<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[$1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I really respect the maternal and paternal relatives for having good control over the money…if they had unhappiness over handling, the money would have been all squandered. The Malaysian widow didn’t have much to begin with…so when faced with $1m, she was literally at a loss. Her brothers should help her out if they didn’t cheat her.</p>
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]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1314653</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1314653</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2014 06:27:48 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 18 Jun 2014 06:07:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>12mum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">So much of a difference.  Definitely not easy to manage a large sum of money.<br /><br /><br />AsiaOne<br />Monday, Jun 09, 2014<br /><br />Many people have been criticising online how the widow of the cleaner who died at Budget Terminal last year spent the $1 million she received in donations and insurance payouts within a year.<br /><br />When the story broke yesterday, many were quick to say that she had mismanaged the money.<br /><br />Lianhe Wanbao noted that it was not uncommon for the public in Singapore to donate to the families of victims of accidents and tragedies.<br /><br />In its effort to find out how other beneficiaries of public donations have been doing, the Chinese daily visited the family of the four Yishun orphans yesterday.<br /><br />The four children - aged three to 13 then - lost their father in February last year to a traffic accident on the Tampines Expressway. They lost their mother to cancer two months before that.<br /><br />They received more than $400,000 in public donations after the accident.<br /><br />Their maternal grandmother said that she is managing the money together with the children's paternal uncle, and are very careful with it.<br /><br />\"We withdraw $2,000 each month for living expenses, and to pay for utilities. And only took an exra $500 out during the New Year to buy new clothes for them.<br /><br />\"This is money from the public, we have to be accountable for it,\" she said.<br /><br />She said that they \"still have $400,000 from the donations\", Wanbao reported.<br /><br />She said that the children are doing well in school.<br /><br />sinsh@sph.com.sg</blockquote></blockquote>Wow they manage very well.  Frankly to spend $2000 for living expenses (include utilities) in Singapore for 4 children is really very thrifty!!<br /><br />Respect them!!!  :salute:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1314643</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1314643</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[JJ1111]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2014 06:07:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Sat, 14 Jun 2014 02:12:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">it’s really heartening to know both sides of the families (maternal grandma &amp; paternal uncle) are very careful with the $400K given…kids are in good hands. god bless the family.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312112</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312112</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2014 02:12:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 23:02:30 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Glad to know the kids are doing well in school...their parents would be proud.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Yes, it is heartening to hear that in Yishun case -<br />The grandparents are wise in spending every single penny, on the 4 orphan.<br /><br />When public donate $ initially, the intention was to help them, as much as possible, to see them able to tide through their growing up years of education, financially.<br />At least, Yishun case did not disappoint public, like $ being squandered away.<br /><br />we are also glad to hear that the kids are doing well in their studies.<br />Let's hope will continue this way, till they grow up to adult.<br />Their parents in another world, looking down at them, are glad that the kids are sensible.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312060</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312060</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 23:02:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 17:36:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Glad to know the kids are doing well in school…their parents would be proud.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312028</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312028</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 17:36:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 17:19:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>So much of a difference.  Definitely not easy to manage a large sum of money.<br /><br /><br />AsiaOne<br />Monday, Jun 09, 2014<br /><br />Many people have been criticising online how the widow of the cleaner who died at Budget Terminal last year spent the $1 million she received in donations and insurance payouts within a year.<br /><br />When the story broke yesterday, many were quick to say that she had mismanaged the money.<br /><br />Lianhe Wanbao noted that it was not uncommon for the public in Singapore to donate to the families of victims of accidents and tragedies.<br /><br />In its effort to find out how other beneficiaries of public donations have been doing, the Chinese daily visited the family of the four Yishun orphans yesterday.<br /><br />The four children - aged three to 13 then - lost their father in February last year to a traffic accident on the Tampines Expressway. They lost their mother to cancer two months before that.<br /><br />They received more than $400,000 in public donations after the accident.<br /><br />Their maternal grandmother said that she is managing the money together with the children's paternal uncle, and are very careful with it.<br /><br />\"We withdraw $2,000 each month for living expenses, and to pay for utilities. And only took an exra $500 out during the New Year to buy new clothes for them.<br /><br />\"This is money from the public, we have to be accountable for it,\" she said.<br /><br />She said that they \"still have $400,000 from the donations\", Wanbao reported.<br /><br />She said that the children are doing well in school.<br /><br />sinsh@sph.com.sg</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312019</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1312019</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[12mum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 17:19:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 14:07:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pinky:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Exactly, they are after all citizens there.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Since the host country has done its part to give the widow close to a million. It is time for her own country to extend their helping hand to her...perhaps ask her brother to cough out the money meant for her children's education.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311911</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311911</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 14:07:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Fri, 13 Jun 2014 05:06:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Exactly, they are after all citizens there.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311624</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311624</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pinky]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 05:06:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 23:37:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">She should try to recover some $ from her brother, and those whom she had helped to set up their business, using her $ 2 million, previously.<br /><br /><br />As for her 4 kids -<br />They staying in Malaysia now ?<br />She is Malaysian ?<br /><br />Her own country fellow men, &amp; her country’s education authorities, housing authorities, manpower labour ministry, should also extend a hand, to help her, get back on her own feet.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311425</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1311425</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 23:37:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 04:46:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>starlight1968sg:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Come to think of it, my Coffin Purchase Fund is better to be kept by somebody in case I become senile one day...</blockquote></blockquote><br />my pocket is always open...:)<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310852</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310852</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sailor]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 04:46:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 01:29:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>to spend RM 40k in 5 mths is luxury, to spend RM400k in 5 months already considered ridiculous, to spend SGD400k is really  :stupid: <br /><br /><br />I think she is not waiting for people to give her money, she is hoping she can come back to SG and work, this is what i understand.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310720</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310720</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[CK0917]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 01:29:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:51:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think she has been given a fair amount of money for her and children’s future…a pity she has been ‘swindled’ due to the inability to manage the large sum of money. she still has a roof over her head and a job…case closed.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310707</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310707</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:51:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:47:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>pinky:</b><p>Wonder why didn't  she ask her own government and own countrymen and women for help instead ?  :evil:</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />maybe she felt her husband died in Singapore, so the citizens here should help her.<p></p></blockquote>Maybe papers always report Singapore has many millionaires and also handfuls of billionaires.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310706</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310706</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[coolbreeze]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:47:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:34:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pinky:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Wonder why didn't  she ask her own government and own countrymen and women for help instead ?  :evil:</blockquote></blockquote><br />maybe she felt her husband died in Singapore, so the citizens here should help her.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310694</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310694</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:34:47 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:30:28 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Wonder why didn't  she ask her own government and own countrymen and women for help instead ?  :evil:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310691</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310691</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pinky]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:30:28 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:29:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>chenwj:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">100K not even to buy lorry? Why is she so naive? Or her brother is simply a scum.</blockquote></blockquote><br />at the beginning she said she paid off $50K debts and it was fine...but giving away money and buying lorries? I think she should continue working in Malaysia since the boss is paying her accommodation.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310690</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310690</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:29:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 18:39:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">100K not even to buy lorry? Why is she so naive? Or her brother is simply a scum.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310627</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310627</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[chenwj]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 18:39:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 16:20:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pinky:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">She should be thankful to her boss who provided an old terrace house for her to stay and even bought groceries for her family. On top of that she has a job that pays RM2000 month. It's time to stand on her own feet and start all over<br /><br />again...</blockquote></blockquote>After losing everything, she should really appreciate her boss for providing a roof over their heads.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310601</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310601</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janet88]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 16:20:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 12:32:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">She should be thankful to her boss who provided an old terrace house for her to stay and even bought groceries for her family. On top of that she has a job that pays RM2000 month. It’s time to stand on her own feet and start all over<br /><br />again…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310406</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310406</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pinky]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 12:32:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 11:48:37 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>xueyan:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Recently i read in the newspaper about a old woman in the 70s whom was cheated of $400K by some PRC.  This old woman works as a cleaner and this $400K is her life savings.  (Off-topic : my colleague and I were contemplating is it possible for a cleaner to save so much?)<br /><br /></blockquote></blockquote><br />Her savings could come from $ given to her by her children/grandchildren, she could strike 4D?  So its possible.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310387</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310387</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[zbear]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 11:48:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 07:03:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">That averages out to SGD 80k a month! How in the world would one spend SGD80k a month?? House rental, milk powder, utility bills = 80k?? Come on…  The sums just don’t seems right.  I am sure there is a lot of other information that is not reveal here.<br /><br /><br />Recently i read in the newspaper about a old woman in the 70s whom was cheated of $400K by some PRC.  This old woman works as a cleaner and this $400K is her life savings.  (Off-topic : my colleague and I were contemplating is it possible for a cleaner to save so much?)<br /><br />World of difference…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310197</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310197</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[xueyan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 07:03:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to $1m gone in 2 years: Widow is now broke on Wed, 11 Jun 2014 05:30:47 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>janet_lee88:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />while many would have no right to comment on others going for a holiday, this widow was using donations from the public to do so...this large sum of money WAS meant for her and children for losing a husband and father. wonder if she wanted to be featured in the news for losing all her money or seeking help again.</blockquote></blockquote>Agree that we have no right to comment on others going for a holiday, but if she had taken her kids to Genting on a \"real\" holiday  :skeptical: to help them get over the grieve, I have nothing to say, after all, how much does a short trip to Genting cost?   <br /><br />But if she went to Genting for \"another kind of holiday\" then .... it is really  :sad: that she did not get her priorities right. :roll:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310152</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1310152</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[auntiexxx]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 05:30:47 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>