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[bb_ mom]

Just wondering. If DDs have daddies wrapped around fingers, DSs have mummies wrapped around their fingers?

[sleepy]

bb_ mom:

Just wondering. If DDs have daddies wrapped around fingers, DSs have mummies wrapped around their fingers?

Nope. Didn't happen with my dh. He revolves around me, my girls no fight with me

But I have a soft spot for dd2. Even dh said I dote on her. She is the only one I have the thought to buy her favourite food. Usually I just buy my own favourite food. The rest can take it or leave it

[TheAnswer]

bb_ mom:

Just wondering. If DDs have daddies wrapped around fingers, DSs have mummies wrapped around their fingers?

I dun particularly dote on DS.. in fact I turn down his requests fairly often.. My hubby dotes on him quite a lot.. father n son often play together at home or go out for outdoor activities...

My son is the favourite grandchild on both sides of the family..

[janet88]

I have a soft spot for my daughter…but I am strict…so it is not obvious and she cannot climb on my head…but hubby’s weakness is obvious and so daughter will climb on his head…sending him sms-es and telling him what she wants…bcos can’t let mummy know or she will say NO.

[starlight1968sg]

janet_lee88:

I have a soft spot for my daughter...but I am strict...so it is not obvious and she cannot climb on my head...but hubby's weakness is obvious and so daughter will climb on his head...sending him sms-es and telling him what she wants...bcos can't let mummy know or she will say NO.

Similar to my case too.

[Funz]

bb_ mom:

Just wondering. If DDs have daddies wrapped around fingers, DSs have mummies wrapped around their fingers?

I think DS has everyone wrapped round his little fingers. DH and I are always saying that it is very difficult to get tough with DS even when he misbehaves. Recently his FT told me the same thing.

[buds]

Because your DS is a darling…


Actually I can’t imagine him misbehaving.

[janet88]

sweets, chocolates, chips…if I do not do the grocery shopping, I will see all these in the fridge. sometimes I do see sweets hidden in one corner of the fridge which I did not buy…son is just like me, we do not eat these stuff.

[sharonkhoo]

janet_lee88:

...but hubby's weakness is obvious and so daughter will climb on his head...sending him sms-es and telling him what she wants...bcos can't let mummy know or she will say NO.

Is this something you are OK with? Because in my family, we have always had a strict policy of not allowing a child to go to the parent who will give a favourable answer. My husband and I will always check with the other first if in doubt. Our policy is a united front - even if we disagree, we will come to some agreement before answering the child. We also do not condone hiding things from the other parent (unless it's a present or pleasant surprise). I would be very unhappy if I knew my child was going to my husband in order to circumvent my decisions.

[starlight1968sg]

slmkhoo:

Is this something you are OK with? Because in my family, we have always had a strict policy of not allowing a child to go to the parent who will give a favourable answer. My husband and I will always check with the other first if in doubt. Our policy is a united front - even if we disagree, we will come to some agreement before answering the child. We also do not condone hiding things from the other parent (unless it's a present or pleasant surprise). I would be very unhappy if I knew my child was going to my husband in order to circumvent my decisions.

I totally agree that dad and mum must be in the same frequency esp when the child is young. However, mum and dad are still human beings and at times, one would give in especially over small things like mum says no tit-bits but dad may say Ok but just a small bit of chocolate...