Hi,


Im a newbie here… Really need some advise.

Engaged a maid 2 months ago and really need advice. My hubby, friends and MIL felt that im treating my maid too good and im spoiling her. Some examples here:

1) BF - same food as us (Eg: if i buy fried beehoon for my kid, i would get the same for her plus two ingredients) –> is this considered too good? My colleague told me that a bun would suffice
2) Dinner - Eat with us although we will section our her portion –> Fair?
3) Restaurant - Is it normal to bring maid along if attending a ten course dinner costing $600? We are not rich so pls do not be mistaken
4) Wakes up at 6am during weekday to prepare my elder daughter, weekend and PH im okay to wake up later at 8am –> Okay or am i spoiling her?

Have been fighting a lot with my hubby over these issues and im really at a loss… will appreciate some kind advice