Club SAHM

[phankao]

Imami:

Long sightedness can wear contact lens or not?

Have, these days, I think, but not sure how it works.

[phankao]

sleepy:

Sweet Joy:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]My long-sighted prob has also started...cannot zit pimples with glasses

Even small print also can't see. Don't want to wear bi focal glasses yet.

Go for progressive lenses, which looks like normal lenses. There is no unsightly dividing line seen in bifocals.

what's the estimated price for progressive lens?[/quote]Mine comes with Transition (for sun) as well as Progressive (long & short-sightedness). It's thin and it's Crizal Lens. Costs about S$800. Not cheap. But I use for like 3yrs at a time, if not longer.

[TheAnswer]

I got question. Does your DH give you pocket money? I mean apart from household expenses.

[phankao]

TheAnswer:

I got question. Does your DH give you pocket money? I mean apart from household expenses.

No pocket money. Just ATM card and credit cards?

[sharonkhoo]

TheAnswer:

I got question. Does your DH give you pocket money? I mean apart from household expenses.

We hold our funds in common from the time we married, with an upper cap beyond which we need to consult. And so, no, I don't get pocket money - I just spend what I need/want. But I'm not much of a shopper or spender.

[KSmom8]

phankao:

Mine comes with Transition (for sun) as well as Progressive (long & short-sightedness). It's thin and it's Crizal Lens. Costs about S$800. Not cheap. But I use for like 3yrs at a time, if not longer.

I heard that when wearing progressive lens have to adjust how to see near and far objects; otherwise, might misjudge the distance when walking and trip. Is this true?

What about LASIK? Do you think can correct shortsightness and longsightedness? Wonder what are the pros and cons of LASIK.

[buds]

phankao:

TheAnswer:

I got question. Does your DH give you pocket money? I mean apart from household expenses.

No pocket money. Just ATM card and credit cards?

[KSmom8]

TheAnswer:

I got question. Does your DH give you pocket money? I mean apart from household expenses.

I get a fixed monthly sum for items that need to be paid in cash and also for allowance to my parents, balance is mine to save. I also have credit cards for other expenses like groceries from supermarket, shopping, etc. DH's income goes into joint account used to pay other bills but I don't touch this account.

[sharonkhoo]

KSmom8:

I heard that when wearing progressive lens have to adjust how to see near and far objects; otherwise, might misjudge the distance when walking and trip. Is this true?


What about LASIK? Do you think can correct shortsightness and longsightedness? Wonder what are the pros and cons of LASIK.

I've been wearing progressive lenses for over 5 yrs now. You look through the lower portion to see near, and the upper portion to see far. It works quite intuitively for me and I didn't really suffer any disorientation etc during the initial days. I have a separate pair of glasses for computer use otherwise my neck aches from lifting my head to look out the lower portion.

My husband tried progressive lenses but couldn't get used to them, not sure why. He had Lasik done in his early 40s, but kind of regrets it as his astigmatism was not 100% corrected (they don't guarantee that it will be) and he started getting presbyopia at the same time. He had to use reading glasses initially, then after tha first year or so, his myopia increased slightly which compensates for the presbyopia. Now he doesn't need reading glasses again, but sometimes has blurry vision due to dryness and myopia/astigmatism. His advice is to do Lasik when young enough to enjoy the benefits longer before presbyopia sets in. I don't know if Lasik can deal with both myopia and presbyopia - my husband was given the option to correct one eye for each, but decided that it might be too confusing to cope with that.

[KSmom8]

slmkhoo:

KSmom8:

[quote=\"slmkhoo\"]
I will also have to buy some working wear eventually as I intend to return to the workforce. I actually hate shopping, so I'm not looking forward to it!

Shopping when there's $ AND justification is fun. however, be warned... When one is shopping for something, usually can't find it. Haha.

I don't enjoy shopping as much as when I was working. Can't find justification or reason to buy when I want to buy something. Then have to consider whether there's space to keep the new stuff. :frustrated: I'm guilty of being in 1 set of t-shirt, shorts and slippers for the whole day. I'm usually in and out of the home and car, too lazy to change.

That's one of the things I liked about being a SAHM - no need to dress up! Now I have to think about getting office wear again because it's been 16 yrs since I had to wear that kind of clothes, and I'm no longer as young and slim, so I think it will be a headache. And I won't have money yet - I have to get clothes before I can start looking for a job. I haven't a single thing that is suitable for meeting prospective employers![/quote]Arghhh... I cannot imagine walking in those heels everyday ... and wearing those suits again.

I would suggest to get 2 outfits for interviews first. You can get the rest after you know whether your colleagues dress up or dress down. Good luck with the job search!