<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Advice needed]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>pirated:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>st2:</b><p>will they still post wearing mam's sexy lingerie posing on mam's bed?</p></blockquote></blockquote><br />they will, and restrict to allow only their friends to view<p></p></blockquote>But don't forget that their friends account are in turn linked to other strangers' account.<br /><br />So, to this maid that post her sexy lingerie in FB : she thought only her close friends can see it.<br />But through linkages : strangers in the whole wide world can also see her sexy lingerie post.<br /><br />Example<br /><br />X send sexy lingerie snapshot / photos to Y (her friend)<br />But Y in turn, are linked to her other friends (A, B, C, D, E, etc)<br /><br />Does X know A, B, C, D, E, etc ?<br />No, these are strangers to X.<br />These are Y friends, not her friends.<br /><br />But will (A, B, C, D, E, etc) get to see X sexy lingerie post ?<br />Yes, because they are linked to  Y, so everyone can see<br /><br />Invasion of privacy !<br />Facebook is scary<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/81326/advice-needed</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2026 08:48:46 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/81326.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 23:34:53 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 23:23:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Lynette Soh:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />So you see any goodness and badness of employers, maids and agents could be exposed . Make sure that we and our family members DON'T  do anything wrong to safeguard ourselves from being exposed and destroyed through maids Facebook.</blockquote></blockquote>Yes, Facebook internet technology link up everybody together, including friends, acquaintance, strangers whom you do not even know, but may know a lot about you, &amp; your family members. (your spouse, your children, your parents, siblings, in-law, etc)<br />It is scary !<br /><br />As long as your maid say something about you or your family member on Facebook (whether good or bad)<br />All the nitty gritty detail, will be exposed to the whole, wide world, even to strangers whom you have not even met before, in your life. <br /><br />for example<br /><br />my sister's maid (X) happen to chit chat with another maid (Y) on her Facebook internet account that :<br />her mam's birthday (my sister) fall on xxx date, going to celebrate at xxx restaurant at Novena square at zzz time, with her family. <br /><br />Just an innocent remark from X to Y, about birthday celebration, &amp; venue, right ? Nothing wrong<br /><br />Guess what ?<br /><br />That day early morning, my sister walked into a supermarket, to buy some fresh fruits, and happen to bump into an ex acquaintance, Z. (Sis not v close to Z)<br /><br />Z saw my sister selecting fresh fruits &amp; came forward to her, \"Hey, Happy birthday to you, today ! Heard that you going to celebrate your birthday dinner with family tonight, at novena Lao Beijing restaurant, 6 pm.\"<br /><br />My sister was stumped !<br />How come this ex acquaintance (hardly keep in touch)  know something so personal about her birthday dinner, &amp; to such detail ?<br />So, sis asked Z how she know about her birthday ?<br />Z replied, \"Oh ! I read about it, from Facebook !\"<br /><br />Reason :<br />Sis maid (X) Facebook account  is linked to her friend's account (Y : another maid)<br /><br />But Y have many friends. <br />in turn, Y is linked to her many other friends' account (A, B, C, D, E, etc). <br />And one of them (E) is linked to Z (ex-acquaintance) account.<br />Technology : an account is an account.<br />It doesn't matter whether is a maid's FB account, or an employer's FB account. <br />Through this linkage, That's how Z read up about sis birthday.<br /><br />Internet technology that link up one long chain of strangers.<br /> that's how strangers or ex merely acquaintance whom you seldom even keep in touch with, can know so much personal detailed info, about you. <br /><br />Technology is powerful, Yes. <br />But also dangerous : because it lead to <b><b> invasion of privacy </b></b> !<br /><br />In the example illustrated : <br />something so personal like your birthday,  even strangers on Internet, also can know about you.<br /><br />link here, link there, link until details of your dirty linen are washed in public, for everyone on the World Wide Web, to know.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472700</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472700</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 23:23:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 14:42:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>st2:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">will they still post wearing mam's sexy lingerie posing on mam's bed?</blockquote></blockquote><br />they will, and restrict to allow only their friends to view<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472637</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472637</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pirated]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 14:42:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 13:54:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">will they still post wearing mam’s sexy lingerie posing on mam’s bed?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472617</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472617</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[st2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 13:54:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 09:53:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">OMG!!<br /><br />Worried that your maid will FB about how you didn’t pay her salary? Illegal deployment? <br />Simple solution: Pay her her entitled agreed salary! Don’t deploy illegally.<br /><br />It’s other stuff that I would worry about eg family gone away on holiday, sir and ma’am quarrelling, personal stuff etc</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472505</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472505</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[POA Teacher]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 09:53:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 07:18:20 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Kaypolang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Hi all, TOP NEWs : <br /><br />The Straits Times just report that Manila said POEA (Philippines Overseas Employment Administration) requires  their own recruitment agents to make sure that all their maids working overseas to add POEA's Facebook as \"Friend\" to monitor , protect the welfare of their Filipino maids working overseas including Singapore. That's means maids can share whatever confidential information,\" hanky panky\" like illegal deployment to work in other place,  don't pay the maid salary  t like what is posted above. Isn't is really dangerous to employ maids now if we do anything fishy?? Nothing, no secrets will be covered up?? Everything will be declared by our maids to the whole world? All our neighbours and neighbour's maids who are Friends\" of our maids will be able to know every damn things ??</blockquote></blockquote>that is the danger of having a facebook account<br /><br />not only maids chitchat mention bad things about their employer, but your friends will also know the detail of what you had done, if her maid happened to link up to your maid.<br /><br />in facebook, every one linked to one another.<br />even stranger also know everything about you, but you don't know the stranger<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472388</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472388</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[phtthp]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 07:18:20 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Wed, 04 Mar 2015 07:05:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Kaypolang:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Hi all, TOP NEWs : <br /><br />The Straits Times just report that Manila said POEA (Philippines Overseas Employment Administration) requires  their own recruitment agents to make sure that all their maids working overseas to add POEA's Facebook as \"Friend\" to monitor , protect the welfare of their Filipino maids working overseas including Singapore. That's means maids can share whatever confidential information,\" hanky panky\" like illegal deployment to work in other place,  don't pay the maid salary  t like what is posted above. Isn't is really dangerous to employ maids now if we do anything fishy?? Nothing, no secrets will be covered up?? Everything will be declared by our maids to the whole world? All our neighbours and neighbour's maids who are Friends\" of our maids will be able to know every damn things ??</blockquote></blockquote>Frankly, now majority of the maid has a face book.  My present maid and ex-maid all has a facebook. <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f642.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--slightly_smiling_face" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":)" alt="🙂" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472379</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1472379</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[JJ1111]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2015 07:05:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Mon, 02 Mar 2015 05:38:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>That would be nice, and since it is a genuine complain, the employers must state their real name and maid's name as well as the agency.<br /><br /></p><blockquote><b>NewKSmum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I really hope that MOM could create an official website for employer to lodge genuine complaints against maid individually. Currently the blacklisted maids are not consolidated under one official link, seemed rather scattered in more than one website.</blockquote></blockquote><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471209</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471209</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bernabe]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2015 05:38:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Mon, 02 Mar 2015 03:18:06 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>NewKSmum:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Hi I would like to share my experience on ex-sin maid, I had one before and she ran away to embassy with no valid reason. Her attitude was rude and haughty, I was very tolerant towards her behaviour but she was a good cook.  She would scream back at my mum if she my mum were to tell her off. Honestly I would rather have a maid with good and positive attitude and polite.  I refused to pay for her air ticket to repatriate her back as I felt that it was her own will to run away and agent should take charge of it.  We as employers have been paying hefty fees such as agency fee, loan etc quoted by agent and once problem happened, agent pushes all responsibility to employer.  I feel that it is not fair right from the start and employer is not protected in one way or another should maid give problem.<br /><br /><br />Maid who promised not to have day-off or handphone during the day apparently are not doing so as per promised.  Once no handphone is allowed, she will start to create problem for the employer and/or family.<br /><br />I really hope that MOM could create an official website for employer to lodge genuine complaints against maid individually. Currently the blacklisted maids are not consolidated under one official link, seemed rather scattered in more than one website.</blockquote></blockquote>Really? You think MOM should have website for employers to complain about maids insisting on their right to day off? And use of handphone? :rotflmao:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471156</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471156</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[POA Teacher]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2015 03:18:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sun, 01 Mar 2015 16:50:21 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Employers have to live in fear of maids posting their ‘secrets’ on facebook?<br /><br /><br />Expatriates so interested in Singaporean employers’ sex life? husband always slap wife…not sleep in same room/bed? make and sell kueh lueh from home!!! Really???..so interested?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471023</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1471023</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[st2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 16:50:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Tue, 24 Feb 2015 08:17:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi I would like to share my experience on ex-sin maid, I had one before and she ran away to embassy with no valid reason. Her attitude was rude and haughty, I was very tolerant towards her behaviour but she was a good cook.  She would scream back at my mum if she my mum were to tell her off. Honestly I would rather have a maid with good and positive attitude and polite.  I refused to pay for her air ticket to repatriate her back as I felt that it was her own will to run away and agent should take charge of it.  We as employers have been paying hefty fees such as agency fee, loan etc quoted by agent and once problem happened, agent pushes all responsibility to employer.  I feel that it is not fair right from the start and employer is not protected in one way or another should maid give problem.<br /><br /><br />Maid who promised not to have day-off or handphone during the day apparently are not doing so as per promised.  Once no handphone is allowed, she will start to create problem for the employer and/or family.<br /><br />I really hope that MOM could create an official website for employer to lodge genuine complaints against maid individually. Currently the blacklisted maids are not consolidated under one official link, seemed rather scattered in more than one website.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468681</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468681</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[NewKSmum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 08:17:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:17:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Kim Jeow 80:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><br />Dear all <br /><br />You will be surprised to know that my expatriate friends told me they had the privileges of sharing, accessing very \"privileged\" intimate &amp;  confidential information obtained from other maid friends' facebook accounts about such friends employers.  Eg, husband always slap the wife, the employers who are running Malay Kueh Kueh business make use of their fresh maid to produce a few hundreds kueh kueh every day and the maid is planning to run away to MOM..the wife and husband do not sleep in the same room and tell the maid not to tell anybody..yet such expatriate and maids further share the privileged information to others. <br /><br />Further, if maids have ever worked in Singapore for a long time , acquainted many \"clever\" friends and have good relationship with their ex employers to the extent of visiting such ex-employers always, whatever \"secrets\" especially bad ones would be unlikely be safeguarded as \"privileged' to the employers concerned as desired. <br /><br />With so many maids having a hand phone while some even possess two hand phones with which they share information with others, with so many maids getting at least one to two off days hence interacting freely at the back of employers and sharing their employers' family secrets freely , I am very doubtful  if \"secrets\" could ever remain secrets ?? <br /><br />The only and best way to safeguard ourselves is to make sure that we do nothing wrongful and do not give our maids any single chance to disclose and share any of our wrongs &amp; bad secrets about us , this way we will have nothing to worry about.</blockquote></blockquote>Wow Wow Wow! Cannot imagine what kind of \"secrets\" get leak out then.... no need secrets....\"bad\" habits get leak out too....<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468638</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468638</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alng]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:17:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:12:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Kim Jeow 80:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>alng:</b><p>I have no maid, do not need a maid and do not know PHMummy. <br /><br /><br />PHMummy was not against her maid agency at first. She even recommended her maid agency then she took back her words because of whatever that happened. Then there were a couple newly created accounts posting negative posts about her. It is quite obvious what is going on....Like PHMummy has said, only MOM and the maid agency know the details of her case....</p></blockquote></blockquote>Dear all <br /><br />You will be surprised to know that my expatriate friends told me they had the privileges of sharing, accessing very \"privileged\" intimate &amp;  confidential information obtained from other maid friends' facebook accounts about such friends employers.  Eg, husband always slap the wife, the employers who are running Malay Kueh Kueh business make use of their fresh maid to produce a few hundreds kueh kueh every day and the maid is planning to run away to MOM..the wife and husband do not sleep in the same room and tell the maid not to tell anybody..yet such expatriate and maids further share the privileged information to others. <br /><br />Further, if maids have ever worked in Singapore for a long time , acquainted many \"clever\" friends and have good relationship with their ex employers to the extent of visiting such ex-employers always, whatever \"secrets\" especially bad ones would be unlikely be safeguarded as \"privileged' to the employers concerned as desired. <br /><br />With so many maids having a hand phone while some even possess two hand phones with which they share information with others, with so many maids getting at least one to two off days hence interacting freely at the back of employers and sharing their employers' family secrets freely , I am very doubtful  if \"secrets\" could ever remain secrets ?? <br /><br />The only and best way to safeguard ourselves is to make sure that we do nothing wrongful and do not give our maids any single chance to disclose and share any of our wrongs &amp; bad secrets about us , this way we will have nothing to worry about.<p></p></blockquote>The lesson to be learned here is.... don't employ a maid unless you really need one.<br />Why is someone so proudly declaring that maids are telling the world of FB about their employers' personal lives, as though that is a bad reflection on the EMPLOYERS?<br />Such maids are despicable.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468634</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468634</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[POA Teacher]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 07:12:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Tue, 24 Feb 2015 03:38:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I have no maid, do not need a maid and do not know PHMummy. <br /><br /><br />PHMummy was not against her maid agency at first. She even recommended her maid agency then she took back her words because of whatever that happened. Then there were a couple newly created accounts posting negative posts about her. It is quite obvious what is going on…Like PHMummy has said, only MOM and the maid agency know the details of her case…</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468537</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468537</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[alng]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 03:38:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Tue, 24 Feb 2015 03:27:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>happyhellokitty:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br />Hi PHMummy<br /><br />At least now you have to admit that you actually had breached the MOM regulations to illegally deploy your maid to work for two condominiums and you had been investigated by MOM? But luckily the maid did not die from falling from high floor?<br /><br />So you want all the readers here to support you to say that :\"Hi all, it is ok to get your maid to work for another place at the back of MOM and your maid agent even though MOM's regulations say that FDW shall only perform domestic duties only in the employer's residence as stated in the FDW's work permit card so long as you safeguard her safety!\"?</blockquote></blockquote>* I do not know PHmommy<br /><br />I just KPO, want to voice out.<br /><br />Whether she breach any ruling.  That is for MOM to investigate and conclude.  If she really did it, she will has her punishment.  <br /><br />Frankly, someone who know her \"information\" and share it here before MOM conclusion, has no Ethics.  If the one who leak out are from the maid agency, I really  :slapshead: .   Shares \"customers\" information publicly? <br /><br />PHmummy, can you please share with me which agency you go to.  Thanks.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468528</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1468528</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[JJ1111]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 03:27:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Fri, 20 Feb 2015 10:30:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>hi<br /><br /><br />We had never been wanting to withhold anything but was just commenting our personal experience for hiring this maid and engaging the services of the maid agency since the day one that we have this maid.  The unreasonable demand and harsh act to us had prompted us to air out our personal view of our experience.<br /><br />We are unable to share or devour more details as we are still awaiting for the MOM investigation but will be happy to do so once it is concluded and this is where the sharing will benefit reader in this forum.<br /><br />And in any case, the details of the investigation like \"cleaning\" with ladder in condos etc are privlige information known only to the owner, MOM and lastly, <b><b><u><u>the maid agency</u></u></b></b>. <br />So it is highly suspicious who has such information and able to conclude confidently in this forum.<br /><br />In any case, such accusations are highly lopsided and conveniently omitted facts that will give reader a balance view. <br /><br />We are ready to share once the MOM investigation is completed but for those who jump into conclusions immediately, are they ready with facts ?</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1467407</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1467407</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[PHMummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2015 10:30:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sun, 08 Feb 2015 09:46:16 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>:rotflmao: at Sriyani</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1462292</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1462292</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[POA Teacher]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2015 09:46:16 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Mon, 02 Feb 2015 14:44:56 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hi Mary Ann,<br /><br /><br />I would say that at this point of time, i can’t share any detail but only be able to say that I do regret giving the recommendation to the agency.<br /><br />We did not ask anything more from the agency but only good consideration as we being the employer but we seen no slightest intention of them helping the employer.<br /><br />We have no intention to put other people’s doing in this forum but only wanting to say time will tell.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1460905</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1460905</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[PHMummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2015 14:44:56 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Mon, 02 Feb 2015 13:01:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Hello everybody,<br /><br /><br />I regret to say that I have to take back my recommendation on the maid agency as recently that the agency was not professional in dealing with matter.<br /><br />To be direct, they are very much only concerned with the maid and wants employer to accept it any wrongdoings on the maid.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1460822</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1460822</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[PHMummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2015 13:01:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sat, 27 Dec 2014 13:19:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>st2:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I think we should take the submission of feedback/ refree maid thing seriously. <br /><br /><br />If we select ex sin maid, ask for this document....or better still, ask MOM to make it mandantory for all ex sin maid to have reference letters if they are applying to come back to singapore to work. So we know why they left.<br /><br />We have the same thing when we apply for job too, right?</blockquote></blockquote>I will indeed fully agreed to it! If they are using their experienced for higher pay then we will also need to look at the reference provided by their employers.  :rahrah:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437989</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437989</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[PHMummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2014 13:19:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sat, 27 Dec 2014 10:24:33 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">I think we should take the submission of feedback/ refree maid thing seriously. <br /><br /><br />If we select ex sin maid, ask for this document…or better still, ask MOM to make it mandantory for all ex sin maid to have reference letters if they are applying to come back to singapore to work. So we know why they left.<br /><br />We have the same thing when we apply for job too, right?</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437950</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437950</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[st2]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2014 10:24:33 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sat, 27 Dec 2014 09:30:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>purple ginn:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">For maids who are sent back to their country due to poor work attitude or bad personality, can they come back SG again easily? See that many ex SG who are not so good, but get to come back SG again. Agency will repackage them as \"good experienced\" for sale again.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Yes, they can come back again. Not  only that, they are rewarded with higher pay cos they are deemed to be \"experienced\". <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f606.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--laughing" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":laughing:" alt="😆" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437937</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437937</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[POA Teacher]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2014 09:30:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sat, 27 Dec 2014 09:02:54 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">For maids who are sent back to their country due to poor work attitude or bad personality, can they come back SG again easily? See that many ex SG who are not so good, but get to come back SG again. Agency will repackage them as "good experienced" for sale again.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437928</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437928</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[purple ginn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2014 09:02:54 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Advice needed on Sat, 27 Dec 2014 03:19:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>MTSC:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>PHMummy:</b><p>[quote=\"Myanbamboo\"]I hope we all employers should protect each other, do not allow such irresponsible and defiant maids to transfer to another family! As soon as your replacement as arrived, buy an air ticket, cancel work permit and tell her to go back and use hand phone  everyday in Indonesia without any \"timetables\" somemore!<br /><br /><br />Does your agent tell you to send her back and do not allow transfer also?</p></blockquote></blockquote>Yes, we are employers ourselves and should not allow such irresponsible acts.<br /><br />Would need to wait for replacement before we can send her back.<br /><br />The agent had also us they do not allow such excuses and allow transfer <br /><br />for them.<p></p></blockquote>Wow! That's very good and ethical for your agent. This means the agent will loss money about $1,000 ? Because actually if they insist must transfer transfer can charge new employer $888?,$1188? Agency fee and the maid  at least transfer fee at one month for $550? 560?at least (yours maid 10 years experience maid right?). <br /><br />Can pm me the agent please coz my cousin want to look for good agent before chinese new year[/quote]Hi MTSC,<br /><br />Apologies for the delay and jux pm u.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437796</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1437796</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[PHMummy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2014 03:19:04 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>