<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Pursue Uni or work?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>insider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>sleepy:</b><p><br /><br />Yes, agreed wholeheartedly. 书中自有黄金屋  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> <br /><br />Although I did not make much money from my heavy investment in education (unemployed for &gt; 10 years) but I do have fond memories of my experience studying overseas. And I suppose my dh would not be attracted to me in the first place if my qualification is not comparable to his.</p></blockquote></blockquote>When I was younger about 30, I spent about $4000 attended a 'motivational' course. My sifu is a Taiwanese. Gained much from his course that I believe I am one of his best students in implementing his teachings coz many found his course 'useless' (so I know what Adam Khoo's course is like for kids - if you get it, you get it. If you don't, then just too bad!).<br /><br />Next came the NLP course for professional development that cost me some $3888 for a week. Was quite heart pain about that sum of money for 7 days only but then so long never went for upgrading and then remembered what sifu said and so just went.<br /><br />I met someone there who bought something that I wanted to sell for a long time with no buyer at $200,000!<br /><br />Then next came my master degree. Another $30,000 that I actually didn't need to go for the course since I am the boss. Still remembered what sifu said and attended.   Met a group of like-minded classmates and made my millions eventually (and I am still making).<br /><br />I internalised many key principles shared by sifu other than this 'Just Study' one and they really benefit me for life (esp in terms of relationships).<br /><br />JUST STUDY!<p></p></blockquote>Haha.. I'm sure you realise that your sifu isn't saying that studying per se is good; what he really meant to say is that studying is good networking (relationship building) time! This is why people willingly pay for a Harvard MBA program; many senior folks in big companies all over the world will be your classmates, and they might offer you your next big break.<br /><br />This is a very good point that many people miss. When you are studying, you meet lots of people and gain lots of contacts. This is the valuable part. I've had a good number of times I had contacted/been contacted by ex-school/uni friends to seek advice, partnerships etc.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/71301/pursue-uni-or-work</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 12:30:21 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/71301.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:52:41 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:44:02 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>starlight1968sg:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">OT: I wonder how many are actually applying what they have learnt in work. The degree, however, is an entry pass to many jobs. I am sure you have heard that many with engineering background went to work in financial industries.<br /><br /><br />I agreed with insider too; work can come later and although one may say can return to school after working for a few years but I can say it is not easy at all especially when age is catching up.<br /><br />I have wanted to do another degree and have been thinking it for years but I dont think I will ever get it done.</blockquote></blockquote>My perspective is that a general degree (professional ones like medicine and law are different) only says one thing: you are basically somewhat competent in your cognitive and language abilities, failing which you couldn't have possibly graduate.<br /><br />The degree doesn't say much about your ability to work well, which is a function of many other things, such as communication skills, ability to be a team player etc. So, the degree can help get a foot in the door, but beyond that, the general degree isn't that useful, especially when there are so many general degree holders these days.<br /><br />Employers are now requiring more to even grant a degree holder the chance to an interview, such as internship/work experience, overseas experience etc, except for the sales positions where nobody cares as along as your bring in the sales.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250293</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250293</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Teacher Aaron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:44:02 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:36:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>SAHM_TAN:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />I don't have the answer. But I can share this. <br /><br />Niece A after As decided to go poly becos she couldn't find a course she like in uni. After poly, she can still go to uni if that's what she wants. She's not bothered by the sunken cost or the possibility of being in the same poly as her younger sis. <br /><br />It might be easier to switch fr As to poly, I don't know. My research is only till sec schools LOL not yet post secondary education.  She didnt meet resistance fr her family too. I don't know her grades, we don't talk abt grades during gatherings. We don't avoid but just there are many stuff to catch up on LOL. So we don't compare grades and don't know what are their grades. All I know is she could go to uni but is choosing poly instead and it's something she wants to do.</blockquote></blockquote>If the A level grades do not qualify you for university, they should provide you access to polytechnic, provided you didn't fail badly! <br /><br />I'm surprised that your niece didn't find a course she likes in local universities. There are actually many, many options available (it's mind boggling to me, at least). You can go for any of the universities' open house to take a look the next time they organise one to see what I mean.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250289</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250289</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Teacher Aaron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:36:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:28:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Is the prospect of switching area of study so grim in Singapore? I really can't see that doing a university course in an area in which the student has no interest can be a good thing. Surely that will 'doom' her to that area even more than if she strikes out to try something new now? And if she has little interest, is she likely to do well? I would still say re-think and wait until she has a better idea what she wants to do. A year or 2 surely doesn't make that much difference at 20yo.</blockquote></blockquote>It's not that hard, I assure you. It's more of if you don't plan properly, you might not finish studying in the typical time frame because if you take up too many modules in your original faculty by the time you intend to transfer, a good number of them can't be used for graduation due to the fact that you need to take a minimum number of modules to graduate from any major. If you don't mind spending an extra year (I think you have up to 6 years to finish bachelors in local universities; most finish in at most 4), then transferring will definitely not be a problem.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250284</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250284</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Teacher Aaron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:28:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:24:27 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>KSP:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Can she apply the course she wants at other private schools besides local unis?</blockquote></blockquote><br />Of course she can, but local universities are better bang for the buck (it's subsidised much more substantially), and there is a good number of employers who view local university graduates more favourably than graduates from most of the private universities. I'd say it's a stereotype that those who go for private universities do so because they cannot qualify for local universities, but that's the way it is for some employers.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250282</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250282</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Teacher Aaron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:24:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:21:34 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>havok_ex:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Uni first. You can take a minor or a second major in what you are interested in in University. Or even better, you can transfer to a course you like after your first semester/year. <br /><br /><br />You can't defer admission unless there is either a medical reason or NS. Other reasons won't be accepted by the universities. <br /><br />In any case. I think she should pursue her studies in IT. If she doesn't like it, she can try transferring. If she goes to work now, she may be doomed to the IT industry forever based on her diploma. What's worse is that she might be doing something she doesn't like but paid a low wage because she only has a diploma. At least with a degree, even if she doesn't like what she does, she would at least get paid a higher salary.</blockquote></blockquote>This is the best practical advice. Go into the computing faculty, just take the barest minimum of modules in the computing school and take more cross faculty modules in the first year. If you can impress some professors in the other faculties, ask them to write a good recommendation to transfer faculty. Speaking from experience through interacting with my undergraduates who transferred faculties (and even universities), universities are not that inflexible, but you need someone to back you up with good recommendation.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250279</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1250279</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Teacher Aaron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 16:21:34 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 04:27:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Yes, I realise that. For this girl, I would also recommend that she do a degree first unless the one she has been admitted to is one she really hates, or she fears she cannot pass. But beyond that, I feel there is no strong reason for necessarily 'finishing' studies when young; the more mature, middle-aged and oldies can study too!</blockquote></blockquote><br />I think the 'work first, study later' is better applied to the playful ones rather than the more academically inclined eg. the unpleasant working and life experiences did motivate my sister and me to get a good degree each after we went back to school. However, due to the 'old age' and addition of commitments, we decided against pursuing higher qualifications after getting our basic degree, even though we would have liked to. So age is really a crucial factor when it comes to studying.<br /><br />Of course it would be a different story if the girl has not been accepted into the local uni. It would mean that her results did not meet the criteria required. So working for a few years till she is more mature and ready to study, while saving up for a private or overseas uni, may be better in that case.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249675</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249675</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[rains]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 04:27:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 02:51:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>jtoh:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I agree with schweppes. If it's possible for her to go to FASS or do a double degree/minor in marketing/mass comm, that would be an option for her to pursue her marcomm/mass comm career.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Actually, being an IT person will good communication skills is a very advantageous combination. There are many with one or the other, but not many with both.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249568</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249568</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 02:51:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:37:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think it’s coz julong’s niece has been accepted by the local uni, it seems a "waste" to reject the offer, esp since we know it’s so competitive getting accepted.<br /><br /><br />The situation and advice might be different, if say, the niece has not been accepted by a local uni, then the suggestion might be to work for a few years to figure things out and earn some $$, and then proceed to study part time at Unisim or other private tertiary institutions.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249472</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249472</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[schweppes]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:37:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:24:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>schweppes:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Some possible options:<br /><br /><br />1) Go ahead with IT at uni (since this is already confirmed) but do a minor/double degree/double major in Marketing or Mass Comm. <br /><br />2) Did your niece apply to do Arts/Humanities/Social Sciences at the local unis? Grads from these courses do end up doing marcomm, mass comm or related as their career choices. If registration has not closed yet, she might want to consider applying for these courses at the local unis.<br /><br />3) Consider applying to SIT or SIM Global Education to study Marketing <br /><br /><br />One thing NOT to do, is to study IT at uni thinking that one can just ask for transfer or switch to another course or school/faculty. It is not so easy and there is no guarantee. A lot depends whether the other course/school has vacancies or whether they think the student is good enough for them. So, don't just bank on this option.</blockquote></blockquote>I agree with schweppes. If it's possible for her to go to FASS or do a double degree/minor in marketing/mass comm, that would be an option for her to pursue her marcomm/mass comm career.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249453</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249453</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jtoh]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:24:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:14:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>rains:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><p>I think there is no need to think that studying MUST come first, then work. Sometimes, there is value in alternating them. I don't say that it is the best way if maximising earnings is the main aim, but that's the way it works out sometimes. I did a university course (which was interesting but I didn't do the obvious job it led to), worked 3 yrs in a fairly unrelated area, then did a MA in that area. By the time I did the MA, I had learned on the job most of the stuff I needed to know, so the MA was just to get the paper qualification. My husband worked 9 yrs in a job unrelated to his degree, then did a MA and PhD in yet another (related) area! It hasn't paid off in money, just satisfaction. But we have never had to go hungry.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />I am sure you have already noted that in your and your husband's cases, both of you had done a degree before venturing out into other fields or working world. It's very different from the thread starter's niece's situation in which she doesn't even have a degree yet. In your and your husband's cases, both of you did complete your studies at degree level before going to work. <p></p></blockquote>Yes, I realise that. For this girl, I would also recommend that she do a degree first unless the one she has been admitted to is one she really hates, or she fears she cannot pass. But beyond that, I feel there is no strong reason for necessarily 'finishing' studies when young; the more mature, middle-aged and oldies can study too!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249443</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249443</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 01:14:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Thu, 27 Mar 2014 00:31:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>slmkhoo:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I think there is no need to think that studying MUST come first, then work. Sometimes, there is value in alternating them. I don't say that it is the best way if maximising earnings is the main aim, but that's the way it works out sometimes. I did a university course (which was interesting but I didn't do the obvious job it led to), worked 3 yrs in a fairly unrelated area, then did a MA in that area. By the time I did the MA, I had learned on the job most of the stuff I needed to know, so the MA was just to get the paper qualification. My husband worked 9 yrs in a job unrelated to his degree, then did a MA and PhD in yet another (related) area! It hasn't paid off in money, just satisfaction. But we have never had to go hungry.</blockquote></blockquote><br />I am sure you have already noted that in your and your husband's cases, both of you had done a degree before venturing out into other fields or working world. It's very different from the thread starter's niece's situation in which she doesn't even have a degree yet. In your and your husband's cases, both of you did complete your studies at degree level before going to work. <br /><br />I went to work without a degree for some years. The pay was miserable and the lack of a degree limited me in every way possible. It happened to my sister too. My sister was even exploited by being 'promoted' in title and not in pay. The company 'acknowledged' her ability but refused to pay her more since she only had a diploma. And to think that during my sister's time, there was this wide belief that employers prefer to hire diploma holders than degree holders. Now we know it's bcos employers want to pay less for a diploma holder to do a degree level job.<br /><br />My sister and I certainly don't relish those days. We regretted that our years were wasted in those low-paying jobs that didn't add value to our lives. We paid a heavy price for our folly instead. So I definitely support the idea of studying first in one's youth.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249394</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249394</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[rains]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 00:31:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 23:40:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi julongmum,<br /><br /><br />I am asking this qn out of curiosity. <br /><br />Is your niece thinking of declining the offer? Or are you concern with the wisdom of her taking the offer ?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249358</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249358</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[SAHM_TAN]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 23:40:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 22:56:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think there is no need to think that studying MUST come first, then work. Sometimes, there is value in alternating them. I don’t say that it is the best way if maximising earnings is the main aim, but that’s the way it works out sometimes. I did a university course (which was interesting but I didn’t do the obvious job it led to), worked 3 yrs in a fairly unrelated area, then did a MA in that area. By the time I did the MA, I had learned on the job most of the stuff I needed to know, so the MA was just to get the paper qualification. My husband worked 9 yrs in a job unrelated to his degree, then did a MA and PhD in yet another (related) area! It hasn’t paid off in money, just satisfaction. But we have never had to go hungry.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249333</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249333</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sharonkhoo]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 22:56:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 16:19:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Perhaps your niece should sit down and decide what she really wants else at the end of the day, she be wasting all her precious resources.  Time &amp; Tide waits for no man.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249301</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249301</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[bubbles_ling]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 16:19:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 15:30:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Some possible options:<br /><br /><br />1) Go ahead with IT at uni (since this is already confirmed) but do a minor/double degree/double major in Marketing or Mass Comm. <br /><br />2) Did your niece apply to do Arts/Humanities/Social Sciences at the local unis? Grads from these courses do end up doing marcomm, mass comm or related as their career choices. If registration has not closed yet, she might want to consider applying for these courses at the local unis.<br /><br />3) Consider applying to SIT or SIM Global Education to study Marketing <br /><br /><br />One thing NOT to do, is to study IT at uni thinking that one can just ask for transfer or switch to another course or school/faculty. It is not so easy and there is no guarantee. A lot depends whether the other course/school has vacancies or whether they think the student is good enough for them. So, don’t just bank on this option.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249271</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249271</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[schweppes]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 15:30:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 15:15:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Many thanks to all for your opinions and sharing on both own or others experiences.  <br /><br /><br />My niece is bubbly in nature and likes to meet people, she probably finds working on the program cracking brains too tiring… Mass com or marketing could be a better match.<br /><br />Insider is certainly a lucky person with many  机遇 along her way in study!</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249264</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249264</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[julongmum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 15:15:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 14:13:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>julongmum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi all<br /><br />My niece has just graduated fr poly n been accepted by local Uni for an IT course. However she has no interest in pursuing IT and her GPA can't get her to the other courses like business or marketing in govt Uni. Private full time Uni is not considered cos of financial constraint.<br /><br />Would like to hear yr opinion as to whether she should just go ahead with the IT in Uni and obtain an IT degree or should just abort and join the work force. She is someone who enjoys companion and thus very active in poly therefore I think she would continue to like Uni life. However pursuing a course that doesn't interest her, does it make sense?!<br /><br />Many thanks in advance for any of yr comment.</blockquote></blockquote>If you don't mind sharing, which area of studies is your niece interested in pursuing? Then maybe we can advice better.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249206</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249206</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[schweppes]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 14:13:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 13:53:48 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>insider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Then next came my master degree. Another $30,000 that I actually didn't need to go for the course since I am the boss. Still remembered what sifu said and attended.   Met a group of like-minded classmates and <span style="\&quot;color:">made my millions eventually (and I am still making</span>).</blockquote></blockquote>Wow wow!! <br />Your books certainly contain much much more 黄金 than mine  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />Hey, I'm poor literally. <br />Only rich figuratively   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":joy:" alt="😂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249180</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249180</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sleepy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 13:53:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 13:33:33 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>sleepy:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br />Yes, agreed wholeheartedly. 书中自有黄金屋  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> <br /><br />Although I did not make much money from my heavy investment in education (unemployed for &gt; 10 years) but I do have fond memories of my experience studying overseas. And I suppose my dh would not be attracted to me in the first place if my qualification is not comparable to his.</blockquote></blockquote>When I was younger about 30, I spent about $4000 attended a 'motivational' course. My sifu is a Taiwanese. Gained much from his course that I believe I am one of his best students in implementing his teachings coz many found his course 'useless' (so I know what Adam Khoo's course is like for kids - if you get it, you get it. If you don't, then just too bad!).<br /><br />Next came the NLP course for professional development that cost me some $3888 for a week. Was quite heart pain about that sum of money for 7 days only but then so long never went for upgrading and then remembered what sifu said and so just went.<br /><br />I met someone there who bought something that I wanted to sell for a long time with no buyer at $200,000!<br /><br />Then next came my master degree. Another $30,000 that I actually didn't need to go for the course since I am the boss. Still remembered what sifu said and attended.   Met a group of like-minded classmates and made my millions eventually (and I am still making).<br /><br />I internalised many key principles shared by sifu other than this 'Just Study' one and they really benefit me for life (esp in terms of relationships).<br /><br />JUST STUDY!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249140</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249140</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[insider]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 13:33:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:48:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>insider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />One of the key teachings of my sifu is, just study, and the returns will always come in multiple multiple folds in many different ways (a spouse, future opportunities, fond memories that can last a lifetime, etc , etc).</blockquote></blockquote><br />Yes, agreed wholeheartedly. 书中自有黄金屋  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":smile:" alt="😄" /> <br /><br />Although I did not make much money from my heavy investment in education (unemployed for &gt; 10 years) but I do have fond memories of my experience studying overseas. And I suppose my dh would not be attracted to me in the first place if my qualification is not comparable to his.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249107</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249107</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sleepy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:48:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:43:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Mawar:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br />I have a friend who is blessed with a golden spoon. He pursued one paper after another, from North America to Europe. Good professional degrees from top Us and which can earn him big bucks. Alas! He refused to leave his ivory towers. But he has enough family money to last a few lifetimes.</blockquote></blockquote>I have a classmate whose full time job is studying too. While we were all rushing to complete our module, taking as many subjects as possible per trimester so that we can graduate asap and try to save some rental cost and living expenses. However, he took his own sweet time taking only one or two subjects per trimester so that he could stretch his campus life as long as possible.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249101</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249101</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sleepy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:43:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:29:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">OT: I wonder how many are actually applying what they have learnt in work. The degree, however, is an entry pass to many jobs. I am sure you have heard that many with engineering background went to work in financial industries.<br /><br /><br />I agreed with insider too; work can come later and although one may say can return to school after working for a few years but I can say it is not easy at all especially when age is catching up.<br /><br />I have wanted to do another degree and have been thinking it for years but I dont think I will ever get it done.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249086</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249086</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[starlight1968sg]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:29:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Pursue Uni or work? on Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:06:22 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>insider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">My take is always study first if one is still within the 'study age', as long as the course is not too 'repulsive' and never mind that if it is not a course that one originally wants.<br /><br /><br />Go uni, to me other then is to get another paper, the more important thing is to PLAY! <br /><br />青春不留白！<br /><br />Go uni and polish up a bit on harmless 'elementary politics' among classmates and lecturers first (on grades, on positions, on riders, on fairness/unfairness, etc) before going out to the real world to polish some more among the sharks.<br /><br />After 'school age' next time can work work work and work, work till die. <br /><br />So dont need to start work so early if the house is not waiting for her to open rice.<br /><br />One of the key teachings of my sifu is, just study, and the returns will always come in multiple multiple folds in many different ways (a spouse, future opportunities, fond memories that can last a lifetime, etc , etc).</blockquote></blockquote>You really have a knack in putting matters into realistic perspective.  :salute: I agree with you. <br /><br />I have a friend who is blessed with a golden spoon. He pursued one paper after another, from North America to Europe. Good professional degrees from top Us and which can earn him big bucks. Alas! He refused to leave his ivory towers. But he has enough family money to last a few lifetimes.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249058</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1249058</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mawar]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 12:06:22 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>