Me Time!
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janet88:
I asked DD2 if she liked the names of her younger siblings and she liked them very much.All the names of the women in the house start with the first letter of the alphabet except for the only poor male in the house.Told her if time permits,we will go out on Sundays after school for shopping and meals at least for this year.Next year,they do not need to attend school on Sundays.Family time is easier to plan then.
she is very afraid you will divert your attention to the newborns. what you can do is include her in decisions regarding the newborns like names, choosing of clothes and still continue to bring her out on father-daughter dates.FishFingers:
Guess what?DD2 told me that she was jealous of her younger siblings and does not want to lose my love for her as she was afraid that my wife and I will stop lavishing love on her and our attention will always be on the new additions.She just don't want to share Daddy with anyone including zehzeh and want to be my little princess.She cried a bit too when she told me all these.
I told her that I will still continue to love her,Zehzeh and her new sibling/siblings equally.There will be no favouritism or preferential treatment among the siblings.
She will not be forgotten and if they want,they might as well cut me up into 5 parts,4 for the children and one for my wife haha. -
FishFingers:
i can imagine all the eyes on you when your family goes out-2 sets of twins. when your twins are born, your MIL and her sister will be looking after mummy and babies...then you will be looking after the 2 jiejies. perfect bonding for 3 of you. there is 1 week holiday in March.
I asked DD2 if she liked the names of her younger siblings and she liked them very much.All the names of the women in the house start with the first letter of the alphabet except for the only poor male in the house.Told her if time permits,we will go out on Sundays after school for shopping and meals at least for this year.Next year,they do not need to attend school on Sundays.Family time is easier to plan then.
She will not be forgotten and if they want,they might as well cut me up into 5 parts,4 for the children and one for my wife haha. -
Went to the market to buy veg and roti prata; now feeling like taking a "nap"
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starlight1968sg:
Went to the market to buy veg and roti prata; now feeling like taking a \"nap\"
go ahead...that's what sundays are for...relax before the start of a hectic week. -
Nah, feeling guilty to nap now
Decided to pre cut veg and season meat for meals of next few days
This is also my ME time -
janet88:
My wife's aunt does not really come over regularly although she lives just a few blocks away because she has her own grandchildren to look after.She just comes over in the mornings to chat with my MIL until mid afternoon.
i can imagine all the eyes on you when your family goes out-2 sets of twins. when your twins are born, your MIL and her sister will be looking after mummy and babies...then you will be looking after the 2 jiejies. perfect bonding for 3 of you. there is 1 week holiday in March.FishFingers:
I asked DD2 if she liked the names of her younger siblings and she liked them very much.All the names of the women in the house start with the first letter of the alphabet except for the only poor male in the house.Told her if time permits,we will go out on Sundays after school for shopping and meals at least for this year.Next year,they do not need to attend school on Sundays.Family time is easier to plan then.
She will not be forgotten and if they want,they might as well cut me up into 5 parts,4 for the children and one for my wife haha.
Some of both DD's teachers mistaken my wife for their older zehzeh because my wife looks more like 19 than her actual age because of her small body size and very young fac .Told my wife long ago that she does not look like their mother but their older sister haha.
If you are following the current weekend Taiwanese 7pm drama,there is a little girl character who looks 12 years old but her actual age is 32.My wife is a bit like that.
As for me,someone thought that I just graduated from junior college 7 years ago when I was about to foot the bill at a restaurant with my wife.We were wearing our JC uniforms and carried a haversack each then.Got offered student prices by the staff but we respectfully declined and explained that we were actually being students just for that day.
Today is father-daughters paktoring day after school for me.DD2 is sure to be over the moon.She kept reminding me of it this morning until I had to chase her up to the school bus. -
FishFingers:
wow, you have a wife and 4 young mistresses. :salute:
Today is father-daughters paktoring day after school for me.DD2 is sure to be over the moon.She kept reminding me of it this morning until I had to chase her up to the school bus. -
janet88:
She also wanted Mommy and I to dress up in our JC uniforms so that we could take some pics together in her school garden and around her school as she knew that she will not be there next year.
wow, you have a wife and 4 young mistresses. :salute:FishFingers:
Today is father-daughters paktoring day after school for me.DD2 is sure to be over the moon.She kept reminding me of it this morning until I had to chase her up to the school bus.
Apparently,she stumbled upon pictures of me and my wife in our JC uniforms in my bedroom.Told her that see whether Mommy can fit into her VJC skirt and blouse anot.
Bringing them for some water play at JE Swimming Complex as they love sliding from the high slides over there.Wife will be relegated to the role of security guard to guard our stuff haha. -
haha, my dh asked me to wear dd's newly bought uniform (bought bigger size by accident later changed) and surprisingly I could wear it too
but i need to cover my face lor 
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MrsKiasu:
haha, my dh asked me to wear dd's newly bought uniform (bought bigger size by accident later changed) and surprisingly I could wear it too
but i need to cover my face lor
My wife could wear her uniform right now and go into her JC without being asked any questions.
As for me,I could do the same too.The security guard just let me pass when I drove into my JC last year to visit my teacher.
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