Should I tell my friend that her hubby is having affair?
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When my mum saw a cousin’s husband on holidays with another woman, we sent the brother of this cousin to talk to the husband. Maybe my cousin already knew but didnt want to face it…all of us knew but pretended not to know…today they are still married. Yes it took the husband 2 years to break up. But he did. I think so…
I am very emo these few days because on Sunday, my colleague posted kissing pictures of himself and a girl (not his wife) on facebook. But he is married with 5 months old boy! I think the girlfriend was tired of waiting for him to divorce or simply wanted to cause trouble so she took his phone and update intimate pictures of their outings. The wife saw the pictures so did all of us at the same time!
So ruthless woman to bring such a blow to the wife.
A man I thought - good colleague, good manager, good boyfriend then a good husband and now a father etc …has been living a double life since 2011 before he had a baby!
The shameless couple even created their own facebook…all the check in and the dates on facebook…Their public declaration of love for each other was too much even for me. I cannot imagine how his wife is coping with all these. The wife might have known it yet put up a brave front during our Xmas company dinner. -
Hi,
it’s quite sad, really. But don’t tell her even after she gives birth, because she might get post-natal depression. Perhaps it is better to tell her now? But also tell her that she can get a better husband, and comfort her as much as you can.
That’s what I think. Maybe arrange a date to talk it over? -
I_dont_have_a_username:
I_dont_have_a_username, I thought you are only P5, maybe too young to be giving such advice? Go focus on your studies nowHi,
it's quite sad, really. But don't tell her even after she gives birth, because she might get post-natal depression. Perhaps it is better to tell her now? But also tell her that she can get a better husband, and comfort her as much as you can.
That's what I think. Maybe arrange a date to talk it over?
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SarChar:
Wow. Its really a big blow to the wife. I don think i can take it if I am in her position. I guess she also wants her kid to have a father rather then just divorcing and have to bring up the child only, lastly i think she still loves her hubby very much. BRAVE WOMANWhen my mum saw a cousin's husband on holidays with another woman, we sent the brother of this cousin to talk to the husband. Maybe my cousin already knew but didnt want to face it...all of us knew but pretended not to know....today they are still married. Yes it took the husband 2 years to break up. But he did. I think so....
I am very emo these few days because on Sunday, my colleague posted kissing pictures of himself and a girl (not his wife) on facebook. But he is married with 5 months old boy! I think the girlfriend was tired of waiting for him to divorce or simply wanted to cause trouble so she took his phone and update intimate pictures of their outings. The wife saw the pictures so did all of us at the same time!
So ruthless woman to bring such a blow to the wife.
A man I thought - good colleague, good manager, good boyfriend then a good husband and now a father etc .....has been living a double life since 2011 before he had a baby!
The shameless couple even created their own facebook....all the check in and the dates on facebook...Their public declaration of love for each other was too much even for me. I cannot imagine how his wife is coping with all these. The wife might have known it yet put up a brave front during our Xmas company dinner. -
I think you should not only tell her what you have seen but also you should comfort her and help her to conquer the difficulty.
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you should tell her, so she can plan for her future with two kids on hands…
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My friend have an affair. Should I tell her husband who is also my friend?
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Short answer, NO.
Long answer, PM me -
Sigh,
All this affair is breaking up families. So unfair to the innocent party, especially the children.
So sad… -
It’s difficult, but not letting her know may be the best way forward, yeah
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