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    Maid giving me headache

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    • J Offline
      JJ1111
      last edited by

      Change her!!!


      When maid has attitude problem, there is no way you can correct her.

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      • janet88J Offline
        janet88
        last edited by

        it’s high time to send your maid packing.


        it’s obvious she is out to enjoy life.

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        • H Offline
          howard
          last edited by

          Send her back to the Maid Agent. Let the Maid Agent do the ‘brain-wash’.

          If there is no improvement, replace her with another one.

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          • janet88J Offline
            janet88
            last edited by

            howard:
            Send her back to the Maid Agent. Let the Maid Agent do the 'brain-wash'.

            If there is no improvement, replace her with another one.
            maid agencies in my opinion, are double head snakes.
            they are nice to both customers and maids because that's how they survive.
            this maid has already shown her true colours...replacing her would be safer.

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            • N Offline
              nms1
              last edited by

              Let's just imagine that you did the following at work:

              [list]

            • submit your monthly report every two months
              came back from lunch late every day
              pretend to have done your work when you haven't
              take it out on your team if your boss reprimands you
            • [/list]What do you think would happen to you? Would you still have a job?

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              Pom Pee Pee
              last edited by

              She even told u that she wants to find a boyfriend? Just bcos boyfriend can give her $? She don’t sound like she is wkg here as a maid leh… Don’t u feel scare that she will get into whatever diseases mixing ard with guys?? Maybe one day she will say that she needs to have more boyfriends cos more bf = more $$$$… CHANGE HER. She is behaving like that means that she takes u for granted n doesn’t respect u as a employer AT ALL!

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                janet88
                last edited by

                Pom Pee Pee:
                She even told u that she wants to find a boyfriend? Just bcos boyfriend can give her $? She don't sound like she is wkg here as a maid leh.. Don't u feel scare that she will get into whatever diseases mixing ard with guys?? Maybe one day she will say that she needs to have more boyfriends cos more bf = more $$$$.... CHANGE HER. She is behaving like that means that she takes u for granted n doesn't respect u as a employer AT ALL!

                i don't think you need our input, honestly.
                this maid should be sent HOME...she is out to enjoy life and highly likely moonlighting.

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                • C Offline
                  coolbreeze
                  last edited by

                  You must have thought of replacing her with another maid, why hesitate?


                  It may be troublesome to go thru all the process again; paperwork, teaching a new helper, understanding your styles of doing things (via verse), you taking leave to train her, your household routine, etc. But it sure beats getting headaches for the next 1+ years. If luck is on your side, your next helper may be a god sent 😄

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                  • janet88J Offline
                    janet88
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                    coolbreeze:
                    It may be troublesome to go thru all the process again; paperwork, teaching a new helper, understanding your styles of doing things (via verse), you taking leave to train her, your household routine, etc. But it sure beats getting headaches for the next 1+ years. If luck is on your side, your next helper may be a god sent 😄

                    it is expensive and troublesome to replace...but a maid has close contact with your family members, so i feel the present one should be sent off...knowing what she is doing and daringly tells you what she wants, how is it possible to continue putting up with her for the next 1 year...there may be new headaches and worries especially if you're working. if she gets a boyfriend or moonlights, will she be infected with STD?

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