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chenwj:
As long as wife does not bully my parents, she can do anything she wants to me. :evil:


What about if your parents bully your wife?

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12mum:
chenwj:

As long as wife does not bully my parents, she can do anything she wants to me. :evil:



:evil:


:spank:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311362https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311362Thu, 12 Jun 2014 17:14:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:54:33 GMT]]>hmmm… am I in the correct forum?..hahahaha

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311072https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311072Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:54:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:52:18 GMT]]>

sailor:
hahaha...yes cuckolded. thank you for correcting my spelling.


just don't pull the wrong leg...:)
Is that a proposition? :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311070https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311070Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:52:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:02:30 GMT]]>hahaha...yes cuckolded. thank you for correcting my spelling.


just don't pull the wrong leg...:)

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311026https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311026Thu, 12 Jun 2014 08:02:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 06:38:21 GMT]]>

sailor:
is a henpecked husband worst off compared to a cuckooed husband?

In my opinion..

Of course, a cuckooed husband is the worst!
Because cuckoo is :siao: leh! :faint:

PS. I'm pulling you leg..

I'm guessing you meant a cuckolded husband?
Meaning to say; a husband with an adulterous wife?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310937https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310937Thu, 12 Jun 2014 06:38:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 06:29:16 GMT]]>is a henpecked husband worst off compared to a cuckooed husband?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310925https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310925Thu, 12 Jun 2014 06:29:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 05:24:19 GMT]]>

12mum:
chenwj:

As long as wife does not bully my parents, she can do anything she wants to me. :evil:



:evil:

Hmmm.... in your opinion
Henpecked in laws ----NO
Henpecked husband --- OK

The point is does your wife know this offer? :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310883https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310883Thu, 12 Jun 2014 05:24:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 05:21:07 GMT]]>

chenwj:
As long as wife does not bully my parents, she can do anything she wants to me. :evil:


:evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310879https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310879Thu, 12 Jun 2014 05:21:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 18:34:15 GMT]]>As long as wife does not bully my parents, she can do anything she wants to me. :evil:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310625https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310625Wed, 11 Jun 2014 18:34:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Tue, 18 Feb 2014 06:15:36 GMT]]>to be called a henpeck is bad, but to be labelled a henpeck and unfilial is worse


i have seen man who scare (or to avoid fight, whatever u name it) of wife so much that he refused to allow the mother to move into his house even when his mother is sick and needed care.

personally,i felt all men shld dote on wife, but to this kind of extend and abandon the sick mother, make me lose all respect for him.

having a chance to care for our parents is a "fu qi", and will have your "fu bao" in future.

i always believe in karma.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1217502https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1217502Tue, 18 Feb 2014 06:15:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Sat, 01 Feb 2014 08:53:48 GMT]]>

ammonite:

If wifey can take care of husband's pride, the 'henpecked' term will no longer apply mah.
no ammonite, I am responding to TA's question about husbands who choose fierce wives. To me, there is no such thing as \"henpecked husbands\". The husbands are just giving in, 以大局为重. ＂让＂不是＂怕＂。

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204333https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204333Sat, 01 Feb 2014 08:53:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Sat, 01 Feb 2014 07:58:49 GMT]]>Hubby’s 怕老婆 theory:


1. 没钱花
2. 有钱花， 乱乱花

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204321https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204321Sat, 01 Feb 2014 07:58:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Sat, 01 Feb 2014 06:20:59 GMT]]>

Imami:
slmkhoo:

[quote=\"TheAnswer\"]Isn't it very strange if a man chooses a tigress wife? Thought men like gentle and good natured wives?


Assuming that the marriage works, it probably means that the man is self-confident and isn't intimidated. My husband claims he married a 'fierce' wife (my kids call me 'dragon mom' - fiercer than a tiger!). I think he would be bored if I were too gentle and good-natured. I suppose men with less confidence will want wives who are less challenging.

Yup, I tend to agree with this too. Some men married tigress wives and remained contentedly married because they have the confidence. Perhaps they even has a \"hold\" on their tigress/lioness wives.

Nothing is ever totally bad all the time. Take lionesses for eg. They take care for the young and hunt for food. The lions, while they do hunt, can just sashay over and join the pride for an effortless meal. Not a bad deal right?

The two of the ingredients which must be present for all marriages to work are trust and respect. A tigress wife will lost her place if she doesn't take care of the husband's pride.[/quote]If wifey can take care of husband's pride, the 'henpecked' term will no longer apply mah.

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slmkhoo:
TheAnswer:

Isn't it very strange if a man chooses a tigress wife? Thought men like gentle and good natured wives?


Assuming that the marriage works, it probably means that the man is self-confident and isn't intimidated. My husband claims he married a 'fierce' wife (my kids call me 'dragon mom' - fiercer than a tiger!). I think he would be bored if I were too gentle and good-natured. I suppose men with less confidence will want wives who are less challenging.

Yup, I tend to agree with this too. Some men married tigress wives and remained contentedly married because they have the confidence. Perhaps they even has a \"hold\" on their tigress/lioness wives.

Nothing is ever totally bad all the time. Take lionesses for eg. They take care for the young and hunt for food. The lions, while they do hunt, can just sashay over and join the pride for an effortless meal. Not a bad deal right?

The two of the ingredients which must be present for all marriages to work are trust and respect. A tigress wife will lost her place if she doesn't take care of the husband's pride.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204209https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1204209Fri, 31 Jan 2014 23:35:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 30 Jan 2014 00:10:34 GMT]]>

TheAnswer:
Isn't it very strange if a man chooses a tigress wife? Thought men like gentle and good natured wives?

Assuming that the marriage works, it probably means that the man is self-confident and isn't intimidated. My husband claims he married a 'fierce' wife (my kids call me 'dragon mom' - fiercer than a tiger!). I think he would be bored if I were too gentle and good-natured. I suppose men with less confidence will want wives who are less challenging.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203610https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203610Thu, 30 Jan 2014 00:10:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Thu, 30 Jan 2014 00:04:57 GMT]]>

Imami:
Funz:



They always say kids will find spouses in the image of their parents.

So if DS finds a tigress wife, does that mean I have been one too? :skeptical:

not for me. Hubby is not like my father and I am definitely not like mil! 🙏

Isn't it very strange if a man chooses a tigress wife? Thought men like gentle and good natured wives?

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203605https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203605Thu, 30 Jan 2014 00:04:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 23:11:07 GMT]]>

Funz:


They always say kids will find spouses in the image of their parents.

So if DS finds a tigress wife, does that mean I have been one too? :skeptical:
not for me. Hubby is not like my father and I am definitely not like mil! 🙏

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203583https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203583Wed, 29 Jan 2014 23:11:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 09:32:55 GMT]]>I tried to find real life cases of henpecked husbands but just couldn’t. Those couples I have seen are the really lucky wives. Their husbands love them so much that they are so pampered - husbands take care of everything. But these wives do not henpeck their husbands.


I envy them!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203368https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203368Wed, 29 Jan 2014 09:32:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 07:54:20 GMT]]>

sleepy:
How about this era's new 三从四德 for women?


New 三从:
At home, 父从我
After marriage, 夫从我
After having son, 子从我

Oh, the million$ question is whether you're the DIL or MIL in this new 三从 :evil:

I have yet to come up with the new 四德 :rotflmao:
:rotflmao:

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203326https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203326Wed, 29 Jan 2014 07:54:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 07:00:31 GMT]]>A henpecked husband, is 1 who listens to his wife, with regards to everything. .and does not even pause a second to think through whether what the wife instigated, is right or wrong morally…

For example, to make her husband demand half a million from his parents’ hardearn retirement fund…with no intention to return a single cent…and is without knowledge of his other siblings…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203307https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203307Wed, 29 Jan 2014 07:00:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 06:35:44 GMT]]>A henpecked husband, is 1 who listens to his wife, with regards to everything. .and does not even pause a second to think through whether what the wife instigated, is right or wrong morally…

For example, to make her husband demand half a million from his parents’ hardearn retirement fund…with no intention to return a single cent…and is without knowledge of his other siblings…

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203293https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203293Wed, 29 Jan 2014 06:35:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 06:26:06 GMT]]>

jetsetter:
(1) Leading by Example


Impt to lead by example. No matter how I dread gg over to ILs' place, I make sure my sonny sees me doing so on a regular basis. This is so he can remember that, \"my mom used to visit her ILs and bought gifts for them, so my future wife should do no less than that....\"

http://i58.tinypic.com/1zojn61.jpg\">

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203285https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1203285Wed, 29 Jan 2014 06:26:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to your definition of henpecked husband on Wed, 29 Jan 2014 05:18:58 GMT]]>How about this era's new 三从四德 for women?


New 三从:
At home, 父从我
After marriage, 夫从我
After having son, 子从我

Oh, the million$ question is whether you're the DIL or MIL in this new 三从 :evil:

I have yet to come up with the new 四德 :rotflmao:

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