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      tianzhu
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      A few days ago, I saw three old men flirting with three young PRC ladies while passing by a foodcourt.They were behaving like young lovers talking intimately, with one man regularly touching the body of one lady.


      Some after thoughts
      1)How would one’s children or grandchildren react when seeing their fathers/grandfathers behaving as such in the public?

      2)We heard of stories about elderly men being fleeced of their savings by their younger lovers, what happens when they are left high and dry? Will their children forgive them? Is it worth the risk doing something at the expense of losing respect and savings?

      Best wishes

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        tankee
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        to these \"dirty old man\", it is a boost to their ego ... that they still can \"attrack\" younger girls :roll:


        I heard of one of such case, when confronted by his son, the old man said that he knew they are after his money, but he needed to some company to pass the day and that his son hardly spent any time with him ... and so on ...

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          auntieM
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          umm… … Very common sight nowadays. Not so tokong ones hang around foodcourt, chinese bookshop, library… Middle standard heartland malls like Parkway, Tampines Mall. High class make it ones in town.

          My SIL from China, never earn a single cent but spend $ like water. She only mix with Tai Tais n her child attends birthday party on boats.

          As for those men who cannot resist temptation …just hope these women leave them some $ at least.

          I have friends and relatives around me who kena con big timand live to regret. My own dad was briefly involved but luckily most of his savings with me. She made off with everything else.
          I am on talking terms with my dad but we all know it will never be the same
          I dun hate him, but i will not forgive him

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            ZacK
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            tianzhu:
            A few days ago, I saw three old men flirting with three young PRC ladies while passing by a foodcourt.They were behaving like young lovers talking intimately, with one man regularly touching the body of one lady.


            Some after thoughts
            1)How would one’s children or grandchildren react when seeing their fathers/grandfathers behaving as such in the public?

            2)We heard of stories about elderly men being fleeced of their savings by their younger lovers, what happens when they are left high and dry? Will their children forgive them? Is it worth the risk doing something at the expense of losing respect and savings?

            Best wishes
            Would that be around chinatown? was there a few times over the past couple mths to shop for some jewellery for mum and wife ... Noticed that there were many old men hanging around the hawker ctr and I saw some PRCs trying to establish a \"deal\" with some of the old men there :roll:

            I think it would be hard to comment as we do not know the underlying reasons that these older men succumb to such offers for sex.

            Men generally loose their libido much later than women. I think for the older generation, women tend to view sex as an obligation to bear offspring for their husbands, I may be wrong... but that is my general impression.

            Men of the older generation may not be able to find an avenue for sex when their wives stop wanting to be intimate altogether, so some of them may resort to paying for it to satisfy their physical and sometimes emotional needs.

            Of cos there would be some who may be widowed that resulted in them being deprived and certainly there will also be a breed of men who regardless just want to go for paid sex to fulfill their whims and fancies lar.

            So my approach is ... I do not want to judge anyone as I do not know the real reason behind why these older men make themselves an easy \"prey\".

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              tankee
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              actually these dirty old men are not as bad.


              The worst of all are \"sugar daddies\" 😛 :nunchuk:

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                girlmum
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                tankee:


                the old man said that he knew they are after his money, but he needed to some company to pass the day and that his son hardly spent any time with him ... and so on ...
                What an expensive way to pass the day! Kenna ketok, no more $ then 😢 . There are many healthy ways to pass time eg. play chinese chess, taichi, singing at CC, etc. I always see many old folks at my nearby CC, playing chess, singing or even line dancing.

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                  auntieM
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                  If the feeling is real and both end up together in a healthy relatioship then it is fine. Maybe we just hear and see too much of the negative side.

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                    tankee
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                    girlmum:
                    tankee:



                    the old man said that he knew they are after his money, but he needed to some company to pass the day and that his son hardly spent any time with him ... and so on ...

                    What an expensive way to pass the day! Kenna ketok, no more $ then 😢 . There are many healthy ways to pass time eg. play chinese chess, taichi, singing at CC, etc. I always see many old folks at my nearby CC, playing chess, singing or even line dancing.


                    those PRC girls also know that ... thus cc is also a fishing ground for them

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                      peapot
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                      Personally, I believe its because these old folks are too free. They have money and too much time!!! That’s why my father always prefers to work eventhough he can retire. It keeps him occupied and mentally alert.

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                        buds
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                        Hehee.. 😄 Yah think peapot hit the jackpot liao. :lol:

                        Too free, too much money, too starved for attention,
                        the vulnerability of being and feeling very alone makes
                        them prone to be cheated by promises of sweet nothings..

                        For those who aren't cheated and know they won't be cheated,
                        suppose they just like the \"alertness\" that these kinda attention
                        these skanks bring to their minds. :shock:

                        Makes one feel young all over again. :politebleah:

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