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Newbies & Clubs

New here? Say hi and introduce yourself! Want to start your own club or interest group? You’re welcome to create one too.

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Hi everyone, I’m Elliot. I taught primary English at MOE for 15 years, marked PSLE English papers including compositions, and later worked on English and creative writing programmes at enrichment centres. I now develop English resources under the name Antz Learn, so I’ll declare that up front. I’ve read these forums for a long time and see the same worries again and again: “Why is my child stuck at mid-band?” “How is situational writing marked?” “Should my child memorise phrases?” I’m happy to help with questions like these. Looking forward to learning from all of you too. Elliot

Recess Time

Not sure where to post your topic? This is where we chat about anything under the sun!

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Talked to close friends yesterday, and one mentioned that last year, he had sponsored a shopping trip in KL for children in an orphanage, through his sister who lives there. This year, he’s thinking of going to KL, to take the kids out himself, along with his sister. For myself, I was too busy this year to volunteer (work, studies, elderly families being ill). Now that I have a bit more time again, am thinking about what I can do!

Working With Your Child

There’s no manual for parenting — especially in the early years up to age 12. Talk about what’s working (or not), and support one another through your child’s emotional and learning journey.

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My child used to attend play therapy sessions with this counsellor, during her internship. She has since moved on to setup her new place. I am just posting here to give her the boost she needs, she is really good with kids. As my child had real bad school going anxiety, and stranger anxiety, and every week in and out, she never gave up on him, he even got to the point of being excited to see her on a weekly basis! You can reach out to her or her team here: https://tenderseasons.my.canva.site/contact-us

Health

Health matters at every age. Share questions, experiences, and advice on everything from childhood illnesses to family well-being.

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don’t ignore recurring heel pain, as it could be plantar fasciitis. i had sharp heel pain whenever i stood up or walked for long periods, and Dr Yung Shing Wai examined my foot and recommended the right care to ease the inflammation and reduce the pain. my condition improved, and thankfully i didn’t need surgery. he has been our trusted foot doctor in Mount Elizabeth, and i wouldn’t hesitate to recommend him.

Relationships

Strong families start with strong relationships. This is a space to talk about marriage, in-laws, and the ups and downs of family life while raising children.

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[image: IMG_6787.jpg] Great to hear from others, and sharing an infographic that I saw on Insta. I haven’t talked to my kids about dating, but they do know what’s happening with my friends. My husband is Catholic, my kids were raised Catholic, and I’m a free thinker/agnostic, so you could say I’m much more liberal! I hear plenty of stories from men and women friends; some in 20s are not dating or in non-defined relationships, some in their 30s are grappling with their own issues (like self-confidence, not being sure of whether to move forward, mismatch between the ones they are really physically attracted to vs the ones who respond). Some in 40s onwards have seemed to find partners easily; they move from one relationship to the next. Or they might reconnect with now-divorced friends, and something happens there. Others have a poor experience and usually take long breaks from the apps. I love to ask questions and seldom give my take, unless explicitly asked! The only thing I would say that my kids can take from me is my comfort with mixed-gender friendships. If you don’t really have that, I think it’s hard to cross into dating. My brother is a 40-something millennial, doesn’t talk about dating at all, and seems happily single. My husband and I would both say that physical attraction is essential and the first filter haha. I think that’s why people are comfortable being very honest with me about their dating stories, because they know I won’t think of them as shallow

Domestic Help

For many families, domestic helpers are an essential part of home life. Share experiences, advice, and questions about managing help and household routines.

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Sorry this happened to your family. It sounds very stressful. A few practical points that may help others reading: Standard maid insurance covers the helper’s medical bills, personal accident and repatriation. It does not pay legal fees for an employer, and it does not refund agency fees. So the agency contract matters most. Before signing, ask to see in writing what refund or replacement applies if the helper leaves early or a case is raised. If an agency refuses a refund and cannot show the clause, you can ask CASE to help with mediation. Keep a written record of dates, messages and what each party said.

Tuckshop

KiasuParents are not only kiasu about our children — we are serious when it comes to good food. Discuss all culinary matters here, from cooking to buffets and fine dining.

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eh you can try buy from pickme sg? theirs are frozen salmon but actually the quality quite good one. https://pickme.sg/collections/buy-salmon-online-singapore can try.

Money Matters

From school fees to enrichment classes, raising kids comes with rising costs. Share how you’re budgeting, saving, and planning for your family’s financial future.

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Hi everyone, I’m conducting a short 3–4 minute research survey to understand what parents of children aged 5–10 value when choosing sports programs. I’m particularly interested in coaching quality, development, scheduling, cost and what makes parents feel a program is worth paying for. Click the link below to start the survey. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FRVMFZB

Holiday Ideas

School holidays are a chance to recharge, for kids and parents alike! Share travel tips, local activities, and ideas to make the most of the break.

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To parents who might be looking for a Dec holiday camp for their children. We’re three mums who wanted school holidays to feel like something children look forward to. So we created Pixie Play Club, a British-inspired holiday club full of creativity, movement, friendship and play in the familiar surroundings of a school. This December, we’d love to welcome your little ones (age 4 to 12 yrs) to our very first holiday camp. December Holiday Camp at The Grange Institution Dates: Dec 7 to Dec 23 (with 3 or 5 days option) Time: 10am to 6pm Location: The Grange Institution To register: https://www.cognitoforms.com/PixiePlayClub/RegistrationForm Or scan the QR from poster[image: Pixie Play Club Holiday camp.jpg]

Technology & AI

From the latest AI tools to screen time struggles, let’s talk about tech for the whole family. Tell us how you’re managing tech use at home. If you’ve created an app, share it here too!

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This career site was shared with me a few months back, worth a try! It’s a bit like SkillsFuture, but for kids/teens: https://careernavigator-app.vercel.app/

Happenings

Heard about something worth checking out? Post upcoming events, talks, workshops, or activities here for fellow parents.

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Last week, I watched Fjord, which I think is a thought-provoking film for parents: https://filmhouse.sg/film/220/fjord/ It’s about parents with strict religious views, who are charged with abuse. I saw this with a friend (single/no kids), and there was still a lot to discuss after!

Buy & Sell

Looking to buy, sell, or pass something on? List it here and connect with other parents. Please note: KiasuParents.com is not responsible for any transactions made in this forum.

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Happy Thursday! Hope all families and parents are looking forward to the end of the work week We have just released an article discussing the topic of Primary 3 Science in Singapore: what to expect and when to consider tuition. Your child holds a magnet against a paper clip and watches it jump. They know the magnet attracted it. But when you ask how they know, they say, “Because it’s magnetic.” That’s a useful moment to pause. Can your child describe what they actually saw? They might say, “The paper clip moved towards the magnet before they touched.” Now they have an observation they can use to support their answer. That shift, from naming an idea to explaining it with evidence, is a good place to start when your child moves from Primary 2 to Primary 3. Here’s what they’ll encounter in P3 Science, what you can try at home and how to decide whether extra support would help. Do give it a read and let us know your thoughts! Interested parents may also contact us through the following platforms for any tuition related enquiries: Website - www.educaretutoring.sg Instagram - @educaretutoringsg WhatsApp - +65 8893 4017 Email - [email protected] Educare Tutoring - Affordable & Quality Tuition Read more of our articles that highlight important considerations for primary, secondary school and Junior College students
Schooling

Primary Schools - Selection & Registration

All about Primary One registration — from choosing the right school to understanding phases and balloting. Join the discussion here.

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@kiasuparent123456 On this point: Five of the 12 have no HDB flat within 1km at all: both ACS schools, Methodist Girls’, Raffles Girls’ and Singapore Chinese Girls’. Under the old rule, the closest Phase 2C band at those schools could only ever be filled by private homes. I have personal experiences with two of the schools mentioned above. Diversity would likely come from the alumni population, rather than Phase 2C. As I have not considered moving into private housing to get closer to certain schools, will let others share thoughts on that.

Primary Schools - Parent Networking Groups

It’s always helpful to connect with parents from the same school. Whether you’re new or experienced, this is where you can share advice, ask questions, and support each other.

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I’ve many parents reaching to me about access arrangements of their kids: exempted for certain section of subject, having reader/scribe/extra time, different formats of papers etc. Along the way, we made multiple discoveries on how to do this more efficiently and effectively. For PSLE 2027, we are now 17 weeks away to the cut off for AA application. For parents with younger students, it’s important to test out the AA arrangements as early as P3. PM me now if you need any support and advice. Refer to this guide (hopefully it’s useful as a starting point) https://www.strugglesmart.sg/blog-posts/exam-access-arrangements-singapore-guide Strugglesmart.sg Educated in Special Needs/Parent of one #accessarrangement #aa #dyslexiaawareness #adhd #autism #sensoryprocessing #sensoryprocessingawareness

Primary Schools - Academic Support

Primary school brings six years of academic milestones and challenges. Use this space to talk about schoolwork, tuition, exams, learning gaps, and how you’re helping your child along the way.

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In 15 years of marking PSLE English scripts, I saw the same well-meant habits pull good writers down, usually ones picked up from model-essay books. Here are the seven I saw most often, and what to do instead. “Use as many good phrases and idioms as possible.” Memorised phrases often don’t fit the moment and sound unnatural, and a misused idiom costs Language marks. Instead: one precise, well-placed description beats five stock phrases. “A more exciting plot scores higher.” Kidnappings, robberies and near-death escapes are rarely believable, and they often drift from the topic. Instead: choose an ordinary situation with real feelings, such as a broken promise, a lost item or a lie. “Long is good.” Extra scenes dilute the key moment and give more chances for errors. Instead: spend the words on the climax, not on breakfast and the bus ride. “Start with the weather or an alarm clock.” A generic opening wastes the first impression and delays the problem. Instead: start close to the problem, with an action, a line of dialogue or a thought. “Memorise a few essays and adapt them.” Adapted essays usually answer a slightly different topic, and relevance is the first thing markers check. Instead: practise planning for many topics rather than memorising stories. “Replace ‘said’ with a fancy verb every time.” Constant “exclaimed”, “retorted” and “bellowed” is distracting and often used wrongly. Instead: use “said” most of the time, and let the dialogue and actions carry the emotion. “End with a moral like ‘Honesty is the best policy’.” A tacked-on proverb feels preachy and doesn’t show what the character learned. Instead: end with the character’s own realisation and what they’ll do differently. A quick check you can do tonight Take your child’s last school composition and ask these questions: Which part shows the topic? If they point to one line near the end, that isn’t enough. What could the main character lose? If nothing, there’s no real problem. Is the most important moment longer than the walk to school? How is the character different at the end? Don’t fix anything yet. Just note which question it fails first. That’s your starting point. Happy to answer questions below. Disclosure: I now make writing resources. If it’s useful, there’s a free sample of my parent’s guide, with these myths and a printable checklist, here: payhip.com/AntzLearn/collection/free-samples

Secondary Schools - Selection

Choosing a secondary school? Talk about school options, cut-off points, and what your child’s PSLE results mean for their next step.

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@liqilee Unfortunately I am unable to advice on your question specifically on mainstream schools with an SENO. However, if your child needs help in his/her school, do let me know. My team provides support for teens with special needs who are enrolled in mainstream or special needs schools.

Secondary Schools - Parent Networking Groups

Stay connected with parents from the same secondary school. Share updates, ask questions, and support one another — even as our teens grow more independent.

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Last message below is 10 years ago. Time flies.

Secondary Schools - Academic Support

Secondary school comes with new subjects, greater expectations, and teen-sized challenges. Use this space to discuss academic support, subject combinations, and more.

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Hi parents! With results out and Sec 3 subject choices coming up, I thought I’d share a quick comparison of E-Math and A-Math. I’m an experienced graduate Math Tutor with over 6+ years of E-Math, A-Math and IP Math, so hopefully this helps anyone! E-Math is the compulsory maths subject in Sec 3 and 4 which all students take. It carries on from the maths they have been doing in Sec 1 and 2, with a focus on more practical, real-world applications. A-Math is an additional, optional subject. It is generally considered harder as it focuses on more abstract math, for example a lot more algebra and calculus. In order to see if A-Math is suitable, I’d start with your child’s Sec 2 Math results. Are they coping well? If they’re confident in their Math ability, or they enjoy maths, I’d suggest giving A-Math a go! But if they’re struggling, especially with algebra, although it doesn’t rule A-Math out, it might be worth having a real talk with them about their study plan leading up to Sec 3. I have had many students who just barely made the cut off for A-Math for their school in Sec 2, but were willing to put in the effort needed. And their O Level end results speak for themselves! But they must be ready to put in the effort. The holidays are a good time to brush up on Sec 2 algebra! Hope this helps! Feel free to ask any questions here or whatsapp me at 8991 5911 Read the more detailed guide (including how A-Maths can affect post-secondary paths) at veritylearner.com/guides

Tertiary Education - A-Levels, Diplomas, Degrees

What comes after secondary school? Whether your teen is heading to JC, poly, ITE, or exploring another path, this is the space to talk about courses, admissions, and life in tertiary education.

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2026 H2 Chemistry Preparation: https://youtu.be/BiyRDT7AqjI?si=ggbZ-hJh7dHyv3eP Hope this will help candidates better
Early Learning, Student Care & Enrichment

Academic Learning & Enrichment

Can’t teach everything yourself? Share ideas for home learning, and get advice on selecting enrichment classes or tutors to support your child’s education.

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Happy Thursday! Hope all families and parents are looking forward to the end of the work week We have just released an article discussing the topic of Primary 3 Science in Singapore: what to expect and when to consider tuition. Your child holds a magnet against a paper clip and watches it jump. They know the magnet attracted it. But when you ask how they know, they say, “Because it’s magnetic.” That’s a useful moment to pause. Can your child describe what they actually saw? They might say, “The paper clip moved towards the magnet before they touched.” Now they have an observation they can use to support their answer. That shift, from naming an idea to explaining it with evidence, is a good place to start when your child moves from Primary 2 to Primary 3. Here’s what they’ll encounter in P3 Science, what you can try at home and how to decide whether extra support would help. Do give it a read and let us know your thoughts! Interested parents may also contact us through the following platforms for any tuition related enquiries: Website - www.educaretutoring.sg Instagram - @educaretutoringsg WhatsApp - +65 8893 4017 Email - [email protected] Educare Tutoring - Affordable & Quality Tuition Read more of our articles that highlight important considerations for primary, secondary school and Junior College students

Music, Singing, Dancing, Speech & Drama

Looking to nurture your child’s talent in music, performing arts, or creative expression? Share experiences, classes, and ideas with other parents here.

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@thebottomsupblog Well done on Song 2! Keep up the slow practice, it really pays off. Message me whenever you’re ready. All the best!

Child Care, Kindergartens & Student Care

Looking for infant care, preschool, or student care with nurturing teachers and quality programmes? Share your experiences and recommendations here.

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Hi parents, I am new to Choa Chu Kang area and i recently got a flyer about a new student care opening at choa chu kang centre. I checked out their website: www.kindlecove.com and it seems like a cosy centre with small class size (which is important to me). Any parent is keen to go see their open house as the centre manager told me that they have group sign up discounts.

Sports, Fitness & Athletics

Whether it’s building skills or chasing big goals, talk about nurturing your child’s interest and talent in sports and fitness here.

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Hi Kiasu Parents, I’m conducting a short 3–4 minute research survey to understand what parents of children aged 5–10 value when choosing sports programs. Survey is particularly interested in coaching quality, development, scheduling, cost and what makes parents feel a program is worth paying for. Click the link below to start the survey. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FRVMFZB

Art & Craft

Got a budding artist at home? Talk about art classes, creative activities, and how to support your child’s imagination.

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Follow the Victoria Art channel on WhatsApp: whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb7nQT8JP214G2vQBF3P Also hope to receive lots of sharing of your children’s art and craft so as to inspire each other. For the love for Art and Craft sharing. [image: b9d8dacce8c6b1b98fa8737674ec9e0f.jpg]

Social Time, Outings & Games

Kids need sunshine, fresh air, and good company — and so do parents. Share ideas for family outings, social activities, and places to unwind together.

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Hi parents! I’m a Singaporean creator for a local Toy Brand called Big Bagful, and I just launched a Kickstarter for a new open-ended play scene fabric to help kids build screen-free imaginative play. Appreciate any honest feedback on the concept, or your support if your little ones love open-ended play! Kickstarter campaign here! [image: UNfold play scene fabrics] [image: alt text] [image: alt text] [image: alt text] [image: alt text]