<![CDATA[Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library]]>The sms’s are indeed very useful. Most of the time, I would record the due date in my calendar. But there have been times forgot. NLB provides many useful services, and the sms’s are one of them.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/87344/irresponsible-amp-entitled-parent-and-the-public-libraryRSS for NodeFri, 23 Oct 2026 21:13:04 GMTSat, 25 Mar 2017 08:16:27 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Mon, 25 Jul 2016 09:42:59 GMT]]>I received sms reminder from nlb a few days before books are due

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702909https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702909Mon, 25 Jul 2016 09:42:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Mon, 25 Jul 2016 09:33:05 GMT]]>Glad that she has the phobia and hope that she won’t go to the library anymore.


Once I lost a library book and immediately informed the CS and paid for the lost book. I only blame myself for losing the book.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702904https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702904Mon, 25 Jul 2016 09:33:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Sat, 23 Jul 2016 06:42:03 GMT]]>There will always be folks like these. You can’t run away from them. The best thing you can do is to use them as a lesson on how we can do better as people.

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slmkhoo:
mathtuition88:

On the other hand, there should be a reasonable cap to the overdue fines too.


I don't know if NLB does this, but some libraries will tell the patron how much the replacement cost of the book is if the fine is very large. If the fine exceeds the replacement cost, then the patron can choose to pay for a replacement and keep the book. However, replacement cost isn't just the price of the book but will also include an admin and processing fee.

The patron can check with the CS. The last time I wanted to pay for a misplaced book, the staff was kind to check the fines against the cost of \"buying\" the book from the library and advise accordingly.

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mathtuition88:
On the other hand, there should be a reasonable cap to the overdue fines too.

I don't know if NLB does this, but some libraries will tell the patron how much the replacement cost of the book is if the fine is very large. If the fine exceeds the replacement cost, then the patron can choose to pay for a replacement and keep the book. However, replacement cost isn't just the price of the book but will also include an admin and processing fee.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702221https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702221Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:59:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:46:37 GMT]]>Using public services, I tend to lean more towards the needs of observing rules and regulations; otherwise, it will be difficult for the admin staff to decide whose charges they can waive and whose they can’t and that may give rise to another set of ‘unfair’ treatment problems when parents ‘compare notes’.


If it really needs to take a fine to learn a lesson, so be it. If after paying the fine, the child/parents can learn about responsibility, then it’s probably a good sum paid.

Somehow I am willing to pay fines to libraries if my books are overdue, taking them as supporting public libraries and to punish for my own forgetfulness.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702218https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702218Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:46:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:20:38 GMT]]>There is a NLB service to send email reminders when the book is about to be due. Hence, the main fault is with the parent who forgot to return the books.


On the other hand, there should be a reasonable cap to the overdue fines too.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702213https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1702213Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:20:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Irresponsible & entitled Parent and the Public Library on Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:06:51 GMT]]>Hi, this reminds me of a similar encounter. 2 years ago, when my elder one was in P1, she borrowed a few books from the mobile library that went to her school. I was not aware what she borrowed and was shocked to find out the overdue books and the fine only few months later. It was really not intentional or irresponsible. Somehow, I managed to get partial of the fine waived off and that was when I also found out that I can register for sms reminders that linked my DD’s account to mine. 1 week or so before the due date, I will get sms reminders to return the books. This helps me keep track of what my girls borrowed. By default, I feel library should provide this kind of service to all parents, unless we opt out.

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