What Skills Are You Teaching Your Kids ?

[skunk]

MLR:

Learn as in understanding, not necessary must follow suit. Thats where pt 4 comes in.

U sure have alot of faith in human self-control LOL i don't. I believe empathy is the first step to following.

The moment u \"understand\" aka empathise with the drug dealer, mass murderer, serial rapist, u bow down to the forces of evil.

[BlurBee]

ks2me:

I only have one! Understand 弟子规!

Hey buddy. :celebrate:
Me too! Learning 弟子规 with my kids. :lol:

[MLR]

skunk:

U sure have alot of faith in human self-control LOL i don't. I believe empathy is the first step to following.


The moment u \"understand\" aka empathise with the drug dealer, mass murderer, serial rapist, u bow down to the forces of evil.

:celebrate: You are wicked with your word play as usual.

Understand to me doesn't mean empathise, it would simply be that what they are doing are evil deeds that harm, period. I don't believe in letting DS live in a bubble for life is hard. I get dealt with reality checks ever so often to hv little faith or whatever is left to cling on to get on with life.
I am a pessismistic one in actual fact, for my most famous motto at work is: Don't expect anyone to treat you good, if they do, its a bonus.
But I got to let my offspring know that there is hope in life, or else there are nothing much to live on.....

[corneyAmber]

BlurBee:

ks2me:

I only have one! Understand 弟子规!

Hey buddy. :celebrate:
Me too! Learning 弟子规 with my kids. :lol:

No wonder we are buddies! :celebrate:

[fussyMummy]

The Little Cheng Mommy:

Hi FussyMummy, that's a really good point.


My mom kept stressing on this since I was very young. She also stressed about not talking to/following strangers and not eating food (esp drink) offer by strangers.

Hi The Little Cheng Mommy,

Nowsadays not only stranger... There are some incident hurted by someone you know or close with :x ... I just take more precaution on it... kiasu spirit...

[kitty2]

ks2me:

No wonder we are buddies! :celebrate:

This book can get from poppular?Wonder is it effective,it's in chinese,right?

Thanks

[mintcc]

弟子规! Covers lots of things woah. To be respectful of elders, hygenic, have self discipline etc. Very good for teaching values. Still trying to learn with ds.


Skilled wise, Non academic ones teaching/outsourced to teach
Swimming
Listening
Art appreciation - doodling, watch people do nice art stuff on YouTube
Nature appreciation
Thinking skills
Be considerate of others

Hope / starting to teach
soft martial arts like akido, tai chi

relaxation skills
music appreciation
money management
delay gratification

[autumnbronze]

Currently, as DS is in the phase where he says \"I want, I want, now, now\", so am teaching him the 'art' of delayed gratification

[corneyAmber]

kitty2:

ks2me:

No wonder we are buddies! :celebrate:

This book can get from poppular?Wonder is it effective,it's in chinese,right?

Thanks.

I am not sure where my dd picked up a free copy. I call her garang guni girl. If I see for sale or free copy , will post here. The one I have is bilingual. See if I can post selected pieces here sometimes.

[MLR]

ks2me:

If I see for sale or free copy , will post here. The one I have is bilingual. See if I can post selected pieces here sometimes.

TIA
[quote]I am not sure where my dd picked up a free copy. I call her garang guni girl.[/quote]She is already learning 节俭. Actually kinda remind me of myself when I was young.....