<![CDATA[What do you do if your child is being bullied?]]>

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Coke Chan\" post_id=\"1905046\" time=\"1554371983\" user_id=\"150132:[quote=\"Coke Chan\" post_id=1905046 time=1554371983 user_id=150132]https://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews/lifestyle/features/learning-points-what-do-you-do-if-your-child-is-being-bullied-915243.html

One of the points: \".. We must explain to our children that anyone who says something negative has a deep sadness in them, that’s why they are launching such hurtful comments in the first place. .. \"

Good and short read. DD told us about a bullying incident in her pri school. We were not sure if she was actually the one being bullied but took the opportunity to talk to her about it anyways.

Different words and expressions that saw a spike being used during the beginning of the pandemic incorporate \"social separating,\" \"lockdown,\" \"isolate,\" \"self-confine,\" \"hand sanitizer,\" \"face cover\" and \"returning. https://meaningpedia.com/[/quote]

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Coke Chan\" post_id=\"1905046\" time=\"1554371983\" user_id=\"150132:[quote=\"Coke Chan\" post_id=1905046 time=1554371983 user_id=150132]
https://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews/lifestyle/features/learning-points-what-do-you-do-if-your-child-is-being-bullied-915243.html

One of the points: \".. We must explain to our children that anyone who says something negative has a deep sadness in them, that’s why they are launching such hurtful comments in the first place. .. \"

Good and short read. DD told us about a bullying incident in her pri school. We were not sure if she was actually the one being bullied but took the opportunity to talk to her about it anyways.[/quote]
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]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009599https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009599Fri, 25 Dec 2020 06:30:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Fri, 25 Dec 2020 05:45:01 GMT]]>Hard to say… but being there for him is the first thing I would do

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009587https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009587Fri, 25 Dec 2020 05:45:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Tue, 22 Dec 2020 19:53:58 GMT]]>https://www.buymoviejackets.com/product-category/tv-drama-series-jacket-outfits

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]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009217https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009217Tue, 22 Dec 2020 19:53:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Tue, 22 Dec 2020 07:06:44 GMT]]>

Coke Chan\" post_id=\"1905046\" time=\"1554371983\" user_id=\"150132:[quote=\"Coke Chan\" post_id=1905046 time=1554371983 user_id=150132]
https://www.irishexaminer.com/breakingnews/lifestyle/features/learning-points-what-do-you-do-if-your-child-is-being-bullied-915243.html

One of the points: \".. We must explain to our children that anyone who says something negative has a deep sadness in them, that’s why they are launching such hurtful comments in the first place. .. \"

Good and short read. DD told us about a bullying incident in her pri school. We were not sure if she was actually the one being bullied but took the opportunity to talk to her about it anyways.[/quote]

Different words and expressions that saw a spike being used during the beginning of the pandemic incorporate \"social separating,\" \"lockdown,\" \"isolate,\" \"self-confine,\" \"hand sanitizer,\" \"face cover\" and \"returning. https://meaningpedia.com/?fbclid=IwAR0iDJPakWpVe_KE0LDzGHcQCtIIjcLDFjVBY5SZ-91HacPCDsTGWEVhttY

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009020https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2009020Tue, 22 Dec 2020 07:06:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Wed, 02 Dec 2020 09:48:05 GMT]]>help your child see what the outcome might be of their words and actions. Help them see that this is a problem they can solve on their own terms.


For example, your kid might come up with the idea of saying to the bully, “Leave me alone, you jerk.” Instead of the parent saying, “That’s a bad idea,” respond with: “What do you think is going to happen if you do that?”
Let them figure out that the bullying might escalate if they resort to name-calling.

Your child might then shrug and say, “I could walk away from the bully.” You can suggest that they walk away the first time and say what they need to say the next time.
We have to be honest about how hard it is to face a tormentor. It’s also important to ask your child this question:

“What’s going to make you feel better about this situation?”

But make sure you’re not the one coming up with the solution. It’s important that your child feels like they’re solving the problem on his or her own terms. It’s a skill you can teach them that will last a lifetime.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2006525https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2006525Wed, 02 Dec 2020 09:48:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Fri, 06 Nov 2020 07:09:12 GMT]]>Bullies tend to tease those who have poor social skills and no friends to stand up for them, so do encourage your kid to be more sociable. Advise your child to remain calm when dealing with aggressive children and teach them how to say “no” and “stop” firmly.


Bullies feel encouraged when their victims becoming scared, so standing one’s ground would make the bully lose interest. You can get directly involved by talking to the teacher or confronting the bully’s parents, but this should be the last resort.

https://www.mindchamps.org/blog/kindergarten-in-singapore-bullying/

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2001565https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/2001565Fri, 06 Nov 2020 07:09:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Mon, 24 Feb 2020 09:42:25 GMT]]>Most important is talk to the child and try to find out the full story. If the bully is coming from a teacher, that is totally uncalled for. Need to talk to the teacher. If all else fails, bring up to principal for further action. If the case is just teasing, get your child to first ignore and distant herself away from this person. If it doesn’t work, bring the teacher into picture. This is just my opinion

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1964665https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1964665Mon, 24 Feb 2020 09:42:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Tue, 26 Nov 2019 12:10:11 GMT]]>Sometimes, the way children project themselves could attract unnecessary harassment. Better to strenghthen character core, then bullies would either stay away or become allies. Very rarely, parent can be a form of deterrent too. Especially if the parents are themselves not to messed around with. Either way, better then things happened then start to make report, see doctor, complain to school…too late.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1949763https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1949763Tue, 26 Nov 2019 12:10:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Tue, 16 Jul 2019 14:15:24 GMT]]>Other than counselling, one possibility for helping children who are bullying others or being bullied is letting them to attend therapeutic play session.


What is therapeutic play service？
therapeutic play service is a method of helping children with behaviour and emotional problems to help themselves. Play is the child’s natural medium of self expression - it’s essential for development. It is providing opportunity for the children to ‘play out ‘ their feelings and problems with a therapeutic objective.

Who is therapeutic play service intended for?
therapeutic play service is suitable to help children who have difficulties in emotions (e.g., express feelings), conduct (e.g., follows rules), hyperactivity (e.g., attention), and peer (e.g., relationship with others) issues.

I am a trainee therapeutic play practitioner and offering free services for kids. Anyone out there who is concerned that your own kids have social,emotional and behavioural difficulties; I can send you the free screening test, then you fill up and send it back to me. I will share the results with you without obligation. It is up to decide whether you would like to try the therapeutic play service. Please pm me for more details. Thank you!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1920146https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1920146Tue, 16 Jul 2019 14:15:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Fri, 14 Jun 2019 07:06:17 GMT]]>ChiefKiasu you raised a very sailient point.

Most bullies are actually very insecured individuals.
In a way they need counselling too.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1914469https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1914469Fri, 14 Jun 2019 07:06:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Fri, 17 May 2019 04:07:12 GMT]]>

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ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"1905068\" time=\"1554387650\" user_id=\"3:

Interestingly, nobody seemed concerned about the child doing the bullying. I think he/she needs to seek help too. It's too easy to simply say that the bully is aware of his bad behavior and can choose to stop it anytime.

Agree! We never know what the child has been through and why the child is doing such thing. Actually, both the bully and the child being bullied are victims. Each of them need help.

Yes... I believe in early intervention for youth at risk... It is not perfect but I know of a few stories where it made a big difference..

One of the biggest fears of parenting (maybe for myself) is... What if my child doesn't turn out \"right\"? Not in the academic sense but even morally...

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910787https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910787Fri, 17 May 2019 04:07:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Fri, 17 May 2019 03:38:11 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"1905068\" time=\"1554387650\" user_id=\"3:

Interestingly, nobody seemed concerned about the child doing the bullying. I think he/she needs to seek help too. It's too easy to simply say that the bully is aware of his bad behavior and can choose to stop it anytime.
Agree! We never know what the child has been through and why the child is doing such thing. Actually, both the bully and the child being bullied are victims. Each of them need help.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910765https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910765Fri, 17 May 2019 03:38:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Wed, 15 May 2019 05:07:04 GMT]]>

ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"1905068\" time=\"1554387650\" user_id=\"3:

Interestingly, nobody seemed concerned about the child doing the bullying. I think he/she needs to seek help too. It's too easy to simply say that the bully is aware of his bad behavior and can choose to stop it anytime.
I've never considered this before. I think I will be at a loss for words... :yikes:
What about parents who are \"bullied\" by their children? 🦆

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910390https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1910390Wed, 15 May 2019 05:07:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Tue, 09 Apr 2019 22:09:15 GMT]]>

Coke Chan\" post_id=\"1905046\" time=\"1554371983\" user_id=\"150132:[quote=\"Coke Chan\" post_id=1905046 time=1554371983 user_id=150132]
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One of the points: \".. We must explain to our children that anyone who says something negative has a deep sadness in them, that’s why they are launching such hurtful comments in the first place. .. \"

Good and short read. DD told us about a bullying incident in her pri school. We were not sure if she was actually the one being bullied but took the opportunity to talk to her about it anyways.[/quote]
Hello, it's unbielievable

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905783https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905783Tue, 09 Apr 2019 22:09:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Mon, 08 Apr 2019 05:39:03 GMT]]>ok well since u have talked to everyone u possibly can about this issue , u should just handle it yourself

call this bullies parents and talk to them about it tell the teacher too!

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905464https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905464Mon, 08 Apr 2019 05:39:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Thu, 04 Apr 2019 22:36:07 GMT]]>That's a good and true point. There is a lot of highlight on the bullied and not enough societal awareness on the bullies, as bullies are often cast as deliberate bad children, which is not always psychologically true. Also, parents of bullies, who are having psycho-emotional issues, may also be too embarrassed to be vocal and speak up to say 'my child is a bully, but ...'. Not sure if the societal focus to highlight concern on the bullying child can happen easily though.

ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"1905068\" time=\"1554387650\" user_id=\"3:
Interestingly, nobody seemed concerned about the child doing the bullying. I think he/she needs to seek help too. It's too easy to simply say that the bully is aware of his bad behavior and can choose to stop it anytime.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905092https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905092Thu, 04 Apr 2019 22:36:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Thu, 04 Apr 2019 14:20:50 GMT]]>Interestingly, nobody seemed concerned about the child doing the bullying. I think he/she needs to seek help too. It’s too easy to simply say that the bully is aware of his bad behavior and can choose to stop it anytime.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905068https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905068Thu, 04 Apr 2019 14:20:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Thu, 04 Apr 2019 13:49:21 GMT]]>Nothing, child can settle.

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905065https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905065Thu, 04 Apr 2019 13:49:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Thu, 04 Apr 2019 12:03:10 GMT]]>Yes, physical have to be very concerned. I think verbal also is important, may have psychological/emotional impact on the child if not attended to.

pokoyoko\" post_id=\"1905048\" time=\"1554372241\" user_id=\"122014:
I was most worried when I suspected my child was being physically bullied. Verbally, no problem because they like to ding zui (talk back).

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905062https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905062Thu, 04 Apr 2019 12:03:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to What do you do if your child is being bullied? on Thu, 04 Apr 2019 10:04:01 GMT]]>I was most worried when I suspected my child was being physically bullied. Verbally, no problem because they like to ding zui (talk back).

]]>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905048https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/1905048Thu, 04 Apr 2019 10:04:01 GMT