Ang Pow Issues...
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MMM:
I only prepared 2 types of angpow this year. S$10 & S$20. S$10 for those grownup cousins/nieces/nephews (bc they don't really need and would be paiseh to receive too, right?).
Kids in general - $6 as we've 3 kids. Most exchange are $4 but they have 2 kids so cannot let ppl lugi.
Special cases - $10 (eg. unmarried grown up cousin)
Immediate nieces/ nephews - $20 (we all use the same rate for years) The funny thing is the most of them have 2 kids but we've 3 and youngest sil has 1. But it's still a flat rate per child.
Grandparents - $100 e...
But the rest, we had to increase our angbao value to S$20 bc from last year's experience, so many gave our kids S$10 each. And we have 4 kids! So shy to make them \"lugi\", and most of them only have 2 kids. Last year recession - i thot angbao value go down, but we were mistaken. After day 1 of cny, I so shy, i started repacking all my angbaos. -
So generous, my children can go to your house pai nian or not?
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talking abt ang pows issues,
it’ll be nice if my cousins are as "considerate" as u guys here…
u see…they never know what is "paiseh"
our family’s side, me , brother and sister, all of us only have 1 child
but my cousins’ side all of them have 3 to 4 kids
and they are giving our kids $4 each, (all these yrs)
for the first yr, i was dumbed to enclose $10
even by giving $4 ang pows, i also "lugi" …
(fyi, one of my cousin’s hub is earning at least $20,000 per mth, and yet they they’re not paiseh to do such thing)… -
Next time put $2, that’s the minimum you can put. At $2 each, you still win them with their 3/4 kids.
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put $2 still lugi leh.......($4-$8=-$4)
just that lugi less.....
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No choice, that's the least you can put.
Unless you dare to put empty red packet (= $0). -
haha…no lah…i still put $4
i remembered when i was very young, i ever received 2 x 10 cents coins ang pow fr some very elderly relatives… -
Augmum:
That is last time, now cannot unless you want to be the talking point for the whole year.
i remembered when i was very young, i ever received 2 x 10 cents coins ang pow fr some very elderly relatives......
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ooptimizer:
think not only for the \"whole year\" but \"for the rest of yr life\"........
That is last time, now cannot unless you want to be the talking point for the whole year.Augmum:
i remembered when i was very young, i ever received 2 x 10 cents coins ang pow fr some very elderly relatives......
pple will remember u forever...... -
Augmum:
Wah this is ultimate shameless leh...talking abt ang pows issues,
it'll be nice if my cousins are as \"considerate\" as u guys here.......
u see.....they never know what is \"paiseh\"
our family's side, me , brother and sister, all of us only have 1 child
but my cousins' side all of them have 3 to 4 kids
and they are giving our kids $4 each, (all these yrs)
for the first yr, i was dumbed to enclose $10
even by giving $4 ang pows, i also \"lugi\" ......
(fyi, one of my cousin's hub is earning at least $20,000 per mth, and yet they they're not paiseh to do such thing).......
Errr...can you give $1.80? Good number ma? :rotflmao:
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