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    Daddy n Mummy, do u still hold hand?

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    • J Offline
      JonC
      last edited by

      Yes, we do.


      DS is PSLE this year, so no prize for guessing numbers of married years.

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        schweppes
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        mintcc:

        But on the road, or beside the road, or in a car park should always hold the kids hand. Totally agree with you, schweppes how can leave kid walking behind along a busy road unattended :!:
        Ya lor. It's ok to hold hands if in the shopping mall or in a safe environment. DH and myself do that too. And of course my girls will go \"eeewww!!\" šŸ˜‰

        But this small boy's parents just left him behind and they were walking by the roadside. They did not even turn back to check on him. :faint: At that time, I just wanted to wind down the car window to yell at them :rant:

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          westmom
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          Luvkid:
          ya, so far i am the loner here šŸ˜ž .......


          Lynn2, yours turn to share before everyone came shooting u :evil:
          Aiyah i join you lah...DH legs very long and walk very fast. He also impatient cos I like to stroll & look si look si (& psst.. buy buy) when I walk...So he carries all the stuff and walk ahead first. If lost sight, then sms each other to find each other. On formal dates, like bdays etc when there is no stuff to carry and nothing to looksi, then only got chance to join hands lor...only once in a blue moon....he never complain, i also never complain...

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            Lynn2
            last edited by

            Ok, my turn to share since I started it.


            We hardly hold hand unless like crossing a big road..hahaha

            But, whenever I sent him to work, he will kiss everyone good bye.

            Reason I ask, cos I only see friends holding hands when we are not in a group outing or when their children is not around.

            I totally agreed wif one mum that holding hand is not for the sake of doing so, but really the closeness that prompted such action.Just one cent of my thought...

            Have a great long weekend all...keep the kps spirit going....

            westmom:
            Luvkid:

            ya, so far i am the loner here šŸ˜ž .......

            Lynn2, yours turn to share before everyone came shooting u :evil:

            Aiyah i join you lah...DH legs very long and walk very fast. He also impatient cos I like to stroll & look si look si (& psst.. buy buy) when I walk...So he carries all the stuff and walk ahead first. If lost sight, then sms each other to find each other. On formal dates, like bdays etc when there is no stuff to carry and nothing to looksi, then only got chance to join hands lor...only once in a blue moon....he never complain, i also never complain...

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              Luvkid
              last edited by

              westmom:
              Aiyah i join you lah...DH legs very long and walk very fast. He also impatient cos I like to stroll & look si look si (& psst.. buy buy) when I walk...So he carries all the stuff and walk ahead first. If lost sight, then sms each other to find each other. On formal dates, like bdays etc when there is no stuff to carry and nothing to looksi, then only got chance to join hands lor...only once in a blue moon....he never complain, i also never complain...

              Good for u, westmom, where u both are happy with the situation....

              haiz, DH is not the long legs type and not the fast fast type too... 😐 Last nite, we had a chance to go out (to neighbourhood shop only lah) with only DS2, so i grabbed the chance to hold onto his arm, with holding DS2 on the other hand. For that short route, i was like :rotflmao: cos my mind flashed back to the thread here!! DH didn't say anything then, but i could sense he was like brushing off my hand! :!: I will still continue to WORK HARD to hold his hand or arm (which i prefer to do so :love: )...... :love:

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                Luvkid
                last edited by

                Lynn2:
                Ok, my turn to share since I started it.


                We hardly hold hand unless like crossing a big road..hahaha

                But, whenever I sent him to work, he will kiss everyone good bye.

                Reason I ask, cos I only see friends holding hands when we are not in a group outing or when their children is not around.

                I totally agreed wif one mum that holding hand is not for the sake of doing so, but really the closeness that prompted such action.Just one cent of my thought...

                Have a great long weekend all...keep the kps spirit going....
                Hey Lynn2,

                U finally here huh?? Dun worry so much as long as both of u still maintain a good, lasting relationship..... :celebrate: Like i do??? 😐 BUT, i still miss the holding hand/arm, or DH can wrap his hand around my waist!! :!: (if my waist still ok....)

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                  Luvkid
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                  lovekidsverymuch:
                  hahahah yeah yeah try till u succeed!!!!!!!!!!! :celebrate:

                  heehee, wil will try... u know, i like to run my fingers (in circular, up down motions) from his arm to hand which DH really cannot stand it. He found it ticklish šŸ˜› It has been quite some time i did that liao, and yet last nite did it again, a SHORT one though :love:

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                    westmom
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                    Luvkid:
                    lovekidsverymuch:

                    hahahah yeah yeah try till u succeed!!!!!!!!!!! :celebrate:


                    heehee, wil will try... u know, i like to run my fingers (in circular, up down motions) from his arm to hand which DH really cannot stand it. He found it ticklish šŸ˜› It has been quite some time i did that liao, and yet last nite did it again, a SHORT one though :love:

                    Luvkid..Ha Ha...Maybe your DH has ..what's the condition called...i think Sensory Integration Dysfunction if I am not wrong! I heard some kids have them...they don't like certain \"touch\" or even certain type of \"materials\"...Maybe your DH did not grow out of it!

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                      Andaiz
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                      westmom:
                      Luvkid..Ha Ha...Maybe your DH has ..what's the condition called...i think Sensory Integration Dysfunction if I am not wrong! I heard some kids have them...they don't like certain \"touch\" or even certain type of \"materials\"...Maybe your DH did not grow out of it!

                      :faint:

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                        friednemo
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                        tankee:
                        friednemo:

                        Yes!!! Of course.


                        I still treat my hubby like my boyfriend... And we still go for dates and we even go travelling together. šŸ™‚


                        your hubby is so lucky ....

                        agree with you, dates are important to keep the romance alive !

                        :celebrate:


                        Yes yes šŸ™‚
                        I agree. As a woman, i always believe that i have 5 things to manage.
                        -Family (as a whole)
                        -Work aka Career
                        -Marriage
                        -My Kid
                        -My Man. :love:

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