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  • Newbies & Clubs

    New here? Say hi and introduce yourself! Want to start your own club or interest group? You’re welcome to create one too.

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    pecalisP
    Hi! I am conducting an online survey for my Final Year Project on Middle Child Syndrome and would like to invite parents of adolescent middle children (aged 10-19) to share their valuable insights. It will take no more than 5 minutes and is fully anonymous. Your time is greatly appreciated! Requirements: Living in Singapore Currently raising 3 or more children Has at least one middle child aged 10–19 If you’re open to sharing your insights, please head to the survey here: https://forms.cloud.microsoft/r/0QDyE0MgsV Thank you! Please feel free to share my survey with other suitable parents as well. ️ Happy to answer any questions too!
    Recess Time

    Take a break and chat about anything under the sun — or share your ideas on how we can improve KiasuParents.com.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    Parents are all welcome to join MOE’s Education Conversations, to talk about the impact of our education system on our kids! There’s an upcoming session on Nov 14: https://educationconversations.moe.gov.sg/sign-up
    Working With Your Child

    There’s no manual for parenting — especially in the early years up to age 12. Talk about what’s working (or not), and support one another through your child’s emotional and learning journey.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    @tzeno Hi! Thanks for sharing this with our community. We would like to list this in our forum sidebar, if you can provide a link to everyone here?
    Health

    Health matters at every age. Share questions, experiences, and advice on everything from childhood illnesses to family well-being.

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    Wonder-fulW
    @evearch_chu , I had the same issue previously and did this which have help me quite a bit - Supportive, shock-absorbing shoes or insoles can improve stability and reduce pain. Reduce long walks temporarily, avoid running, squatting, uneven ground, and heavy carrying; use lower-impact exercise such as cycling or swimming to stay active.
    Relationships

    Strong families start with strong relationships. This is a space to talk about marriage, in-laws, and the ups and downs of family life while raising children.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    [image: IMG_6787.jpg] Great to hear from others, and sharing an infographic that I saw on Insta. I haven’t talked to my kids about dating, but they do know what’s happening with my friends. My husband is Catholic, my kids were raised Catholic, and I’m a free thinker/agnostic, so you could say I’m much more liberal! I hear plenty of stories from men and women friends; some in 20s are not dating or in non-defined relationships, some in their 30s are grappling with their own issues (like self-confidence, not being sure of whether to move forward, mismatch between the ones they are really physically attracted to vs the ones who respond). Some in 40s onwards have seemed to find partners easily; they move from one relationship to the next. Or they might reconnect with now-divorced friends, and something happens there. Others have a poor experience and usually take long breaks from the apps. I love to ask questions and seldom give my take, unless explicitly asked! The only thing I would say that my kids can take from me is my comfort with mixed-gender friendships. If you don’t really have that, I think it’s hard to cross into dating. My brother is a 40-something millennial, doesn’t talk about dating at all, and seems happily single. My husband and I would both say that physical attraction is essential and the first filter haha. I think that’s why people are comfortable being very honest with me about their dating stories, because they know I won’t think of them as shallow
    Domestic Help

    For many families, domestic helpers are an essential part of home life. Share experiences, advice, and questions about managing help and household routines.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    Here at KiasuParents, we've actually interviewed Stephanie before, years ago! She's a mother of two, and in the article she talks about how we as parents can make a difference: At a glance · From the archives (2017) Raising kids who care Her advice: just start. Stephanie Chok tells parents not to wait for the perfect moment. Find a cause that resonates, then connect with civil society groups through social media or events to get involved practically. Mother of two. At the time, Chok was raising two young sons and spoke about having age-appropriate conversations with them about the world, with plans to involve them in causes as they grew older. On feeling disheartened. Chok acknowledges the risk of burnout when tackling systemic problems, and shares her personal motto: "Do what you can, whenever you can. With thoughtfulness." In her own words. She quotes Nelson Henderson: "The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you will not rest." Source: KiasuParents →
    Tuckshop

    KiasuParents are not only kiasu about our children — we are serious when it comes to good food. Discuss all culinary matters here, from cooking to buffets and fine dining.

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    yummy_chocolateY
    eh you can try buy from pickme sg? theirs are frozen salmon but actually the quality quite good one. https://pickme.sg/collections/buy-salmon-online-singapore can try.
    Money Matters

    From school fees to enrichment classes, raising kids comes with rising costs. Share how you’re budgeting, saving, and planning for your family’s financial future.

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    SpartanacS
    Hi everyone, I’m conducting a short 3–4 minute research survey to understand what parents of children aged 5–10 value when choosing sports programs. I’m particularly interested in coaching quality, development, scheduling, cost and what makes parents feel a program is worth paying for. Click the link below to start the survey. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FRVMFZB
    Holiday Ideas

    School holidays are a chance to recharge, for kids and parents alike! Share travel tips, local activities, and ideas to make the most of the break.

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    elisatanE
    To parents who might be looking for a Dec holiday camp for their children. We’re three mums who wanted school holidays to feel like something children look forward to. So we created Pixie Play Club, a British-inspired holiday club full of creativity, movement, friendship and play in the familiar surroundings of a school. This December, we’d love to welcome your little ones (age 4 to 12 yrs) to our very first holiday camp. December Holiday Camp at The Grange Institution Dates: Dec 7 to Dec 23 (with 3 or 5 days option) Time: 10am to 6pm Location: The Grange Institution To register: https://www.cognitoforms.com/PixiePlayClub/RegistrationForm Or scan the QR from poster[image: Pixie Play Club Holiday camp.jpg]
    Technology & Gadgets

    From the latest gadgets to screen time struggles, let’s talk about tech for the whole family. Share tips, reviews, and how you’re managing devices at home.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    Sharing a post that we did earlier in the year, featuring mini-interviews with a few coding and robotics schools: https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/article/2026-best-coding-and-robotics-classes-in-singapore
    Happenings

    Heard about something worth checking out? Post upcoming events, talks, workshops, or activities here for fellow parents.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    Over the weekend, I caught a 2000s film from the Singapore International Film Fest, called Amores Perros! It’s by the director of Birdman, The Revenant, and the current Digger starring Tom Cruise. It’s in Spanish with subtitles, and a very gritty watch! Reminiscent of another 2000s film from Brazil, called City of God (although even worse things happened in that film). There are seemingly so many “film fests” going on right now, or at least that’s how non-mainstream films seem to be marketed these days. The SG international film fest isn’t really on my radar anymore, but it’s always refreshing to head out to watch something unexpected. Some of my friends go to the movies on their own fairly often! I’ve done it a few times, but prefer company. https://sgiff.com/
    Buy & Sell

    Looking to buy, sell, or pass something on? List it here and connect with other parents. Please note: KiasuParents.com is not responsible for any transactions made in this forum.

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    SmartlabEducationCentreS
    SmartLab 2026 Year-End Holiday Programmes Looking for something useful for your child to do during the year-end holidays? We have 8 different programmes covering English, Math, communication skills, creative writing, career readiness and hands-on robotics. Programme details & schedules: https://tinyurl.com/2026YrEndHolidayProg Here’s a quick overview: From E Math to A Math For Sec 2 students progressing to Sec 3 A Math Speak So They Listen For Sec 1–2 students — building communication and speaking confidence Speak With Impact For Sec 1–5 students — developing confident and effective communication Story Lab – Creative Writing Workshop For P1–6 students who enjoy stories and creative writing The English Edge – Upper Secondary English Intensive For Sec 3–5 G2/G3 students — focused preparation for Upper Sec English The Upper Sec Leap – English Paper 1 & 2 For Sec 1–2 students looking to strengthen their English foundation Work Ready For Sec 3–5, JC, Polytechnic, ITE students and young adults — practical workplace and career skills TagTeam × SmartLab RoBo Workshop – Drones, Humanoid & RoboDog A hands-on robotics experience for P1–6 students Early Bird Discount Available for registrations with payment received by 31 October. Interested in any of the programmes? Feel free to WhatsApp us at 8020 7450 for more details or registration. Slots are limited. Hope your child finds something they’ll enjoy and benefit from this holiday!
  • Primary Schools - Selection & Registration

    All about Primary One registration — from choosing the right school to understanding phases and balloting. Join the discussion here.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    @kiasuparent123456 On this point: Five of the 12 have no HDB flat within 1km at all: both ACS schools, Methodist Girls’, Raffles Girls’ and Singapore Chinese Girls’. Under the old rule, the closest Phase 2C band at those schools could only ever be filled by private homes. I have personal experiences with two of the schools mentioned above. Diversity would likely come from the alumni population, rather than Phase 2C. As I have not considered moving into private housing to get closer to certain schools, will let others share thoughts on that.
    Primary Schools - Parent Networking Groups

    It’s always helpful to connect with parents from the same school. Whether you’re new or experienced, this is where you can share advice, ask questions, and support each other.

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    strugglesmartS
    I’ve many parents reaching to me about access arrangements of their kids: exempted for certain section of subject, having reader/scribe/extra time, different formats of papers etc. Along the way, we made multiple discoveries on how to do this more efficiently and effectively. For PSLE 2027, we are now 17 weeks away to the cut off for AA application. For parents with younger students, it’s important to test out the AA arrangements as early as P3. PM me now if you need any support and advice. Refer to this guide (hopefully it’s useful as a starting point) https://www.strugglesmart.sg/blog-posts/exam-access-arrangements-singapore-guide Strugglesmart.sg Educated in Special Needs/Parent of one #accessarrangement #aa #dyslexiaawareness #adhd #autism #sensoryprocessing #sensoryprocessingawareness
    Primary Schools - Academic Support

    Primary school brings six years of academic milestones and challenges. Use this space to talk about schoolwork, tuition, exams, learning gaps, and how you’re helping your child along the way.

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    declanD
    Thanks @thebottomsupblog! I’ve already started a thread titled “Building a Mandarin chat buddy for kids — looking for families to join a free trial”. I’ll add a walkthrough there showing how Xiaozhu works, including the parent dashboard. Thanks for welcoming me to share!
    Secondary Schools - Selection

    Choosing a secondary school? Talk about school options, cut-off points, and what your child’s PSLE results mean for their next step.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    Reviving this old thread, because so much has changed, but yet some factors for choosing sec schools will remain the same. Also to highlight that on our KiasuParents website, our secondary school content can be easily found here: https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/secondary We do talk a bit about choosing secondary schools. You can share your concerns in here as well!
    Secondary Schools - Parent Networking Groups

    Stay connected with parents from the same secondary school. Share updates, ask questions, and support one another — even as our teens grow more independent.

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    JonCJ
    Last message below is 10 years ago. Time flies.
    Secondary Schools - Academic Support

    Secondary school comes with new subjects, greater expectations, and teen-sized challenges. Use this space to discuss academic support, subject combinations, and more.

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    zac's mumZ
    Hi, i haven’t logged in to KSP in a long time. Chanced upon your post, so i decided to share a bit of advice as a sec 4 parent. Best thing we did after sec 3 EOY was to finish up all the Topical TYS that the school made us buy. He hadn’t completed them in time for EOY and the results showed. During the year-end hols, he steadily revised his sec 3 chapters, made notes & did the Topical TYS. When sec 4 rolls around, the teaching pace will hit them like a speeding freight train. There’s no more time to go back to look at sec 3 work at that point. And yet it will be tested in prelims. If your child is involved in CCA leadership roles, they don’t step down until very late before prelims. Hope that helps & all the best!
    Tertiary Education - A-Levels, Diplomas, Degrees

    What comes after secondary school? Whether your teen is heading to JC, poly, ITE, or exploring another path, this is the space to talk about courses, admissions, and life in tertiary education.

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    Sunofwinter2011S
    2026 H2 Chemistry Preparation: https://youtu.be/BiyRDT7AqjI?si=ggbZ-hJh7dHyv3eP Hope this will help candidates better
  • Academic Learning & Enrichment

    Can’t teach everything yourself? Share ideas for home learning, and get advice on selecting enrichment classes or tutors to support your child’s education.

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    declanD
    Thanks @thebottomsupblog! I’ve already started a thread titled “Building a Mandarin chat buddy for kids — looking for families to join a free trial”. I’ll add a walkthrough there showing how Xiaozhu works, including the parent dashboard. Thanks for welcoming me to share!
    Music, Singing, Dancing, Speech & Drama

    Looking to nurture your child’s talent in music, performing arts, or creative expression? Share experiences, classes, and ideas with other parents here.

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    thebottomsupblogT
    @jkusnong86 Thanks so much for these tips! Will look at practice pads for now. I’ll probably stay with my current school for perhaps 3 months – I’m currently learning Blur’s Song 2 (slowly)! Will be in touch after that, as I do prefer a more flexible schedule!
    Child Care, Kindergartens & Student Care

    Looking for infant care, preschool, or student care with nurturing teachers and quality programmes? Share your experiences and recommendations here.

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    cherrymummyC
    Hi parents, I am new to Choa Chu Kang area and i recently got a flyer about a new student care opening at choa chu kang centre. I checked out their website: www.kindlecove.com and it seems like a cosy centre with small class size (which is important to me). Any parent is keen to go see their open house as the centre manager told me that they have group sign up discounts.
    Sports, Fitness & Athletics

    Whether it’s building skills or chasing big goals, talk about nurturing your child’s interest and talent in sports and fitness here.

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    SpartanacS
    Hi Kiasu Parents, I’m conducting a short 3–4 minute research survey to understand what parents of children aged 5–10 value when choosing sports programs. Survey is particularly interested in coaching quality, development, scheduling, cost and what makes parents feel a program is worth paying for. Click the link below to start the survey. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FRVMFZB
    Art & Craft

    Got a budding artist at home? Talk about art classes, creative activities, and how to support your child’s imagination.

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    DaddyLee23D
    Follow the Victoria Art channel on WhatsApp: whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb7nQT8JP214G2vQBF3P Also hope to receive lots of sharing of your children’s art and craft so as to inspire each other. For the love for Art and Craft sharing. [image: b9d8dacce8c6b1b98fa8737674ec9e0f.jpg]
    Social Time, Outings & Games

    Kids need sunshine, fresh air, and good company — and so do parents. Share ideas for family outings, social activities, and places to unwind together.

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    AlyoshaA
    @thebottomsupblog thank you! Haven’t been to Pip’s Playbox before - indoor and air-conditioned definitely beats hunting for shade on afternoons like these. Will bring the kids down to try it, appreciate the tip!