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    • zbearZ Offline
      zbear
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      moonee:
      belle_116:

      Hi,


      Just wish to get feedback if anyone has ever allowed the old maid to meet the new maid for 'handover'? For my case the handover is for the purpose of elderly care medication and feeding.

      I would not trust any maid when itcomes to giving medication, its best u instruct urself. Its not too difficult to train the new maid on elderly care. The current maid may not want the new maid to know too much.


      I agree. I would rather train the new maid than let the old maid handover.

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      • FunzF Offline
        Funz
        last edited by

        I am letting my current maid orientate my new maid. I am also taking the chance to do a major spring clean since I have 2 maids for a while.

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        • panickymumP Offline
          panickymum
          last edited by

          moonee:
          belle_116:

          Hi,


          Just wish to get feedback if anyone has ever allowed the old maid to meet the new maid for 'handover'? For my case the handover is for the purpose of elderly care medication and feeding.

          I would not trust any maid when itcomes to giving medication, its best u instruct urself. Its not too difficult to train the new maid on elderly care. The current maid may not want the new maid to know too much.


          I agreed . I will take this opportunity to train just in case next time if this current maid makes mistakes in the medication , she will just simply put the blame on the ex maid .

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          • J Offline
            jojostc
            last edited by

            I have a maid for 9 mths, and she also have finished her loan with the agent. can i just terminate her contract and send her back to her own country without keeping the maid agency in the loop?

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            • P Offline
              POA Teacher
              last edited by

              jojostc:
              I have a maid for 9 mths, and she also have finished her loan with the agent. can i just terminate her contract and send her back to her own country without keeping the maid agency in the loop?

              Why are you thinking of sending her back?
              She has worked for 9 months but earned next to nothing.
              Let her get a transfer. Unless she has done something drastic.
              If you don't need her any more, or you're just not satisfied with her work, let her get a transfer.

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              • J Offline
                jojostc
                last edited by

                for my maid, she has reach a point that she refused to follow my mum’s instructions when doing household chores… always thinks that what she does is right…in the end, spoil alot of things in the house. her attitude just getting from bad to worst. to the point she challenge my mum saying " you not happy then send me back to agent"


                so i rather send her back home rather than send her back to agent.

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                • E Offline
                  Edwinayumi
                  last edited by

                  Seems that sending her back is the better option as she is so ya ya liao. But did you ever ask the agent to come in to counsel her and let them explain the rationale and duty of her presence in the house.

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                  • panickymumP Offline
                    panickymum
                    last edited by

                    jojostc:
                    for my maid, she has reach a point that she refused to follow my mum's instructions when doing household chores.. always thinks that what she does is right..in the end, spoil alot of things in the house. her attitude just getting from bad to worst. to the point she challenge my mum saying \" you not happy then send me back to agent\"


                    so i rather send her back home rather than send her back to agent.
                    In this case , send her bk . Teach her a lesson . They always think that they can change employer easily

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                    • jacsplaceJ Offline
                      jacsplace
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                      Hi jojostc,


                      I agree that you should send her back. If she goes back to the agent, she can ask for higher pay because she has relevant work experience. By sending her back, you’re giving her a clear signal that you are not putting up with any kind of nonsense anymore. You should check your contract, but as long as the loan is fully paid up and you can’t get any refund from the agency, there’s no point informing the agent. You can easily buy the air ticket and cancel the work permit yourself.

                      You’ll have to handle this diplomatically though. She’s still staying with you so if she gets upset, she can do anything.

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                      • HiawehH Offline
                        Hiaweh
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                        Agree that she should be sent back. If you are afraid that she may kick a fuss, tell her on the day of departure, give her enough time to pack and arrange for another agent to send her to the airport.

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