very happy with her already and out of no where receive this funny request that they (couple) want to come over to visit my maid. They are so distant till they don't know my address type of relative.

\"This relative\" is male or female?

Later you changed to plural - \"couple\". So there's a female employer involved?

Hve they found another replacement maid?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142070https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142070Sat, 09 Nov 2013 13:35:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 13:25:04 GMT]]>She is a transfer maid from a distant relative who have never visit me. I receive a call from this relative wanting to visit her to give her a bday present. Her bday is in early September and she only work for this relative 2 months only. After she was transfer to me, I realize she is not good in her job and don’t follow instruction, so not very happy with her already and out of no where receive this funny request that they (couple) want to come over to visit my maid. They are so distant till they don’t know my address type of relative.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142058https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142058Sat, 09 Nov 2013 13:25:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 11:32:32 GMT]]>Is it male or female?


If its the former, most likely they had/are having some sort of a relationship. Speaking from experience with an ex-maid of mine. This happened behind my back when she was alone at home.

If its a female employer, they probably had a good working relationship. But why is she coming over? Does your helper have off days?

My 2 ex-helpers had good working relationships with their ex-employers who were Muslims. My helpers met up with them or kept in touch on the phone occasionally. I attribute this to sharing of similar culture and religion.

Sometimes contracts are not renewed due to plausible reasons/circumstances.

You have not provided adequate details of the situation, so it can be difficult to post response or provide advice without being a tad judgemental …

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142012https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142012Sat, 09 Nov 2013 11:32:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 11:02:36 GMT]]>Maybe he is not even her ex-employer but her boyfriend?

Suspicious…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142004https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1142004Sat, 09 Nov 2013 11:02:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 09:19:53 GMT]]>If the ex employer misses the maid then why not sign on the contract in the first place?

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huaywenandkenneth:
No. What for and why? Maid can visit ex-employer on off days if she wants to. I just find this request strange.

They can make their own arrangements and meet up outside during maid's off days de.. ... :?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1141885https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1141885Sat, 09 Nov 2013 06:54:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 05:20:48 GMT]]>yeah really strange. and if the ex employer is a man, smells fishy all the more.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1141836https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1141836Sat, 09 Nov 2013 05:20:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ex employer coming over to visit maid? on Sat, 09 Nov 2013 05:06:28 GMT]]>No. What for and why? Maid can visit ex-employer on off days if she wants to. I just find this request strange.

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