<![CDATA[Sec school Whatsapp Content]]>ts you de engrish is very de powderful leh… can’t really comprehend what is written…


Anyway, like what is mentioned, access to a phone by young kids should be based on the prerequisites that it will be subjected to inspection. That shd keep things in check.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/68672/sec-school-whatsapp-contentRSS for NodeTue, 12 May 2026 05:33:20 GMTWed, 29 Jan 2014 04:57:41 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 04:42:38 GMT]]>i have barred wa from ds phone n will talk to him tonight when i see him barring apps is the way to go for now as my boy has no self control srry limlim was baking thus alot typos.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203187https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203187Wed, 29 Jan 2014 04:42:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:44:04 GMT]]>I am not sure I would inform the teacher yet, but I would want ds to exit the group chat if that is what is going on. In fact, he has asked if he should exit a couple of group chats as there was just too much time-wasting nonsense chats going on but he has so far stayed in to not seem anti-social.


I do have full access to my ds’ phone and am surprised that many parents with sec 1s and 2s need to "tell" their kids they checked their phones? It was a condition when I gave ds his first phone just before sec 1 that I have access to his phone anytime. He will have to show me some years of responsible use before he expects privacy. I think knowing that mummy checks does ensure he is more responsible in his replies. He voluntarily shows me msgs from friends he considers inappropriate and cant believe they posted such nonsense to the whole group. He asks me: "Wah, don’t their parents know what they are posting?"

When he does chat, it is usually 1-1 with a friend or small groups. We cant understand why kids need to respond to 30-40 classmates at once!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203026https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203026Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:44:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:40:54 GMT]]>

mummy OnABudget:
his phone is with me la confiscated so now is how to proceed tell that child parents or tell the teacher in sch or just act blur i am just dreading the day he gets the phone back too


i am contemplating telling the teachers asap but later she tell them is i who informed ah boy is going to be very not happy.
You may have to admit to looking, and apologise for not making your rules clear. In future, you should reserve the right to inspect his phone, PC etc occasionally. Explain to him that it's for his own safety - and isn't he lucky that you saw the whatsapp this time. If you choose to act blur this time, still make the inspection rule explicit when you return the phone. Even better, get him to also agree to tell you whenever this kind of message or image is circulated. This sort of thing is likely to keep happening, and if nothing is done, kids will be influenced or even traumatised. We parents have a responsibility to our kids and their friends to step in when such things happen.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203021https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203021Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:40:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:30:27 GMT]]>Just tell him you looked at his phone without his permission and you are sorry about it. Apologise and sincerely admin it is against your better judgement.


I let me girls know I will check their phones and usually do so in front of them, no snooping around; and teach them how to handle some stuff, like unknown number / people whatsapping them, etc. .

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203010https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203010Wed, 29 Jan 2014 01:30:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 10:33:11 GMT]]>his phone is with me la confiscated so now is how to proceed tell that child parents or tell the teacher in sch or just act blur i am just dreading the day he gets the phone back too


i am contemplating telling the teachers asap but later she tell them is i who informed ah boy is going to be very not happy.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202614https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202614Tue, 28 Jan 2014 10:33:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 10:13:01 GMT]]>You looked without telling him? That’s sticky. Maybe find a way to look with his permission. I feel it should be reported to the school asap. It’s not at all appropriate for their age, or any age, come to that!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202602https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202602Tue, 28 Jan 2014 10:13:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 09:19:34 GMT]]>his friends send to him he knows about the bees and whatnot thing is hp is CONFISCATE till further notice maximum 2 months i am now also afraid to pass it back to him he does not know yet mummy is snooping around if he does i guess hes going to get not very pleased.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202574https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202574Tue, 28 Jan 2014 09:19:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 09:05:58 GMT]]>He send to his friend or his friend send to him?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202564https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202564Tue, 28 Jan 2014 09:05:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:53:03 GMT]]>Time to have a chat with your boy about the birds, bees and whatnot.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202559https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202559Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:53:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:52:16 GMT]]>

mummy OnABudget:
hmmm jap cartoon manga with unclothed girls n boys ><!!!! very hesitant to even give him back the hp now

My personal opinion would be not to report to the school. Talk to your DS openly on why you feel that such content is not appropriate to be circulated in such a manner.

Teenagers will naturally be curious about all these and I believe taking a more open approach might be better.

With the Internet, they will be exposed contents much more explicit than such cartoons. Might as well take this opportunity to address the issue on pornography.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202556https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202556Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:52:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:33:53 GMT]]>hmmm jap cartoon manga with unclothed girls n boys ><!!! very hesitant to even give him back the hp now

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202539https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202539Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:33:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sec school Whatsapp Content on Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:25:15 GMT]]>errr, what exactly is a "pornographic manga"?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202533https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1202533Tue, 28 Jan 2014 08:25:15 GMT