chixchix:

My husband also gets unhappy when I am a bit rude to my maid,, he prefers that I leave her alone since she wakes up at 6am and sleeps at 11pm..he is afraid that if the in dons get angry they will do something to our kids..

Namie:

Hi all. Sorry, have not been logging in for the past few days cos I was rushing for deadlines. My boss wanted some papers to be sent to her by first day of CNY so I was trying to get them done before that.


The maid's wp will expire this year so I hope to end it when it expires. Not sure why, but lots of people I talked to, the husband always side with maids. Someone I knew well, when she wanted a divorce, her husband even said she is replaceable. He just need to get a maid.

buds:

ammonite:

[quote=\"TheAnswer\"]

Why do you sound like my hubby? He is the one always telling him to look at his actions..

your dh is not wrong. :imanangel:

ammonite:

TheAnswer:

Why do you sound like my hubby? He is the one always telling him to look at his actions..

your dh is not wrong. :imanangel:

jetsetter:

Most top execs with many staff under their charge are usually outwardly doting hubbies. So far, those C*Os I've spoken to 总是把老婆挂在嘴上。I notice they like to make ad hoc mentions abt their wives' fav this & that, that they need to rush off from happy hour or their wives will get mad, or \"My wife would skin me alive if I....\" etc.

I dunno if that's intentional or what; you know, some successful men just want to bring in their wives to the conversation to \"ward off\" any potential temptress or they wanna send the message to all female subordinates that they are blissfully married, so that this very message can spread to the rest of the building. This is a very clever way to shield oneself from undesirable office rumours, as well as portray oneself as a responsible righteous leader of the organisation.

TheAnswer:

Why do you sound like my hubby? He is the one always telling him to look at his actions..

ammonite:

jetsetter:

[quote=\"sleepy\"]
Personal observation. I feel that men with confidence are less dominating husbands. Surprisingly loh. They liked to go around telling everyone about their adorable wives, as well as the chores they did at home to keep wives happy They don't have to dominate their wives to prove their superiority. 疼老婆的才是大丈夫 :evil:

Most top execs with many staff under their charge are usually outwardly doting hubbies. So far, those C*Os I've spoken to 总是把老婆挂在嘴上。I notice they like to make ad hoc mentions abt their wives' fav this & that, that they need to rush off from happy hour or their wives will get mad, or \"My wife would skin me alive if I....\" etc.

I dunno if that's intentional or what; you know, some successful men just want to bring in their wives to the conversation to \"ward off\" any potential temptress or they wanna send the message to all female subordinates that they are blissfully married, so that this very message can spread to the rest of the building. This is a very clever way to shield oneself from undesirable office rumours, as well as portray oneself as a responsible righteous leader of the organisation.

jetsetter:

buds:

Probably the other side of the coin is, the wife wasn't able to take better care of them (husbands)? For example their husbands' idea of good helper could be someone who can simply just cook and serve home cooked food daily, come home to rest to a clean home, work clothes nicely pressed for everyday use and doesn't nag... which the wives perhaps can't... or won't? I know of acquaintances who won't do certain things and insist their husbands do it

*Touche*
:hi5:

Maybe that wife was none of the above and had been throwing tantrums and getting very demanding. So when she called it quits, her hubby just 爽快accepted.

jetsetter:

sleepy:

Personal observation. I feel that men with confidence are less dominating husbands. Surprisingly loh. They liked to go around telling everyone about their adorable wives, as well as the chores they did at home to keep wives happy They don't have to dominate their wives to prove their superiority. 疼老婆的才是大丈夫 :evil:

Most top execs with many staff under their charge are usually outwardly doting hubbies. So far, those C*Os I've spoken to 总是把老婆挂在嘴上。I notice they like to make ad hoc mentions abt their wives' fav this & that, that they need to rush off from happy hour or their wives will get mad, or \"My wife would skin me alive if I....\" etc.

I dunno if that's intentional or what; you know, some successful men just want to bring in their wives to the conversation to \"ward off\" any potential temptress or they wanna send the message to all female subordinates that they are blissfully married, so that this very message can spread to the rest of the building. This is a very clever way to shield oneself from undesirable office rumours, as well as portray oneself as a responsible righteous leader of the organisation.

jetsetter:

that they need to rush off from happy hour or their wives will get mad, or \"My wife would skin me alive if I....\" etc.

sleepy:

Personal observation. I feel that men with confidence are less dominating husbands. Surprisingly loh. They liked to go around telling everyone about their adorable wives, as well as the chores they did at home to keep wives happy They don't have to dominate their wives to prove their superiority. 疼老婆的才是大丈夫 :evil:

buds:

Probably the other side of the coin is, the wife wasn't able to take better care of them (husbands)? For example their husbands' idea of good helper could be someone who can simply just cook and serve home cooked food daily, come home to rest to a clean home, work clothes nicely pressed for everyday use and doesn't nag... which the wives perhaps can't... or won't? I know of acquaintances who won't do certain things and insist their husbands do it

Sun_2010:

so be proud that your man does some chores. :celebrate:

jjxy mum:

he will expect me to does All chores if I become a SAHM..

Sun_2010:

sleepy:

I would be super pissed if my hubby's assessment of my worth is how clean is the house, how nicely pressed are his shirts :nunchuk:


Anyway he does the ironing at home and a couple more chores :siam:

Why u running ??
Like my friend says , the reason most men dont do work is because of one of the below - women
1. dont let them as they feel embarrassed that they let the men work or
2. criticize them way too much

so be proud that your man does some chores. :celebrate:

sleepy:

I would be super pissed if my hubby's assessment of my worth is how clean is the house, how nicely pressed are his shirts :nunchuk:


Anyway he does the ironing at home and a couple more chores :siam: