Me Time!

[janet88]

Estéema:

Janet,

Thank you for kind advice. Hv to fast track recover fr jetlag to help PIL plan for choice of recovery stay at community hospitals after op, etc. Really tough, but gotta plod on.

you are welcome.
as this is the last week of the holidays, we want our kids to be well and ready for a busy term ahead.
as it is, my pigs here are having problems waking up in the morning.
can't expedite recovery from jetlag though. please take care.

[Estéema]

I got no choice arh. Hv to tahan even tho hv headache & sleepy & tired. Our elderly need our attention.


No joke. A fall can become a need for major op. So much risks involved in fractured hip, as doc adv may affect kidney, then may result in need for kidney transfusion, etc.

I was perplexed, trying to absorb all these new info & hv to evaluate a Community Hospital suitable for recovery period. Saw a lot of negative feedback on the outwardly nice looking Ng Teng Fong Hospital. Hv to evaluate Jurong Community Hospital or the Renci Community Hospital.

Hv to rotate duties amongst SILs, but mostly in my shoulders as they’ve very young kids & one niece in PSLE year, whilst ano SIL hv father in palliative care too. No luxury to rest & recover fr jetlag alr.

[starlight1968sg]

Esteema

Stay strong during this period

[Estéema]

Thank you, starlight. :snuggles:

[janet88]

Estéema:

I got no choice arh. Hv to tahan even tho hv headache & sleepy & tired. Our elderly need our attention.


No joke. A fall can become a need for major op. So much risks involved in fractured hip, as doc adv may affect kidney, then may result in need for kidney transfusion, etc.

I was perplexed, trying to absorb all these new info & hv to evaluate a Community Hospital suitable for recovery period. Saw a lot of negative feedback on the outwardly nice looking Ng Teng Fong Hospital. Hv to evaluate Jurong Community Hospital or the Renci Community Hospital.

Hv to rotate duties amongst SILs, but mostly in my shoulders as they've very young kids & one niece in PSLE year, whilst ano SIL hv father in palliative care too. No luxury to rest & recover fr jetlag alr.

who will look after your kids while you attend to FIL? take care of yourself too.
for the elderly, a fall is no laughing matter because their bones are weak.
step down hospital during recovery is expensive. ex-neighbour stayed at st luke for 1 month after his knee replacement surgery. 加油.

[Estéema]

janet88:

Estéema:

I got no choice arh. Hv to tahan even tho hv headache & sleepy & tired. Our elderly need our attention.


No joke. A fall can become a need for major op. So much risks involved in fractured hip, as doc adv may affect kidney, then may result in need for kidney transfusion, etc.

I was perplexed, trying to absorb all these new info & hv to evaluate a Community Hospital suitable for recovery period. Saw a lot of negative feedback on the outwardly nice looking Ng Teng Fong Hospital. Hv to evaluate Jurong Community Hospital or the Renci Community Hospital.

Hv to rotate duties amongst SILs, but mostly in my shoulders as they've very young kids & one niece in PSLE year, whilst ano SIL hv father in palliative care too. No luxury to rest & recover fr jetlag alr.

who will look after your kids while you attend to FIL? take care of yourself too.
for the elderly, a fall is no laughing matter because their bones are weak.
step down hospital during recovery is expensive. ex-neighbour stayed at st luke for 1 month after his knee replacement surgery. 加油.

Thanks Janet. :thankyou:

MIL very tired out alr, more coz of anxieties. Cooked her favorite pumpkin soup as she had no appetite. Made it extra thick to give that substantive feel for her stomach.

FIL will be operated on tonite. Long drawn till next morn I think. The need a lot of time ore- & post op observation, before cleared for pushing back to ward.

Yes. Was told recuperation @ Community Hospital need at least 1 mth or 2 due to age. Also, op comes with risks esp hip near kidney. They took a whole day to prep scan his heart to determine he's suitable for op. Thot it'll be tmr op but seems things rolling fast.

[janet88]

Estéema:

Thanks Janet. :thankyou:

MIL very tired out alr, more coz of anxieties. Cooked her favorite pumpkin soup as she had no appetite. Made it extra thick to give that substantive feel for her stomach.

FIL will be operated on tonite. Long drawn till next morn I think. The need a lot of time ore- & post op observation, before cleared for pushing back to ward.

Yes. Was told recuperation @ Community Hospital need at least 1 mth or 2 due to age. Also, op comes with risks esp hip near kidney. They took a whole day to prep scan his heart to determine he's suitable for op. Thot it'll be tmr op but seems things rolling fast.

esteema,
you're really filial.
just back from long holiday and having jetlag...yet have to function as per normal.
please take good care. kids need you too.

after the op, your FIL will have to stay in high dependency ward before he is cleared to be pushed back to the normal ward.

[Estéema]

We all do our best.


Good thing sch holidays till end of week & DS hv many projects to complete. Will hope to complete his dough making experiment with him next few days. He’s suppose to interview his grandpa for his HCL autobiography of 老前辈 & take 5 min video of him by week 2 of T3. So, it’s good DC kept busy whilst I run ard.

Will survive. Just feeling haggard & tired. Better days will come.

Janet,
Thks for headsup on observation time. Think he must be very anxious. Our family prayed with him before he went in. We’re trusting all goes well. Good for the kids to know what adults do, as I explained to kids tt just as we need them when young & helpless, they now need us when old & frail.

[janet88]

Estéema:

Will survive. Just feeling haggard & tired. Better days will come.


Janet,
Thks for headsup on observation time. Think he must be very anxious. Our family prayed with him before he went in. We're trusting all goes well. Good for the kids to know what adults do, as I explained to kids tt just as we need them when young & helpless, they now need us when old & frail.

you will get through.
have a good rest tonight although you will be anxious since FIL is in OT...but you need the rest.

[FantasyLandDreams]

Esteema,

Take care. My grandpa and FIL broke hip bone because of fall too and were in community hospital for a month each. Both of them had to walk with the u-shape walking stick after that ( did not recover) , so no choice we had to get a maid due to lack of manpower at home. So I can understand what you are going through as we don’t have siblings to share the load somemore in both cases due to some family dynamics.