<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore<br /><br />28 January, 2010<br /><br />I have a prediction. My prediction is that in a couple of years, the<br />expatriates (from China , India , US etc…) will rule Singapore . They<br />will increasingly take on more leadership roles of CEOs, directors, heads<br />of organizations, award winners etc… If you observe closely, it is<br />already  happening now.   Last year’s top PSLE (Primary School Leaving<br />Exam) student is a China National. Most of the deans list students and<br />first class honours students in the local universities are foreigners and<br />more and more CEOs, even that of go vernment link corporations are expats.<br />The top  players in our National teams are expats.<br /><br />As a Singaporean, I am not complaining. I think that in a meritocratic<br />society like Singapore , it is only fair that the very best get rewarded,<br />no matter their race, religion or nationality. Like Lee Kwan Yew said, I<br />rather have these talented and driven people be on our team contributing to<br />our nation than against us from their home country. The question I have<br />been asking is, ‘why are the expats beating the crap out of Singaporeans?’<br /><br />What I noticed is that these expats have a very important quality that many<br />Singaporeans (especially the new Y generation lack). It is a quality that<br />our grandfathers and great-grandfathers (who came from distant lands) had<br />that turned Singapore from a fishing village to the third richest country<br />in the world (according to GDP per capita). Unfortunately, I fear this<br />quality is soon disappearing from the new generation of Singaporeans.<br /><br />This quality is the HUNGER FOR SUCCESS and the FIGHTING SPIRIT!!!<br /><br />Expats who come here today have the same tremendous HUNGER for success that<br />our grandfathers had. They are willing to sacrifice, work hard and pay the<br />price to succeed. They also believe that no one owes them a living and they<br />have to work hard for themselves. They also bring with them the humility<br />and willingness to learn.   Take the case of Qui Biqing, the girl from Qifa<br />Primary school who topped the whole of Singapore in last year’s PSLE with a<br />score of 290. When she came to Singapore 3 years ago from China , she could<br />hardly speak a word of English and didn’t even understand what a<br />thermometer was. Although she was 10 years old, MOE recommended she start<br />at Primary 2 because of her lack of English proficiency. After appealing,<br />she managed to start in Primary 3. While most Singaporeans have a head<br />start of learning English at pre-school at the age of 3-4 years old, she<br />only started at age 10. Despite this handicapped, she had the drive to read<br />continuously and practice her speaking and writing skills, eventually<br />scoring an A-star in English!<br /><br />This hunger and drive can also be seen in the workforce. I hate to say this<br />but in a way, I sometimes think expats create more value than locals.<br /><br />Expats are willing to work long hours, go the extra mile, are fiercely<br />loyal to you and don’t complain so much. They also come a lot more<br />qualified and do not ask the moon for the remuneration. Recently, I placed<br />an ad for a marketing executive. Out of 100+ resumes, more than 60% came<br />from expats. While locals fresh grads are asking for $2,500+ per month, I<br />have expats with masters degrees from good universities willing to get less<br />than $2,000! They know that if they can come in and learn and work hard,<br />they will eventually climb up and earn alot more. They are willing to<br />invest in themselves, pay the price for future rewards. Sometimes I wonder<br />how some of the locals are going to compete with this.   Of course, this is<br />just a generalization. There ARE definitely some Singaporeans who create<br />lots of value and show fighting spirit.<br /><br />Unfortunately, I have found that more and more young Singaporeans lack this<br />hunger for success. Instead, they like to complain, blame circumstances and<br />wait for others to push them. Some hold on to the attitude that the world<br />owes them a living. I shake my head when I see local kids nowadays complain<br />that they don’t have the latest handphones, branded clothes and games.<br />While I acknowledge that the kids of today are much smarter and well<br />informed than I was at their age (my 4 year old daughter can use my Macbook<br />computer and my iphone), I find that they lack the resilience and tenacity<br />they need to survive in the new economy.<br />Some  kids nowadays tend to give up easily once they find that things get<br />tough and demand instant gratification. When they have to work first to get<br />rewards later, many tend to lack the patience to follow through.<br /><br />So, how did this happen? Why is our nation of hardworking, hungry fighters<br />slowly becoming a nation of complaining softies? I think the problem is<br />that life in Singapore has been too good and comfortable. Kids today have<br />never seen hunger, poverty, war and disasters. What makes it worse is that<br />parents nowadays give kids everything they want and over protect them from<br />hardship and failure. Parents often ask me why their kids lack the<br />motivation to study and excel. My answer to them is because they already<br />have everything! Giving someone everything they want is the best way to<br />kill their motivation. What reason is there for them to fight to become the<br />best when they are already given the best from their parents without having<br />to earn it?   It reminds me of the cartoon movie MADAGASCAR where Alex the<br />Lion and his animal friends were born and raised in the Central Park Zoo.<br />They were well taken care of and provided with processed food and an<br />artificial jungle. When they escaped to Africa , they found that they could<br />barely survive in the wild with the other animals because they had lost<br />their instincts to fight and hunt for food. They could only dance and sing.<br /><br />I see the same thing in the hundreds of seminars and training programmes I<br />conduct. I see increasing more and more expats attending my Wealth Academy<br />and Patterns of Excellence programme in Singapore . Not surprisingly, they<br />are always the first to grab the microphone to answer and ask questions.<br /><br />While many of the locals come in late and sit at the back. The expats<br />(especially those from India and China ) always sit at the front, take<br />notes ferociously and stay back way after the programme is over to ask<br />questions. I feel ashamed sometimes when I ask for volunteers to ask<br />questions, and the Singaporeans keep quiet, while the foreigners fight for<br />the opportunity.   For my "I Am Gifted!’ programme for students, I have the<br />privilege to travel &amp; conduct it in seven countries (Singapore, Indonesia,<br />Hong Kong, China, Malaysia etc…) and see students from all over. Is there<br />a big difference in their attitude and behaviour? You bet!<br /><br />Again, I feel really sad that in Singapore , most students who come are<br />usually forced by their parents to come and improve themselves, Some<br />parents even bribe them with computer games and new handphones to attend.<br /><br />During the course, some adopt the ‘I know everything’ attitude and lack the<br />interest to succeed until I kick their butts. It is so different when I go<br />to Malaysia , Indonesia and once in India . The kids there ask their<br />parents to send them to my programme They clap and cheer enthusiastically<br />when the teachers enter the room and participate so willingly when lessons<br />are on. I still scratch my head and wonder what happened to my fellow<br />Singaporeans to this day.<br /><br />So mark my words, unless the new generation of Singaporeans wake up and get<br />out of their happy over protected bubble and start fighting for their<br />future, the expats (like our great grandfathers) will soon be the rulers of<br />the country. At the rate at which talented and hungry expats are climbing<br />up, our future prime  minister may be an Indian or China PR or may even be<br />an Ang Moh!</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/9556/adam-khoo-the-expats-will-rule-singapore</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 22:27:55 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/topic/9556.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 03:26:30 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Mon, 05 Apr 2010 06:04:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Haiz, the problem with emphasising so much on productivity is that it just makes me think longer working hours… <br /><br /><br />of course it’s easy to aim for ‘working smart’ and harnessing technology to do the same amt of work in less hours, but in our context, it’s more likely to mean squeezing more juice out of the already squashed fruit (us), and the greatest tragedy / casualty is our family life / our time spent with kids. <br /><br />Like that how to have more children?  What’s the point of having more children and spending more time in the office?  Higher chance of nurturing yet another generation with behavioural problems borne out of neglect by parents.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/153928</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/153928</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[toddles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 06:04:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 02 Apr 2010 03:26:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Associated Foreign Press.<br /><br />Sunday March 14, 11:46 AM. <br />Door narrows for foreign workers in Singapore<br /><br />Construction workers from Bangladesh, hotel staff from the Philippines, waitresses from China, shipyard welders from Myanmar, technology professionals from India -- Singapore has them all. For years the rich but worker-starved city-state, built by mainly Chinese immigrants, had rolled out the welcome mat for foreigners, whose numbers rose drastically during the economic boom from 2004-2007.                                                           <br /><br />But with one in three of the five million people living on the tiny island now a foreigner and citizens complaining about competition for jobs, housing and medical care, the government is taking a fresh look at its open-door policy With the grumbling getting louder and general elections expected to be called before they are due in 2012, the government has unveiled measures to reduce reliance on foreigners and assure citizens they remain the priority.<br /><br />\"There are social and physical limits to how many more we can absorb,\" Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam told parliament in February. He said the government will make it costlier for companies to hire foreigners by raising the levies they must pay for every non-Singaporean or non-resident they hire. The government also earmarked 5.5 billion Singapore dollars (3.9 billion US) over the next five years to upgrade Singaporean workers' skills to boost their productivity, make them more competitive and raise incomes. It imposed measures to cool down rising home prices, also blamed on foreigners buying into the property market, and pledged it will further tighten the process of accepting permanent residents and new citizens. <br /><br />Of Singapore's population of nearly five million last year, 533,200 were permanent residents and 1.25 million were foreigners on employment passes, along with their families, official statistics show. \"I think it is shaping up to be one of the hottest issues in Singapore today,\" political commentator Seah Chiang Nee told AFP. Economist Song Seng Wun of CIMB-GK Research said that apart from helping local companies rise up the value chain, the new measures will also address potential election issues. Singapore's last elections, held in 2006, saw the ruling People's Action Party returned to power for six years, continuing its uninterrupted rule over the island since 1959. \"The government has to be seen doing something in areas that are potential flashpoints,\" Song said. <br /><br />Disenchantment over foreign workers gained momentum during a severe economic slump that began in the third quarter of 2008, when trade-reliant Singapore became the first Asian economy to slip into recession. Drastic job and salary cuts were implemented, affecting many white-collar workers. In coffee shops, Internet forums, letters to newspapers and sessions with members of parliament, citizens became more vocal about the rapidly growing numbers of foreigners in their ranks. <br /><br />The most common complaint is that Singaporeans are losing jobs to foreigners who are willing to accept much lower salaries. \"Foreigners are a damn pain in the butt. I seriously wonder if they are here to work or just snatch jobs from our locals,\" said one posting on the popular online forum sammyboy.com. \"The country is fast becoming an unfamiliar place to many Singaporeans. The sense of national pride is disappearing by the day,\" said a posting by Nur Muhammad on The Online Citizen. Seah, who runs the political website <a href="http://www.littlespeck.com">http://www.littlespeck.com</a>, said much of the resentment comes from Singaporeans who have to compete directly with foreign engineers, accountants, hotel managers and IT professionals. \"Most Singaporeans do not feel angry against low-skilled foreign workers... It is more aimed at those who come in as white collar workers and get the jobs that Singaporeans can do,\" he said. <br /><br />Citizens have also complained about having to share space in crowded trains with a large number of foreigners, or compete with them for places in government schools and public housing. Foreign labourers are accused of loitering, spitting in public and leaving litter behind. Another sore point for locals is dealing with waitresses and sales people who can hardly understand English. Some employers have argued they do not hire Singaporeans for certain jobs because locals are choosy and often lack the natural social and communication skills in service professions like manning hotel front desks. <br /><br />In some ways, Singapore is a victim of its own success. A campaign in the 1970s for families to have only two children was so effective that the country is now well below the 60,000 babies needed per year just to naturally replace the resident population. Efforts to reverse the trend have failed as increasingly affluent couples marry at a later age and opt for just one child or none at all. Officials, economists and business executives admit that with Singaporeans procreating less, the country will need foreign workers in the long term, while making sure citizens' interests are addressed. <br /><br />Singapore's founding leader Lee Kuan Yew, who advises the cabinet of his son Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong, said in January that \"we've grown in the last five years by just importing labour.\" \"Now, the people feel uncomfortable, there are too many foreigners,\" Lee said. \"The answer is simple: We check the flow of foreigners, raise your productivity, do the job better, so that instead of two workers, eventually you'll do it with one worker, like the Japanese do.\"</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/152168</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/152168</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Parent1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 03:26:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Tue, 30 Mar 2010 04:37:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>:goodpost:  :goodpost: , toddles.<br /><br /><br />Fully agree that the challenge is on getting our very own to recognise that this is home.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149807</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149807</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Busymom]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 04:37:17 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Tue, 30 Mar 2010 03:58:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Parent1:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">The Star<br /><br />By SEAH CHIANG NEE<br />cnseah05@hotmail.com<br /><br />Some 26,100 Singaporeans have applied for economic visa, for skilled workers and business class, Canada announced. The family category is excluded, but is estimated to number another 40,000.<br /><br />About 150,000 Singaporeans are today studying or living overseas, according to officials.<br /><br />Last year, 2,703 Singaporeans emigrated to Australia, and about 1,000 each to Canada and the US, according to news reports. More than 10,000 Singaporeans are living in Hong Kong.<br /></blockquote></blockquote>This reporter who used to work with CNA leaves out facts in her attempt to write this article with a decided slant.<br /><br />These are the numbers of people who have emigrated, but what of those who have returned?  And I would posit that the number is not insignificant. I personally know of people who have migrated to Aussie land-of-dreams only to face high taxes, discrimination (of the \"go home now!\" variety, much more explicit than in sgp where at most they are rumblings and murmurings - then again singaporeans complain abt everything no?)<br /><br />Read Simon Tay's City of Small Blessings for a window into why those who leave, return. <br /><br />In this globalised world, we should not stop our youth from studying and working overseas.  the challenge is for them to recognise that this is home. this is where our roots are. this is where we are citizens who will not be treated as second class, or outsiders. this is where we get the best food (the best argument for me to stay actually) at the best price.<br /><blockquote><b>Parent1:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">The Star<br />By SEAH CHIANG NEE<br />cnseah05@hotmail.com<br />A New Zealand government message beamed here says: “We are looking for young Singaporeans interested in the challenge, experiences and fun of living in a country that offers you brilliant work and study experiences plus a relaxed lifestyle!”<br /><br />It offers people a nine-to-five working day, four weeks of paid leave a year, and cheaper housing, things that are attractive to people here.<br /><br />It is not alone. Canada has also been head-hunting Singaporeans with some success.</blockquote></blockquote>this conveniently leaves out the high taxes that you all also be paying for that relaxed lifestyle.<br /><br />some have written to forum pages (Straits Times) to say that they feel that the taxes are a fair trade-off for the better quality of life.  They have made an informed decision, so good for them.  but the jury will be out, until the day they die, on whether they remain in their new country of adoption, and whether they believe on their death bed that they made the right decision after all.<br /><br />For me, I have studied and worked abroad, and am open to working abroad in future.  but ultimately, Singapore will always be home.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149764</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149764</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[toddles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 03:58:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Tue, 30 Mar 2010 01:38:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>The Star<br /><br />Saturday March 27, 2010<br />4,500 - and still counting<br />INSIGHT: DOWN SOUTH <br />By SEAH CHIANG NEE<br />cnseah05@hotmail.com<br /><br /><br />Even as Singapore continues to attract expatriates from all over the world, its home-grown skilled professionals and graduates are leaving for bigger nations at a worrying rate.<br /><br />WHILE Singapore is busy attracting talents from abroad, some 4,500 of its own better-educated citizens may be heading for New Zealand.<br /><br />This is the other side of the immigration coin that is costing Singapore more dearly in skill losses than larger nations that are losing talents to it.<br /><br />In a period of just six weeks, New Zealand has succeeded in luring this large number of Singaporeans to sign up to work or settle down there.<br /><br />Such a large number has come as a surprise for two reasons. One is that the New Zealand is not even a top choice and, secondly, Singapore is said to be recovering from the economic crisis.<br /><br />“Yet it has got 4,500 Singaporeans to sign up. Imagine what the response would have been had it been offered by Australia or Britain?” a company executive commented.<br /><br />The under-populated Pacific country with more sheep than people had launched a global drive in January to attract more foreigners to work, study or settle down there.<br /><br />Between end-January and mid-March, some 4,500 Singaporeans had registered – a whooping 78% of the total world responses. This is roughly 12% of the 39,000 babies born here annually.<br /><br />It does not necessarily mean that all will go, let alone be given PR there, but even if the majority does, the loss to this small city will be substantial.<br /><br />The outflow of people has long upset leaders like its founding leader Lee Kuan Yew, who once openly wept when he spoke about the subject.<br /><br />Some 1,000 of Singapore’s highly-educated youths are giving up their citizenship every year to settle elsewhere.<br /><br />In addition, about 1,000 Singaporeans a month have been applying for a Certificate of No Criminal Conviction, which is a prerequisite to getting PR overseas.<br /><br />In 2002, Singapore was ranked as having the second highest migration rate in the world (next to East Timor) – 26.11 migrants per 1,000 citizens.<br /><br />This would have meant that some 20,640 of its 3 million people were emigrating at the time, an informed source estimated.<br /><br />(As a percentage this figure would have dropped significantly because of the large foreign intake pushing the population to five million.)<br /><br />While hundreds of thousands of foreigners are making a beeline for Singapore – Southeast Asia’s richest city – an opposite flow is also happening.<br /><br />It is losing its skilled professionals and graduates – a declining force that has undergone military training to defend the nation – to bigger nations at a worrying rate.<br /><br />The New Zealand blow is particularly heavy because, until now, it has relatively limited appeal for Singaporeans compared with Australia, Britain, Canada or the US.<br /><br />Its economic growth is lower and so are job opportunities, yet we are facing a possible deluge.<br /><br />For example, only 114 Singaporeans went as permanent residency (PR), and 245 had permits to work in New Zealand last year. Total PRs in the past 10 years was 2,484.<br /><br />For many years, the republic has been trumpeting its success in attracting skilled foreigners.<br /><br />Less heralded compared to its immigration success is its own brain drain.<br /><br />As I was writing this, a news headline read: “Singapore retains its top spot for Asian expats to live in.”<br /><br />It is apparently a game others are playing just as effectively.<br /><br />A New Zealand government message beamed here says: “We are looking for young Singaporeans interested in the challenge, experiences and fun of living in a country that offers you brilliant work and study experiences plus a relaxed lifestyle!”<br /><br />It offers people a nine-to-five working day, four weeks of paid leave a year, and cheaper housing, things that are attractive to people here.<br /><br />It is not alone. Canada has also been head-hunting Singaporeans with some success.<br /><br />Some 26,100 Singaporeans have applied for economic visa, for skilled workers and business class, Canada announced. The family category is excluded, but is estimated to number another 40,000.<br /><br />About 150,000 Singaporeans are today studying or living overseas, according to officials.<br /><br />Last year, 2,703 Singaporeans emigrated to Australia, and about 1,000 each to Canada and the US, according to news reports. More than 10,000 Singaporeans are living in Hong Kong.<br /><br />The future can expect no let-down. Almost one in four top students in Singapore end up working overseas, said Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong.<br /><br />A recent survey of teenagers said 53% would want to move abroad if they had the chance.<br /><br />There is hardly a middle class family that does not know someone who has emigrated.<br /><br />One blogger wrote recently: “I have had friends leaving Singapore over the years but last week was the first time I had to say farewell to two who are going off for good – one for New Zealand, the other for Australia.”<br /><br />Some Malaysians are puzzled by this phenomenon. “Singapore is one of the most competitive economies in the world and it strives constantly to be a great global city with gleaming towers ...,” one said.<br /><br />“It is a great city to work in and is attracting expatriates from all over the globe,” he said.<br /><br />“Yet many of its own youths are abandoning it.”<br /><br />Critics say there are several reasons for the exodus, including high stress level, a high cost of living (one of the world’s 10 most expensive cities), over-crowdedness and too much government control.<br /><br />Singapore is losing the flower of its youth. Many who are seeking opportunities abroad are young people.<br /><br />“Some of my young friends have left.<br /><br />“They go early because they fear that once they hit 40, their chances of being accepted by a developed country may drop,” a surfer said.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149626</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/149626</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Parent1]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 01:38:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Sat, 27 Mar 2010 13:07:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto">Dear Cheval,<br /><br />You are wrong about me again. I am not implying anything like that. I was a PR until I was 8 years old. Please do not imagine that there is any prejudices.</p>
]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/148200</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/148200</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tamarind]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 13:07:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Sat, 27 Mar 2010 01:16:35 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Dear tamarind,<br /><br /><br />If I understand you correctly, you are implying \"PR = quitter at wartime\". I would recommend you an emotional song by the French poet and music master Léo Ferré: L'affiche rouge (The Red Poster). It's based on a poem by Aragon, one of the greatest poets in French history. The poem is about the famous Resistant group Manouchian during the 2nd WW, composed of foreigners and Jews fighting against the German Nazis, arrested and executed by the Nazis and French Collaborators.<br /><br />Here is the Wikipedia entry:<br /><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L%27affiche_rouge_%28Poem%29">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L%27affiche_rouge_%28Poem%29</a><br /><br />Here is another translation with some background knowledge:<br /><a href="http://arewelostintranslation.blogspot.com/2010/01/louis-aragon-translation-of-red-poster.html">http://arewelostintranslation.blogspot.com/2010/01/louis-aragon-translation-of-red-poster.html</a><br /><br />Here is the song on Youtube:<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HLB_EVtJK4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HLB_EVtJK4</a><br /><br />Have a nice weekend.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147958</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147958</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 01:16:35 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 23:59:10 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Blobbi:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Chill, dearies.  :grphug: <br /><br /><br />This is so OT, I have no excuse. Anyway, here goes:<br /><br />For many years, I worked in a half-team where out of 8 members based in Singapore, only 2 of us were Singaporeans (the other half of the team was in New York). Our roving boss was American. Including us, there were 2 Indian nationals, 1 Korean, 1 Aussie, 1 Chinese national. We could see the strengths and weaknesses of our various nationalities, and boy was it fun taking potshots at the differences. Everything was done respectfully; we all took it in a c'est la vie kind of way - like \"what to do, we were brought up this way what\". Our American boss was shocked because, he declared, in the US, you can get sued just for calling someone fat, not to mention bringing up racial differences. But in Singapore, because the differences are so obvious in a multiracial society, we don't have to pretend we can't see.<br /><br />The key for getting along was and is mutual respect and trust. But when one group keeps slamming another group for imagined prejudices against themselves (even as they write that they \"don't feel it on a personal basis\"), for \"the discriminatory policies of the governement\" when, if we rub out eyes and take a look out the window, this place is teeming with foreigners, then we locals get resentful. Here we are, being very nice hosts, and our guests keep complaining that in other countries, the food is nicer. Or why their portion is one ikan bilis less. After a while, the host's smiling face will show some strain, like what's happening at the tail end of this thread. Then one more complaint, whether there is merit or not, is unlikely to be taken seriously.<br /><br />I want to emphasize - mutual respect and trust. We're very genial hosts. When we cook and you eat, we don't mind constructive criticism cos we want to be better cooks. If you give objective examples like the differential in university fees between locals and PRs, that's clear for all to see. It's definitely food for thought. Even then, it's practically loose change, so please don't lose sleep over that. Clean air, high level of personal safety, competitive educational structure, efficient public services, good employment opportunities are available to all here - no extra charge of course.  But if you compare us unfavourably with free university education in a debt ridden, high tax country when much of the world has given up that crazy, unsustainable policy, then that's spitting in our face. All we're asking for is ... some consideration.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Blobbi,<br />Thanks for writing this excellent post.<br /><br />Also thanks to outsider for posting it in this thread, it is definitely relevant here.<br /><br />I have given up reading this thread, because whatever I said seem to be prone to misinterpretation.<br /><br />I just want to say that, 2 nights ago, at about 4am,  I was woken up by very loud explosions, while sleeping at home. The explosions continued for about 5 mins.  I was shocked, thinking that there was an attack, and could not continue to sleep. I went over to talk to my mother.  She told me it was just an SAF exercise in Tuas. It had been happening over the past few nights, but probably not as loud so I did not notice.<br /><br />I guess I am one very paranoid mommy, who worries about what will happen to my kids in times of war and disaster. That is all I have been thinking as I wrote my posts in this thread, and I mean nothing else.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147946</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147946</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tamarind]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 23:59:10 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:18:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>insider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Personally, I despise those who took up the PSC scholarship and then broke the bonds later, esp those from richer families.<br /><br /><br />The 'objectives' of the scholarship is clear, whether it is right or wrong, that it is offered to students who have the intention to serve the nation.  If the child or his parents are unsure of the child's future career interest and development at the point of application, then he should not take it up and probably should go and apply something else in order not to deprive another one who will serve the nation but was kicked out coz of this person who takes it but breaks it later.  <br /><br />There are various types of scholarships available in the market and they have different objectives and so each should pursue accordingly.  It is plain selfishness to take and then break.  How can one wants all the prestige without having to pay a price? If the child really regrets later, so be it and pays and suffers for the wrong decision made.  Scholarship sponsors are also taking risks when they meet such students who change their minds later and penalty is definitely necessary or else all hell may break loose.<br /><br />The author of the article is commendable that he did not take up the scholarship and thereby did not waste our resources as he is uncertain of his future career interest and that gave another someone a chance to have it and serve the nation accordingly.</blockquote></blockquote>Yes the author of this article is respectable in his thoughts about bond-breaking. :salute:  Unfortunately, I had experience with one PR who was so proud to share with us how he broke his bond immediately after his studies.  :roll:    It so happened that he was a PR but I despised anyone who knew he would break a bond to proceed with one.<br /><br />As for no-strings-attached scholarships, think that has to come from a philanthropist fund.  Also human nature is such that when there is no commitment they may not produce results.<br /><br />Also, if such kind of funding is provided, I am thinking aloud if I should offer anyone such a funding, I would set the conditions for the child to achieve the milestones before the money can be reimbursed to ensure that the money is spent wisely on kids who matter to ensure success for themselves.  In other words, the child may have to spend their own money first, produce the results before they can get a claim.  For such a platform, the beneficiary will end up to be the richer kids who can afford to do that.   And if they are rich enough, why need such funding?<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147532</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147532</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[corneyAmber]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:18:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:18:24 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>csc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I don't think bond-breaking was the issue that Cheval was driving at.<br /></blockquote></blockquote>You are right.<br /><blockquote><b>csc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">If I did not read her wrongly, she is advocating scholarships without strings attached. <br /> :lol:</blockquote></blockquote>It's not a question of bond. The problem is whether it is good that the government attracts all the smartest kids into civil service. To me , the scholars should be given more freedom to study what they are interested in and allow them to work in the areas accordingly after their return if they wish. Their talents would be made full use. All this without breaking the bond: they can work in government controlled organizations/companies for example. As brilliant as the boy is, he is still uncertain about what is his passion. So it is not quite good to fix a rigid career plan for the kids too early.<br /><br />Hehe, I am father of 2 kids, leh. French has a small advantage over English: you see easily the gender of the speaker.  <br />Example:<br />He is beautiful --&gt; Il est <b><b><span style="\&quot;color:">beau</span></b></b><br />She is beautiful --&gt; Elle est <b><b><span style="\&quot;color:">belle</span></b></b><br /><img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147444</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147444</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:18:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:05:41 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>outsider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Blobbi:</b><p>The key for getting along was and is mutual respect and trust. But when one group keeps slamming another group for imagined prejudices against themselves (even as they write that they \"don't feel it on a personal basis\"), for \"the discriminatory policies of the governement\" when, if we rub out eyes and take a look out the window, this place is teeming with foreigners, then we locals get resentful. Here we are, being very nice hosts, and our guests keep complaining that in other countries, the food is nicer. Or why their portion is one ikan bilis less. After a while, the host's smiling face will show some strain, like what's happening at the tail end of this thread. Then one more complaint, whether there is merit or not, is unlikely to be taken seriously.<br /></p></blockquote></blockquote> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> It's not OT here<p></p></blockquote>-- response deleted --<br />After seeing the overwhelming response from the other thread where the above post was taken from, it became crystal clear to me what the stance of majority forumers here is and I've decided it's more appropriate for me to remain silent on this issue.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147430</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147430</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[minnie2004]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:05:41 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:31:44 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Cheval:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">I was so confusing, sorry!<br /><br /><br />I mean \"Why do we care so much?\", in fact.</blockquote></blockquote><br />Cheval,<br />I answer to your \"Why do we care so much?\" is still We Care.  It took lots of efforts to even get us a placing on that list.  And this is also how we can attract foreign talent to set up home here.  You are one.<br /><br />I too shares the same opinion as Insider.  The boy is unsure what he wants in the future, thus he turned down the PSC scholarship.  Whether PSC should offer no-strings-attached scholarships is really something the govt can think about...<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147393</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147393</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tree nymph]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:31:44 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:28:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I don't think bond-breaking was the issue that Cheval was driving at.<br /><br /><br />If I did not read her wrongly, she is advocating scholarships without strings attached. <br /> :lol:</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147390</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147390</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[csc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:28:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:06:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>csc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Sorry...I should be the one  :? <br /><br /><br />\"Why cares?\" Got such sentence structure meh?<br /><br />No wonder we are confused! :? Thot it's a typo error.<br /><br />You mean, \" Why do we care so much?\" :?<br /><br />You are beginning to sound rather 'singaporean\" now! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></blockquote></blockquote>I was so confusing, sorry!<br /><br />I mean \"Why do we care so much?\", in fact.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147364</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147364</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 06:06:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:56:15 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Sorry...I should be the one  :? <br /><br /><br />\"Why cares?\" Got such sentence structure meh?<br /><br />No wonder we are confused! :? Thot it's a typo error.<br /><br />You mean, \" Why do we care so much?\" :?<br /><br />You are beginning to sound rather 'singaporean\" now! <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147352</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147352</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[csc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:56:15 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:48:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Hello, guys.<br /><br /><br />I was asking \"<b><b>Why </b></b>cares?\" or more precisely \"Why cares much?\", but you reply \"I care\". I get confused by you.  :? <br /><br />Actually, I meant to say is what is achieved is past and most important is to get better, including looking back at serious issues that can be further improved. We won't sleep on our (permitted?) achievements, will we?<br /><br />In the link I gave, the boy does raise some pertinent issues, ignored until now by the government and to a big extent by parents as well. It is even not a question of 'right' or 'wrong'; each thing has its context, in time and in space. It's that we come to a point that some adjustment would be needed, for the benefits of the Nation and full personal development of our next generation. And these two things are not necessarily in conflict.</p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147345</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147345</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:48:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 04:52:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>csc:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">You mean to say \"Who cares?\" Am I right?<br /><br /><br />Well, as a true-blue Singaporean, I do.<br /><br />And yes, I am proud of that and yes, I do agree with the survey no matter what others may say... <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I love the air most , at least I can breathe more easily here than in the other Asian cities.  :lol:</blockquote></blockquote>I care too because when I need to stay in the different countries in Asia as expats, I know we can request for \"hardship\" allowance... bwaaaaah...   <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147297</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147297</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[corneyAmber]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 04:52:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:39:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Cheval:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Sorry, why cares? I came across the following, interesting to read:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer">http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer</a></blockquote></blockquote>You mean to say \"Who cares?\" Am I right?<br /><br />Well, as a true-blue Singaporean, I do.<br /><br />And yes, I am proud of that and yes, I do agree with the survey no matter what others may say... <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />I love the air most , at least I can breathe more easily here than in the other Asian cities.  :lol:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147238</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147238</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[csc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:39:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:30:05 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Cheval:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><br /><blockquote><b>tree nymph:</b><p>Singapore Top City for Asian Expats<br />S'pore retains its top spot for the 11th year running as the best city for Asian expats to live in<br /><br /><a href="http://sg.news.yahoo.com/cna/20100324/tap-529-singapore-offers-best-living-env-231650b.html">http://sg.news.yahoo.com/cna/20100324/tap-529-singapore-offers-best-living-env-231650b.html</a></p></blockquote></blockquote>Sorry, why cares? I came across the following, interesting to read:<br /><a href="http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer">http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer</a><p></p></blockquote>Cheval,<br />We care.  Because we are proud of what we are TODAY.  Else you won't be here now, right?<br /><br />As for the blog, I respect his decision and understand where he is coming from.  AND i'm proud of him for being mature and his good writing.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147233</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147233</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tree nymph]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:30:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:14:12 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>outsider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Blobbi:</b><p>Chill, dearies.  :grphug: <br /><br /><br />This is so OT, I have no excuse. Anyway, here goes:<br /><br />For many years, I worked in a half-team where out of 8 members based in Singapore, only 2 of us were Singaporeans (the other half of the team was in New York). Our roving boss was American. Including us, there were 2 Indian nationals, 1 Korean, 1 Aussie, 1 Chinese national. We could see the strengths and weaknesses of our various nationalities, and boy was it fun taking potshots at the differences. Everything was done respectfully; we all took it in a c'est la vie kind of way - like \"what to do, we were brought up this way what\". Our American boss was shocked because, he declared, in the US, you can get sued just for calling someone fat, not to mention bringing up racial differences. But in Singapore, because the differences are so obvious in a multiracial society, we don't have to pretend we can't see.<br /><br />The key for getting along was and is mutual respect and trust. But when one group keeps slamming another group for imagined prejudices against themselves (even as they write that they \"don't feel it on a personal basis\"), for \"the discriminatory policies of the governement\" when, if we rub out eyes and take a look out the window, this place is teeming with foreigners, then we locals get resentful. Here we are, being very nice hosts, and our guests keep complaining that in other countries, the food is nicer. Or why their portion is one ikan bilis less. After a while, the host's smiling face will show some strain, like what's happening at the tail end of this thread. Then one more complaint, whether there is merit or not, is unlikely to be taken seriously.<br /><br />I want to emphasize - mutual respect and trust. We're very genial hosts. When we cook and you eat, we don't mind constructive criticism cos we want to be better cooks. If you give objective examples like the differential in university fees between locals and PRs, that's clear for all to see. It's definitely food for thought. Even then, it's practically loose change, so please don't lose sleep over that. Clean air, high level of personal safety, competitive educational structure, efficient public services, good employment opportunities are available to all here - no extra charge of course.  But if you compare us unfavourably with free university education in a debt ridden, high tax country when much of the world has given up that crazy, unsustainable policy, then that's spitting in our face. All we're asking for is ... some consideration.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> It's not OT here<p></p></blockquote>Alamak deja vu lah ... read this somewhere just some mins back leh .... <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> <br /><br />Yup, def not OT here :lol:<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147220</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147220</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[autumnbronze]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:14:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:09:08 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>outsider:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Blobbi:</b><p>Chill, dearies.  :grphug: <br /><br /><br />This is so OT, I have no excuse. Anyway, here goes:<br /><br />For many years, I worked in a half-team where out of 8 members based in Singapore, only 2 of us were Singaporeans (the other half of the team was in New York). Our roving boss was American. Including us, there were 2 Indian nationals, 1 Korean, 1 Aussie, 1 Chinese national. We could see the strengths and weaknesses of our various nationalities, and boy was it fun taking potshots at the differences. Everything was done respectfully; we all took it in a c'est la vie kind of way - like \"what to do, we were brought up this way what\". Our American boss was shocked because, he declared, in the US, you can get sued just for calling someone fat, not to mention bringing up racial differences. But in Singapore, because the differences are so obvious in a multiracial society, we don't have to pretend we can't see.<br /><br />The key for getting along was and is mutual respect and trust. But when one group keeps slamming another group for imagined prejudices against themselves (even as they write that they \"don't feel it on a personal basis\"), for \"the discriminatory policies of the governement\" when, if we rub out eyes and take a look out the window, this place is teeming with foreigners, then we locals get resentful. Here we are, being very nice hosts, and our guests keep complaining that in other countries, the food is nicer. Or why their portion is one ikan bilis less. After a while, the host's smiling face will show some strain, like what's happening at the tail end of this thread. Then one more complaint, whether there is merit or not, is unlikely to be taken seriously.<br /><br />I want to emphasize - mutual respect and trust. We're very genial hosts. When we cook and you eat, we don't mind constructive criticism cos we want to be better cooks. If you give objective examples like the differential in university fees between locals and PRs, that's clear for all to see. It's definitely food for thought. Even then, it's practically loose change, so please don't lose sleep over that. Clean air, high level of personal safety, competitive educational structure, efficient public services, good employment opportunities are available to all here - no extra charge of course.  But if you compare us unfavourably with free university education in a debt ridden, high tax country when much of the world has given up that crazy, unsustainable policy, then that's spitting in our face. All we're asking for is ... some consideration.</p></blockquote></blockquote><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> It's not OT here<p></p></blockquote>Thanks Blobbi for that. I like the last sentence best! :lol: <br /><br />In this world, where got free lunch wan ??<br /><br />And thanks, outsider for moving the post here!<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147215</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147215</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[csc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:09:08 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:54:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Blobbi:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Chill, dearies.  :grphug: <br /><br /><br />This is so OT, I have no excuse. Anyway, here goes:<br /><br />For many years, I worked in a half-team where out of 8 members based in Singapore, only 2 of us were Singaporeans (the other half of the team was in New York). Our roving boss was American. Including us, there were 2 Indian nationals, 1 Korean, 1 Aussie, 1 Chinese national. We could see the strengths and weaknesses of our various nationalities, and boy was it fun taking potshots at the differences. Everything was done respectfully; we all took it in a c'est la vie kind of way - like \"what to do, we were brought up this way what\". Our American boss was shocked because, he declared, in the US, you can get sued just for calling someone fat, not to mention bringing up racial differences. But in Singapore, because the differences are so obvious in a multiracial society, we don't have to pretend we can't see.<br /><br />The key for getting along was and is mutual respect and trust. But when one group keeps slamming another group for imagined prejudices against themselves (even as they write that they \"don't feel it on a personal basis\"), for \"the discriminatory policies of the governement\" when, if we rub out eyes and take a look out the window, this place is teeming with foreigners, then we locals get resentful. Here we are, being very nice hosts, and our guests keep complaining that in other countries, the food is nicer. Or why their portion is one ikan bilis less. After a while, the host's smiling face will show some strain, like what's happening at the tail end of this thread. Then one more complaint, whether there is merit or not, is unlikely to be taken seriously.<br /><br />I want to emphasize - mutual respect and trust. We're very genial hosts. When we cook and you eat, we don't mind constructive criticism cos we want to be better cooks. If you give objective examples like the differential in university fees between locals and PRs, that's clear for all to see. It's definitely food for thought. Even then, it's practically loose change, so please don't lose sleep over that. Clean air, high level of personal safety, competitive educational structure, efficient public services, good employment opportunities are available to all here - no extra charge of course.  But if you compare us unfavourably with free university education in a debt ridden, high tax country when much of the world has given up that crazy, unsustainable policy, then that's spitting in our face. All we're asking for is ... some consideration.</blockquote></blockquote><br /> <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /> It's not OT here<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147207</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/147207</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[outsider]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:54:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:19:52 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>gajidouma:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">haha, sure Minie. Needless to say, am very proud of being a Chinese myself. Plus speaking mandarin is truly an asset nowadays and we don't have to deny that either.  :lol:<br /><br /><br />Regarding the hungry-for-success sentiments in China, well my observation is it may be missing among some youngsters, but maybe not so with pushing parents who are \"hungry\" for their only child to succeed.  <img src="https://forum.kiasuparents.com/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=f4f27f6278e" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":wink:" alt="😉" /></blockquote></blockquote>Good observation. My son is under huge pressure for his PSLE this year, from his mum and himself. That's not healthy at all.<br /><br /><blockquote><b>tree nymph:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">Singapore Top City for Asian Expats<br />S'pore retains its top spot for the 11th year running as the best city for Asian expats to live in<br /><br /><a href="http://sg.news.yahoo.com/cna/20100324/tap-529-singapore-offers-best-living-env-231650b.html">http://sg.news.yahoo.com/cna/20100324/tap-529-singapore-offers-best-living-env-231650b.html</a></blockquote></blockquote>Sorry, why cares? I came across the following, interesting to read:<br /><a href="http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer">http://www.darkmirage.com/2009/11/17/why-i-did-not-accept-my-psc-scholarship-offer</a><p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/146185</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/146185</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:19:52 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Adam Khoo: The expats will rule Singapore on Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:16:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><b>Busymom:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Cheval:</b><p><br />That is also why whenever possible, I always recommend my Singaporean friends to send their kids to France. They just \"lose\" one year to learn the language. If one does not choose Paris or Aix-en-Provence, living cost is not that high.</p></blockquote></blockquote>Is it sufficient to take just 1 year to learn the language?  Wouldn't everything that is taught in class be conducted in French?  :?<p></p></blockquote>Minnie's answer below is right. When you have no way to escape, you can do everything. The same thing for kids from China: they have to learn English as quickly as possible.<br /><blockquote><b>Busymom:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black">French just like to be complicated in everything that they do.  :lol: <br /><br />The \"<i><i>Classe preparatoire</i></i>\" is free, is it not? But <i><i>Grandes ecoles</i></i> is not free as you said.  Public universities are free, but apparently, the good ones are very difficult to get in.  There is now a third system, not sure if you have heard.  I am not sure what it is called, but seems that you do not need to do the 2 years of \"<i><i>Classe preparatoire</i></i>\" to get into this, but the duration of the whole course would be like 4-5 years instead of 3 years in a university.  This one is not free either.</blockquote></blockquote>Since I've never attended <i><i>classe prepa</i></i> myself, I just checked some Internet sites. Here you are: the majority of <i><i>Grandes ecoles</i></i> and <i><i>classes prepa</i></i> are public, so they are free. Current registration fee is 500 euros/year. By the way, student medical insurance is 200- euros/year.<br /><br />French universities are 4 years, not 3 years. The <i><i>Grandes ecoles</i></i> are 3 years + 2 years of <i><i>classes prepa</i></i>, 5 years altogether.<br /><blockquote><b>toddles:</b><blockquote style="border:1px solid black"><blockquote><b>Cheval:</b><p>In addition the language problem, I am afraid the A-level credits might not be recognized, contrary to universities in US or UK, which is not favorable to those with good A-level score. The latter can easily save 1 year if they study in UK or US.</p></blockquote></blockquote>A-level credits are recognised.  PSC scholars are usually sent to Ecole Polytechnique and usually only need one year of language studies before they take exams in French.<p></p></blockquote>Thanks for the info. But directly to Polytechnique without having to attend <i><i>classes prepa</i></i> and pass the \"concours\" (exams)? Somewhat surprising to me.<p></p>]]></description><link>https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/146179</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://forum.kiasuparents.com/post/146179</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Cheval]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:16:50 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>